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I joined this site when I was very young (hence the ridiculous username) but now I feel I'mn old enough to give out advice.Ask me anytime. I have had my fair shares of family issues, as well as good at solving relationship problems.
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I watched Wall-E last night and I totally loved it! Wall-E is really such a great movie! :D
Anyway, there's a song that is playing right that the beginning of the credits. The song actually plays before the scrolling actually starts (know what I mean?).
It says something about coming down to the ground. It talks about the future chosen, escaping routine, and says something about the mountains, rivers, birds singing, seeing the trees or something. It's a man's voice.
Anyone know the name of it and who sings it?
Down to earth - Peter Gabriel (?)
http://www.metrolyrics.com/down-to-earth-lyrics-peter-gabriel.html
If it isnt the one, I think it is
here is the soundtrack list
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/WALL-E_(soundtrack)
This is going to sound a little stupid probably, but my boyfriend has lied to me about something small and now it's totally made me wonder if I can really trust him.
Basically, he told me that he couldn't really afford to go crazy and all-out on our one year anniversary day, which I was completely fine with, but then he kept going on about wanting to buy this Playstation 3 game that was something like $70. Anyway, I found out that he bought it a couple of days ago, but he told me it was only $10 because he had traded in some games at the same time; however, he accidentally left the receipt for it in the living room, which showed that this was not the actual case--that he had actually paid full price for the Playstation 3 game.
Now, before you think I'm crazy or something, my boyfriend and I have had problems in the past and have been working on getting our trust back for each other. (He had a wild night out with the boys once that totally crushed our relationship for awhile) It bothers me that he couldn't just be honest with me about this, I guess. I mean, it wouldn't have been a big deal at all...why lie?
Do you think I'm overreacting?
You're not over reacting.
It's not fair you're trying your best to be open and honest and he isn't.
I don't think he lies to you a lot, I think just lied to steer clear of another argument,
he may have thought you'd be angry that he wouldnt want to splash out too much on your aniversary, but splash out on a gift for himself.
I bet he planned to buy the gift for himself for a while, and therefore had been waiting till he could afford it, the anniversary just happens to fall on the same time he wanted to buy something for himself.
There are two ways to go about this
1) Leave it. It was a little white lie, he lied to steer clear of an argument, now if you leave it - you'll be doing the same.
2) You could confront him, but will it turn into an argument? Obviously I don't know what he's like. You could gently tell him that you know he paid full price for it , and tell him although you understand that he probarbly didnt want to upset you, you're okay with it, and remind him it doesnt help with the whole honesty thing you guys are trying out
Hope I helped...
Sage :)
My boyfriend and I got into a fight the other night and he said, sarcastically, that I was a good girlfriend (the situation is difficult to explain-- why we were fighting) so, basically, he called me a bad girlfriend. I've been trying to find ways to be a "better" girlfriend now so we don't have this problem again.
Do you have any ideas on how I can be a better girlfriend? He's apologizing, saying he didn't really mean it and it was in the heat of the moment but I still feel like it might be true. I simply want to be the best girlfriend I can be because he deserves happiness too.
So, any tips on how can I be a better girlfriend to my boyfriend?
sounds cliche, but be yourself. If you try to change yourself or go far out to please someone, your boyfriend wont really be liking you, he'll be liking the fake you. And also you pleasing him a lot or changing yourself etc may make him happy, but it wont make you happy, and a relationship is pretty much a two way thing.
I would say as long as your have the main qualities - loyalty,faithfulness, ability to listen and understand, give and take and being able to trust and be trusted, then things shouldnt be difficult
The only way to be a "better" girlfriend is talk to him. Communication is key.
Ask what he wants, ask him what he thinks is best about your relationship and ask him what things do you do that upset him, then you'll know what to improve on. Tell him you dont want to have arguments, you want things to move forward.
If you guys cant move forward, if you never tell eachother what's on your mind.
You cant improve on things, if you dont know what to improve on can you?
Also , like I said, a relationship is a two way thing, so it's alright you trying to be a better girlfriend, but there must be things that he can do to.
If you ask him what he thinks you guys need to work on, dont get into an argument again. Let him say what he thinks - its an opinion, its neither right or wrong. Dont be offended by what he may say, because you need to be cruel to be kind.
Talk to him, thats the only way to move forward.
If your honest, open and listen to him - you're being a good girlfriend.
Good Luck
Sage :)
There's a song that I saw on the music channels a while ago and I can't find out what it was.
It was a boyband (i'm guessing late 90s/possible early 00s)
The lyrics went something like,
"I don't give a damn, find another man."
And something about this girl crying. But it wasn;t a sympathetic song, it was like a boyfrined who couldnt stand this girl anymore, although it had a boybandy feel to it, if that makes sense, it was still a pop song not rock.
I've tried googling it and looking on youtube.
It's driving me crazy now so hope you can help :-)
Thank you x
Avenue - Last Goodbye?
http://www.metrolyrics.com/last-goodbye-lyrics-avenue.html
Fits in with the description
Sage :)
15/ Female
There's a guy, his name is Kyle. I use to have a major crush on him- now I just think he's cute. We've known each other for 2 years now, he knows I like him- last December he had said to me "I just want to be friends." so we've had it kinda awkard since. At prom (last month) I asked him as friends- he ended up asking my friend Lidia the day before prom (she said yes with her not knowing I asked till I saw her). When I got there it turned catotic- at the last dance my friends (Lidia, Sara & Hayley) managed to convince him to ask me to dance- I said yes(he wouldn't stop starring at the floor). But ever since then he hardly talks to me... Just last week when I was talking to him, he let my enemy just yank him away! I know he can't stay focused, but still! He even told me in April he has a crush on Lidia- Lidia hate's to think about that fact (Kyles a player anyway). What on earth should I do?!
-Lily
There's two things you can do,
He's not interested in you. He's had oportunities to dance with you , chat or even ask YOU to the dance, and he hasnt shown you interest.
1) If you value the friendship, let him know that you feel uncomfortable and reassure him you dont have feelings for him anymore.
2) Steer clear of him in the sense that dont duck and cover (haha). But dont bother with stupid small tak and conversations because it's only going to be uncomfortable. Dont make the effort with him if he cant be bothered with you.
Simple..
Sage :)
so lately my crush/freind/stand partner in orchestra (his name is alex) has been treating me a little bit diffrently than he has been like today when he wanted to get my attention (he ussually just says my name) he touched my shoulder yesterday when we were walking to our lockers (they'r just a set of lockers apart) and i told him (becouse i was mad at 2 people that day) that i dont get mad too easily but when i do get mad i get really mad then i told him that he doesnt want to get me mad so then (jokenly) he called me a loser then when he said that he was just joking he touched my shoulder and one day it was really cold out in the morning and we were waiting to go into the school and i just had short sleeves and jeans on and i was shivering so he said that i could wear his jacket i said no and today during orchestra when i told him (becouse he asked) that i dont have a bf he told me that he is gonna ask a girl out but i have no idea who she is but is there a possibility that its me today when we were handing back our sight reading music (he ussually just says my name or puts the music on the stand) but he put the sheet music on my head instead of just saying my name so i would know that the music from the people in the stand behind me needs to be handed up and when i was handing it to the person in the stand in front of mine and alex's i said (while laughing) hey sorta like a why did u do that hey not like a annoyed or mad hey i am not new at the school and him and i have been good freinds since the start of the school year.him i talk alot more to him than i have with my bff reenay this week i have probobly talked to him more than i have to reenay all school year.he does get really annoyed and mad (he does not get annoyed or mad easily at all or very often) if when i am talking to him and one of his other freinds interupes me but he does not get really annoyed if i interupt him or the person that he is talking to but i try not to do that.he asked me how my bf is doing then i told him that i dont have a bf and he said oh and that he is gonna ask a girl out then he started to act a little diffrently around me
He does like you :)
Normally, a girls instinct is right anyway.
He's flirting with you a lot, and it's suc a typical thing for a guy to ask if you have a boyfriend, or that he is going to ask a girl out soon ,and not tell you who that girl is, so I'm sure he likes you.
He's giving you a lot of clues and vibes, letting you know he likes you , give him time, or give him vibes back and just maybe he'll admit how he feels. If not, just make the move and ask him what he thinks about you :) You've got nothing to lose, he's flirting with you so much, it's obvious.
Good Luck, He Likes You
Sage :)
Ok this might be long but last year i liked this guy and he had gf but i couldnt help myself.So when he found i liked him he started flirting with me and i was head over heels for him and when his gf found outi liked him she freaked out and started talking behind my back and all her friends hated me too but in front of my friends she was all nice and polite.And then like 2 weeks after he had to leave to go to another school he said i was acting like his girlfriend and i wouldnt leave him alone.So now 11 months later im here and i cant let him go .next year i have to go to the same school he went to and then i have to see him everyday.ive tried everything to let him go but i cant. plz help me
first off, you should really think about what kind of guy he really is - a complete dick. He had a girlfriend, yet still decided to toy with your feelings? What kind of guy would do that, think about how unfair he was to do that behind his girlfriends back, imagine you were her - how much of a prick is he? A BIG ONE...and he isn't worth your time , especially if he can't treat a girl right.
You may like him, and I can't say get over him, because I obviously can't tell you HOW. But don't give him he satisfaction of letting him know you still like and you're not over him - it just boosts his ego more, and makes him feel big. The more you realise how horrible he is, the easier you will lose those feelings for him.
Delete him off you myspace,facebook etc, msn, aim, phone number etc. Don't give yourself reasons to think about him. You need to start becoming strong, and you need to realise, you can live without him, he's just a boy, who obviously isnt worth it if he can't see what a good person you are.
So what if you have to go to the same school as him, he will be furthest thing on your mind when you start school. There will be plenty other people to get to know, especially this summer, you never know what's going to happen. If he really cared about you, he would of said so. So dont waste on your time who doesnt deserve it. Cut off allways of communication with him, and just try to be around your friends for support
Hope I have helped,
and thankyou for inbox question
:)
14/f
So I've been liking this guy for about 3 years now and finally got the chance to tell him that I like him about a month ago. He could tell what I was going to say and actually looked happy that I told him. Ever since then he has been acting Crazy nice and flirting a whole lot more. Like randomly running up to me and giving me hugs and CONSTANTLY staring at me. All the time.
Now everyone knows that I like him and won't let me forget it. And I am positive that he likes me back.
The most annoying part is that it's been over a month since I told him an he hasn't given me an answer. (I basicly told him, and he walked away smiling)
Right now I'm at the point where I'm thinking "just drop it, oh well, the last three years of your life are pretty much wasted"
But I understand that he is super shy and he probably has no idea what to think. Although, he flirts with other girls to make me jealous...
So this weekend some of my friends are having a picnic and he's coming. I HAVE to know something. It doesn't matter what it is, even if he doesn't like me back, I need to know something.
What do I do!? Please help me on this. I don't feel like I should go up to him and ask him again... Akward. And flirting my ass off doesn't seem like enough at this point.
(I need to add that I might not see much of him this upcoming school year so I need to do this noww)
Basicly, my mind is beyond confused.
What should I do?
(sorry it was so long)
You said you're pretty sure he was happy when you told him. So you've got a vibe he likes you too. He's probarbly really flattered, and you've boosted his ego which is why he tries to make
you jealous. It's a been a month now, and so I guess it's about time you find out. Waiting
around for someone is hard.
At the picnic, try to get him on his own and ask him if he has thought about what you said -and what does he think about it. Just go for a walk with him, and ask him. Because if
you dont, the chances of him asking you are next to zero (because its been a month) -
then you guys will get tired of waiting around for eachother and then the feelings stop -
I've seen it happen. So just ask, don't come off too strong, that can "scare" a guy off - ask him what he's thinking, what he wants.
the outcome will probabrly result to you dating :) which
is what you want. If you want something, you have to go out and get it.
Good Luck,
Sage :)
Ps - Enjoy the picnic, show him you know how to have a good time and have fun :)
What is the best way to prevent sunburn?
I'll be going to the beach and will be out in the sun all day long. I don't want to get older and find out I have skin cancer because I let myself burn too much and didn't take care of my skin. How do I protect myself from the sun rays?
That's very sensible.
Put on sunscreen that is water proof and try one that is of a very HIGH SPF factor. The higher the sun screen, the less chance you have doing damage to your skin.
Titanium and Zinc Oxide Protect you from the sun. Check the ingrediants of your sun cream - if they don't contain this - don't bother using your sun screen.
Apply it every hour too. It's also been said if you don't rub it into much it will block the sun rays more effectivly as the sun screen will be a thicker layer and harder for rays to pass through if you don't rub it in as much.
Get a friend to rub it in parts you cant reach - like your back, and remember to put sunscreen in places you might forget - like your neck, ears, toes etc.
If you can, wear a hat.My Dad recently got back from spain (he isnt bald either) and found he sat in the sun so long - he burnt his scalp and now it's peeling (ouch). Wear brighter clothing, white is particulary good. Stay away from black - black will just absorb the sun.
Try not to get your clothes wet either because it is proven that wet clothes allow the sun�s rays to pass through them. Sunglasses are vital too - real ones.
Here are some other ways to protect yourelf, if you are still worried
http://www.cdc.gov/cancer/skin/basic_info/howto.htm
The other day I was on MySpace and saw that the trailer for New Moon (sequel to Twilight) was going to be coming out and it would let people know when New Moon was going to be coming out in theatres. The only reason I even noticed it on MySpace was because I saw a glipse of Bella Swan (Kristen Stewart) and Edward Cullen (Robert Pattinson) and I just totally love them as a couple.
Anyway, I, apparently, missed the new trailer for New Moon (novel book by Stephenie Meyer) on MySpace so can anyone point me in the right direction to view that?
I Found It !
It's Good Quality :)
http://www.newmoonmovie.org/trailer/
Enjoy
Sage:)
most of my friends have this problem as well.
But, it's summer now, and i always wear a bathing suite.
on the top of my breast i have red stretch marks, I know they have creams for it, but my mother and I aren't open to things like that 'cause we aren't really close.
But i heard coacoa butter lotion takes stretch marks away.
Is this true?
Yes coacoa butter lotion does help fade away the stretchmarks and other blemishes.
I have stretch marks on the top of my breast too and I have used it for 2 months and its seemed to fade away quite rapidly.
It smells really nice too
I usually use "Palmers"
with vitamin E
Hope I helped
Sage :)
I'm 16, female.
My boyfriend of 2 years recently cheated on me. he was at a party and had sex with a senior from my school.i broke up with him. he now says he regrets everything and wants me back.He told me he loves me and only me. So, my question is should i believe him and take him back? i mean i love him and everything, i just don't wanna get screwed over.
thanks in advance :]!
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
He's done it once and what will stop him doing it again?
I could understand if you took him back if he kissed another girl but he had sex . Sex is supposed to be private between you and him, and he broke that. He broke all the boundaries.
He may say he loves and only you, but obviously not enough otherwise he would of controlled himself.
You were right to break up with him, and of course it's right that you still love him - because feelings dont go away that easily.
If he loves you as much as you him he wouldn't of done what he does. Maybe the relationship was never a two way thing. I may be going into this too much however overall you were right to dump him and its going to take time to get over him if you decide being single is best.
Good Luck,
Sage:)
i want like cute pictures of us but idk who would take them...we're going by ourselves so do you think itd be weird to ask a random person?
No, of couse it isn't weird. They'd understand you'd want a picture together.
Ask an adult or a family to take it for you, that way they are less likley to run away with your camera.
It's no big deal, I've asked people loads of time.
I hope the pictures turn out great
Sage :)
I'm 13(m) and most of my friends have a girlfriend and I don't, so they usually ditch me because I don't have a girlfriend. Also without a girl I feel lonesome. So how can I get a girlfriend?
Most of your friends only have girlfriends for the simple fact because they want to be seen as "cool"
I bet you half of them dont even really like them, it wont last. Promise. Bit harsh, I know.
They are obviously not true friends if they feel the need to ditch you.
If you want a girlfriend, get one for a good reason, not because your mates have one,
and you dont want to feel left out. You've got to like her.
If you want to start becoming friendly with girls and getting to know them more,
ask your friends to hook you up, on double date or something (maybe if one
the girlfriends have a friend, you comment on her..to your friend etc etc). Join different
activites at school, and just get to know the girls in your different classes -
that can easily be solved by striking up casual conversations.
Before you "Like" them, you have to be their friend first. You cant force feelings.
Branch out and make more friends, girls and boys(because your boy-mates
dont seem to be treating you very well)
Remember, summer's coming round the corner,
you NEVER know what is going to happen in the summer.
Think about all the things you can be doing in the summer, where tonnes
of girls will be - like at the beach or swimming pool
PS- you may feel lonsome because your idea of a girlfriend seems, comforting and
you dont have that sort of comfort. Being lonsome may not because you dont have
a GF but because you're friends arent including you.
my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and my sister is always reading my diary what should I do about it?
my email is poohbear6bbbb@yahoo.com
Either get a diary with a lock, and make sure you hide it well. Don't place them in obvious places, and dont keep it in the same place.
What I usually do is I actually write on the computer and save it instead of writing it in a diary.
Maybe you could try start up your own blog or "diary" vides on youtube.
Just a few ideas.
Hide your diary in good places, like in another book, or put your diary in a pile of clothes on your shelf etc.
Hope I helped :)
I'm making a list of fun things I want to do this summer, but it's not super long. I need some suggestions?
Some of the things I have already are things like:
- Sleep on the trampoline under the stars.
- Draw with sidewalk chalk.
- Buy and play on a Slip n Slide.
Any suggestions would be great :)
These answers vary on your age
- Have a party , could be themed
- Have a BBQ
- Bake cakes, cookies etc
- Camp outside with friends
- Visit different parks and have picnics when is nice weather
- clear out your room and sell things on ebay
- plant something
- take on a new responsibility - example volanteer to help out at something or buy a fish etc
- Keep a diary, write about everyday
- Organize a treasure hunt
- Get a new look, maybe dye your hair..etc
- Change your bedroom around
- Take up a new activity learn a new skill - pottery,painting, piano, guiatar etc
- Write - stories,lyrics,poetry etc
- Visit theme parks, swimming , maybe in the Sea
- Customize your own clothing
- Go out to eat, in the evening with your friends, a nice meal
- Have a water fight
- If organizing a party, get you parents to buy some fireworks
- Have a "Movie" Night , with popcorn and loads of different films
- Start a blog or weblog on YouTube
- Take up photography
- Make your own lemonade (it tastes the best)
- Cook (maybe you're own pizza, you can get loads of toppings and your friends can make pizza too)Just look up different recipes online and print them off.
- Go rollerblading with friends - that's always fun
- Listen to a new artist (singer) every day
- When you take loads of photos over the summer make a photo album
- Graffiti Art
I'll think of some more for you if you'd like
Sage :)
I might have to use some of these ideas!
we've been friends for over five years... but the last year i began to notice the extent of her devotion to this friendship... it seemed to me that i was the one putting so much effort into the relationship... we're both international students from france and where we met (in college) was far far away from home. I must say first that i really think she has issues... things i thought were irrelevant to our friendship until they proved otherwise.... for starters her mother brought up both her girls to be clingy and withdrawn... their dad is out of the picture since her second daughter was born.. he's back in Australia i think... both girls hang out with each other (the younger one is worse! her only friend is her older sister and she refuses to go out with out her mum and sister at 18, while my friend does leave the house on her own but only to be completely alone) both are very very extremely antisocial... anyway the older one doesn't have any female friends... and we met because i was the closest thing to home...
those she does have (like me for instance) she keeps at a distance only visible from her side... she revels in getting attention from boys (and being the only blond in the entire country, she gets the attention easily... happy with the worst guy out of them) really i've only ever seen her relatively loud and funny or human when she's around guys...
anyway so i had a horrible horrible year 2 years ago and i needed her help and asked... she didn't offer it and began to withdraw... all i needed from her was emotional support and her being there for me... at that point i'd returned to france and she was still in our college... so the distance doesn't help...
what hurts the most is that she pretends nothing is wrong and manipulated me to feel like i did something wrong to her (SAYING THAT I HURT HER BY PUTTING HER IN A POSITION WITH MY FAMILY -for telling them about the issue- AND OUR FRIENDS!!! even though the problem was between my ex and I and nothing to do with her,my family, the group who are mostly girls and who she doesn't like and who had nothing to do with any of it!!!) she stopped talking to me after i confronted her and thought i dealt with the problem... she made it seem like there was none and that my apology was accepted! (i still don't know what i apologized for!) even coming to my town when she was home for summer and spent 2 weeks with my family ... as if nothing was wrong and stepping out of her element away from her mum and sis....
me and my ex are best friends too but with me moving away things started to fade... and she took the opportunity to get closer to him and now they're best friends without me... sometimes i feel she does it purposely... with all the boys... but why this one?? he's probably the only other true friend she had besides me and 2 more guys ... and the fact that she accepted him into her circle (granted he is a guy) was a cue that i did have some higher standing in her friends list... i don't know why she is treating me this way now... did she need me for my social skills?? i don't understand... i mean she never ever invited me over... she never let me into her life.. but she was deeply immersed into mine!
i feel so hurt.. I've invested all this time and emotion not to mention stress over her and this is what i get...
i know i know let it go who needs friends like her... but its really hurting me that she could abandon me like this (i am not sure if she even considered me as a best friend or just an ear she could chew on for the time being) ... I might be going back to college to attend a friends graduation... naturally i won't call and tell her i am in town... what should i do if i see her around or if she calls... i am really hurt and there is no point in talking to her ... it's useless... she's manipulative and she's wittier than i when it comes to face to face confrontations... i tend to think about what people say instead of my own thoughts hindering me from saying everything i have in my heart...
How should i deal with her? i am cutting her from my life but what do i do incase i see her? i really don't want anything to do with her and even considering deleting all her emails and blocking her from facebook... i want to forget her... but i don't want her to know she got to me...
It seems to me she relied on you at the start of the friendship,
for fun and confidence and social skills etc.
But when you went away, I think she had the get used
to the idea of standing on her own two feet, and
tried to fit in the environment. So, in fitting in,
and living in that community she has changed.
And it feels probarbly upsetting to you because
she no longer feels the need to depend on you.
She's gained her social skills and confidence,
and although you guys probarbly had a
good connection, and stuff, when you left -
she gained attention, and more friends.
She left that old life behind that you were part of.
I'm trying to put myself in her position,
and I think she fits in, she has friends
and quite frankly, in her eyes,
your just a set back...
She's changed, and you didnt.
and yes it hurts.
But at least you can turn around and see
that you're the bad person, you're
not the fake person. She is.
I think its time to move on.
You're a good person and you shouldt waste your time
on someone who doesnt deserve it.
She's hurt you and therefore doesnt deserve you.
And if she cared, she would of contacted or spoke to you etc
So that just shows how much she really cares about
your "friendship".
Just count yourself lucky, that she has the problems
and not you.
right this is kinda random "/ but i LOVE turkey twizzlers.i aint had them in a year now but i really am craving them at the moment.i live in the united kingdom,does anybody know a store that sells them?i really want to buy some [: please help me :D
Hey!
I live in the UK
and I love turkey twizzlers.
But Jamie Oliver banned them in school meals and then now they have been banned from being sold in supermarkets.
It sucks :(
But I am sure there are some other alternatives like chicken drumsticks - they are NOT the same, I know :( Turkey Twizzlers can never be replaced.
Does anybody know any songs that are about someone being fed up with their life and all their drama and just want to start over their life and turn over a leaf? Like just become a brand new person and forget all the shit?
genres that are Pop, Hip-Hop, Rock, Alternative (like simple plan, linkin park, hellogoodbye, fall out boy, nickleback, etc.) are recommended.
Please no country music!
thanks :)
the great escape - boys like girls
black mamba - the academy is
midnight bottle - colbia caillat
w.a.m.s - fall out boy
the getaway - Hilary Duff
kiss yourself good bye - all american rejects
breathe - paramore
calfornia -metro station
I'll try to think of some more soon :)
So my best friend Amy and I are not friends anymore because i caught her in a lie. I always felt like she was lying to me, but didn't say anything to her because i didn't want to seem like a bad friend. Here's the story.
Amy told my friend Sara something she did with a boy, and she begged Sara not to tell anyone. But when Sara was talking to me one day it slipped out of her mouth. Sara thought i knew because the 3 of us were best friends. It was a total lie, and Amy found out Sara told me and got mad at us. Amy said Sara twisted the story, but Sara is not the person to twist stories. And i guess i'm a bad friend for believing Sara.
I tried talking to Amy and she is just so rude about everything i say. I'm trying to be a good friend but i feel like im wasting my time trying to fix our friendship. What should i do?
Once a liar always a liar.
And If you Lie = you dont deserve to have friends
Therefore For Amy doesnt deserve to have you.
If she has only lied a couple of times -
thats okay because people make mistakes.
She may want to impress because she
highly respects you all
You got to think why she'd lie.
She might see you guys as a threat..
I dont know.Only she can answer why she lies
HOWEVER...
If she lies a lot, dont bother with her.
You can tell her you want to start over etc etc
But she wont change. If she's lied to you before,
what makes you think she wont the next time?
She probarbly enjoyed the attention she got
when she said she did stuff with a boy, so
she'll want more attention and lie more.
.
Amy got caught out, and even though SHE lied, she wants you to feel bad so it looks as if YOU'RE the bad guy.
Don't be friends with someone who is a liar and maniupulative.
You can be civil, but dont just waste your time.
Anyway, thats just my view on it.
I've had my fair share of liars in my time and they have never changed. So I changed. I stopped being gulliable and thinking things will work out when they won't.