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Hey. I love giving advice. I enjoying giving advice about the sexual things, I've been thinking about getting a degree to be a sexual education teach or, or a sex therapist. I my second best would be friendship[s] and relationship[s]. I am 21yrs old. I have a pit bull named Zip. I work at a middle school as a nutriton assistant. I have 4 god children, 1 boy, 3 girls.

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ok this guy i met at skool well weve been talkin for quite a while and im really startin to like him adn i go to his work to visit him alot, he works at pizza hut and he has given me a good share of free food, and i wanna let him kno i like him adn find out if he likes me other than jus plain out askin him these ?'s.... is there n e thing i could do or say that could hint to him when i go visit him at work since i dont see him that much at skool to hint to him that i like him?

ask him to go out somewhere w/ you...so yall can hang out one on one...in stead of seeing each other at skool n u going to his wrk! jst go out somewhere together...do lots n lots of flirting too that might help alot!...

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i like this guy and i told him and i think he might like me 2 and one day he asked me "why r u so cute" and i wanna sya sumthin to him to see if he really does like me back but besids jus askin sraight out..wha could i do or say to let this guy kno i wanna date him or/and to find out how he really feels?

ask him if he wants to go to a movie w/ you or something jst yall two go hang out n stuff...see how much he opens up to you!!

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ok........i met these two really great girls and i feel like we are getting really close.. but i dont want them to feel that i am *copying* them or trying to be someone i'm not... i really want to be best friends with them, but i dont want to come off as pushy or annoying ya know? so what can i do to know if they think that or if they think i am "copying" them?


well when u hang out w/ someone for a while u start to kind of act like them or say some of the things they say n u don't even mean to..like my best friend Jennifer she always says blah! n now thats all i say...well have you changed ur style?...ur attitude? do they notice it...i mean it's really not that big of a deal...i mean i know some ppl that act like me but thats cuz they hang out w/ me n it doesn't bother me..cuz i know they don't mean to be like that...like wheni started saying Blah i told Jennifer i was like dude i so stole ur word i didn't mean to but i can't stop saying it...she jst laughed at me n said it was str8..i mean don't wrry about it...they kow how u really are by the 1st time they meet you...jst try not to act like them catch ur self before ya do it ro soemthing like that...i so0o0o hope i helped..haha

~b

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Ok... this year started off pretty good, and i met a couple really good friends. but every time i want to hang out or something it's like they already have plans or whatever. And i feel like i am ruining a friendship because i stepped in the middle of them... but i talk to both of them the same and dont nark on the other and all that.... i want to hang out with them but i dont want to make them feel like i am the third/fourth wheel and like a tag along. but they are awesome girls, and i love them to death. How can you tell that the friendship is *strong* or w/e. how can i say something to them about how i want to hang out with them on the weekends without sounding rude or too forward? I have had so many friendship that always fall out for some reason or another and i want this one to last because i really feel like i can trust them and tell them anything. And another thing, how can you tell if they are "tired" of me or dont want me around?

Thanks

WOW hun this is going to be hard...so deal w/ me n if ya need me to explain anything i said jst hit me up again! haha!...

ok i know how ya feel about feeling left out n them already haveing plans...1st off try make plans on Monday get a head start...jst be like hey i wanna try n hang out this weekend or something...n if they already have plans be like do u think i could come if not it's str8 we could hang out after wards or something...i jst made a new friend i tell her we are going to have a weekend together when she stay w/ her mom...so were planing that...jst wrk something out jst start planing on Mandays' cuz thats wat i do...r they like two ppl that u hang out w/ that don't like each other or something?? welp that's all i can think of right now...hit me up if ya need some more info...or more help on wat i said! hah

~b

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i like this guy and hes friends with my cuzin and this guy told my cuzin that we were talkin bout hangin out but my cuzin told him that he didnt approve of us talkin /hangin out and so now this guy said its not a good idea for us to hang out but he doesnt get that i dont care wha my cuzin thinks i know hes only tryna look out for me but i dont wanna my cuzin to possibly ruin anything between me and him b/c last nite we all hung out i had so much fun with him..he kept givin me hugs and all and i wanna kno wha i can do or say to him to make him realize my cuzin cant stop me from hangin out with sumone i realli like..n e ideas

well 1st off his stubburn if he want listen to you when u tell him u don't care...id go up to ur cuzing in tell him to back off he has no right to tell ppl to not talk/hang w/ you n yeah u understand that his trying to look out w/ you...but u want to learn things the hard way...go up to the guy tell him str8 to his face I DON'T CARE WAT MY CUZIN HAS TO SAY N I WANNA HANG W/ YOU...i mean he could be scared of ur cuz but i dobt it!

hope i helped...

~b

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what are sum flirty ways i could let a guy kno i like him online besides jus comin oput and tellin him..like wha r sum flirty convos i could start or say to hinto him i like him

hmmm....jst creak some jokes on how cute he is..n how u would "get w/ him" stuff like that...don't make it sound sluty...keep it PG!..jst joke around about stupid but cute things!...that's the best i can think of for now
hope i helped

~b

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in my profile on aim it says all this stuff bout how guys r complicated and stuff and a quote ..."is he not brave enuf to take a chance with me" well this guy i like is online and im not sure if he knows that i like him or anything...and were talkin and all and he sends me all these quotes from my profile and asks if their aboout him and i asked y he was askin and hes like jus wonderin w/ a blucshin face but before i could answer he said he was gonna go cuz he was goin to bed....wha u think this means..is there n e way this could possible mean that he likes me 2??

yep....i would have to say so...i mean hello girl his asking who if there about him...so next time his on...be like u know them qoutes...well yeah there about u...n i have a lil thing for you...do u have one for me?...i mean it's not that hard to tell a guy that u have a thing for them...unless ur extreamly she...but that's ok! u don't have to wrry bout that...ok jst talk to him about it.but before u tell him u like him ask him if he likes you 1st n then tell him...srry if it didn't make much seance...hit me back up if u need more help or need me to explain something that i said n here! ha!

~b

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i posted sumthin before bout likein this guy and bein scared to tell him but nah were not datin were jus talkin but id like to date him but i gave him a senior pic and he told me over and over how sexy i looked lol and he told he showed all the guys at his table my pic...and is ther and easier way to find out if he likes me rather than just flat out askin..yea imma chicken heh

it's str8...don't wrry bout beeing a chicken....she watch how he acts when he talks about u n how he treats u....i'm mean thats all ya can do...but as i see it...he likes ya!! haha

~b

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ok...my best friend Bethany gets really annoying sometimes and she always makes up lies to make her life sound cool and exciting. She told everyone that shes smoked weed...and she hasnt. and she told everyone that she's not a virgin, and she is. and she just get's really annoying and i get mad at her easily cuz it bothers me and i jus say whatever comes to my mind and most of the time, its not very nice. and i wanna be friendz cuz shez awesum and i love her, shes muh bestest friend ever, but if i keep sayin wut comes to mind, i*ll lose her. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

omg! that so sounds like me n my good friends..i'm always getting mad at my friend Kelleye and Hannah...but the thing is Kelleye understands y i get mad at her n i always tell her i'm srry for getting mad at her she jst pisses me off n i jst go off on her...n Hannah...shes a slut so i yell at her about that...but i mean i try hard not to yell at them n stuff...jst after u cool down go back to her n tell her ur srry n u didn't mean to bit her head off but she jst gets on ur nervous sometimes..n u can't help it...n most likely shell understand...cuz Hannah n Kelleye do...plus i'm also the type of person that has a really BAD attutide problem...but ne'ways i hope i helped let me know...

~b

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ok i met this guy at skool and he was all flirtin with me so my friend gave him my number nad weve been talkin on the fone alot and stuff and i realli thought he liked me but i wanna make sure and i want him to kno i like him wha r sum ways to do this cuz i get like realli scared to tell guys how i feeel bout em...another thing is that he told me on the fone earlier that this girl told him that she heard me talkin bout him and i def wasnt and i told him that but hes like im at work so i g2g ill call ya lter i didnt think he would but he did ....is this a good sign and wha r sum other signs to look for

well thats good that he called you back!!...so yeah thats good...ask him if he likes you...are yall daten or jst talking?...cuz if yall are daten then ask him how much he really likes you...n see wat he says...jst don't get to deep w/ him untill you know for sure that he likes ya...jst watch the way he treats you n how he talks about you to his friends...well i'm scared to tell guys how i feel sometimes too...but i tell them...jst don't bust out some i love u crap...jst be like i really like you alot...n i was woundering if u liked me...n also..before u tell him u like him i always tell the guy that if i freak u out i don't mean to but i relly like you alot...idk it's jst something i do so u can try that if ya want...but i hope i help if ya got anymore ? jst hit me up! iight!

~b

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Ok.. I have 2 friends... friend 1 and friend 2 we will call them.
Friend 2 is still in love with her ex-boyfriend.. and now im dating him. Shes mad at me because I am dating him and she wants to be with him. She keeps telling people she miscarried his baby and stuff like that.. which we ALL know isnt true. She said she was 6 months along.. but she NEVER started showing.
Friend 1 keeps getting in the middle of all this. Shes mad at me for dating him too. She says i have no right to date him just because friend 2 still loves him. He SERIOUSLY hates her because she caused him ALOT of problems.

Should I break up with him just because she wants me to.. ?
i mean.. i wanna be friends and all.. but this chik has some serious problems. Someone PLEASE help me!

don't wrry about it! there not ur firned if there going to act like that...so jstbe like f* yall...stay w/ the kid that the kindof crap that messes up relationships...so screw them other girls

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hey i think im in love with this guy...but the think is i havent know him very long. but i mean hes like the sweetest thing ever to me. and i have super stong feelings for him. i just dont know if i should tell him or not or even how too. i mean i guess im just scared since i have gotten my heart broken bout a year ago from a guy who was pretty much the same at 1st. but i just dont really know what to do. i just know hes so great and that i would do anything for him to make him happy. but i just dont want to get hurt again.

well i really haven't been dateing my boyfriend that long but me n him are like totaly inlove...don't be scared to tell him...cuz wat i did w/ my boyfriends was like like hey i think i might love i mean i like u alot alot...but i think it might be love...n we jst started talking buot it n he has the same feelings so...yeah...so jst ask him talk to bout it see how he feels bout you...don't be shy...n don't be afried to get ur hart broken...who knows it make wrk out...take riske girl!!
~let me know how it goes

~b

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OoK well there's this guy who I keep seeing in the math hallway -n- well everytime we pass each other we always lo0k at each other.WHat does that mean? I haven't really learned his name but I'm dying to ask..Homecoming is coming up..??What should I do?..

jst go up to the kid n be like hey i saw ya looking at me...haha! or jst see who he hangs out w/ find out his name n if his got a girl...or u can jst go up to him n ask him ur self..jst don't be shy!!...who knows it could led to something! :p
hope i help

~b

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okay, ive been "talking" to this guy for the past like 2 weeks, we hang out acouple times a week and talk on the phone...how long do u think i should wait until i make out with him and NOT seem slutty at the same time? im comfortable with making out and all that junk, but how long should i wait so i wont seem easy?

well lets see....i talked to this guy for awhile but we didn't start making out n stuff till we started daten...but wat u should do is flirt n give him sigins that you wanna kiss him..n see if he makes a move...or u could ask him...i mean if your comfortable n like him that much then jst be like do u wanna kiss me or wait till were going out...???
let me know if i helped!! :)

~b

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how do you get over your ex bf who youve been in love with forever? when hes over you...why cant i get over him? everything reminds me of him..hes all i think about..how can i move on since he already has?

well lets see...i got over mine...i mean it wasn't that easy...n also i still hang out w/ him...but what i did was went n hung out w/ my friends like almost every weekend...n one weekend i went w/ them n meet this guy n now me n this guy have been dating...i mnea what i can tell you to do it go n meet new ppl...i mena yeah i still like my ex n there r still feelings but i've learned to get over it all! n thats wat u need to try n do! i mnea honestly its really not that hard...yeah it may take a while...but trust me u can totaly get over him...once you find a new guy!

~b

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what do i do when my mom says i trust you i just dont trust the world im almost 16 and cant ride around with friends or go anywere. i m not the kind of kid that gets into truble so i dont see the prob what can i say to her to get her to understand?

please help

girl i know how ya feel...my moms like that too...but she actually let me ride around w/ one of my friends one time bC he came over and meet him n i got to go down town w/ him...i mean yeah she probably does trust you...but she might not trust the driver...so talk to her bout it...tell ur friends to come over so she can meet them...also it could be bC ur dad might not like it either...cuz my dad was outta town when i went riden w/ my friend...haha...so that might be some part in it!!
let me know how it goes...

~b

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ok now i wear thongs and i am kinda the one in skool that no one reallys notices. this is my last year of junor high and i want to be noticed. i want to sit down and have my thong hang out but then i have second thoughts bout it and chicken out. wheat can i do and is it ok if i do this?? plz help me



*~I RATE REALLY GOOD~*

not trying to sound mean but that makes you sound a lil sluty! don't do that! do something else for someone to notice you....help ppl out or something

hop ei helped

~b

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I met this guy online. I have been takling to him for like 8 months. I like him and he likes me. We live in diffrent states. What should i do!?

ummm hun he could be some 30something yr old guy...but jst be carefull don't give him to much info on you...that jst seems a lil scary!

~b

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the other day i found out my friend likes my b/f and it pisses me off b/c im afraid shell break us up. and a few weeks ago he talked to her one night and the next day he said he thot we should take a "break" and see other people. and a few hours later i wrote him a letter and dropped it off at his house. so he gets home and reads it and calls me and says hes sorry and he changes his mind but its never been the same since...and i dont know what to do with my friend b/c im afraid itll be over b/c of her.. and i love this guy. weve been together for 6 mnths...and when i ask my b/f about it he ies to me and says they dont talk to eachother....what should i tell my b/f AND my friend? i need help....!

well 1sy off when you break up w/ someone and yall get back together things aren't going to be the same! either he will love u more or jst have nothing at all...well wat did he do while yall where broken up? do u know if he did anything w/ your friend? don't wrry bout ur friend...cuz if u know for sure that he doesn't talk to her anymore then theres nothing to wrry bout...but if you found that he is then he ain't worth it cuz he jst sat there and lied to ur face! and that jst messed up

~if u need anymore help iM me or drop me a inbox!
*hope i helped

~b

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Hey Blaze! Uhh well lets see, I'm datin a guy that is 18 and I'm 15, and he REALLY likes me and I REALLY like him, but his friends are all wiggin out, cause he used to be a realllly big player and junk, but now he is just stickin w. one person *me* =)! But they are tryin to get us apart, and I don't know what to do because I like his friends & me and them are normally pretty straight and friendly, they are just gettin a little too jealous I guess!! Lemme know whatchu think! -StUmPeD-

Don't wrry bout his friends! there porbably jst jealous at the fact that yall have a great realtionship...or they jst think it's messed up bC his dating a 15 yr old!...i mean i really can't say i know wat ya mean cuz all my ex-boyfriends frieds (he was 18) liked me (plus all them had 15 yr old girlfrinds too) haha! but jst don't wrry bout it...if he really likes you then his firneds well relize that when yall don't break up and they probably already relize that and they jst don't want you to hert him...cuz that's kind of y some ppl wanted me to break up w/ Tyler (the ex *18*)...jst don't wrry bout it everything should be Aokay! haha!
if ya need anything else jst drop me a iM or hit the inbox up again!!

hope i helped let me know

~b

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