Question Posted Thursday September 30 2004, 4:22 pm
Ok... this year started off pretty good, and i met a couple really good friends. but every time i want to hang out or something it's like they already have plans or whatever. And i feel like i am ruining a friendship because i stepped in the middle of them... but i talk to both of them the same and dont nark on the other and all that.... i want to hang out with them but i dont want to make them feel like i am the third/fourth wheel and like a tag along. but they are awesome girls, and i love them to death. How can you tell that the friendship is *strong* or w/e. how can i say something to them about how i want to hang out with them on the weekends without sounding rude or too forward? I have had so many friendship that always fall out for some reason or another and i want this one to last because i really feel like i can trust them and tell them anything. And another thing, how can you tell if they are "tired" of me or dont want me around?
ok i know how ya feel about feeling left out n them already haveing plans...1st off try make plans on Monday get a head start...jst be like hey i wanna try n hang out this weekend or something...n if they already have plans be like do u think i could come if not it's str8 we could hang out after wards or something...i jst made a new friend i tell her we are going to have a weekend together when she stay w/ her mom...so were planing that...jst wrk something out jst start planing on Mandays' cuz thats wat i do...r they like two ppl that u hang out w/ that don't like each other or something?? welp that's all i can think of right now...hit me up if ya need some more info...or more help on wat i said! hah
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