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i love helping people out.
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Hi everyone...i know this will be long, but please help!! Ok sooo there is this girl that I have liked since school started... we hang out all the time in our classes together and we meet up when she is in dance class and I'm in pe. The only problem is--she cant go anywhere with me cause her parents are WAYYY over controling and dont let her hang out with guys. Sooo pretty much no moviesss umm no mall, etc. unless she tells her parents that she is hanging out with some girls and we "bumped" into eaceother......my point is--she cant hang out with guys.
So last saturday--I went to this party for my friends birthday, and I met this guy. He is reallllly nice, easy to talk to and just "gets" me. I talk to him all day long and there are never awkward silences--its like we have perfect chemistry... he always said the right thing. Soo aventually he asked if i liked him and I said, yes and soo he says, i dont mean friend like, and so i said...I know. soo we pretty much have the hots for eachother and yeaaaaaaa.
Here is where the trouble starts, I was thinking about asking that girl out on valentines day... and now im pretty much dating this guy and he asked me if i will be his valentine( i know--kinda cheezy but cute)
what do you think i should do? i have known this guy since 7th grade and when i finally get to know him in only 4 days were practially dating. and this girl she cant ever honestly go out with me but I really like her and have for a while.
Also--this guy has been turned down from a guy just like this--they met and were really close and then he asked him out and he said no so he could date this girl and they were never friends again. Ahhh!!!!!
OOOOO and another thing--im BI but im not out--at all...this guy is the only person that i have told...sooo if I dated him then we would have to keep it secret...wow this just piles on and on--also he is a sophmore and i am a freshman soo next year he goes to a different school(i dont see him much anyways)
what do you think i should do? (link)
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write down a list of pros and cons about dating each one. this is a real tough situation from what i understand.
when it comes down to it just follow your heart.
hope i helped.
& if you want to talk about it more you can just IM me at xoxgorjess
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well i have thin dirty blonde hair
and i dont realley know how to srunch my hair so
it dosent look greasey and go flat ....
help me pleasee =/ (link)
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when you get out of the shower put mousse in the roots of your hair.
and then take styling wax and turn your head upside down and scrunch your hair to your head with the styling wax.
get it how you want it and hair spray it downnn.
and you might want to carry the hairspray and wax with you through out the day.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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Hmm..well...I have a question about the behavior of my English teacher.
He is a very..touchy person...He's quite old..I'd guess between 40 and 50, but really funny and nice, never gets pissed at students, so everyone loves him as an teacher. He's a very English type guy as well.
My question is that do you think it's ok if he goes to check what someone has written, and he sorta leans against them? Or like if someone asks a question, he goes over to them and usually has his hand on their back or shoulder..
and so on, like always quite close with the students.
I find it strange...I know that he's not a pervert or anything, but is it ok?
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that sounds kinda weird to me.
i would try not to stay after class/school and stuff with him. just to be safe.
and maybe inform your parents.
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ok heres the word.. i'm 5'2 and 140lbs thats roughly 2 pounds over the normal weight. I play volleyball and i just got moved up to the front line to start(so i can spike the ball = ] ) ok so my coach and i were talking and i wanted to know how i can jump higher she said to work on my leg musles and try to get to about 100-105 pounds. thats alot of pounds rite there... i love food and i am a carb queen, but i'm willing to stop becasue i love volley ball more. soooooooo basicly i have to lose 35 lbs in idk 3 weeks? i am willing to do anything. PLEASE help?!?!?!?! = / (link)
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its impossible to lose 35 Ibs in 3 weeks.
average healthy weight loss can be anywhere from 1-3 pounds a week.
if you loose weight over a longer period of time it will stay off longer.
so just diet and exercise.
follow the NEW food pyramid. and 30 minutes everyday of cardio and then some muscle toning exercises.
hope that helps =]
feel free to IM at xoxgorjess me if you want more info.
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How do you make myspace layouts where the middle bit is just plain white, and you don't get any 'about me', 'interests' or 'details' headings and boxes, but there's whatever pictures you want at the sides?
I've been trying for ages but all I find is ones with a backround everywhere.
Thanks in advance, xxx
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i can't sit here and tell you exactly how to make a myspace layout because its very complex and you have to know html.
but i think i know what you are talking about.
get a default layout.
these two sites are very good.
www.hot-lyts.com
www.whateverlife.com
and also at those sites they have codes to hide various things on your profile.
find those codes and copy and paste them where it says to =]
its as simple as that!
hope i helped
Jess
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i dont know whats with him, he says he likes me. we hungout like a week ago, he would always talk to me online whenenver he got the chance. well all of a sudden he just kinda stopped. like idk whats wrong, he didnt write back to my message, he sometimes seems interested, but now he sometimes doesent. i really have no idea whats going on with him. (if you need any more info just ask) whats wrong? (link)
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i'm guessing hes not that interested in you anymore.
i mean, if you really want to know more you just have to ask him or one of his friends.
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I have had my hair highlighted blonde 2 times before.MY friend recnetly did it for me and it turned out fine but i wanted it slightly lighter. SO last night i decided to die it again and its come out ginger!! i really dont no what to do my parents say im paranoid but im really not its pretty bad! its turned a carrot orangy colour, it looks so cheap. parents said you'll have to learn from that mistake and let it grow out my hair is shoulder lengh. I asked if i could buy a colour removing kit but they wouldnt let me as it damages your hair badly, but anything it better than this!! i really dont no what to do im not aloud to die it anymore either!! i use to be known as the girl whch lushious hair but im dredding going back so school.. sad i know.. please help!! its making me depressed!! (link)
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i have no idea what to tell you. you can wash your hair alot and it will fade.
but i recomend never using at home highlighting kits.
but at home dye is fine, except for blonde.
if you want blonde put in your hair ALWAYS go to a salon, because it will most likely turn orange, like your hair did.
i would seriosly consider dying your hair a light brown or something for now. even though your parents won't let you i would still try to beg them.
i am so sorry this happened and i feel your pain.
hope this helped.
Jess
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i decided to stop smoking cigarettes -after 3 failed attempts-on friday. Its sunday today and ive started revising for exams. The thing is..i need a cig', and i dont want the feeling of needing one to put me off the work i have. So what do you lot think i should do? carry on smoking till june/july when the exams are completely finished, or stop smoking and let it affect my exams and revision, because the exams start in march.... (link)
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are you quitting cold turkey?
there are other ways to quit, my step dad is in the process of quitting and he uses the nicotine gum and so far ( a couple of months now) its going really good for him. its hard for everyone. don't give in to the cravings. they will just make you weaker. and also my uncle has decided to quit (also a couple a months ago) and takes pills to block the nicotine so every time he smokes it won't affect him and it eventually makes you wanna give up on smoking because you aren't getting the buzz/satisfaction. it made him really moody, though.
i'd recomend the nicotine gum since it gives you something to do with your mouth to keep you busy. and it costs about as much as cigarettes. but i understand if you are unable to do either one of those choices financially.
i am glad you are quitting smoking though, great choice =]
but you should just stop smoking now, the more you smoke the harder it will be to quit when that time comes.
hope i helped & good luck.
Jess
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Hi,
I want to get fit by summer and GL fitness seems to be the only 'gym' I guess, near my location.
So, I was wondering whether it is a good place, environment, community, etc. wise.
And how much their student rates go for since I can't seem to find it on the internet.
thanks (link)
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the best thing to do is go there and ask for a week trial or something similar to that before joining.
then you can try it out for yourself and see if you like it.
and ask about student rates and such.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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well this just started happening to me.well when i mess up something i get really upset and i don't know why. and it is very stupid like.if i mess up my nails or cause i have these beads in my room so when i go to put my clothes away the hangers get stuck so i just start ripping them down.please help i don't want to tell any of my family. (link)
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if this just started happening to you it could be mood swings/PMSing.
it could also be caused by stress.
try to eliminate stress in your life and take 30 minutes a day to just relax.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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i brush my teeth twice everyday, and i use tic-tacs, or listerine pocket packs...but my breath still wont stay fresh, how do i keep my breath ok so that people dont say "ew did you like not brush your teeth today?" thank you SO much!!:) (link)
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when you brush your teeth make sure you brush your tongue with your toothbrush. thats where bad breath comes from since germs can grow in there.
also if you wanted you could just brush your teeth after every meal.
chewing sugar free mint flavored gum is a good idea also.
a strong mouthwash could help.
and remember to floss once a day too! =]
hope i helped.
jess
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Ok here's the story, it's nothing freaky like that but, i have a crush one 5 different guys for different reasons and i like em all.
Back story one each guy goes.
Guy 1: Ted - He's the one i like because he likes me. He's older than me by 6 or 7 years, but he acts my age. (I think it comes for all them damm kids he's got) And the funny thing about it was that he told me that he was going to f**** me up. Have no clue what that meant so i took it as a joke of him picking wit me as we do all the time with each other. Then a few days later he throws his arm around me saying, "This gone be my girlfriend when she get older. He also made me feel really good when i got sick a few days ago. I.E....I was sitting in the break room, he knew somthing was wrong, he offered me his cup of soda or wateva. it was sweeter that it sounds here but he was thought ful of me.
Guy 2: Patrick - I like him because he's boyfiend material. He's like a guy you could be friends with for the longest time and eventually ends up with.
Guy 3: Johnathan - I like him because he has a cute smile and he's even cutter when he's playing. He's always serious or mad about something, so i guess when he's just not himself, he's cute to me.
Guy 4: Reggie - I like him because he's the 'older' guy. I think that he likes to flirt with everybody but he picks his targets carfully.
Guy 5: CJ - I like him because he's the out there guy. He's loud, funny, playful all of that 24/7. Thought i think he's the main on see me as 'the baby' of the workplace, i honestly don't think he care.
There's, for some reason, something in all of these guys that i just don't know who i should talk to if any at all. I know for a fact that 2 of them have girlfriends, 1 has a baby mamma that i think he's still seeing( the way he talks about her she sounds like a jealous gurl)and the other two i don't know much about their personal life.
But the question is. Should i talk to any of these guys? If so then who? (link)
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well the two with the girlfriends, mark them off your list for now. and the one with the baby mamma, mark him off your list for good.
as for ted, he sounds sorta like a player, telling you hes going to f*** you up and stuff like that. just keep him as a close friend.
patrick sounds kinda like a good guy. especially since you think hes boyfriend material.
and for johnathan, your relationship and the reasons you like him are just. not that great. because you said you liked him when hes not himself. you want to like someone for who they really are.
and you gave little information on reggie, so im not so sure about him.
and CJ sounds pretty nice. i guess you could try and get to know him.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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I'm 18 and I have thick black hair right around my nipples. I've plucked them out once before awhile back but of course, they came back. The hair is about 1.5 to 2 inches long and its kind of embarrassing. I was wondering if this is a common thing amongst females and if it is, is it common for the hair to be thick and black? I don't even have black hair on my head, I have brown hair. Also, I have a hair line right down the middle of my breasts and I usually just shave it and of course if I don't, it will grow back and be visible. If anyone has this, how do you deal with it? Thank you.
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its normal to have a little hair around your nipples. how much hair you have is genetic so you probably got it from your mom or dad or theirs.
but you could probably consider laser hair removal if it bothers you alot. or have you tried nair or veet? but i wouldnt recomend it on your nipples since thats a sensitive area.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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I absolutely hate my ex best friend. But I'm obsessed with her. I've hated her for about a year because she was a terrible person, but I can't help but to peek around her facebook and xanga to see if her life is miserable. Is this normal, because it sure as hell doesn't feel healthy. (link)
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ah its alright.
i'v done that too. like there was this guy that i had a thing with and when it was all done and over i hated him. but i'd always check his myspace and look at his comments and stuff.
its alright to be curious =]
you'll probably get over it.
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what can i do to get a whiter skin.. im gettin dark (link)
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use a high spf everyday, all over. it will block the suns rays. which obviously make you darker.
hope i helped =]
Jess
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how do you do that thing that [most celebrities have in their myspace] you can put pix and texts on the top of your myspace page?
there used to be a long code i had for it.. but i lost and accidentally deleted it..
do you guys know what it is?
or which website i can find it from?
i cant find it anywhere in ggooogle
i need it so much im a perfectionist and ill freak out if i dont get it!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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try one of these sites.
though i'm not exactly sure if they will have it but i love all of their stuff.
www.hot-lyts.com
www.whateverlife.com
www.myspace-crash-codes.com
www.generationme.net
hope one of those sites helps!
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do those things really work? i dont really believe in them. or maybe im doing it wrong? or my hands are moving to the letters..? are seances better? (link)
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my mom has messed around with ouija board before and won't do it anymore because of how accurate they are and what the "spirits" told her.
and a few of my friends have done it and it worked.
it might be one of those things you have to have patience and belief.
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soooo how long should you wait after a guy asks for your number to give up on him ever calling you? (link)
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you really shouldn't waste your time waiting every waking moment of your life waiting for him to call because guys come and go. if he asked for your number he'll eventually call you. but i wouldnt worry about it.
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i'm 15/f
and i want a flat stomach
like my stomach's not flat i just have a pouch
like i want abs but i don't want them as big as a guys
and i've heard either sit ups or crunches don't help it makes your pouch worse/bigger
and it can also make you have a bad back
but i can't member which on it is
what other excericies(sp) can i do??
and do crunches and situps really help?? (link)
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if you have digital cable channel 557 is the work out channel. do some work outs for abs. that should help.
or fitTV (regular cable)has workouts.
or go rent/buy an ab sculpting video.
when you do the videos you have someone there sort of to guide you along and keep you encouraged so you don't quit halfway through.
just do the ab exercise ATLEAST 3 times a week.
hope that helps =]
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Im popular at my school but I want some advice on fashion. I mean I shop at like Ralph Lauren and other label stores but I just need advice. Any advice. (link)
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teen vogue magazine always has the latest trends.
look at the models in there and tone it down a litte bit because they always exagerate.
=] hope i helped
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