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I'm Samantha, 17, and I love to help others. If I'm not sure about something, I will tell you, but I will tell you all that I do know. =D
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My boyfriend & I had sex on friday. Thing is, he didn't put on a condom at first for like maybe the first minute and then he put one on. We've had sex about 3 times before that this month, all with a condom. I have no way of getting the morning after pill because I'm 17 and all my friends that are 18 are all busy now. I know I shouldn't have waited till the last minute but I wasn't worried and now I am quite worried and panicking. Should I even bother taking it? You have to take two, one lets say I take now and the next pill 12 hours later... which would be after the timerange of the effectiveness of the pill anyway? What are the chances because I'm supposed to get my period at the end of this month?
Thanks so much.
I dont think you are. Me and my boyfriend do that all the time. And Im not pregnat. But you really never know. I dont think the morning after pill will work. Its to late. Just wait and see really. Next monday go get a test and hope for the best. But Im 99.9% sure your not, bc like I said I do that all the time. I hope everything is okay =D
ok so for my drama club at school i need to think of something catchy to put on the announcements next week telling people about the play.
heres all the info needed
CHDC presents The Faerie Tale
by gregory linkous
november 2 and 3 at 7:30
november 4 at 2:00
have any ideas on how to say any of that in a catchy way? grr i can't think of anything so thanks for any suggestions
How about something like "Hey students of ___ high school, are you ready for the play of the year?! Then ....." all the info about it! =D
ok soo i hate school and i dont know why! i want to go live with my aunt in california for a while just for a change..i know its pretty random. i dont think i could tell my mom that without making her feel bad. i dont want her to think im unhappy because of my family because im not. i just feel like i dont belong here. how do i like school better??
Find a subject you really like, and just work more at it. Or find a sport, and do that. If not, then just be like "mom, I dont fit in at school, is it possible for me to live with aunt ___ and try school out there."
I hope I helped
In my house we have a family dog, that everyone loves, including me. She sleeps with everyone, and everyone shares her bla blah blah. I want my own dog, like a small one. That i can say is just mine, and just for me. I certainly won't forget about my own family dog, because i love her more than Harry Potter, my problem is my mom doesn't want another dog. My dad said its fine, but nobody understands how bad i want this thing. It means alot to me, to have my own unique dog that i can calll my own, and not the famimlys. My brother and sister don't help much either. So, what should i do?
Well my parents are easy about getting dogs, we have 3. They had to put the chihuahua they got me for a xmas gift to sleep, and I got a new one. Now the old one didnt really like anyone haha, but the new chihuahua LOVES EVERYONE and shes my dog. My boyfriend got her for me. So shes mine, but yet she loves everyone. Because dogs are suppose to do that. So I agree with the kitten. If you dont like cats, then yes go for a puppy, but it will like everyone and you want it too, bc your mom/dad have to take care of it while your at school and spending the night with friends ect. But youll know shes/he is yours. Just spend more time with it then anyone else. And tell people its yours.
To get your mom to okay it. Tell her youll take care of it when your home. You'll pay for half of it. Tell her the only time shell have to care for it is when your at school and at sports. Tell her youll teach it not to pee in the house and everything else a dog should know not to do. Tell her youll take very good care of it.
I hope I helped..
&& btw chihuahua's LOOOVE their family, and anyone else who is always around it from when you bring it home. Anyone else they dont like much when they get older, about 4 months, thats when they know who is their family. But I would say get a chihuahua, they are so cute and if you get a girl, they were cloths very nice! haha.. Yorkies are adorable also. My sister has one. He is sooo cute!!! And you can put bows in their hair. && he is the nicest dog ever!! To anyone! but he was never around other dogs as a puppy, so he doesnt like dogs. But Im sure yours would be fine since youll get it as a puppy(hopefully)=D
I am naturally thin. I'm not like 100 pounds or anything because I'm tall, but thin. People say my legs and arms and body are too straight, too thin, but that's just the way I'm built: very straight frame, not a lot of difference in calve and thigh widths. My doctor says I have a perfectly healthy weight, but I am very much bothered by friends telling me that I am too skinny or people telling me I am anorexic (this is ridiculous because you can't see any ribs or my spine.) I need a way to politely tell people that I am perfectly healthy, thank you, without seeming like I'm in denial and convince them that I am too thin. Thanks in advance for any help.
just what you said to us. im perfectly healthy, thank you. if you want something else. be like would you want to come with me next time i go to the doctor and ask him what he thinks?
I understand it hurts to have people say that to you. but they are probably mad that they arent skinny. you shouldnt care what people think bc you know your not anorexic, and know your healthy!!
if its "fat" people saying it to you, just laugh at them. really. god made you the way you are, and you cant change that. if he wanted you to be built some other way, he would have. i hope i helped
I need to get away from my mom. I cant stand living with her anymore. Its like we use to get along so well.. but now, i just cant stand being around her. We fight ALL the time. About the stupidest things.. She's going away this weekend and im gonna be free for 3 days, but i still have to live with her this week. I just wanna have like a vacation from her because she's just ughh. So unbelievably non understanding.. any advice on how i can deal with this?
Not all parents love their children, thats why so many get abussed. But anyways. Try to stay busy, with sports, homework, friends.. Find something you enjoy, and do it. Get a job. Just find something to keeo busy so its less time with her. I hope things get better
Ok, so this year on our cheerleading squad isn't going as well as we planned. we have had 2 girls quit on us already. today i just found out another one quit for no reason. i have NO idea why she quit!! well our first competiton is this sunday and we need help FAST. Does anyone know any stunts we could do WITHOUT a backspotter that would look cool?? please help!! thanks so much!!!!!
Unless you guys are really good at stunting, there really isnt one you can do without one. But if you guys are really good at it. You can do an elevater up to shoulder height. Not all the way, its so far. And instead of a basket toss, you can just reach up with the one hand and have her jump down like that to get out of it. Uhmm. Should stands need three people, but then the back spotter could leave after she gets up. And have the other girl (that would help gold her if you were both holding her) be the back spot. Now this is only if you guys are really good at it. If you guys are "okay" please dont even try it. Maybe practice it. But im sure you guys wont be ready bc you only have 5 days of practice to get use to all the speed and the rush you guys will feel at the competion.
Here is something that looks pretty simple.
http://www.cheertechnique.co.uk/images/coach_stunt.jpg
Now how the girl in the middle is hold both, maybe have the other girl that would be doing the tigh stand be back spot since there would be an extra.
Something that looks hard, but Im sure isnt.
http://www.stuorg.iastate.edu/ywca/photos/wpe23.jpg
instead of hold in the girl up, have her do a split have her feet on each girls shoulder. My team never tryed this. But Im thinking you wont need a back person. Maybe to get her up, but then leave.
http://www.securesearch.org/sports_video/cheerleading/images/cheerpics7.gif
Like that, but those two girls are in the air, I know it. But have them standing on the Ground.
I hope I helped..
Good luck & be safe! =D
Hey im 16 and my boyfriend is 17 and tomorrow is our 8 month, what would be something really cute to give him? I have no idea, and i really dont have time to go anywhere i was thinking of doing something with pictures of us, but i dont know? anyone have some cute yet simple ideas?
If you are good at computers and such. Get a picture of you two up, and make it have a really pretty background, Like I dont mean color, but something with a sunset, or whatever, and then out a poem on the side. My boyfriend did that for me, and it was supper cute. But he is very good with computers, and I dont know if you are. If you are, try that!
If not, then make him a heart shaped cookie that says happy 8 months, or buy one and just put the writing on it. Uhmm.. Make him a "remeber when" type thing.. Like Remember when we first kissed? Then put the date or whatever, If you know. (I know mine and my boyfriends. Thats why I said That) or Remember when we had our first date. And so on. Try getting him a chain necklace. Walmart has them for around 30$. I cant really think of anything else right now haha. But if you want some more ideas, just messaged me and Im sure Ill have more tomorrow..
Today my boyfriend and I had sex (with protection) we went on for about an hour, maybe an hour and a half. Like really into it and stuff. i not trying to be very detailed i just want to get as much feedback as possible in return. After we were done my stomach started giving me this really weird pain that lasted like an hour, is that normal after sex?
Thanks soo much!
Your abs probably got a work out. Mine hurt after I have sex. But if its not your abs, then that site the person below me gave you should have your answer..
ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
I think your crush does like you, but doesnt want to hurt his friend. Tell his friend that you don't like him but your crush. There is no reason for your crush to worry about what his friend thinks.
You should totally go to the game!! Steal his attention!! Wear something super cute, but warm(if its going to be cold) Flirt like CRAZY, and ask him to hang out after! I hope I helped && have fun!!
A few weeks ago I saw a girl with a pretty big bag/purse that had navy and white horizontal stripes on it. It looked worn (like it was supposed to be that). I'm pretty sure it was a dooney and bourke bag, but I am not totally sure.
I can not find it anywhere online though. Does anyone know where I can find this bag or another like it?
Im almost 100% sure I know what kind of purse your talking about. My friend has one. She gets all her purses from New York. It is a Dooney and Bourke. Well hers is. It reminds me of a sailor purse type deal. I looked and couldnt find a picture of anything. But try going to a mall where they sale designer purses. Or take a trip to New York City if your not that far away. I live in Ohio, she goes every season pretty much haha. But Im sorry I coudnt find a picture. && she uses it soon again i will take a picture of it and add it in with this..
can people give examples of hooks in their essays? any essay? preferably not a statistic? i dont really know to to make an attention-grabbing statement.
Start with a fact. I wrote a eassy about my relationship with my boyfriend. It started.
"did you know that only 25% of people marry their highschool sweetheart"
Then have your 3-whatever reasons why you chose to write about what your writing about..
Or if your writing it on a book, get a qoute from the book and use it as that. Get a qoute that will follow with your 3-whatever reasons why you liked/disliked the book, or really whatever your writing about.
hi, my friend and i signed up to decorate a door way [like say the door is closed at a school and your looking at it straight on theres a little bit of wall on each side.] it's for kids up to 12, so we decided to be barbie dolls. how can we decorate the door way? i've been thinking for awhile and can't think of anything. also ideas for a costume? i was thinking one of us could wear a pink polo with a white skirt and one of us a pink tank witha ajean skirt and we could write barbie on the shirts in that cursive writing. any ideas a re mucho appreciated!!
thanks :D
try a beach barbie theme. Have the wall done with palm trees, and so on. Have your friend lay down on a BIG piece of paper, and trace them. Then just color it in to make it look like a person, make two of them. Barbie & Ken!.. If you and your friend arent that good of drawing/coloring to make it look like a person, ask your art teacher at your school to help!!!
I miss my boyfriend all the time. I always want to call him, see him, talk to him, and have him call me. I get really upset when I have to go hours with talking to him or seeing him. It is starting to ruin our relationship and make him take me for granted. How do I fix this and not want to call him or see him as much and put myself back in control and have him miss me and want to see me and talk to me again? Thanks!
Keep yourself busy with friends, sports, clubs, studying, or hanging out at the mall! =D
okay my boyfriend's party is coming up soon. hes my second bf, and i have no experience going to partys with a boyfriend. since its his party, its more pressure. I CAN NOT DANCE FOR MY LIFE. dancing tips. remember that i cant dance. at all. what do i do. its coming up soon.
Ask a friend who can. I know I couldnt dance to save my life. But now I have some good things I can that most people cant.. But ask a friend to show how to do SIMPLE things, Like grinding. And another thing is, all you really have to do is move your body, move it around when your really close to him to make it feel like you know what your doing, to him. I hope I helped!!=D
my bf wants to have phone sexxxxxx but i really dont know what you do for that?
I never had phone sex. But from watching tv(lol) Im pretty sure all it is, is you fingering yourself, while he touches himself. You feel your boobs, you make sounds, he makes sounds, tell you where to touch yourself and so on. Haha that was funny to explain. I hope I helped & Im sorry if I am wrong, I dont think I am tho! =D
okay, so me and my boyfriend are kind of on the rocks right now. were in a long distance relationship and it was going fine until recently. im 16 and hes 18. then me and my ex are like best friends and hes going to be in town next month for the cowboys vs. packers game and he wants me to go w/ him. were both in different relationships now nad happy but i dunno whats going to happen when we get together. then there is this guy i know at my school that has just started talking to me recently, but seems to really like me. so heres the problem. boys fall for me too easily. like im not being arrogant or anything, its totally true. my ex told me that once you get to know me its practically impossible not to fall for me. im worried that when he comes home something might happen or that this guy at my school might fall for me as well. and i dont know what to do because of my situation with my boyfriend at the moment. im in love with him but sometimes i dont know if our long distance relationship can really work out. any guidance? thanks so much!
aww hunny.. Im in the same situation with my boyfriend.. Im 16 and he is 18 and is at college which is 2 1/2 hours away from where we live. If you love him, you really have to trust not only him, but yourself. I have a lot of guys I find cute, funny ect.
But then I think, can they really give me the relationship I want? My boyfriend now is truely the best and I know in my heart no one can compare to him.
Ask yourself that question. Can those two people give you a relationship like the one your in, or better? If yes, then try taking a break from your boyfriend. Whatever you do, dont cheat. That to me is the worst thing anyone could ever do. I would rather be dumped, then cheated on. And Im sure your bf feels the same.
Also think about your ex's gf. Im sure she doesnt wanted to be cheated on. You cant do that to someone you dont know.
I hope I helped && I hope everything works out!! =D
what does trippin balls mean?
over reacting..
like..
"man your trippin balls"
is just the same as saying
"man your over reacting"
=D
For school i have to survey about 50 different people( doesnt matter if i know them or not) I have to find out if they disagree or agree with a school policy and why( tardies,absences,grafiti,lockers,ect.)
my school also start with the backpack rule. My school is 3 story highs and I have a class on the thrid floor, down to the first, back to the second and so on. It is very hard to be able to carry all my things class to class, and my teachers said we cant leave our things for that class in class bc they wont take the blame if it gets stolen.
Another rule my school has I dont agree with is holding hands. I mean, its holding hands. I agree that the people that make out in the hall are just rude and are immature, but the holding hands things is a little far.
My school has inforced the smoking things also. ILOVE it. The bathrooms dont smell bad anymore. The rule is if there is smoke coming from the door your behind in the bathroom, you get writen up, fined 500$ and get kicked out for 5 days. I think this is a wonderful rule. Its my favv!! =D
I kinda want to be a cheerleder. im not really sure but i really would like to do a fun sport like that. i do gymnastics but i want to do something school related. the thing is im not good at cheerleading. i tried last year and didnt make it and im def. not the type of popular girl who would try. my biggest problem is that i cant memorize things easily. having this problem honestly should i try or not? its not a life dream or anything just something i thought might be fun to try. so if i wont be good at it and make it i dont want to put the time into it and practice and get my hopes up to crash and burn. try-outs arent until april or sumthing obviously so its not like really soon or anything. or maybe pom-poms. i would def. like to be a pom-pom girl. is it easier or harder? i think i would actually prefer that then cheerleading. is anyone a pom-pom girl? and still would not being able to quickly memorize routines a problem? thanks so much and i will rate all helpful advice! :D
Im a cheerleader and its tons of fun. Pom pom looks like it would be fun also, but my school doesnt have it so I never really got to see it ex. at half time when other schools girls would dance. Im not a preppy girl and most ppl still dont know Im a cheerleader bc I dont act like it.
If you cant memorize things well, Im sure some girls will help you, or even the coaches. You didnt say how old you were, but a girl this year, shes a senior, never did cheerleading, and made it. Her jumps are good, but she cant memorize. So start working on jump, now. Here are some thing you can do to make your jumps higher and get your legs far apart(im bad at explainthing this, but I hope you get what Im trying to say)
Sit on the floor with your legs apart. Place your hands infront of you, close to your vargina. Lift one leg off the ground and move them in a circular motion backwards. Try 5 at first(if they are easy to you bc you are a gymnasts like me, then do more untill it hurts.) then do the other leg the same number of times. Do this twice a day. And do 20 jumps of the same jump a day.
Another thing is for your toetouches, to make your legs remember to snap together at the end. Just stand striaght, and do a little jump, and make your legs spread a little, then snap them together before hitting the ground. That sounds like it wont help, but it really will. Bc most ppl when they jump dont snap their legs together.
If there is anything else you want to know, or want some more tips, just let me know and Ill tell you more! =D
it would never hurt. Bc then you would wonder what would of happened if you did make it. Just do what I said with the jump, but Im sure you jumps are already good bc of gymnastics. Ask a friend who is a cheerleader to help you when try outs come. Dont be scared, thats the worst thing to do. Remeber to do facials, but dont try to stand out by doing a ton of flips, bc then to the coaches it will seem that you are showing off. Wait untill the actual try outs to do your flips, not the week of learning things!! =D