Gender: Female
Location: United Kingdom
Occupation: Student
Age: 21
Member Since: February 22, 2004
Answers: 152
Last Update: November 20, 2004
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I was the one who wrote "First Kiss Gone Wrong" I have had time to think about it and I really don't want to have a boyfriend right now. *Peter* is really nice but I just don't really want to be with him anymore. If I break up with him everyone at school will say, "I told you so!" Because they all made bets on how long we would last the first day we were together. I don't want to have to be the one to break up with him but I will if I get really unhappy. HOw can I 'make' him break up with me? (link)
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If you don't want to be in this relationship, BREAK IT OFF. The longer you leave it, the worse it will get. You can't 'make' him break up with you - he might not think anything is wrong, and doing stuff to make him like you less will get you in even deeper problems. You need to talk it over with him, and tell him how you feel. Honesty is the best policy.
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Currently, I have been single for one month, but I still love that guy. We broke up becuase he said he needed time. But to all that there is this other girl with two kid and she is only 18 years old. She work with him and on New Years, I went to Cali for vacations, when I come back I heard that he picked her up becuase they are friends. I know he cares and loves me too but I feel so betrayed. What should I do?
Sincerly, Beautiful in Love (link)
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I was in your situation. I loved a guy and he was an asshole. My advice: Try to move on. This guy sounds like a jerk, and you deserve better than that.
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My best friend is trying to hook me up to his girlfriend's step-sister, and tells me she likes me but also isn't sure wether or not she wants to go out with me. We've met twice already, and we talk for hours on the phone, but we seldom get any private time so that i can really get to know her and to show myself to her. How can i convince her to give me a chance in this situation without weirding her out or making her angry? (link)
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Suggest a time where you can hang out - maybe ask her if she wants to go for a walk, wants to see a movie with you or just wants to hang out for a bit. You really need to get to know each other, and you seem to be on the right track since you realise that. If she gets weirded out or angry, then she isn't the right one for you, and she didn't deserve you in the first place. Good luck :)
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ive just started dating this guy. he says he loves me and i feel i love him. im not one to throw the word love around. ive only used it twise in my life.lately we've been thinking about sex. how long is appropriate to wait? (link)
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Well, you should definately be sure that you feel totally comfortable with the idea of sex, and that you really do like each other. NEVER feel pressurised into having sex if you aren't ready for it. It shouldn't have to be planned like "Oh, next Thursday we should have sex!". When the moment's right, you'll know it, and if you love each other, it'll be perfect. Good luck :)
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I made really bad choices for my A levels- I took English Lit, History, Welsh and Chemistry. The first two are fine, Chemistry is really difficult and I can't stand Welsh anymore because the teacher is so horrible.
She is always really negative about everything I do which makes it really hard to motivate myself enough to hand stuff in on time. She says that I have an attitude problem and I suppose than in some ways I do- but she isn't helping. I have to pretend to be cheerful in her lessons otherwise it would ruin the atmosphere for the other members of the class.
She sent a letter home to my parents, they got it this morning so I don't know what's in it. I had to go off to school wondering what was in it.
Today we were supposed to go and watch a welsh TV program being filmed - not important for the course but just a bit of fun. I couldn't face the thought of being with her for 11 hours- from 1:30 pm to 12;30 am ( yep on a school night). I decided not to go. I told her that I had rehearsals because I couldn't say that I wasn't going because I hate her. She told me that I'm selfish, rude, lazy and underacheiving.
I had to go and talk to my form tutor and year head, my tutor was sympathetic but my head of year basically said that shit happens, it's my fault that we don't get on and that I just have to deal with it.
Anyone got any ideas on how to resolve this? (link)
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I'm taking my A levels right now, and in fact, taking English Lit. My teacher for English lit is EXACTLY how you described this teacher. She's negative about people, and doesn't listen to opinion. But the way i see it, by doing the work and giving my opinion anyway, I'm proving that I can do it despite her. She knows I don't agree with her, don't like her, don't want her as a teacher, but when I got my AS results back and I got one of the top marks in my class I relished in the thought of shoving it in her face and saying "SHOVE YOUR COMMENTS UP YOUR..." I really do sympathise with you, but try not to rise to it. When she says you're selfish, rude, lazy and underachieving, prove her wrong. Prove that you have a better amount of self-control than she does and you don't need to resolve to petty comments like that. I really hope this woman gets off your back, because there's nothing worse than a teacher who insults more than she teaches ;) And if push comes to shove, you can always drop the course. Good luck :)
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I've been trying lately to wear nicer clothes to work; more suits and ties and things of that sort. I think it helps me out in meetings. But I worry about what others may think and wonder if I come across as too ambitious or uppity for the job I'm in, which is a scrub helper fresh out of college. Can suits hurt a career or just help it? (link)
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Hey, suits are fantastic at making a good impression in the workplace, but only if you're comfortable wearing them. There's nothing worse than going to work and feeling akward because you don't feel right. A smart shirt and trousers can do the trick too, and confidence in your job can really impress employers.
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Ok, here it goes....
There is this kid, I dont know his name, and I know barely anythign about him, but to me he seems like a really nice person on how he acts with other people, and he is realllly cute, and they just switched our classes around because its half of the year,a nd he ended up in my class!! And Im so happy, but I mean I dont know him, and I dont think he will talk to me... I just dont know what to expect from him...
I just felt like letting it all out...
Have any comments? (link)
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Hey, this is 2004 here! Why do you have to wait for him to make the first move? Just say hi to him, strike up a conversation, find some common ground. Trust me, boys aren't as scary as they seem :)
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At school, there is always someone who makes fun of me.. Because of how I dress and how I act, and just because I like a certains tyle of music.
This kid always says you're a freak, and whyd o you ahve black nails, and one kid said that I should dress like this, because its cool, not hwo I dress, and I was liek whys hould it matter how I dress... sheesh, and he just kept saying it and syaing it.. and I dont have a question, Im sorry.. unless you guys wanna know, i cana dd some things.. Just im me or e-mail me! (link)
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Hey,
I know what it's like to be made fun of at school, and it's horrible. In fact, i think there are very few people who go through their school years without having someone say something nasty to them at some point. But the thing is, if what you wear makes you feel good, if what you listen to is what you like, it's no one elses business but yours. All the more power to you for being an individual, and doing what you truly like rather than being a mindless zombie that just conforms to everyone else.
The kid that you described sounds immature and ignorant, but trust me, kids can (and usually are) be really, really cruel. Bullies are cowards. Don't let them make you feel bad, because being you is really important, stand up for yourself and keep doing what you're doing, because it sounds like you're already ahead of everyone else :)
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at my school dance i was dancing with this guy named sean he is really nice then we started to freak dance. i knw that is worng but i think he likes me also does he? (link)
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Hey,
I think the only way you'll truly know if Sean likes you or not is to confront him and ask him. Just take him to one side and ask him, what do you have to lose? If he feels the same, great! if he doesn't, then he didn't deserve you in the first place! Good luck :)
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I have this friend. Well, he's not exactly my friend, but we hang out at school and stuff. Awhile back, I used to like him and I told some people. One day, someone told him. Then he started avoiding me. Now he's talking to me, like all the time. He always wants my advice on something and always sticks up for me. Does anyone know why he's acting like this?
Thanks!
Confused (link)
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Hey,
This guy sounds like he's acting in the way you've described because he likes you. You said someone told him that you liked him, and maybe he was too shy to tell you that he liked you back. I think you should talk to him about it, so at least you both know how each other feels and everything is out in the open. Good luck :)
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