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I like dancing, music, Jake Gyllenhaal, t-shirts, comedy, summer nights, funny movies, and photography.
I hate perfectionists, although I can be one, people who edit their pictures with peace signs and dumb quotes, and flies.

I like giving advice. I don't know if I'm any good at it. Nobody has told me either way.
Ask me whatever, I'll do what I can to help you out.

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Ugghh. I usually like older guys. But omg. There's this freshman! He is absolutely delicious. Hahahha. I'm a JUNIOR. He acts mature, could possibly pass as a sophomore :-D.... at least he's my height! We flirt a lot and I get BUTTERFLIES for a FRESHMAN. He tells my bestfriend how he likes me. Oh, FYI not trying to be "rude" but, we're both pretty "popular" and EVERYONE would know if we went out. Omgoodness. Do you think its wrong or weird or what? Some friends say "age is just a number!" Some roll their eyes. Some say "No! You need a read man!" I don't know what my mom would say! I don't want people to think I'm a pedophile!! Help!! Thanks!!! :-D

Nah it's not weird. Right now it just seems that way, but it's perfectly fine.

xxtiffany

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im planning to take glutathione as a suppleament is that safe to take? HOW MANY DOSAGE I Have to take for my skin to become whiter?

I think its best to talk to your doctor.
He/She will know what is best for you.

xxtiffany

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Hello all! I'm actually an Advicentator (Nova) but I figured I'd get your opinions on this. Recently Stephenville Texas was in the news. Folks there claiming to have witnessed a UFO. Well, we went there last week and we are planning a trip next weekend. My question is, what questions would you ask the local townsfolk? I am going with an unbiased opinion on the subject. I'll post what results I've got (if any) on my message board sometime.
Just in case you missed it, here's Wikipedia's information on Stephenville:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stephenville,_Texas

Thanks!

Ask them what makes their finding different from other UFO reports from the past.
xxtiffany

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I have a crush on this guy ( lets call him bobert) And Im pretty sure he likes me back but we neva talk to eacother. Everytime I try to go to him i get scared and freeze up. Should I let my friend tell him I like him or what? I need advice! I always rate and give comments! Thankz!
-smileygirl513

Start by talking to him. It would be a little creepy to walk up to a person you've never spoken to and confess your love for him.
You can have your friend hint that you like him, but it would mean more coming from you. Start a friendship with this guy first, and that'll make things a little easier.

xxtiffany

EDIT:
Ask a friend to bring up your name in conversation with him. Tell her to ask what he thinks about you, stuff like that. Hope that makes sense. Good luck!

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You know how every year the senior class gives a gift to their high school to leave a legacy (a bench, statue etc)? What are some of the things classes have left to your school?

we had this huge rock at our school that all the seniors painted with their names
or depending on how strict your school is, you can make a "senior" hallway and sign your names on the wall.

xxtiffany

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is it good to have sex during period time?

Some guys get grossed out
but um...it makes a good lube? Its really up to you two if you both feel comfortable doing it

xxtiffany

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There's this guy who comes to my house everyday. Not for me, he hangs out with my big brother from time to time.
Anyways, he has never spoken to me until I got a message from him on my myspace page. It says, "Hey princess. my name is so and so (not mentionin' his name) I'm this and that (describing himself) I would like to get to know you or call you sometime."
I wrote back sayin, "boi, you see me everyday".
Not sure if that was smoothe, but he seems like a sweet person.
He does give me long stairs or whatever. I would date him but he smokes and drink and stuff like that, which i can't stand.
Do you think that he even likes me? And/Or Should I try talking to him?

What have you got to lose if you talk to him?
You don't have to tell him your life story, you can just say hi to start things off.
Good luck

xxtiffany

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who/what is god?

he who created the universe?

is "he" an unseen entity? bc why do i picture in my head like he looks like a man with long white hair and a long, flowing beard in white robes like zeus except not. hes not a man who created the universe but ppl put this image up of him?

God is whatever you want "it" to be.
God isnt necessarily a man, god could be a woman.
God is whoever you want him to be.
I know, that sounds corny, but nobody has seen God, so how do they know? Some religions might have their own images of what their god looks like, but I think God is whatever you imagine it to be
hope this helps.

xxtiffany

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what is comething i can give my girlfriend for valentines day that isnt flowers? she doesnt like flowers. lol. i wanted to send them to her apartment at school so i was thinking maybe a teddy bear & candy or something? any ideas?

Thats a sweet idea :)
Find out her favorite candy and send it along with a teddy bear. You can also write her a card, or make a CD of your favorite songs.

xxtiffany

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i need to ask questions.. has anyone attended the university of the sciences in philadelphia?

I have not, but if it helps, here are some websites.
http://www.usp.edu/
http://apply.usip.edu/apply/secure/adm_personalize.asp
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/University_of_the_Sciences_in_Philadelphia
http://colleges.usnews.rankingsandreviews.com/usnews/edu/college/directory/brief/drglance_3353_brief.php
Hope this helps.

xxtiffany

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ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and im 17, i like being fingered but he never wants to touch me down there and when i ask him like whats wrong hes just like, jessica it temps me to have sex with u. I think hes lying.. do u know whats wrong with him, i feel like i do everything for him and he never touches me

He might just be uncomfortable.
You can ask him to be honest with you, that you won't leave him if he doesn't feel ready to finger you. Don't pressure him into doing something he's not ready to do.

xxtiffany

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i mean if i google something about sex i think it will show up on the computer bill.will it show up on the computer bill

I don't think it will.
You can edit your history settings by going to the top of the window, click 'tools', then 'options', then privacy'.
I hope this helps.

xxtiffany

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hello this is jack, i;am 31 yrs old , i,am married , iwld like to know how good is it to mansturbate, are there any side effects of mansturbation, please advise how frequently can one mansturbate.,,,,,,,,.....

Hey thanks for the question.
It is perfectly fine to masturbate, there arent any side affects. However, if you are married, I don't see why youd need to masturbate, case, well, you know. But thats your personal business.
xxtiffany

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if i google it wont it show up on the computer bill or something

Haha, umm sorry I don't understand what you are asking?
If you rephrase it, I'll try to help you.
Or for computer help, ask DangerNerd:
http://www.advicenators.com/column.php?u=DangerNerd
xxtiffany

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ok i think an orgasm is when u feel really good and sperm comes out.but about how long does that good feeling last

It only lasts for a little while, a few seconds.
You can always google these things too. haha
xxtiffany

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15/f

alright so me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex on nov30 and i was suppose to get my period dec4 and i didnt.. and so i took a pregnancy test on new years day and it came out positive.. and then on jan4 i got my period and i had it for 6 days so i know it was my period and so my boyfriend told me to take another one today and i did and it said negative.. so how is that possible do you think the first one i took was just wrong? or do you think i really was pregnant and it just died? but i dont drink or smoke so i dont know how it would die? im just so confused. help? any advice is great

I think you are an idiot for having unprotected sex.
You should know that the consequences are pregnancy and STDs.
Also, you can get your period in the earliest months of pregnancy, i believe.
You screwed up, you need to go to a doctor or talk to your mom, or another adult you trust.
good luck
xxtiffany

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14/f that is a virgin

if your a vigin and a female does masterbating pop your cherry or take your virginity

Popping your cherry and taking your virginity are two different things.
When you "pop your cherry" it is really your hymen breaking. You can break your hymen simply by riding a bike or using tampons.
And you don't lose your virginity until you've had sex. (Penis into vagina)

Hope this helps. If you need more help let me know.

xxtiffany

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I found out my mom was snooping into my life about two weeks ago. She had an Xanga of mine bookmarked and in it I wrote as if it were a private diary .. which I thought was on a private setting in fact.

There was a lot of very bad stuff in there and when I realized she was snooping I deleted it and made a new one. Well, she managed to find the new one too! Once again, its bookmarked as well as my Facebook. My diary has since gone missing as well. She has not told me about reading any of this but I know its her because its on her personal laptop.

What should I do?
My privacy is gone and I feel violated by my
own mother. She gets very offended if I don't tell
her everything in my life anymore, which I hate to do because she makes everything too much of a big deal.


... btw, I actually get punished if I don't tell her everything going on such as who the guy I like is. Its ridiculous.

I would never post a diary online. No matter how "private" it is, someone can access it.
You should talk to your mom about your privacy. Ask her politely to give you some freedoms.
xxtiffany

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Hello, all.
A few years ago I tried contacts, but had a hard time getting them out.

Now, three years later, I feel like I want to try them again, but I feel kinda iffy because this year I've gotten A LOT of compliments on how I look (over the summer I resolved to swallow my shyness and be outgoing so I could show people who I really am instead of hiding it away).

I know if I get contacts, I'm going to look weird, because people aren't used to me without glasses. Also, my crush has seemed to be showing more interest in me (I've been hanging out with him more lately, a rarity this school year because of our busy schedules...I've been so happy!)

I've asked some friends whether or not I should get contacts, and some of them say I look adorable in my glasses. Basically I'm afraid of losing my compliments and possibly my friend's increased interest in me if I get contacts...so any advice would be WONDERFUL!

Thanks so much, and sorry it's so long!

If you feel comfortable in glasses, there is no need to wear contacts!
You can always get contacts, but wear your glasses when you don't feel like wearing the contacts.
As long as you are comfortable, it shouldnt matter which you get!

xxtiffany

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i am a cutter, i think. i recentley started getting a paper clip to my arm, and...cutting it i guess. for some reason i don't really feel the pain, only afterward when i move my arm around. i dont no how to hide it, this is so not me. i am always this happy go lucky girl. im popular and have tons of friends, so i just don't no what to do. i always wear spaggetti straps and stuff, but now i can't. i just don't no what to do, i don't no how to stop. i want to tell my friend, but how do i no she's not going to tell anyone? and i dont even no how to tell her. so, how do i tell my friend, and what do i do? please help me...

Tell someone NOW!!
You really should talk to a counselor or a parent, but a friend is at least a start.
Say, "(FRIENDS NAME), I really need your help. I think I have a serious problem." Then explain to her what is going on. She might think you are just doing it for attention, because, no offense, I don't live your life and know all of your personal problems, but it sounds like you might just be doing it for attention. Get help, soon.

xxtiffany

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