Question Posted Sunday September 23 2007, 11:00 pm
i miss my bf and i have talked to his mom, and we get along. i want to ask her if he still talks about me, and if he is really into his new gf. everyone thinks he is dating her to make me mad, but i dont know. i really want to be with him, but im scared he won't want me back. i kind of hurt me, i kindof started liking someone else, and when he noticed i was acting weird, i told him what was up, he got mad so we took a break. we got back together, cuz i knew i wanted to be with him. i wasn't gonna leave him for the other guy. well, a couple weeks after getting back together, he tells me that he cares about someone else and told me to kick rocks. what the hell. is it because i did it to him? will he ever want me back. cuz i don't want to put our long lasting relationship in the gutter. please help, and if your a guy, tell me how you would feel through this situation. thanks
XoXoXoXo77 answered Tuesday September 25 2007, 6:11 pm: well.. ive had experience with this exact situation with one of my ex bfs. I broke up with him first and then we got back together and then he broke up with me, just like what happened to you. We eventually did get back together after that. He told me that he just felt really bad when i broke up with him, because like once you care about someone that much and you put like your whole heart into liking them and you really trust them and feel that they love you back and then you get let down.. youre just mad. He probably just wanted you to see how it felt and thats why hes going a step further and going out with some other girl. He just wants to hurt you back. Be strong. Don't act desperate like you want him back or anything. Don't give him that satisfaction. Pretend you don't care and go on with your life and maybe he will realize that was the wrong decision and he will apologize and ask you to take him back.
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