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I let him go!!!
Well, i'm thirteen.
This may sound entirely stupid, but I know what love is. I am in love with this boy my age. We have a long history. We are always on and off. Always giving eachother those second chances. He finally said he wanted to go back out with me early september. We were having an okay relationship. Sometimtes he could be pretty assholish haha, but other times it was amazing. He makes me really happy. Well I met his best friend. His best friend is very very hott, nice, and down to earth. I did the stupid and dumped my *true love* for his best friend. How gay is that? We ended up breaking up like four days after anyways. I dont even know what the hell i was thinking. my true love got very mad, as I'm sure you would imagine. I like him again and he pretty much refuses to ever go out with me again. He still likes me, I think but he is just filled with outrage =/ Which I dont blame him for! I've said sorry, made up a few excuses, but I havent told him face to face. MY REAL QUESTION: what do I do to get this guy back? I cant live without him.
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Firstly, its not GAY that you broke up with your TRUE love. Its foolish; stupid, etc. ALSO, i do think a 13 year old can know what love is. I know how a lot of people disagree, but i dont think you need to reach a certain age to feel a certain way about someone :)
Secondly, give him a chance to breathe. Wait a week or so. After that, start talking to him again, and you NEED to tell him face to face. Say, hey (name)! I miss hanging out with you. are you busy this weekend? He might not want to call it "going out" right away, because you broke his heart and left him for his best friend. Try to start over with him, another thing you could say to him was "Look, i know what i did was really wrong, but i just want to start over with you." Then, you two can just stay friends, until he builds up trust for you, then you two can get back together.
I hope what i say helps.
xxtiffany
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Talk to him. I know you already did, but this time do it face to face, alone, and in private. Maybe show him that you love him. Plan a romantic picnic. My friend was in the same situation as you. And what she did was take her guy to the place where they first saw each other, and had banners saying "I'm so sorry. I love you." I think she even made a shirt that even said that. Anyways, basically show him that you are truly sorry and that you love him.
Hoped I helped. Good Luck!!
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