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i broke up with my boyfriend and said that i just wanted to be friends then he was saying that he loved me and stuff like that. i only feel like i still like him when he talks about other girls and stuff. well like yesterday he started going out with my best friend and she knew i still liked him. on his away messages he always puts i love sarah turner.
he never put i love paityn smith on his away message and we went out for almost 3 months and they have been going out for one day! we arent friends anymore because of this. and i really want to keep it that way.i dont know what to do , and im miserable now without him. do you think its just jealousy or do i really love him?
im in the 6th grade and hes in 7th i know this probably sounds stupid, but he is the only boy ive ever loved.
thank you for reading this
paityn

He does not love your friend, I have a good feeling that he is doing it to make you mad.

So my advice to you is to forget him...yes that may seem hard, but trust me it will be the best thing for you.

Get yourself a new boyfriend and move on.

You have your whole life ahead of you, you are what 12 years old? You have sooo much ahead of you, you probably would not have been with that boy forever, so move on and have fun, don't worry about some boy.

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My boyfreind has braces. I don't, I already got them off. We haven't kissed yet, but I'm sure we will. The thing is, is it harder to kiss a guy with braces? Is it more risky? Could my lips get stuck on his braces or can my tongue? Does it hurt?

Don't even worry about it, it will be the exact same as kissing a boy without braces!

Have Fun!

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about 3-4 months ago my boyfriend and I split. I was so upset that he wouldn't let me explain my reasons for what had happened that I wrote him a long letter. I really did love him and I still do.I just didn't like what he said and did to me. In that letter I said some pretty nasty things. I have been thinking about him alot lately, and would reallylike to call him. should I? I mean after the letter that I wrote I'm afraid he won't talk to me, or if he does it will be to say some more mean things to me. What should I do? and If I should call him what should I say?

I really think that you should move on. I know it is hard, trust me I know. But it is probably the best thing to do.

You had reasons to break up with him, and if you guys got back together those same things would happen.

I really just think that you should just forget him and move on. Get another boyfriend, and just forget him.

It will be hard, but after a while it will just become easier.

I hope everything goes well.

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What can me and my boyfriend do besides anything sexual, movies and board games to keep us interacting with eachother and having fun?

-walks
-bowling
-miniture golf
-rollar skating
-going to the mall
-out to eat

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I'm 13 and I'd like to know, how much makeup is too much? On a usual day, I wear eyeliner on the bottom lid, and an opaque, frosty lilac lip gloss. Is this ok? I don't want to look like a clown

That is deffinately fine, most people wear more than that. So don't even worry about it.

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How can yu get past being jealous? My best friend just got a bf and hes super awesome, and im jealous cus ive never had a bf. Im happy for her, i really am. How can I get my mind off it, and stop being jealous?

It is pretty normal to be jealous about something like that.

I think that you just should continue to be happy for her.

Like other people said try and find a boyfriend, it will make you not be so jealous!

Good Luck!

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One of my younger friend's boyfriend and her been getting alittle to intimate(touching/using mouth on personal places), and she's only 12! I don't want to tell her parents cause i don't want to get her introuble what should I do?

You are making the right decision not to tell her parents.

But what you need to do, is sit your friend down, and tell her she needs to chill down a bit, because it is making her seem slutty. And having a slutty rep isn't a good thing.

Also tell her that you are worried, and you don't like where this is going. Tell her that it might lead to sex, and shouldnt she wait a few years at least?

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My boyfrind and i have been dating for 6 months and its been the best ever. Anyway ... before i have caught him on this lie about him starting up a bad habit again and well ... i gave him another chance. well he was caught again ... strike 2. Now im hearing from other people that hes started again. He swears that he hasnt but everyone say when there around him he is.

What should i believe. How could i maybe make him fess up if he is lying.?

I don't think he will tell you if you acuse him of it and just go by what people tell you. Trust me I have been down that road before. Just wait for him to tell you.

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Hey all. Well, next year is my freshman year, and I signed up for Drama 1. The problem is, that I don't know what it's all about. I mean, can anybody inform me about if it's fun or not, what you do in that class, generally what the people and their personalities are like, etc. I'm real excited...I just need to be informed. Thanks!

You basically just get taught about acting, and the basic stage directions. You play a lot of games on acting, and the class is usuallly really fun, and an easy A!

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I have stains on my teeth is there any way I can get rid of them? If possible any way without using a dentist? Or is it possible at all with or without a dentist?

Crest Whitening Strips

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there is this guy. he is popular, foot ball player, but he is very polite and kind. my friend has a crush on him. i dont want to, but i think that i might have a crush on him to. but i have been constantly denying it. i am confused because i cannot understand my own feelings. how do i tell if i have a crush on a guy. i am a 15 year old girl

You just know...I mean if you think about him a lot, and think he is cute. Then those might be some signs...I mean there are many ways to tell if you have a crush, and you just kind of know.

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Whenever I try to talk to a girl I have not met I just freeze. I can't get the words out of me. I am looking to start off as friends and if I like her then ask her out but I just freeze. Is there some way I can get myself to get past it?

I think that you just need to believe in yourself. You just need to boost you confidence up. And next time just say to yourself that you can do it, and that everything will be ok.

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I have trouble communicating to people about problems and I don't like to complain. Well my boyfriend was an awesome guy and I liked him so much but with our busy schedules we didn't get together a lot. Even on days when we were both free we just didn't hang out. I didn't want to say anything about it because I didn't want to seem clingy but it was really bugging me. I wanted to be with him so bad but every time I called him it was always a "bad time" to talk. I got really frusterated and tired to fix the problem, I dumped him. Yeah, I think my definition of fix is screwed up. 5 seconds after I dumped him and knew I'd made a mistake. I tried to talk to him about it and I never got the response I was looking for. I told him how I felt about him and he told me what I'd done had made our friendship awkward. I don't know what else to do. I want him back so bad. Please help me.

-TroublesomeGirl

I know you probably are not going to like this answer but just listen to it and think about it:

I really think that you should just move on. I mean there was clearly reason for you to break up with him. I really think that you should stick to your decision because I am sure you are better off without him right now.

A lot of people all feel regret when they break up with someone. It is completely normal. But after a while they come to realize that they made the right decision.

And I am not just saying this without any experience because trust me I went through this before and so many other people have. And you just have to realize that you had reason to break it off in the first place... And you need to remember that, and stick with it.

So really, you will have so many other chances, yes i know that is such a cliche but realy it is true. You will meet other guys and move on it is not the end of the world...I am sorry if I sound ike your parent, but it is the truth..
I hope you make the right decision..

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There's a guy I REALLY like. Let's call him "Shirt".

Shirt has called me hot on a few occasions, sometimes to my face, and sometimes not.

Today, one of my friends was hounding me about who I like, and when she said to tell her, Shirt looked over.

The thing that confuses me is that sometimes he doesn't even acknowledge me.

I don't really know him that well. We have a Sadie Hawkins dance coming up, and I was wondering if I should ask him. I rate!

I'm 14/f, and he's 17/m

First off I love that you called him Shirt that made me giggle that is cute!!!

But back to the question...I really think you should just go for it. Because if you don't you will probably regret it! So just be brave go for it and even if he says no you its not like you hang out with him so it wouldn't be awkward...so just go for it!

Good Luck!
I really hope it goes well!!

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Okay I really like this guy, and I think hes gonna ask me out soon. However my parents say No Boyfriends whatsoever. I've had boyfriends plenty of times before but not ones that go over to each others houses and go to movies and stuff cause I've never been able to tell my parents about boyfriends. Now this guy that I like, is the type of boyfriend that yall hang out every day outside of school and I totally want that, But I don't know how to get my parents to approve of me having a boyfriend. Any ideas?

Deffinately try group dates, just say you are going somewher with a bunch of friends, and just have him there.

I realy don't think your parents are going to change their minds about you not having a boyfriend, but just try to get around their rules.

I don't want to like tell you to lie to your parents, but if you really want to date this guy you might have to.

Just like go to the mall and say you are going with a friend, and meed him there, and have your friend like go with someone else so you two can spend some alone time together.

Good Luck! I hope everything goes well!

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well lately my sister has been thrwing away her lunch and buying all this junk at the BP across the road from our school. she has no money cause it is sending her broke andhas been stealing it from me and my mum. I tried to tell mum about it without dobbing her in but mum just syas stop dobbing on your sister and takes it as a joke. i talked to my sister about it but she jut tells me to get lost. i am sruck in the middle cause it is my money getting pinched. i have tried hiding the money but my mum puts our weekly tuckshop money on the bench and my sister pinches it fromm there before i get it. then i dont get tuckshop. what should i do?

Hmm...that is really hard because your mom doesn't care. I really don't know what to telly you except to sit your sister down and tell her how upset you are...and do the same with your mom and maybe she will get the poing of how upset you are. But tell your mom seriously so she understands.

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I just got my nails done and whne i got home i kinda relized the 2 of them are like way longer then the others and it looks weird they are acrylic by the way. So my questi0on is is therre anyway i can fix it myself without it looking stupid or should i just live with it.

i really dont wanna go back and have them fix it cause it not that bad and i will live with it till i get them filled.

You can cut it with regular nail clippers and then file it down to look like the others.

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I HATE my best friend. She just gets on my nerves. She NEVER listens to me and she crys alot and she says I make a big deal out of everything. But honestly its her.
What should I do?

The only thing to do is just stay away from her. If you hate her then I don't think that she is your best friend. Just move on from her

If you don't like her then just get away she is probably just causing you more stress.

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is it odd to date somebody a year younger then you, and he's a little bit shorter then you?
Im a female.

It doesn't matter what other people think, if you like it then nobody elses opinions should matter.

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i can't really explain my love for this one guy. And it's not like teenage-i-like-you thing. i think about him all the time, and some nights i literally cry myself to sleep about him. i don't know what to do. my friends say i should ask him out or they could ask him out for me, but i just can't. i talk to him a lot but it's just not enough...please help. what should i do?

Hun, your friends are right you need to ask him yourself...you will feel sooo much better when you do. Because what if he goes with another girl? You will be absolutely devastated. So you ask him out don't have your friends do it...just go for it!

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