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Hello, I am seventeen years old.And I am currently a Senior at my high school.
I like giving advice.
One day, I want to make a living out of it.
There's really nothing in the world that I like more than:
Music [New Wave, Electronic, Alternative, HipHop]
Photography [I take many pictures]
Friendships [They're really important me]
& Helping out people [I am always helping out]
There's really not a lot to me.
Other than I like to help out people.
Sometimes, I think that I should take my own advice.
But I rarely do =/
So yeah, that's about all I have to say.
advice
where do you think the best place for your first kiss EVER would be? any suggestions would be appreciated. :]
Yeah, I go with the last person. Don't plan it out. It'll naturally happen. And it's actually better, because when you look back to it, you want to remember your kiss at a place where it was unexpected rather than a place where you planned out.
Hope I Helped.
Hi im michaela and im 15 gonna be 16 at the end of october. Okay so theres this guy named joel that i really like. and hes a year older than me. So we've been hanging alot lately and one friday night i went over to his house and me, him and his friends hung out and watched a movie. well, we were on the top bunk and so we layed there for a little bit and cuddled i guess you could say lol. but then i actually got up the courage to kiss him. [this was my first kiss mind you] and when i first kissed him we started making out on and off. at the time i thougt it was good. but when i really thought about it, i dont think is was so good...=/ i just dont think it was as good as i thught itd be. but then im thinking, am i the bad kisser or is he?! im really confused. please help!
Well, there's really no way to find out except for asking him. Or maybe asking any of his ex-gf. Asked them if he was a bad kisser. And if they say no, then you're the problem [no offense]
Hope I Helped.
Hey well basically, the thing is i was going out with a girl for a year and 3 months. At first it was awesome, we loved each other so much, but as time went on we started having serious problems, arguing all the time, fallen out and it came to a point were we split up. After we split i was devastated but i knew i had to carry on in life, but after about 5-6 months of not being in contact she eventually contacted me, and she was acting really nice.
She wanted to meet up one night so we did and she slept at my house, we didn't have sex, but we kissed, and after that we are constantly talking online and shes always sayin stuff like "we are goin to live with each other in the future" all that type of stuff and am like what the hell, is this girl taking the piss or does she really mean it, but then other days she just acts as though we are just friends and i'm getting really mixed feelings someone help!!
You should talk to her. Ask her what are her true intentions. Straight out ask her if she want to get back together or if she just wants tgo be friends. It's also posible she might want to be friends with benefits. Who knows. But just take in hand what I told you. Ask her about it, things will be so much clearer.
Hoped I Helped & Good Luck!
i miss my bf and i have talked to his mom, and we get along. i want to ask her if he still talks about me, and if he is really into his new gf. everyone thinks he is dating her to make me mad, but i dont know. i really want to be with him, but im scared he won't want me back. i kind of hurt me, i kindof started liking someone else, and when he noticed i was acting weird, i told him what was up, he got mad so we took a break. we got back together, cuz i knew i wanted to be with him. i wasn't gonna leave him for the other guy. well, a couple weeks after getting back together, he tells me that he cares about someone else and told me to kick rocks. what the hell. is it because i did it to him? will he ever want me back. cuz i don't want to put our long lasting relationship in the gutter. please help, and if your a guy, tell me how you would feel through this situation. thanks
Well, I don't think that he did it to get back at you. You should ask his mom. Maybe tell her to ask her is he still has feelings for you. But you should talk to him. And if he's with some else, just wait. The best thing is to start looking for other people. I'm sure you'll find someone else.
Hoped I Helped.
Well, i'm thirteen.
This may sound entirely stupid, but I know what love is. I am in love with this boy my age. We have a long history. We are always on and off. Always giving eachother those second chances. He finally said he wanted to go back out with me early september. We were having an okay relationship. Sometimtes he could be pretty assholish haha, but other times it was amazing. He makes me really happy. Well I met his best friend. His best friend is very very hott, nice, and down to earth. I did the stupid and dumped my *true love* for his best friend. How gay is that? We ended up breaking up like four days after anyways. I dont even know what the hell i was thinking. my true love got very mad, as I'm sure you would imagine. I like him again and he pretty much refuses to ever go out with me again. He still likes me, I think but he is just filled with outrage =/ Which I dont blame him for! I've said sorry, made up a few excuses, but I havent told him face to face. MY REAL QUESTION: what do I do to get this guy back? I cant live without him.
Talk to him. I know you already did, but this time do it face to face, alone, and in private. Maybe show him that you love him. Plan a romantic picnic. My friend was in the same situation as you. And what she did was take her guy to the place where they first saw each other, and had banners saying "I'm so sorry. I love you." I think she even made a shirt that even said that. Anyways, basically show him that you are truly sorry and that you love him.
Hoped I helped. Good Luck!!
14/f
so my friend wants me to get a homecoming date so we could double date before the homecoming dance, like just go out to dinner. i really want to because i think it'd be fun but i recently just found out i think i'm gay..everythings just been really complicated for me lately. she made like a whole list of guys and i marked no next to every one. bahh should i just go with some guy anyways? i don't know..anything you can give about being gay to could help. i just don't know. i really need advie
thanks
Well, i'm not a lesbian. But it's easier of you share your sexual orientation than just to keep it inside. If you tell your friend, hopefully she'll understand. And maybe she'll look for girl that are good. But if you don't want to do all of this, just go with one of the guys and a friend date, not a real date date. Just make sure to tell the guy, that you're just friends and nothing more.
Hoped I Helped.
I really like this one guy, right now he is busy with his hobby (racing) and he works a lot. I really like him too, but sometimes I will text him and I never get anything back or he will text me a few times then stop, does he possibly not have intrest in me or do I just need to give it time?
Give it time. He's probably too busy. But you should try to spend time with him. Like for example, go to his Track events or visit him at work as a customer (if his job is like that) Other than that, just give him time. When track season is over he'll have more time.
Is it weird for a 9th grade girl to date an 8th grade boy? I rate and thanks so much!
It's not weird at all. People might think it is, maybe because you don't go to the same school. But it's only month difference. I think it is okay to go out with someone who's in a lower grade than you. As long as you really like them.
15/F [SORRY IF IT'S LONG]
Last year in the beginning of the year, I met this guy. Let's name is Bob. Well, I'm pretty shy. But Bob would talk to me. And I started to like him. Towards the middle of the year, we stopped talking. But I still liked him. I found out he was doing drugs. So, I started liking someone else. And during the summer he was all I can think about. And now this year, I don't have any clases with him [we had one together last year] And I really don't see him around campus. But when I do see him, memories come back. And I admit, I still like him. How can I stop liking him? I don't want to like him. He's really not a good person. And we really don't talk anymore. I like other guys. Like this year, I like this guy. Let him be Oswald. I don't talk to him. But he's really nice. And I want to talk to him. What can I do? But even if I do like Oswald, I prefer Bob. But I don't want to prefer Bob. I want to prefer Bob. Help me, please!
Thanks in advance.
I see, well this is hard. If you like Oswald you should go up to him and start talking to him. And about Bob, if he's really that bad why do you like him? I think you can get over him. It just takes some time. I know you can do it.
Hope I helped.
Hi, i am 14 and i have just started high school two weeks ago. I am in a new school, and only a few of my friends are here with me. I have some new good friends and i know my way my around the school. I have a problem though. In my math and drama class, i only know about two people. Everyone else in the class is friends with eachother and hang amongst themselves. My friend and I are alone, while everyone else is in their groups, talking and everything. We would try and sit and meet them, but they are not good people. Almost all the girls are bitches and the boys, well their always talking about sports or girls. I dont know, we seem like such loners in the class, but we really dont want to be involved with bad people, we are way smarter then that. That is in my drama class. Now, in my math class, i know about two people but they sit ahead of me and i sit around the back like a loner while everyone sits and talks with their old friends. Please, i need some adivce! What should i do? Any advice is greatly appreciated. Thank you
I was a loner last year in my Biology class. I didn't know anyone except this one person. And she sat on the other side of the classroom. And everyone in that class knew each other. They were either the popular kids, jocks, or they went to the same school. Well, me and my friend were loners too. But we really didn't care. It's alright to have two friends in a class. Doesn't necessarily mean you're a loner. If you don't like the other people. Don't force yourself to be with them. You really don't need them.
14\f.
Today has sucked. For months know ive been completely moody, and it ruining everything.
Whyy am I for one moment happy, laughing and enjoying myself, next completely sad.
Its weird.. Im not on my period. Im not PMSing!
My Mother calls it hormons. I call it being depressed because im always in a bad mood. then maybe for a day ill be hyper, happy then crash and wanna stay in bed forever.
Help!
It's a stage teens go through. Hormons is a big part of it. Maybe you're bi-polar. I doubt though. It's hormons, listen to your mom. You can take anti-depresents.
For an english project, I have to read three books that all have a theme. My theme is "Books that were part of an tenth-grade English curriculum in the 1900s." I've tried google, but I can't really find anything.
So can anyone help me find books that tenth graders would have read in the early early 1900s?
I'm in the same grade & I have to read 3 books as well. They gave me the following list:
LITERATURE CLASSICS
-Jane Rye by Charlotte Bronte
-The Last Mochican by Cooper
-Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austin
-A Tale Of Two Cities by Charles Dickens
-Treasure Island by Stevenson
-Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte
-The Three Musketeers by Dumas
-David Copperfield by Charles Dickens
WORKS OF SHAKESPEARE
-A Midsummer Night's Dream
-Much Ado About Nothing
-Taming of the Shrew
-Twelfth Night
-Henry V
-Hamlet
-Macbeth
-Othello
MODERN LITERATURE
-The Bean Trees by Barbara Kingsolver
-Bless Me, Ultima by Roldolfo Anaya
-A Painted House by John Grisham
-Cather In the Rye by J.D. Salinger
-Brave New World by Aldus Huxley
-1984 by George Orwell
-Frankenstein by Mary Shelly
-Where the Heart Is by Billie Letts
HOPED I HELPED!!
&& GOOD LUCK.
Oh, I recommend:
A Tale Of Two Cities, David Copperfield, Mcbeth, Hamlet, Henry V, Frankenstein, and Where The Heart Is.
everytime me and my boyfrien are doing it he has problems getting it in with the condom on but without it, it goes in fine and easily... does anyone know why that happens? or how to fix it?
Maybe he's not used to it. He should get used to it and he'll probably get it in.
i have a paper due friday and the question is .. who's my hero(s) and why? can i be my own hero? is that possible at all?
Ahh, the hero essay. I guess you can say you're your own hero. But you have to back that up. You can probably say something like: You kept on going when you parents weren't really there. But if you can think of something else, it'll be better. Perhaps a friend, mom, dad, grandma, etc.
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I wrote a letter to his parents, and they emailed me and thanked me and said I could come by and bring friends to their house sometime, I want to bring them flowers or something, whats something I could make or buy for the, to show that they mean a lot and they've been on our hearts and minds a lot?
I'm sorry if this is a dumb question but we dont know what to do.
I think flowers would be enough. But maybe, you can get them something that they both like. But nothing too big. Because they might think bad. Or they might think that you feel pity for them. I think flowers would be enough though. But that's just me.
what are some of the best songs from this band? like those songs that will get me into the band. where the songs better before or after iggy went single?
I really like:
I Wanna Be Your Dog
Hello everyone. I was just wondering if any of you have seen the new Halloween movie by Rob Zombie that just came out. If you have, I'd like to know whether you thought it was stupid or not. I'd like to see what the majority of people say, so I know if I should go or not. I may go and see it tonight if I hear that it's good. Someone please let me know asap!! Thank you very much to anyone who answers. Sorry it's such a stupid question.
I didn't like it that much. I think the old one is better. The new one is not even scary.
16/f
for about two weeks i masturbated every night. i had just ended a friends with benefits relationship but now after those two weeks i have no sex drive. at all! well i think about having sex but i don't get horny. what's wrong?!
So what you're saying is that you had sex for 3 weeks straight and now you don't want anything. Maybe it's because, you think that you have done it and it doesn't please you anymore. If you really want to be horny prohaps porn. Or find some one and try new stuff with them. Hoped I helped.
where do i get the sheets off of hannah montana's episode "i am hannah hear me croak"
I actually have the same ones. I got them at Target.
i own a layout site on myspace and i was wondering if there are any ways i can get tons of friends super fast without posting all thoses stupid bulletins and stuff.
(ill post bulletins if the thing really works!)
You can make a myspace and add a lot of other layout sites. But you're going to have to post bullitens, because a lot of layout sites wants to be whored so they can whored you. And once they whored you..a lot of people from their friends list add you.