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Should I Chose the girl? or the guy?
Hi everyone...i know this will be long, but please help!! Ok sooo there is this girl that I have liked since school started... we hang out all the time in our classes together and we meet up when she is in dance class and I'm in pe. The only problem is--she cant go anywhere with me cause her parents are WAYYY over controling and dont let her hang out with guys. Sooo pretty much no moviesss umm no mall, etc. unless she tells her parents that she is hanging out with some girls and we "bumped" into eaceother......my point is--she cant hang out with guys.
So last saturday--I went to this party for my friends birthday, and I met this guy. He is reallllly nice, easy to talk to and just "gets" me. I talk to him all day long and there are never awkward silences--its like we have perfect chemistry... he always said the right thing. Soo aventually he asked if i liked him and I said, yes and soo he says, i dont mean friend like, and so i said...I know. soo we pretty much have the hots for eachother and yeaaaaaaa.
Here is where the trouble starts, I was thinking about asking that girl out on valentines day... and now im pretty much dating this guy and he asked me if i will be his valentine( i know--kinda cheezy but cute)
what do you think i should do? i have known this guy since 7th grade and when i finally get to know him in only 4 days were practially dating. and this girl she cant ever honestly go out with me but I really like her and have for a while.
Also--this guy has been turned down from a guy just like this--they met and were really close and then he asked him out and he said no so he could date this girl and they were never friends again. Ahhh!!!!!
OOOOO and another thing--im BI but im not out--at all...this guy is the only person that i have told...sooo if I dated him then we would have to keep it secret...wow this just piles on and on--also he is a sophmore and i am a freshman soo next year he goes to a different school(i dont see him much anyways)
what do you think i should do?
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okay. i think you should stay with the guy. and don't keep it a secret. if people know you're bi, and don't accept you, then they're not real friends.
but i think you should stay with the guy for two reasons...
1. you guys obviously like eachother. and face it. not alotta guys have the balls to admit that they're bi. =]
2. see what the girl's reaction is. see if she treats you differentt. if she treats you differently, then she never really liked you as much as you thought she did. cuz if she really liked you, she'd accept you for being bi, and going out with a guy...
and btw,
i think it's pretty awesome that you're bi.
it's nice to know im not the only one.
if you need anymore help
aim screen name: randomconfusionx
xoxo.
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omigosh your BI??? thats so cool!!!
tee hee.
MOVING ON. (sorry i have never met a boy like that)
and your right with that being cheesy but cute. it is.
i think you should so totally stay with the guy. and dont keep it a secret. if no 1 can accept the fact that you're BI, then they cant accept the fact that you're a boy or that you have brown hair or something. its just a natural part of you.
my opinion? the dude. he sounds cool.
take care and i hope everything works out!! :)
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write down a list of pros and cons about dating each one. this is a real tough situation from what i understand.
when it comes down to it just follow your heart.
hope i helped.
& if you want to talk about it more you can just IM me at xoxgorjess
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