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Well there isn't too much to say about me. I love to give advice. It makes me feel great. I am very short lolz. I have blonde hair and I'm in love. =] Also don't be afraid to give me feedback because I'd like to know how good of a job I am doing. Don't be afraid to ask me questions or send me a message.
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do you wear underwear with girl boxers? i just wanted to know
No, you don't have to wear underwear with these. They are just underwear. Not like the guy boxers.
ok. this is going to be sort of hard to describe, or I'd look it up on like webMD or something. I know none of you are doctors, and you can't cure me, but I'm just looking for a basic idea of what's wrong, not a cure. here's the problem: on my left knee, there is this certain "spot" where if I kneel on it, or even just lightly brush my finger on it, in a sort of certain way, there is this terrible pain that shoots through my body. it's like spine-straightening pain. i don't know how to describe what the pain feels like exactly, so yeah. but it's really weird, and really painful, because we do this thing in gym where we crawl across the floor, and i always hit that spot multiple times, and my whole body straightens out immediately. and i honestly don't know what's wrong. does anyone have any idea whatsoever?
There are many things it could be. If I'm wrong I'm sorry. Like you said I'm no doctor. Here are a few things it could possibly be though:
-you could have bruised your knee badly on the inside
-maybe you have sprained it
-pulled a muscle badly?
-you could have something pretty wrong with it though. Maybe you should see a doctor if it doesn't get better.
Ok so my boyfriend lives in Mexico, and I live in the USA, and he is coming to visit next summer for like three weeks. i am sixteen, and worried because it is his first visit here and he will stay in my families house, and it seems like it would just be really awkward the whole time, like with my parents around and everything, like I know my parents will understand that we need privacy and everything, but the fact that they know what we are doing just seems so awkward... Will it be as weird as I think, or am I overreacting? He and my parents get along fine, but I don't know... Any advice would be good
This is pretty tough. I totally know what it's like to want privacy. Even though they aren't gonna bug you it'd still be annoying fro them to know what you are doing. I'd suggest staying out of the house as much as possible. Also I'd make sure that your parents know that you want privacy and wouldn't like it if they made any comments, at least while he's there. Hope everything goes okay.
well i get into these terrible rages where i just want to do violent things (such as break something, hurt myself, verbally hurt someone else) and i dont know how to cope with them. i absolutely HATE when im like that but its really hard to calm down unless i sleep and thats not an option. and these moods/rages happen kinda often as of lately because of my parents so please help. is there a disease/mental diorder that i might have??? and please what are some ways to deal with this? thank you soo much! i will rate!
Hm... this sometimes is normal for people, but it also could be something more. You might want to see a doctor about it. If you rather not though, you could do relaxing things. Like get a good book, take a bubble bath weekly. Just chill. Please don't hurt yourself or anyone else. I know what this is like. Good luck though. I really hope this helps you.
WHAT ARE SOMETHINGS TO TALK ABOUT WITH A MALE FRIEND ON THE phone???...really dont know...cuz i kno he likes me...just what should we talk about???...thanx alot!!!!
xoxoxox
There are many topics to talk about. I'd start with something basic like school or something like that. Then I'd probably just say a few random things. If you find he is getting very bored then change the subject or let him change it. Also something interesting to do is this little thing where you take turns asking questions and then you have to answer honestly. I hope this helps you.
ok so heres the situation. when i was just a baby my mom and dad got a divorce and my dad quit comin around. so my grandparents pretty much raised me while my mom was workin her butt off all the time. i love my mom but my relationship with my grandparents is much much stronger. well i moved 14 hours away from them about ten years ago and now my grandpa is being put into a nursing home and its tearing my grandma apart. she also is in not so good shape, but she can sstill take care of herself. she's the main reason i wake up every morning. i love my grandma more then anyone in the world. so far she has no great grandchildren and i wanna be the first to give them to em. i want them to be able to atleast see one great grandchild before they (especially my gpa) passes. the problem is i'm only 18 and still in school. i'm with the guy of my dreams and we're planning on getting married. we've been together for 3 years and we really wanna start a family. we both wanna have a baby soon but i dont know if next month is too soon. see next june my boyfriend and i are both moving down there to live with my dad and go to college. so i'll be around my grandparents all the time. i'm just really scared that they might be a little disappointed because im still in school and not married. i dont know what to do!!!!! :( i want a baby and im responsible enough to have one.
This is a very tough choice to make. If you and your boyfriend really want a baby at that time then I suppose you should. Just be sure you are really ready to take care of another life. I am sure your grandparents will still love you with whichever choice you two decide. I agree it is a bit young, but if you two personally are ready for that and you can still manage the marriage and going to school on top of all that, then I think it'll be fine. Just be sure to take that into consideration.
Ohkay, well i am kinda stuck on 2 ideas, BUT, let me know if you think any others are scarier. Well, i am either going with emo, or punk. mhmm, maybe a pink tutuu for the emo and like get a black wig, with black n white makeup, maybe a few fake scars... and for punk, like a metal rock band tshirt, uhm... like a pink streak of hair, mabye netting or something...
any help? i wanna buy stuff so if anyone knows any good like costume shops in calgary, please let meh know. FYI: needs to be a COMFY costume, cuz, i miiiight involve running.
tnx every1 who answers this
Well I would try something like this...
-black hair with a cool, crazy color in it.
-a band tee or something along the lines of that
-for the pants I'd get some black skinny jeans are a layered skirt of some sort. Maybe a mine with fishnets.
-eyeliner is a must...some black nails.
-for the shoes either skater shoes like Vans(my absolute favorite shoes. So comfy.) are some Combat boots.
-maybe a really big belt like with a punk belt buckle. Those checkered belts would be perfect!
Female
21 yrs Old
Umm... エ met this boy I've been talking to him for over 3 months now. エ was a Virgin when エ met him, we hung out had a good time and next came the sex. エ wasnt scared nor did it hurt but after we were done エ had nothing to say to him... He calls エ didn't answer エ didn't kno how to react to him. NOW he won't answer his phone wen エ call... what cud that mean? Does it mean he doesn't want to be bothered with me anymore. Did エ turn him off, what cud it be. エ think ima have a nervous breakdown エ dnt kno what エ did to make him act like that. Please give me some advice....
Not answering his phone calls was a horrible choice to make. You probably made him feel like you just didn't care about him. It's oaky though. You should be able to fix this. Find a way to apologize to him. But if he is the type of guy that just wanted to get into your pants then I'd just forget about him.
ok so there's this boy i like and he like me too and he wants my number...i want to give it to him but i don't know what to talk about...I'm afraid I'm going to be too scared to talk to him and I'm gonna hang up in his face...we barely talk at school we just hug most of the time we see eachother in the hallway cus i only have 1st and 2nd period with him...what are some topics we can talk about??? please help!!!...thanx in advance
Hm... I would talk about something like school first. Then you could talk about random things. Also my I like to do this question game. What you do is just take turns asking each other ANY question, but you have to answer truthfully. I hope it helps.
Hi I'm 17 years old, female
I spent the day with my crush a week ago at my house.we kissed, hugged, cuddled. So I told him that I like him and he didn't say it back, he just started putting his arm around me while walking and started acting like my bf. Now,it seems like were growing apart because we haven't talked for a whole week and now I see him walking with girls in the hallway. he barely talks to me now, well on tuesday he told me to call him and when I did, he said to call him back and I did like 2 times and he never answered.But I'm confused, because before we spent the day 2gether, in class, he would always stare at me, let me listen to slow love songs, hug me tight with his face in my neck, he asked me out for lunch a couple of times, gave me his number for me to call him and it was his idea to spend the day with me.so I have 2 questions: do you think he likes me? and now that were not talking, should I call him and ask him what's the deal with him and me or juss not bring it up at all? srry it's long guys.i really need ur help thank-u
I think I'd talk to him about it. I mean he is acting strange right? There should be no reason to be ignoring you like this. I'd see what the deal is. I bet he does like you. Especially with the things you have listed above.
I wanted to know some exotic names, like uncommon ones.
Example: Zeby, Talon, Keagan, Trigg, Chenya, Kherigan, Kinsalyn, Ryland
Like those names that you don't see often.
Hm....
Luna?
Serena?
anything like this perhaps....?
im in highskool and me and some of my friends were thinking bout starting a punk/rock band, but we're stumped about what to call our band, we're think bout something with only one or two words so it'll be easier to remember....
ne one have any ideas???
Black Rose
Doom Ties
Death Appearance
Hard Times
Haha. Names like that?
I'm making a "birthday food package" for my boyfriend containing things to eat throughout the whole day.
im putting his favorite cupcakes, cookies, junk food cereal, candy
what else??
I think you should add his favorite beverage also. Maybe you can make enough for the both of you and make it into a picnic. I bet he'd love that.
Okay...me and my bf r deeply in love with each other..we've decided that when we have the chance we will have sex. i really love him with all my heart and this is my first time..its his first too.If i give him my virginity it is my all. he told me he really loves me too...i know..guys can lie..but i know for sure my bf is not that type of person. Last time...he fingered me and when he was not deep..it didn't hurt but tthen he moved in it started to hurt...if we have sex will it really hurt? he said it will but he'll hold me really tight..me and my bf might have unprotected sex...he told me to get pills but i dunno where to get them...but if we really do have unprotected sex...what is the chance of me getting pregnant? is there a day we shoujld have sex to lower the chance? is there a way to have sex to lower the risk? what should we do? also...can someone please teach me how to give a guy an oral...i dunno how..
It probably will hurt. Especially your first time. It is a VERY goos chance. He should take responsibility too and get some condoms. No, there isn't really much you can do. Just taking the pills and getting a condom. But make sure you are positive you want this too. And for the last thing it will come automatically most likely.
I really really like this guy. We can talk about anything, he makes me laugh, smile, all those things. I just feel so happy whenever I'm around him or talking to him. And, I even feel happy when I'm not around him...by this I mean it's not some kind of unhealthy "I need to be next to him at all times or else I die inside" crush.
Anyway, I really want to go out with him. And I'm pretty sure he wants to go out with me too. The only problem is...his parents.
They don't let him date anyone outside of his beliefs. And I'm Catholic and he's Protestant. So we can't be together. It really hurts that the only reason we're not together is because I worship in a different way than him. It just seems like such an old-fashioned way of doing things.
Maybe you could let his parents get to know how great you are. That may not work though. You could maybe just sneak it, but that's not always the best choice to make. Do what your hearts are telling you to do. If they say be together, then you probably should. Don't give up on love.
soooo not even 24 hours ago i was no longer a virgin..we had protected..buttt idk..i'm still nervous..i just don't know if i should be worried about maybe being pregnant..but i haven't been feeling well pretty much after that..help please.
Well the main thing is did you use protection? If you did hopefully you will be fine. If not...just try not to worry. You might want to be getting some pregnancy tests soon though. Just to make sure.
My computer had crashed about a month ago, and a friend of my mom's took it to his son to get it fixed. I know NOTHING about computers, but I heard something about having to replace the hard-drive. When he brought it back it seemed better, except my volume doesn't work anymore and I no longer have Microsoft Word or any other Microsoft features. It's very vital to me to have these, since I'm assigned endless projects at school. What can I do?
Djzmaguy426
Hm...I don't know if there is anything you can do about this. You could possibly buy a program for your computer. If you can't find one then I suggest you use a computer at a library or at a friend's house. I hope this helps a bit.
im kinda looking for inspirational songs, that have meaning, they can be sad, happy, rock, alternative, anything, i guess.
My absolute favorite band, Three Days Grace, has very inspirational music. If you listen to the lyrics you can tell.
It's taken me a long time to admit to myself that I have low self esteem and am uncomfortable in my own skin. In most social situations I worry about what I say, how I stand, how I should act, and even how to look at people. It isn't a good feeling because I feel like it's destroyed my understanding of who I am. I know what like, what my hobbies are, and what I want to get out of life, but I just feel so confused about myself. I first started to notice this when I started to like a guy at school. I couldn't even maintain a steady conversation with him for very long and found myself questioning my actions. After that, I couldn't even sit normally. And now see how in denial I've been because I am always conscious of myself. And I take out my frustration on my parents and friends. I feel like I can change and when I do, I know I'll feel wonderful, because this has been going on for a long time now. I decided that I had to let go of liking this guy because I'm not ready to pursue someone if I don't even have a clue about myself. If anyone has any ideas or experiences with self esteem, I would appreciate you help so much. Because wow, I really need help.
thank you :)
Oh my gosh. Okay I have gone through the same thing. It really is very hard. What you have to do is just believe in yourself. I have low self esteem too. try standing in front of a mirror and giving yourself at least one compliment a day. You will in time learn that you aren't a bad person at all. Now, the taking it out on other people thing. Don't do this. It will push people away. Try talking to the person calmly about what's going on. It's also always okay to ask people to help you. Don't ever be afraid to do that. Good luck =]
Hi I was wondering if any of you knew any good romance movies? Some of my favorites are Crazy/Beautiful and the Holiday.If you know of any like that please let me know? Thank you!
My favorite romance movie would have to be Titanic. I mean you have that love story and it may be sad but it's truly amazing.