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ok so i had a bf for almost 4 months....n hes my brothers best friend, so i will eventually see n talk to him this summer. we havent talked in about 2 months so i guess u can say this is our little break...do u think there is a chance that we will go out again once we start talking...has anybody had a bf n not talked to him for a while then go back out?...
thanks in advance!!!! (link)
heyy .. ask your brother for his number or screen name because you too need to start talking because if you leave it like this until summer then there is no chance you will get back together but if you start talking to him now there is a slim to 50% chance you will go out with him and just remember that there is a chance that he found someone new to go out with and also remember there are other boys out there so dont set your heart on just one

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Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do? (link)
heyy .. okay first of all he isnt takening her away from you beacuse you never owned her and it seems to me thats your a tiny but jealous so my advice to you is not to worry about it she is going to have more friends then just you sorry if thats not what you wanted to hear and remember there are other people out there

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i need some help here..well okay i love my boyfriend to death and we`ve been dating for a little over 7 months. and we just started doing things sexually because i dont know before i didnt feel comfortable but now it's like everytime we are together he wants to do more than just hang out it is always revolved around "doing stuff" and that isnt what i like. Why is he doing this? Is it just a guy thing or what? and should i talk to him about it because when i dont give him any i feel like he`s mad at me like until i get to see him again. even tho he says he`s not. And i`m sorry this is so long, thanks for everyone who reads this, please help me! (link)
heyy .. uhh yea its just a stupid guy thing but if you dont like what he is doing you def need to talk to him about it or else he will continue doing stuff that you dont like

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Can someone help me find another way to say "“ceased to replenish it's supply.” thanx =) (link)
heyy .. im not really sure of what you are asking me if possible drop one in my inbox explaing what your asking me in a differnt way and i will be happy to asnwer



ok there is this boy at skool he really likes me but I dont like him aand he gives me alot of nice things but I dont like him and I dont want to tell him so what should I do and should I give him back his things or keep them???? Please help QUICKLY (link)
heyy .. first of all you need to tell him yourself in person that you dont like him because if you dont he might think that you really do and dont ask one of your friends to do it because he might not beliveve them you need to do it and for the things he gave you you need to give them back because if you dont then he will think that your relationship is more then a friendship

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ive been sad for a while and i just want to be happy again but i dont know how? isnt that sad to hear. i dont know why i am sad and i cant seem to figure it out. it might be that i relized everything i want gets messed up soo therefore i never get what i want. my friends try to help me out and it seems to work but once i leave them im sad again. Also i have fun times its not like im always sad its just after i have fun i get more sad then i was before. has anyone felt this way....and do u have any advice to help me feel like my old self?
thank you so much to those whose have advice for me!
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heyy .. im not really sure what your going through all i know ist hat it is some type of depression you should see a doctor thats the only advice i cann give you

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I'm a dancer and covered many different types of dancing and I'm only just getting in to hip hop dancing. I'm repeating moves so I need some new moves.
Are there any movies, music videos or places online where I could get ideas for new moves?
I rate high and especially to people with more than one suggestion.
(and when I said get IDEAS I mean IDEAS I don't copy moves, I reinvent them)

Don't say these music videos:
Usher - Caught Up
Ciara - Oh
Ciara - 1, 2 Step
Ciara - Goodies

Don't say these movies:
You Got Served
Honey (link)
heyy .. umm save the last dance has some cutee dance steps in it and go to http://www.aol.com and click music and then type in an artists name and then there are music videos there or you could try google for something or maybe even go to a dance recital because i do hiphop and there are hiphop preformers there that you could invent new steps out of and this might sound corny but get darens dance grooves i got some really cool new steps from there

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Does anyone know of any movies with dancing in them?
Apart from musicals, I think I've watched enough musicals to last me a life time.

It doesn't matter what type of dancing it is I just need dancing in it.
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heyy .. dirty dancing or dirty dancing havanna nights or save the last dance

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Okay so, I babysit everyday for 2 hours which some people have told me will burn alot of calories then as soon as I get home I do 2 hours/an hour and a half of dancing then if I have time I do 30 minutes of skipping (rope jumping)
I'm not doing it to lose weight it's just to stay in shape and keep me busy since I have nothing better to do.
Loads of people have told me I'm over excersizing and I know for a fact it's dangerous to over excersize.

Am I over excersizing? (link)
heyy .. yea you are over excerizing you have to stop all you should be doing is the babysitting and another of of the things you do now for like and hour or an hour and a half and if you wanna stay in shape join something like cheering or dance get active

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i told my friend i fancy this boy and now she flirts with him all the time. but only scince i told her i did fancy him. shes having a party and is inviting him and me and says she going to set her best friend up with him and then says whats wrong like she doesn't know. i really hate her when she is like this please help me... (link)
heyy .. you just have to sit her down and talk to her and tell her that you know she is just trying to piss you off and tell her to please stop with this shitt and if you want the boy then you have to tell him that you like him

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ok sry for the length but i need help...

i have this ex-boyfriend that i like alot still i dont know why..we've broke up a million times but i can seem to get over him..we my friends are telling me we should go back out because they say hes changed and stuff but my problem is my best friend doesnt want me going back out with him..he said if i go back out with him then he'll never talk to me ever again...and i dont know what to do help plz (link)
heyy .. frist ask your friend why he wont talk to you if ou go out with him and then try to solve that whole little problem with your friend if it is something that needs solving but if its something like your friend doesnt like the boy you wanna go out with then its so not your problem so just tell him to get over it your friend cant tell you who to go out with and you need to tell him that and if hes a good friend he will understand

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Ok so theres this boy in my class and he always make fun of me saying something about how my chest is small or w/e, i wouldnt care but he ytell it to all his friend that are boy , there are 20 ppl in my class soo that not alot if yo think about it, its really embarssing and even if I say sotp he doesnt!! Please I feel relaly uncomforatble. (link)
heyy .. dont worry about it tell evryone you dont care what they say it doesnt btoher you i know howit feel im small chested also and thats what i do and its works great

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What are some really great songs that are like chill out songs... by like coldplay, dashboard confessional, postal service or any other band along those lines. Please give me specific songs. Thanks!!! (link)
heyy .. try black eyed peas or the mystery tramps

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Ok i get discharge and some times there are theses little colored threads, does anyone know what it is, someone told me once its beacuse i wear colored underwaer is thta true??

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heyy ... yeaa its the colors form your underwear or soemtimes even your pants

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What is some really good emo music? Please name specific songs not just bands. Anything thats calm and good to just chill out to is great. thanks!
~Kelsey (link)
heyy .. you could try " dont phunk with my heart " my friend is emo and she listens to that and she likes it


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hi i've been searching far and wide looking for downloadable mp3's from the band new order. i've tried dogpile, google, altavista, singingfish, just about anything you can imagine. the weirdest things is that dogpile used to have a load of links, but now the majority of the results aren't even relevant or play short clips of the songs.

does anyone know where i can find free downloadable mp3s to link back for background music? again, the band's name is new order.

thanks! (link)
heyy .. try http://www.bearshare.com

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i pierced my belly button yesterday with a sewing needle.. and right now only an earring is in the hole.. i have 2 questions.. 1. what should i clean the piercing with and 2. how can i make the hole bigger so i can fit a belly button ring in? (link)
heyy .. well first of all you shouldnt have pierced it yourself adn especially with a sewing needle but anyways clean it with clares piercing cleaner you can get it at clares but if you dont want to buy it just use acholhol and too i wouldnt make it bigger its a bad idea i would wait for it to close up and get is professionally pierced

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Can you wear a skirt when you have your period? Is it safe to? Because I have my school picture tomorrow and I'm due to get my period tomorrow too! So I dont know what I should do! Help me out here! Thanks (link)
heyy .. yea you can just make sure your protected by wearing a tampon or pad

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15/f
My BF of 3weeks and I were talking about a friend who recently got dumped. And then he said if i dumped him he wouldnt really care. said he's sealed all his emotions off from the world. i'm not sure if he really knows he hurt me when he said that. i dont want to break up with him. im hoping that he will turn into a serious bf. but when he said that it made me feel like he was only going out with me to get some. or just thinking nothing of it. i havent wanted to give up on life in a long time, but now i feel i want to agian cause nothing goes right! what can i do!! i want this relationship to last but i dont want it to be fake. how can i see if its for real?
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heyy .. just have a talk with him or ahve a friend do it for you other then that just tell him you want this to be real and if hes not ready for a real ralationship you understand and youll wait till hes ready its the only thing you can do

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Could someone tell me exactly what ADD is. i know what it means but my friend keeps saying i have it and i dont think i do.? (link)
heyy .. ADD means like your sorta figity and hyper active it depends on what kind of ADD your talking about because my mom is a nurse and she studys ADD and other things and there are many types of ADD and i read some of the book so if you want you can resumbmit the question with which kind of ADD and send it to my inbox

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