I smile,laugh,love,and live in the moment. I don't think lifes worth wasteing on a boring day. I am happy and with who I am. lifes about friends who hold on to you,the people who you love and return it. I don't believe in changing for anyone, i can say that everything happens for a reason and if its not a good ending,then its not over. I Love music, and interested in anything to do with style,makeup,and fashion. I also love heroes, south park, and family guy :]. I'm done with the fake people,i've basically dropped all who never cared. and i'm actually happy,i feel so much better ! I've been through it,the friends,family,and the whole finding yourself. And i think Marylous Coffee is bomb.I have the most amazing friends; and i'm so lucky to have those crazy bitches >:}.I'm obbsessed with Harry Potter
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What are good performing arts schools for high schoolers? (link)
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What state do you live in? If you live in MA, a really great one is Capachiones! Its in East Bridgewater, MA. I go there,and thats all i really know,but if i knew your location i would deffinatly help you out more! good luck,look around in phone books and online (google) for anything in your area! hope i helped :]
xkisakissx
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soo me and my one friend were walking down her development, up and down like the main development street, and its where all the hot guys hang out. lol so, we walked up and down, well these two really popular boys, were there.. and we saw them, and we talked to them, and they were nice and everything. and then, they were like to us, why do guys keep walking up and down here? and then the other one was like, because they're fit. and they like to exercise. well so, my friend, was like mad. and she thought they were calling us fat. and i mean, i didnt think so, because there like, heyy can we come with you, and so i was like " okay come on" and so they followed us for awhile. and then, so i was just wondering.. do you think they were saying we were fat?
i mean me and her are not fat at all. she only weighs like 105. andi weigh like 110. and shes 5'3 and i'm 5'2. so i mean, i don't know, i dont think were fat. lol sooo, what do you think? were they being mean? or did my friend just overreact to the comment? (link)
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nooo, fit is meaning you're in shape,you like keeping your figure,you're skinny/hott. yeah,its deffinatly a compliment. don't worry,and it wouldn't make sence for them to go with you if they insulted you,right? :] hope ihelped
xkisakissx
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i mean like tons of years ago, when God made people, he made Adam and Eve. Then they had children, who had children with their.. siblings (is that right? i mean nobody else was around.. or was incest okay then?) who had children with THEIR siblings, and so on. so then after tons of years it comes to today.. does that mean that Adam and Eve our are like great great great (etc) grandparents? cause then like everyone in the entire world is related, am i correct? but that confuses me.. because some people say that we all evolved from monkeys. i kinda believe it but i kinda dont, since i am a christian and i believe that God and Jesus are real. I mean the entire universe must have started from something.. however i dont understand where God came from. Who made God? can you put the answers in simpler forms, too? i am a 13 year old girl.. i read like some children bibles, but the big bible confuses me.. and i dont go to church very often cause we barely have time to in my family with a little baby, my mom who works at night, my dad whos starting a business in a different state.. so yeah. i really want to though, and i pray and thank god when i can. (usually before i go to bed) anyways thanks for answering my kinda long question.
PS. i have one more question. where did Satan come from? did god create satan? can you explain to me all that happened with that? and i know that jesus like was born in bethlehem to mary, then later was put on the cross, then went to heaven then came back. so doesnt anyone like know what heaven is like? why didnt they ask jesus what it was like and stuff like that? and how did jesus die the second time? and where exactly is heaven and hell? i hear its on earth according to my mom, like they are the spirits living among us. its just kinda hard to grasp (link)
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Well HONESTLY, I'm NOT going to force my beliefs on you. For me,i believe in God,well, i believe that theres Some something there that is the ultimate force of good,and that there is an ultimate force of evil. You know when people say heaven on earth,hell on earth? I think, that heavens the highest of the high,hells the lowest of the low. But just because they're like that doesn't mean Heavens above the clouds,whatever. It doesn't mean hells below earth either,how could it be? Where it is? well hells not in the core,and heavens not above the clouds. Both of them are with us,hidden. The Anti-christ is supposed to rise in the most powerful and innocent way. Many people will fall for him,but apparently if you didn't fall for him, God will come down and save you ? Thats what I've heard. I actually God or some spirit made animals first,an innocent world. things turned on eachother,and over time people became. But if you think about it,aren't we still all related? You know...we all came from monkeys?hah,i don't know. But i do know that everything is connected and affected by our decisions each day. Where God came from? well..If anyone had that answer,it would be him. NO ONE knnows,and no theory will be true. Although i like the idea the first person said.
Yes, God created Satan,but Satan turned on him,God sent him to Hell,yippdedoo.
Jesus's plan was to do everything he intended,he went on the cross too save us..and to prove that he was the son of God. I guess you could say everyone has a plan in life. I don't find that fair at all. Thats why theres free will. But then the goverment put rules in and oh man,i could go on.
People who've died and come back all say they've seen heaven,and heaven is what you portray it to be,like,your own fantasy that you'll never have to leave. (i believe in re-incarnation though,soo i kind of dont believe in heaven or hell,ehhh)alright well i hope i covered everything,sorry its soo long,good luck!
xkisakissx
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does anyone know if lemon juice and hydrogen peroxide can be heat activated (flat iron/blowdrier)
or if you have to go out in the sun to make it work (link)
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you have to be in the sun. i wouldn't use peroxide,i herd it can turn your hair white! lemon juice is good but it will dry out your hair,and surprisingly apples work (they're acidic but wont dry out your hair) i hope i helped, goodluck!
xkisakissx
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This is a picture of me:
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I can't remember if I was wearing makeup in that picture, but if I was it was probably mascara and a line of eyeliner on my top lid. I started wearing it above my lower lashes now, though. My older cousin also, this weekend put clinique eyeshadow on me. It looked gorgeous and it was white on my lids and under my brows and purple on my creases. Well I want to buy some good makeup, from department stores or mac. Can anyone please tell me some good colors to use on my face and eyes according to my features? If you can't see from the picture I have silvery blue eyes. Also, what type of makeup to wear. Because I can't wear that eyeshadow my cousin did for me daily, its too dressy. Thanks! (link)
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omg, you're stunning! i love your necklace, by the way. ok, you'd look soo good with dark blue eyeliner,mascara on the outer top* lashes,and a soft pink cheek. thats really all you need. You could put the dark blue on the inside* of your lashes, on the top and bottom. then either one coat of mascara or just mascara on you out lashes (closest to you ear) (black mascara would be best) and a warm rosy pink. you could actually go to macys or fileans and they'll pick the shade out for you! i get all of my makeup at clinique,its so perfect.also sephora.com,they have probably every brand you could think of! Ohh, and anyother makeup idea: use dark blue eyeliner to create cat eyes.where you put eyeliner on the top LID(above the eyelashes) and make the eyeliner go out a little past the corner of your lid, the one closest to your ear,you know?.then maybe one coat of mascara. (i'd look the cat eyes up online,because i can't really explain it :]) well i hope i helped! good luck
xkisakissx
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This made me cry sooooooooo hard ok here is the story. We were at my colleage and in the girls bathroom every one just walks around naked and we dont care and some girls have like huge boobs but anyways the mean girls at our school were being flirty to the boys and the boys had a crazy and mean and pretty much illgal plan. They were going to put a camera in the girls bathroom. and the worst part is all of the boys caught me naked ok this is going to be a long story. theboys were going to hide in the showers because it was lateand time for us to goback to our doorms and anyways there is a time limit to take showers so anyways when we werent there all of the guys hid in the showers and the othere two guys were hooking up the camera and it was a really tiny camera so none of us can see it so anyways....all i had was my robe on and nothing else i told my freind after i take my shower i will meet you back at the dorm.and she said ok cya.so now no one was there and i took off my robe and opened the shower curtain and there he was..i screamed my head off and ran out the door nto the hall where all the dorms are and i wasnt even coverd up with my robe i left it n the bathroom and then when i ran out all the other boys came running out into the hall.and i was so shocked i didnt even run or cover myself with my hands and the boys laughed at me and after they laughed at me i waited five seconds while they were just staring at my vagina and my boobs i ran into the bathroom and the boy was still there and he was try to touch my vagina and boobs so i kikked him out. it was the worst day of mylife.after that i called my boy freind.and he was helpfull.the next day i went over to there rental house and started to tell them off and they said they were sorry and they sort of chuckled and then they left to the school. Then i saw something on the table and it was a recorded video tape of last night and even more. They had a video tape of all of us naked on there and they were after all just hazing. i was so angry i didnt even pick up the tape and the tape was really high teck so it told you how many time you watched it and at the end of the day so i went there when they had just left there dorm lughing and then i saw that the tape was watched 12 times!!i didnt take it the second time i was so upset and the next morning it was on the morning news!!!so the whole entire school saw it even the teachers the boy teachers so i was the laughing stock of the century and i never got that tape back i need a way to setle this its ongoing!!Have any advice? (link)
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OMFG. those boys are fckin perverted,twisted,and will NEVER get a girlfriend.All of the girls are with you in this. you could tell them that they will never get a girlfriend with they're perverted sick joke. you should slap them. seriously, GO TO THE PRINCIPLE, take it up with all of the councelers tell them what they did,give them names,everything. bust theres asses. You have a boyfriend, and he's there for you. forget what all the other boys think,because karma is going to be one bitch to them,trust me. Never look at any of the boys,they aren't worth any of your time. what they did was illegal,violating,and perverted. don't let this just pass,you have to do something about it. Try to take it up with the highest person in the school. and really,i wouldn't use the showers there. go to the closest YMCA,or gym were they have showers. if it was on the news and the teachers didn't stop it,they would get in trouble too. no one should be humiliated like that. you really have to be strong,show that it DID NOT affect you,no matter how much it did. Stick with what you came to do there,learn and make it far in your career. im so sorry, this is just so wrong. If it happend to all the girls, they can deffinatly back you up. take immidiate action. i really wish you good luck and hope i helped some what,well,i tried.
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im a 15 year old female. i think i might be pregnant but im not sure.. there is no way i can go out and get a pregnancy test. so is there any other way of telling if you are pregnant without the test?
thanks! (link)
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Well, if you have any friends or close relatives that could buy you a test would be an easy way..but you should be able to tell if you have morning sickness. It all really depends on how far in you are to the pregnancy. theres different side effects to each month. especially mood changes, and sensitivity to certain foods. frequent headaches,it also depends on you. i would look up the symptoms on google. :] hope we helped! good luck,
xkristen&Jillx
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Okay, well i am going to go to massachusetts wensday-monday.. My nana's sister is picking me and my 2 younger sisters and nana up to go there shes like 65-68ish. I live in maine, so its about a 1 hour& 30 min to 2 hour ride.
Well i keep thinking about car crashes, and how im gonna miss my brother and parents. I dont know. I just keep thinking about death and about my aunt ( who just died) and all this stuff.
Im like scared to go in the car with someone old like that driving, and I want to go to massachusetts but i dont. My brother cant go because he just got out of the hostpital for a breakdown becasue my aunt died on easter and drugs and stuff. I always am scared my dads going to die from smoking. I dont know ..
This year has been really hard for me since easter and on.
My aunt died
My brother went to the hosptial for a month
and my dad smoking.
Whats going on and what can i do?
Should i go to massachusetts, i dont want to let my family down. And i kinda do want to go
Please help!
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its natural for you to be scared of whats going on but you just have to embrace the fact that you still have people to hold on to you and make you feel comfortable. you've overcome so much,and its understandable that you don't want to loose anyone else for any means. When your going down to Mass, keep a notebook with you..and if you get nervous, write whats on your mind. I know it may sound silly, but it actually helps. Writing down whats on your mind helps get things off your mind, especially if you don't want to talk to anyone else about it. you have to be there for the rest of your family,don't limit yourself just because you're afraid of what might* happen. (God forbid) especially for your brother,because it seems like he's taking it the worst. if you really want your father to quit smoking, go online and look up the effects, and actually show him pictures of smokers lungs. i did this for my mom and she quit after 2 weeks. you have to know, its hard to quit an addiction and only half of the people who say they will quit,actually do. Its really up to them,its all in the mind. 65 isn't AS old as you think,trust me. My nana is 80 and she still drives fine. well we tried :]. hope we helpedd,good luck!
xkristen&jillx
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i need a new screenname. but i want it to be something sort of random.
my nickname is caro, pronounced "care-oh", not "car-oh", haha. so i was thinking of something like "carosaurus" or something stupid like that. i like my friends, which is "x3 (name)". just something simple. any ideas?
(i didn't include info about myself in the question because i want it to be something that has no revelance to my hobbies or appearance, etc.) (link)
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caromania?(careomania?)
CAR0 SAYS?
For Caros Sake?
Oh My Caro?
Got Caro?
Hey Its Caro?
Give a Caro Get a caro?
CuzCaroSaidSo
annddd thats all we've got :D
hope we helpedd!
xkristen&jillx
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Okay, I'm Joel and I'm a 14-year-old boy/teen with a problem. See, I had this weird dream a few nights ago and it was that I came face to face with my "DARK SIDE" One of the things that are involved is the Yin-Yang symbol. Now, I don't know what it has to do with me and my evil side. Plus I want to know if people DO have a dark side, like someone inside ourselves who lives in our shadow. I really need help, please. (link)
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Dreams are kind of something i dont take too seriously,they come from your consiounce(spelling?)and are affected by your everyday life. It might mean your facing a problem and you could handle it in a good manner or a bad one. So your dark side,would be the path of disaster and your good would lead to well,a better outcome? If you think about it,its not two of you, i mean,like the person below me said, theres good and bad in everyone. Yin-Yang symbols are together,right? they're just oppisite. Your dream could also mean you'd like to change something in your life,personality,or friends. your "dark " side might be your past expeirience with someone or something. well i hope i helped :]
xkisakissx
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do you think I should get my lip pierced, heres what I look like with a fake one in.
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=638mbeh (link)
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i think you'd look good with one thats thinnner and not as shiny,or even a stud.(i really like it though,just not as thick) i actually think a monroe would look good on you,and if you dont like it,it will always close up. hope i helped :D
good luck!
xkisakissx
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14/m whenever im somewhere and girls i do not know see me that are my age, they seem to be embarrassed and wont look me in the eye. I see them looking at me when im not looking at them and they wont face me. i went over to my friends house and she had two of her friends i had never met before. They were eating when i walked in and the two new girls looked really embarrassed and wouldnt look at me. then when they get to know me there not embarrassed anymore. does this happen to all people when they have never met before??? im not doing anything or looking at them strangely. (link)
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ahh you're probably a boy they found attractive and thats what some girls do. some get wicked shy and choke on there words,others are so confident and flirt as much as they can. and some are shy at first,but once they see your personality they're cool with you. also some hide it and just talk casually. if your not doing anything than i really can't think of any other reason than your a chick magnet. haha.
xkisakissx
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i want a new hairstyle but idk what would look good on me. if you answer my question ill snd you a pic of me 2 say what looks goood i just dont want every1 2 c it. so anyways im 13/f really light brownish hair i kinda have a big nose(lol) and i think my face is oval shaped. rite now i always part it in the middle but i want 2 get it layered and would side bangs (not side swept) but like the bangs tht are only on the sidess of ur face look good on me???
sry if tht was confusing!
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heyy,i'm pretty bomb at deciding what looks good on people,so any pictures you have i'll find a cute one for you. side bangs are basically the same thing as side swept,but yeah,i don't know yet ha. well i hope you decide to send me one because i'd like to help.
kay, bye for now :].
xkisakissx
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okay im a girl and i wear new era zoo york hat, volcom tank top, skinny jeans from anchor blue, and nike shoes whats my style? (link)
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you have a style all your own! really,i've never really seen an outfit like that,thats a good thing. it sounds cute as well. i mean,i guess nike;s normal,skinnyjeans is anything really,volcom and zoo york are skater brands,ahh your a mix of both then. go0 you :]
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Hi I am 16 and I am going to get both of my ears pierced in one day somewhere, I'm not sure where yet... I have been doing some research and I have heard that the piercing guns suck! and they screw up a lot... Do you think I should just get my ears pierced by a gun, or by hand at a professional piercing or tattoo shop? (link)
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ahh deffinatly choose the needle! it doesn't hurt as much,they numb your ear/nose/whatever. and besides,the gun shatters your cartiledge. you could get infections easier. just make surethe place is real good at keeping things steril(sp?) i hope i helped.good luck !
xkisakissx
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So. Why do people sterotype people again?
All Preps aren't obsessed with the color pink
All Jocks aren't stupid
and
All Homosexual guys don't dress nice, act like a girl, and write poetry.
What is up with sterotypes?
Jeez. (link)
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Ohh you know, the typical people who judge too fast,need something to put you in. when people don't like you, they'll call you a "poser" "prep" "emo" "loser"(anything they don't like.)It's mostly in the middle school days,but now its getting worse. Also,whats up with people asking how to be these things? Do they really want to be something they're not? Yeah,thats another one. Most people who label themselves want to be that. Most people who label others expect them to be that. I compleatly agree with you, no one is the same and yet everyone decides to (try and) make it that way. Originality has gone to the dogs,well,most of it.People say "hollister?oh,you prep. hottopic? EMO." Well,wtf,what if someone wears both? What do they do now? Easy.Make up another thing to put them in. Stupid people=p. But yeah,what everyone else said, almost everyone labels sometime in there life. (labels are for soup cans,not people.hmmm,i woouldn't be surprised if the person that made that up was a steriotyping fiend.)(i just steriotyped,i think)Swears are steriotypes too,kind of. But not really. Its the "prep,emo,goth,scene,banana,monkey,whatever." That gets me. Is a bunch of bullshit if you ask me. Thats whassup. ♥
ps.- sorry,this probably made no sence at all.oh well.
xkisakissx
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i have asked questions about this before but this one is different: please bare with me thanks,
i sent my pics to this new show that was coming on, and they said they wanted me to go there and audition. and then they gave me the adress and its in northcarolina. my dad doesnt want to take me. he says its too much money. i live in newyork. should i ask them if they can just like pay for me? so i can go there? do you think they will? im writing an email for them asking them nd telling them that i really want to audtion but i dont ahve the money. how can i ask them in a nice way if they can pay the flight for me? what should i write in the email? thanks alott. i really want this! (link)
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ok well if it's a big company,i'm really not sure if they will. its worth a shot,though. Also,what time are you going? if its soon, then i'd go for the train (it's most likely cheaper) anywayss, tell your dad you'll pay for HALF of it. (start working towards it now ! ) and tell him how much it means too you if you havn't already. And if he wont settle for you paying half, tell him you'll pay him half when you have it, and the other half the next time you have it. (confusing,sorry) sorry but i highly doubt the company will pay for you. To them it's just another audition,they probably get letters about this every day. OH,and also, make sure its not a scam ok?! my friend got scammed,out of a lot of money (i don;t know if this is the same thing or if you have to pay,but make sure they're a real company) anyways good luck and i hope you get it :]!
xkisakissx
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i think that my bestfriend is bi sexual.
im not sure though what are the signs of it? (link)
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Honestly, there is almost absolutly NO signs.
I Guess the only way is to see if they're all over the same sex and all over the opposite? maybe, if its a girl,they flirt with girls,boy,flirts with boys. you know? its really hard to tell. also, they could be really shy around the same sex and sometimes shy around opposite? BUT don't get me wrong here, shyness doesn't really mean anything. ugh,this is hard. Just ask,if you really want to risk a friendship. Or you could bring it up in a conversation somehow. Anddd by the way,that whole left handed thing, ITS most deffinatly not true where i am! ((i'm left handed,and compleatly straight btw)) Most of the bi kids in my school are right handed. hmmm. Weird thing about my school, bi is becoming a "trend". Next year, i bet most of the kids who say they are now are suddenly going to become straight. You know, you don't exactly become bi. You're kind of born with it,or hormones changed something,hereditary,eh..something like that. I'd google it. i know this was shitty advice,sorry. good luck though, but i think you should love he/she for who she/he is :] (not saying you don't though =p) hope i helped somewhat?
xkisakissx
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I have this friend, let's call her D. D copies everything I do. I mean it's a little stupid to complian over, but she took my title, #1 Pirates of the Caribbean Fan!, on myspace, and everything else. She copied my look, my title, my everything. I know, people just say don't worry about it or she just admires you, but I don't care! Sure, I liked to be liked (As a friend!), but I don't want to be worshipped! I mean, COME ON! Does everybody have to copy me and fight over me? When I was in school a couple weeks ago, my friends literally started fighting just to sit next to me at lunch! WHATS UP WITH THAT?! I like friends, but not my friends to kill my other friends for me! One time, my one friend D and ket's calll her T actually wanted to start a fist fight, just to sit next to me at lunch! And, I'm losing friends because I sit next to the people who don't beat each other up to sit next to me. I like all my friends all the same, but I don't want a massacre to happen! I NEED ADVICE BAD!!!! (link)
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holy crap. Ok,well this is how i found out to stop copyers. find something you know they can't copy. you know they can't copy your life,as much as they want it. anyways, i would start making my own clothes,purses,or something along those lines. they'll grow out of copying eventually. As for the seat thing,if they fight to sit with you,just leave the table and sit with your other friends. tell them you don't like being around people who fight and don't see why everyone should fight over sitting next to you. ((Add in you like them all the same,and its just a lunch table,seriously.)) sounds like your friends have some growing up to do,sorry. and i would change your myspace title to something that has your name in it. or like a little quote. you could do ((your name))L♥VES P0+C! :] :]. and also for myspace,if you want,put pictures taken by you on there (if you like photography) one more thing,add in you hate copiers (if you haven't already) because,they obviously don't want you mad at them,(since they kind of worship you,they wouldn't want you to get mad at them...ha,you knoww?) anyways i hope i helped :] good luck!
xkisakissx
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does anyone know where i could get some hair dye like maybe blue,red,pink, or any other color? (link)
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hot topic, deffinatly.
walmart might have some?
iparty will have the hair dye that comes out with in 1-2 washes.
i hope i helped :]
xkisakissx
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