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Hey, i'm a young teen who leads a normal life, or about as normal as it gets. i love to help people and hope to some day become a psychologist. You're welcome to ask me anything you want and i'll answer the very best i can.

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Hello. I am a 14/m. A few months ago I made a REALLY bad choice and it got me arrested. :-\ Now everyone of my friends parents hate me.... except for two. Those are the two who have met me. The ones who have met me like me. All the others hate me for no reason at all. Half of them have never even seen me and they hate me. They won't even give me a chance. I regret what I did. But i think I deserve a chance. It just pisses me off so much. Is there anything I can do?

alright people are assholes for judging u! thats freaking retarded i hate when ppl do that anyway. i can understand your want to be accepted but i learned recently that there is no point in trying to please people because they will slit your throut when yournot paying attention and if they are to blind to notice all the good things about you then they aren't worth pleasing at all. dont even bother. well lemmi know what you think of my advice sn is xcrimsonxsinsx6

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I've liked my best friend's neightbor for a long time, but the only problem is: she liked him too. I understand because they're neighbors and really good friends, but he's one of my really good friends too. He says he's liked me since around the same time I started liking him. But this summer, my friend said that he started messing around with her. He even kissed her once. But he says he doesn't remember any of that. He even admitted this fall she was just a friend and he really liked me. But a couple months later, things got pretty rocky and he stopped saying I love you and my friend said that he said he didn't like me anymore. A couple weeks ago she came to school crying because she lost her virginity to him. Yeah, that's right. I talked to him about it and he admited it, adding that he wished it was me. Hello? I told him that she said that he didn't like me, and he said he does. Now he's saying I love you again and asking me to come over alone. I secretly want this but I don't want to hurt my best friend. My question is who's lying and what are his motives?

alright his evil side: he just wants sex from as many people as he can get and he's a horny bastard. good side: well i dunno if there rele is one but maybe he really does like you. but do you honestly wanna risk your friendship for a guy and do you wanna be with someone who has already been in your friend? i dunno but that creeps me out

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I was at my friends birthday party which was in an indoor swimming pool. I was wearing a Tiffany ring that my mom had gave me for my birthday last week. I forgot to take it off and when I got home I realized it was missing. What do I do if my mom asks me about it?

call your friend and ask if she has seen it. if not tell your mom the truth she'll be a little upset but there's no use lying to her

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If God is the "Creator", then who created him? Surely one can not create himself. So, with that said, who said that God has all control over everything?

truthfully i dont believe in god because i believe that sumone thought up god and he is only an imaginary friend for grown ups. so basically your worshipping the person who created or thought up god. in my religion i am my own god so i worship only myself. i am a satanist (has nothing to do with satan) for more info u can go to www.satanism101.com great place

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well first i wanna apoligize for this being so long!!!!

i sometimes feel depressed and like the world doesnt want me not all the time but most of the time!!!i have fun with my family sometimes but we argue all the time! then sometimes find myself faking injures so i can get medication but when my mom tells me to go get it from the cabinet i take more than im supposed to so it can make me go to sleep so i can hear anymore arguing! Then i find myself ctting constantly over stupid things! Then ill write sucide poems i keep them all in a box and later on when im fine i read them it makes me more depressed. I started smoking b/c i heard somewhere that it calms you down. sometimes i get frunk just so i cant remember what happened last night. i fell like im the worst person ever and i really want to die! does anybody have any advice? plz help


-lost hope

alright the most important thing is that you realize you have a problem. you seem to have gotten to that so don't take this offensively but you need to see someone for help. i've been through sumthing similar like you r going thru for no reason i'll just get depressed or maybe for a good reason but you have to realize that cutting and smoking are not gonna ever make you feel better. they r gonna make it worse. writing is a really good way to get your feelings away, but you dont HAVE to read them over again. you can simply let all your thoughts transfer to paper and then save them or this sounds kinda gay but it may work. save all your papers that you write and each one read over like a little after you write it. think of wut the main problem is and think of how you could fix it. then you maybe could go outside and light it on fire and let it drop to the ground as if you were throwing your problems away. it may be easier to just write instead of tring to make things rhyme. i hope i helped my sn is xcrimsonxsinsx6 incase you just need sum1 to talk to who might understand

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I kno this guy and i have been going out with him fer a lil under 4 months and i really want to french kiss him, but i have never frenched kissed a guy be4.. idk what to do, how should i start it should i say i'm gunna french u cause how will he know? my friends say i am obsessed with him so i looked up the word and the definition was thinking about it all the time.. i allways think about him.. i think i am pethetic.. what should i do? please i really need help, i asked my friends and the just sorta are sick of me talking about him.. i am so confused!

there is such thing as obsession over boys but please understand that it may come bak and bite u in the ass or hurt you deeply. but french kissing shouldn't be so hard. your not pathetic and believe it or not neither is this... practice on sumthing b/c it may seem gay or stupid but this is how you will get good this is gay too but practice makes perfect and its true as for frenching him just go for it dont announce your gonna french him just wait for the rite moment one that you feel is magical (that was gay too but thats wut love is like) then lean in if he leans in too start kissing then stick your tongue inside his mouth you'll kno wut to do next but dont get too carried away if u know wut i mean ;)

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i have a quick question. and i really want opinions.
ok so im just wondering, but would it be totally wrong to go out with your friend's ex boyfriend? i mean its happened to me a couple of times. I would go out with a guy, we would break up, and then he would go out with my friend. it hurt me a lot, but im over it now. Some people tell me its wrong to go out with a friend's ex, and some people tell me its alright to do it. aand im not sure.

NO,
do not do that. It hurts your friends the most and it upsets them for you going into their territory. its one thing if you didn't know but you do and that would be very wrong. whoever did it to you is not a very good friend. if a guy your friend likes ever asks you out say no because your friends should mean more to you than guys do.

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Hi, I'm a really really shy guy, and so like asking people out (which I've only done once) takes like all my energy and like an hour, and I always worry about what if she says no, what if, what if, etc. Are there any good ways to overcome shyness? And saying to just face my fears doesn't exactly help... can someone tell me how to face them instead? Thanks all!

well,
my friends are like that a lot and since i am a girl i can tell you that most girls will not deny you in a mean way. if she does then you obviously are not asking the right person because she is a bitch. i woulnd't want to hurt someones feelings but heres what you can do. psych yourself up and practice or get your self ready. practice not stuttering while getting nervous because she may lose her patience. i sometimes threaten my friends with bodily harm because they like some guy and never stop talking about him but never do anything. so just go for it.

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why did you have to move!!!! we want you here!!! BAKK IN UR TOWN!!!!!!!! come bakk!!!!! PLEASE COME BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!o bye the way this is tie :-D ILYSM!!!! AHHH COME BAKK!!!!!!!!!!!

i want to come bak but i cant ilysm too. Miss u!

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me and my boyfriend we're making out and stuff and he tried to take my shirt off and i wouldn't let him and he raped me. He said if i told anyone he would find a way to kill me. so should i tell someone or keep it a secret?

YES, call the police on his raping bastard ass so he knows he cant get away with taking adavtage of girls.

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my friend haley is moving and i dunt want her to...can she live with me or one of her other friends...SHE MUST STAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

much lovee

I dont want to move f.o.n. but i have to. I hate my dad for it sumtimes but in the end it will all work out. You'll see me soon. I luv u!!!

HALEY

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my boyfriend cuts and im really scared for him..he just started so i want to stop him, but when i do he gets mad at me. wat should i do? help help help!

THIS IS A WORTH WHILE ANSWER! I HAVE EXPERIENCE WITH THIS!!! Cutting starts out as a small action and then becomes a major addiction that the person depends on the cutting to take their mental pain away. It is a way for your boyfriend to concentrate on the physical pain instead of the mantal pain he is suffering. He obviously has something wrong that he is afraid to talk about or express so he takes it out on himself. Now that you understand the problem understand that he needs help. You need to convince him that he has a sickness and he needs help or the pain will only get worse. If he gets mad at you understand that you SHOULD NOT BACK OFF. This could be a life or death situation. Also important that you tell an adult you trust or get him to see a psycologist. He may be mad that you did that but in the end he will thank you for saving his life!

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what would be a place to shop for the first day of school clothes if you were a goth or punk

stores not websites please!!!!
thnx :-)

journeys
HOT TOPIC
spencers
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department store
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My sister asked me to ask the following question since she is too young to go on this site...
My sister got a gerbial(YUCK!) but anyways.. she doesnt know what to name it! Its a brownish/tan Male.
Could someone give us some idea's for my sisters pet???


-Luv-
Meg


P.S. Please no websites.

sandy
bobby
mishy
michael
jr.
dobby
cheese doodle
doodle

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I like my bests friends bf n i slept with him. should i tell my friend or not...im really nervous because he doesnt even like her he likes me and if i tell her i KNOW that she will be very very mad and never talk to me again...i dont want to lose her...what should i do!!??

You have two choices both with positive points and negative points. Ok lets say you dont tell her the best thing is to ignore it and if her bf dumps her DO NOT GO OUT WITH HIM. SHE MAY SAY IT IS OK BUT IT WILL REALLY UPSET HER THAT YOU STABBED HER IN THE BACK. Now lets say you tell her. you should say that you really liked her bf and you slept with him but now you hate him and yourself for making that descion and your so sorry and never meant to hurt her. She may be really mad but if she's your friend and if she put herself in that position she will forgive you.

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Ok so yesterday i was raped =(....but see the thing is i dont know how to tell my parents....or anyone. I kind of feel embaresed that it happend and idk. But should i tell them and how should I tell them.
thank you soo much

I'm so sorry!!! I you must be emotionally distraught so you should just sit your parents down and tell them you have something important to say. Let it out and if you know who did it say the name or if you know what he looks like lock the picture in your mind so the police can get a drawing. Keep going things will get better.

Sincerely concerned

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-I'm extremely tiny - 5'1, and thin - about 120
-and my breasts are size 34E / 34DD
-theyre so big it looks weird
-there is NO bathing suit top out there that will cover me
-at cheerleading i have to wear a regular bra and TWO sports bras on top just to support them
- i cant wear button up shirts cause they pop the buttons
-if i dont wear a bra, they hang down and it hurts
-i exercise, RUN, i eat healthy, plus im a cheerleader, and my boobs are STILL big
-everyone in my family has huge boobs, but still...
-i dont have back pain or anything, theyre just huge and embarrassing

is there any way i can exercise to make my boobs smaller? No breast reduction. I'm only 15. please help, i HATE it.

Honestly i really dont know. I know as a teenager it is difficult to communicate with adults but you need to gather up the courage to talk to your mom about it or ask your doctor the best solution or if there are any exercises to help you.

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My good friend is having a pool party tomorrow and she invited many people to go. One of the people going is her boyfriend. I don't think I have ever hated anyone more than I hate her boyfriend. He treats me like shit, he treats HER like shit and they honestly make me sick when I see them together. I originally wasn't going to go because of the fact that he was going to be there, but then my friend Cara convinced me to go as well as my boyfriend. I made the decision not to go because I don't want to start anything with them. I know everyone is going to be there to have a good time, and I want to have fun but I CANNOT have fun if he is near me. I can't even begin to describe how much I loathe her boyfriend. I sort of feel bad that I'm not going but I know I'm making the right choice in staying home because I don't want to ruine it for anyone else just because I'm going to be misterable. But my question is, do you think I should go anyway? She really wanted me to go but I seriously will not be able to keep my anger inside if I see them together.

i agree with another person who answered. You should go and show her bf that your having fun and surround yourself by a lot of friends. But b4 you go tell your friend about how you feel and maybe she can do something about it.

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