I'm a cool chico, and I try to help others to love themselves. It's a rough world out there, but grawr, I can handle it.
Since this comes up so often, let's make this very clear: You can not pick and choose where you want to lose fat. Exercising your abs will make your abs strong - but losing tummy fat is dependent on your body fat percentage and genetics.
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15 female... okay well i want to get more intimate with my boyfriend for almost 10 months now. we havent done much more than make out and he feels me up and ive touched his dick over his pants but that pretty much it... whats a good way to make the first move? dont say just do it! i want specifics please
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Volunteer removing clothes. Or attempt to remove his clothes. Encourage putting his mouth on your breasts. That'll keep him interested, for sure. If he wants to play, he should eventually volunteer his pecker.
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I am 13 years old female... i will be 14 in about a month and a half and i am really unhappy about my body. i weigh 151 pounds and i am only 5'6!! i want to slim down my stomach, under my chin, legs, and my butt. I do play sports so i get exersize, but i am going to be graduating and i want to be able to fit into a smaller size dress. I dont even have hips so it makes my stomach look larger!
help in anyway you can!
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There's really no such thing as target exercising. No specific exercises will magically cause fat to disappear. Your body is built to distribute fat in a certain way.
That said, exercise works muscles. More muscle, the more energy you'll burn by just sitting on your ass.
I remember in high school when I weighed 155. I also remember my low in high school dropped down to 125. People get pissy at me because I'm a stick. I didn't lift a weight. I just cut out all junk food. And by all, I mean ALL.
Someone suggested running. Always a good way to get your heartrate up. If weight training for your sport strikes your interest, go ahead. If hitting a cardio machine strikes your interest, go ahead. There's really nothing beyond eating right and exercising that you can do.
Ultimately, you gotta love the body you have. : D
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what do 13 and 14 year old guys look for in a girl and relationship? i am fairly pretty, good at sports, smart, and friendly, but i can't seem to get a boyfriend! what do you guys look for? (link)
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When I was thirteen and fourteen, I WASN'T looking for a relationship. I didn't have my first crush until I was fifteen.
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I need some advice. You see, I'm kind of shy. Actually, very shy. I'm not shy around my closest friends. But around other people, I am. How can learn to be myself more? I want to open up and not worry about what other people think of me. Can you please tell me how to do that? Thanks. Oh yeah, and please don't say "shyness can be good at times," because that's not really helping me. Thanks (link)
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I had that issue. I thought I was shy. I've since concluded that shyness doesn't exist. Instead of resigning yourself to shyness, pay attention to your inner monologue when you approach social situations. My brain would tell me that I'd say something stupid, or that this person doesn't want to talk to me.
It's so stupidly simple, confidence cures shyness. Yet, there isn't much more to it. If you need to talk to someone, you do.
Though. I can't say I WANT to approach people these days. I just don't care. Ha. I still keep to myself because most people are kind of not worth it.
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How does anorexia and bulimia relate to psychology? (link)
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Anorexia is a body distortion where someone thinks they're fat. They look in the mirror, and all they hear is this inner critic beating them down 'FATFATFAT'. They cut their food intake, and may exercise regularly.
Bulimia? More associated with Binge and Purge. Food is a comfort, so they eat. But then they feel guilty about it, so they purge. Or, they just purge most of their meals up. I'm not 100% on the why, whether it's to get the taste but not the calories, or whether it's more related to a cycle of comfort and guilt.
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Hey guys! I'm 13 years old (almost 14) and I am in 8th grade. Next year, (which is not too far away) I will be in high school (freshman). For those of you IN ninth grade or over, does it suck? It scares me because I will be going to a school with 17 and 18 year olds and I'll be only 14 when I go to high school! Is it scary to go to high school? I've heard so many bad things about high school... the boys are the worst... I could probably survive in an all girls school because boys that I klnow are just mean except a few. I'm really scared knowing that I will be in high school! Can anyone give me some comforting advice to help me feel better because everyday, I get scareder knowing that another day is past and I'm that much closer to high school? I'm just scared... can anyone help me... seriously! I don't want sarcasm or rudeness in yall's answers. I'm just looking for a little comfort... Thanks!
P.S. I rate 5's to those of you who answer to me and who are being serious about the question and not goofing off...
Thanks!
Luv, Kay
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My only advice is to soak in everything you're feeling right now. Those four years look like they'll take forever. You'll go through things. But once they're gone, you're shoved off into The Rest Of Your Life.
In reality, it's not a big deal. Once you get a handle on how utterly fake the societial structure is, you can use it to your advantage. Keep an open mind and remember: Life goes on.
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ok so i shaved "down there" the whole thing but after words i got this really itches rash and it hurts so bad i dont understand what i did wrong. i used conditioner to make it softer and after words i put lotion on it
..do you think it could be from the lotion??
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Shave your vulva regularly, and it won't itch. You don't need to use any lotion really. If you do, make sure it doesn't get in your Vagina.
Just make sure you use shaving cream or whatever you use to shave your legs with. It will come to pass, you'll be fine.
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Have you ever been to Texas? I don't know, but it seems like I have seen you before. I know this is a weird question, but I was wondering. (link)
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Nope, I've never been south of the Mason-Dixon Line. Well, I've been to California and Arizona, but that doesn't count.
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I love to exercise, like once I start I can't stop. However, I have a hard time starting to work out. It's hard for me to stop what I'm doing and start doing crunches, running, doing pushups etc. Any tips to get me motivated? mmkay thanks :] (link)
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A bit of organization may help. Though, what I ultimately do is dependent on what I'm in the mood for. Which is how it should be. I haven't done single sit-ups since I started working out. The definition I'm getting is mostly from the basic abdominal machine, and the torso rotation machine.
Running... I like running just a mile. Or, I run as many laps as I can at the end of a workout. Something about knowing I can run x laps, and end up running x + 1 laps, gives me a sense of accomplishment.
Really, to work out, you have to be conscious of your goals. Why do you want to do it? Focus what you do on what you want to do, and what you like doing. If it's something you typically don't like, BUT brings you closer to your goal, remind yourself of that. "I'll make it through this."
One of my goals was to do twenty push-ups. I'd never done that in my life before. A month into working out, I accomplished it. Just one of the many on my little list.
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What happends Durring Male Puberty? Can you Explain IT? being A girl I dont KNow
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Puberty in a nutshell. Most thing that happen in girls happen in boys, menstrual cycle aside. Body hair? That's an obvious one. Legs, arms, genitalia, underarms. I found my facial hair started with a dirt mustache, moved down to my chin, then my sideburns, and finally filled in as a "beard" as I aged past the age of twenty. I have an iota of chest hair. Hormones rage, emotions will be rampant and pubescents tend to sweat more.
What I remember from textbooks was the growth of pubic hair, followed by growth of the penis, then the testicles, then sort of dual growth. I'd hazard a guess that it tapers off by about 17.
Males hit their sexual "prime", in terms of desire and so-called ability to perform around 18. Females hit it around 30. Or so I hear.
There's some big shpeel about wet dreams (or "nocturnal emissions"), but it's completely overrated. I've never had a wet dreams. Some guys do. Some guys don't. Frankly, I know more GIRLS that have orgasmed in their sleep than guys. Yes, it's possible.
Where there's a filling out of the hips and natural inclination towards lower-body strength in females, there's a widening of the shoulders and corresponding upper body strength. I don't think my shoulders ever got that wide, yet desire trying to be as weak as possible, I always had an iota of upper body strength.
Ah, masturbation, I skipped over it. Most statistics are that males masturbate earlier, maybe between the ages of ten or thirteen. But honestly? I've run into a number of girls that started masturbating between seven to eleven. The middle range is a little thinner, with most girls finding their auto-eroticism around fifteen to eighteen. The rest will either think they can't and will resign themselves to it until they discover they can.
I remember reading once how sometimes guys get a dull ache in their nipples. It sounds strange, except I actually experienced it. I suppose I was fifteen or sixteen? *shrugs*
Hrm. This doesn't seem like much. If you have specific questions, I can drudge up more accurate answers.
Penis? Your question is assuming something. The sexual reactions boys have are the same ones that girls have. If ever you're around someone and you're wet, you can bet that if you were a boy, you would find yourself becoming erect. It just sort of happens.
Really, it doesn't "feel" like anything. Or maybe I'm just so used to it. Ask yourself what it feels like to be wet. It just... does. And if you're really aroused, there may be a dull ache.
Contrary to popular belief, we don't just get erections at the sight of a beautiful girl. If only. I was very disappointed when I first viewed pornography and I did not become aroused at all. Typically it's being AROUND a girl that will do it. But just any girl? Typically, it has to be a girl that's interested in us. Physical proximity and familiarity. Anticipation.
Anything else?
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I've been wanting to use body wax, but the one I ended up purchasing doesnt seem to work right. It doesnt pick up a lot of hairs at all. Can someone please recommend me a body wax that actually works? And where I could find it would be helpful. Thanks! I rate. (link)
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The thing with wax is that it needs something to grip. You may need to grow the hairs you intend to smite a bit before they'll grab. I've done Nads on my legs, and they got everything. But if it's only one or two week old stubble, it won't grab much.
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Hi,
Well can some one tell me some good song I've been listening to the same old one forever and I need some new one. (link)
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Superbeast - Rob Zombie
Ava Adore - Smashing Pumpkins
Love Boat Captain - Pearl Jam
Baby I'm Gonna Leave You - Led Zeppelin
Moskau - RAMMS+EIN
Retox - Fatboy Slim
Of course, tastes vary.
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What can get a male started o let him know you want to have sex. Should you give him a handjob? (link)
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We've been indoctinated to believe there's some proper pattern to sexual behavior. You can have a handjob before sex, you can have a handjob after sex. Ditto other things you can imagine. If you want more foreplay prior to sex, power to you.
Typically, suggestive dry-humping and groping are general indicators. However the direct "I want you inside me" will communicate the desire.
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My vagina feels wierd inside. Its got bumps. Is it supposed to feel that way? (link)
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The few Vaginas I've personally felt, each felt different. If they've always been there, odds are, they're meant to be there. If they aren't causing any problems (pain or inflamation), then it isn't an issue.
If it's a sudden appearance, and they cause discomfort or discharge, that's when you should consider visiting your local gyno.
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What is a good way to make a male hard? Can you see it happen? (link)
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Kiss him and press your body against him. Whisper something suggestive in his ear. Really, the things that make a guy hard are the same subset of things that make a girl wet.
As for visual confirmation, that depends on whether you're looking and what he's wearing. If it's nothing, it'll be obvious. If it's jeans, it may depend on whether he wants to display it or not.
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Far, far too busy and distracting. As for how you structure it, that depends on what you put in it.
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Hey.
Im pretty slim. 5'3 93 ibs. Like im very petite and tiny. But it seems like my body is a little out of proportion. Like from my hips up its teeeny. But my legs are kinda big.
How can I make my legs lean and slim? But still with muscle? Im not like really wanting to loose weight on my legs though.
Anyone have any ideas?
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That's just how you're built. You can try building up your upper body a little to even it out. Breasts tend to grow a little as you get older, so. *shrugs*
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has anyone tried that? what did you think of it? (link)
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Okay, I haven't. But I've had Mike's Hard Berry. Makes an excellent chaser, and tastes almost like soda if you've been doing shots. Ditto Smirnoff Ice.
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I gave my boyfriend a handjob, and i'm afraid I wasn't that good. He did ejaculate until after. Why is that? Does anyone have any good advice/ tricks on what feels good and will make then ejaculate while you are doing it? Thanks alot
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Unfortunately, I've never received an even decent handjob. Most girls can't do it. So don't be too hard on yourself.
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how do i know if my love life is falling apart? (link)
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When you start asking if your love life is falling apart. There's typically a reason for doubt, somewhere in our minds.
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