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im ashley, most of my friends call me ash. im 18 years old & a senior in highschool. im a very outgoing person, im always smiling and laughing :)i try to always be positive about things. feel free to ask me anything!

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Alright well I have been sick for about HALF the summer.. and so ive had to be inside all the time and im as white as a feather WHITE not light.. well I was wondering if you had any tips on how to get tanner faster (without using the fake stuff)

Try laying out in the sun, the first time you do it you will burn because your skin is so light but after that you should be fine. If you dont feel like doing that then go to a tannin booth and tan there.



...AshNicolex3

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I need some help do you think that I guy should like you for who you are or what you look like

Both a guy should like you on your looks and your personlity! but mostly on your personlity


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about a month ago my boyfriend and I slept together. recently, i've noticed a ton of crazy things. my boobs are really soft and they hurt alot; my stomach randomly gets sharp pains in it or tingly type things, i have really bad headaches, i sleep more than usual and i kinda pee alot. i think i'm pregnant. my friend is buying me a test so i'll know tomorrow for sure. but is a month long enough that it will actually detect anything? please help. i'm 15 and im kinda lost at this whole situation.

Have you had your period lately? If not the chances are that you are pregnant and them are signs that you are pregnant! soo you just might be pregnant! good luck!What i would do is tell your parents right away and see if they can help you, and if you dont want the baby you can always put it up for adoption or have aborchion or however you spell it


...AshNicolex3

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Well, my boyfriend and I are (I think) going to go to second base quite soon. The problem is, I am really self consious about my breasts. The nipples are really flat and small. Do you think this would bother my boyfriend?

If your boyfriend really cared about you, he wouldnt mind how your breat look! but it mite bother him, i wouldnt rly know because i aint a guy lol


...AshNicolex3

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people say running is a way to lose wieght but can i just walk instead? if not, why cant i?

they are both about the same they both make you lose weight but running makes u lose it faster so if u want to lose the weight faster run but if not walk!



...AshNicolex3

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My boyfriends aunt like hates me. Now we can't hang out because of her and i really love him and he really loves me ut it's so hard because we'll neever see each other. I never even did anything bad or wrong she just hates me for some reason.well maybe because i broke up with him 2 times for VERY good reasons. What could I do to let her let us hang out? Or at least see each and hang out somewhere! thank you!

Try asking your boyfriend to talk to his Aunt about this maybe she just doesnt like any of his girlfriends but who knows



...AshNicolex3

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My vagina itches realy bad! not inside, but outside if you know what i mean. There's also a little red striaght line from where my vagina starts. Its about half inch long. I havent got my first period yet, does that have anything to do with this? Please tell me what this is and what i should do.

I dont know what is it, but i would ask your mom first and if she dont know waht it is then maybe you should consult a doctor about it, they would know what it is!



...AshNicolex3

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My friend is really fake. She used to be nice, but recently she has changed for the worse. She always talks about people, and I have told her to stop, because how do I know she is not talking about me behind my back. I want to be her friend, but it is getting ridiculous. I am so fed up with her, cause when I tell her how I feel she tries to turn it on me!Please help, I am going crazy here.

If she doesnt listen to what you have to say then i dont think she is a really good friend and i think you could do better!



...AshNicolex3

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are hoop earrings still in?

Yeah i think they are! But even if they aint i wouldnt care because i wouldnt want to be a follower!


...AshNicolex3

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i am just wondering on where i should go for a body check up for trying for a baby

Try a doctor!!!



...AshNicolex3

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0k so i just got back from the beach with 3 of my friends and our other 3 guy friends were there too. we hung out with them alot. one of the guys (lets call him Jimmy) has a girlfriend and they've been going out for like 10 months. i know his girlfriend pretty well and stuff. then one night me and Jimmy were in the lobby while all our other friends were in the bathrooms. we were both on the couch and he leaned it and we just started to make out. hes soooo hott and i wasn't thinking so i just gave in and didn't pull away until like i dunno like 10 seconds? lol yeah so now i feel reallly guilty cause his girlfriend has no idea he did this and they are like in love. i don't want to tell anyone cause it would like RUIN me cause his girlfriend has a lot of friends and so yeah. i dunno if i should tell anyone?? please help!

If i was you i would just keep it a secert and i wouldnt tell anyone not even one of your best friends because you and your friend could get in a fight and she mite spill, but who knows



...AshNicolex3

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omg dare is this nice song and i dont know what its called but it goes i gotta shake it off or something? help who sings it and where can i get it?

Mariah Carey- shake it off
that is a really good song i like it!

...AshNicolex3

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Hey so I have a boyfriend and hes really hot but I like him cause I like his personality. So my friend Allie kept on telling him to dump me and go out with her. She already has a boyfriend and I told him and we are both really pissed at her and we dont know what to do. Should I just ignore the fact that shes trying to steal my boyfriend or something else?

Thanks xo0ox

What i would do is confront her about the whole thing and tell her to back off because he is your boyfriend not hers and she shouldnt care anyways because she has a boyfriend and i think this allie girl needs to get a life and stick with her own boyfriend and she needs to stop trying to steal other peoples hope i helped


...AshNicolex3

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I want to add music to my xanga but i don't know what to type when it says "music" then u type a URL. I don't really care what song it is, I just want to see if it will work, so could someone give me an example of what to type because i just don't get it.

Go to google and type in playlist url, then some websites will come up and click on one of them, it should show you a playlist url, copy and paste that in music and find some songs you like and put it in the url its that simple.

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what is spooning?

its basiclly cuddling



...AshNicolex3

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ok...so I have wen't to the beach this summer right and I hung out with this girl one day and she asked for my phone number so that we could hang out again tommorw (I am a girl and we were just being friends) so yea gave her my cellular...and all week we hung out and stuff and I wen't to her house and she came to myine and we just did the normal stuff that girls do and well...she has this brother who was crushin on me and I did not think anything about it I mean at school it happens alott and I am just the girl who they crush on and ask out...I AM SO NOT BRAGGING! I am just saying this to tell you that I did not know the brat was hanging around me the whole wek just for her brother so that he could get my phone number and call me every two seconds and worry the piss out of me so COULD ANYONE PLEASE TELL ME HOW TO BLOCK A NUMBER ON A VRIZON WIRELESS PHONE! P.s I do have a b/f and he is on vacation right now and he is comeing back tommorw! ANd yes I have begged this dude to PLEASE STOP CALLING AND TEXTING ME! BUT HE WILL NOT!

Try calling your phone company and ask them if they can by any chance get you a new phone number,if that dont work then ask them if there is any possible way they will not allow blocked phone numbers to call your cell. It mite work it mite not try n see!


...AshNicolex3

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ok this will be long but please help me out here....

Last summer my mom and I went to canada to visit her best friend (scince high school)she has two sons. we had a good time and stayed over a night. and then we left I never really knew the dad but i said hello cause he had known me scince i was born.
so we left and about six monthes later we got a call from linda thats her name, and she said that her husband had died and that it was a car accident and that he didn't suffer but we were all sad and i was too and i thought that maybe they would come to visit us but for a long time they didn't

Then about five monthes later she calls and says she is coming down with her kids who are ages 17 and 14, and they will be staying near our house and will come to visit us and im so scared because i wont know what to say and what to do. What if they start to cry how do i act what can i say to keep their mind off of the subject?

and what are good conversation starters i feel so bad for them but it will be terrible if i just come out and say it!

someone please help me ill rate a five for good advice.

since they are coming down and visiting you, try taking them site seeing and introduce to your friends so that way you can keep their minds off of their dad. If they start to cry, re ensure them that everything is gonna be okay and that you are there for them, even tho you dont know them that well. but try and make the best out of it and good luck to you and your family



...AshNicolex3

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is jessica simpson a real blonde??

yeah


...AshNicolex3

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i have been dating my boyfriend for about 7 1/2 months. Its getting really serious and we tell eachother everything! How do i tell him i think he acts more like my best friend then my boyfriend?

You should be completely honest with him and tell him the honest truth, i think he would respect you more if u told him the truth instead of a lie..so good luck and i hope everything works out!


...AshNicolex3

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ok im skinny but i have big and flabby thighs. Does anyone know any GOOD excersise to make your thighs smaller and less flabby?

I rate high!!!

Try doing some squads, or even donkey kicks, running, walking, watch what you eat, lunges, riding a bike, swimming might help!



...AshNicolex3

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