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baby problems!
ok so heres the situation. when i was just a baby my mom and dad got a divorce and my dad quit comin around. so my grandparents pretty much raised me while my mom was workin her butt off all the time. i love my mom but my relationship with my grandparents is much much stronger. well i moved 14 hours away from them about ten years ago and now my grandpa is being put into a nursing home and its tearing my grandma apart. she also is in not so good shape, but she can sstill take care of herself. she's the main reason i wake up every morning. i love my grandma more then anyone in the world. so far she has no great grandchildren and i wanna be the first to give them to em. i want them to be able to atleast see one great grandchild before they (especially my gpa) passes. the problem is i'm only 18 and still in school. i'm with the guy of my dreams and we're planning on getting married. we've been together for 3 years and we really wanna start a family. we both wanna have a baby soon but i dont know if next month is too soon. see next june my boyfriend and i are both moving down there to live with my dad and go to college. so i'll be around my grandparents all the time. i'm just really scared that they might be a little disappointed because im still in school and not married. i dont know what to do!!!!! :( i want a baby and im responsible enough to have one.
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i believe that if you think that you are ready to start a family then go for it. you are almost out of school so i believe that whatever you and your boyfriend decide would be great.
but do it because you want to, not just to make your grandparents happy
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This is a very tough choice to make. If you and your boyfriend really want a baby at that time then I suppose you should. Just be sure you are really ready to take care of another life. I am sure your grandparents will still love you with whichever choice you two decide. I agree it is a bit young, but if you two personally are ready for that and you can still manage the marriage and going to school on top of all that, then I think it'll be fine. Just be sure to take that into consideration.
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