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I broke up with my boyfriend and now I want him back..
I have trouble communicating to people about problems and I don't like to complain. Well my boyfriend was an awesome guy and I liked him so much but with our busy schedules we didn't get together a lot. Even on days when we were both free we just didn't hang out. I didn't want to say anything about it because I didn't want to seem clingy but it was really bugging me. I wanted to be with him so bad but every time I called him it was always a "bad time" to talk. I got really frusterated and tired to fix the problem, I dumped him. Yeah, I think my definition of fix is screwed up. 5 seconds after I dumped him and knew I'd made a mistake. I tried to talk to him about it and I never got the response I was looking for. I told him how I felt about him and he told me what I'd done had made our friendship awkward. I don't know what else to do. I want him back so bad. Please help me.
-TroublesomeGirl
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I don't think you screwed things up my ending things with him, I think you did something reasonable. You both weren't really spending any time together, so I don't think you really did anything except just consider yourselves broken up.
If you told him that you've made a mistake and you still really like him, and he didn't respond the way you were wanting him to, I think that indicates that he wants it to be over too.
I know it's really hard when break-ups happen, but please know that you really can get through it, and that you'll be dating lots of other guys. I know you'll also think that other guys won't compare to this one, but take my word for it, they CAN compare and beat him. If you really think that he may want you back, then you'll have to make him come to you.
-TheTeenGirl
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I'm sorry, but I really think that you should move on. I know that it's hard, but sooner or later you were probably going to break up with him or he was going to break up with you. Your going to learn to move on. Everyone that just go out of a relationship will regret everything and feeling really bad and guilty so dont stress. Give some time for yourself and him. If you really want him back just give him time and still let him know that you go feelings for him. Hope this helps!
-Manda
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TroublesomeGirl,
This happens to pretty much everyone when they break up with someone. The feeling will go away soon, trust me.
Just give it a little time, and look for a new cutie to occupy you =D
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I know you probably are not going to like this answer but just listen to it and think about it:
I really think that you should just move on. I mean there was clearly reason for you to break up with him. I really think that you should stick to your decision because I am sure you are better off without him right now.
A lot of people all feel regret when they break up with someone. It is completely normal. But after a while they come to realize that they made the right decision.
And I am not just saying this without any experience because trust me I went through this before and so many other people have. And you just have to realize that you had reason to break it off in the first place... And you need to remember that, and stick with it.
So really, you will have so many other chances, yes i know that is such a cliche but realy it is true. You will meet other guys and move on it is not the end of the world...I am sorry if I sound ike your parent, but it is the truth..
I hope you make the right decision..
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