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♥ My name is Kelly. I`m 17 years old. I live in a small town in Arizona. I`m a born and raised Christian. I love God, my family, and my friends. I have been through alot throughout my teenage years like from boyfriends, girl drama, loosing mediate family members, moving all the way across the country, starting new schools - making new friends! You can ask me ANYTHING and I will try my hardest to answer your questions. Please, don`t ask stupid questions because i will give you a stupid answer back. You can also email me at xstarbrightbabix@yahoo.com, IM me at xostarbrightbaby, Or my quote site. link is on the right module. =]

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well i really truly still have feelings for my ex boyfriend. but we dont even talk anymore and when he got a new girlfriend it really hurt me. So i got a new boyfriend to try and make him jelous but i just couldnt keep my new boyfriend with feelings toward my old one. idn what to do. i cant just start talking to him we've been broken up for about 2 months but we've gone out for about 6 .and the pain wont go away i no he must feel it to becuase he always stares at me and i see it.i really dont no what to do.

Just tell your boyfriend right now that you`re not ready for a relationship just yet and that you want to be friends. As for your ex; forget him seriously if he can`t even try to talk to you then don`t try to back. Give it time though because maybe your exboyfriend will talk to you again. Hope things work out. ♥

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how often do you get discharge? is it just around when you are getting your period or is it daily no matter what? and if its only when you get your period, how long before you get your period do you get discharge? thanks.

You can have discharge everyday, it`s the natural way the body cleans itself out down there. You don`t get it when you have your period. ♥

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k i have like 20 friends and i wants to get them somthin for christmas cuz they're doin the same for me but i dont want to buy them all the same presents can u give me some ideas to give to my friends which are 13 and 14

Since it`s christmas they`re are ALOT of things you can do. You can make gift bags or mini stockings, put candy canes, some candy, lip gloss, make-up, and maybe some other cute little gifts in them. I usually give out cards for my friends, and write personal letters to them with candy canes. (it`s cheaper that way haha) Another thing you could do is see what gifts your friends want for christmas and buy them something they want. Even if you want you could always do secret santa with everyone so you only have to buy for one person but get them a few items. Hope this helps. If you need any more suggestions I can try to help you again, just leave a message in my inbox if you want. :] ♥

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ok soo i`m 14/f and i have just feel soo shity about everything me and my mom got into a pretty big fight today and it was really heart breaking because we were getting along soooo great. and now things feel like everythings falling apart i broke up with the guy i liked a lot because he never had time for me because of fucking hockey and he really hurt me when i broke up with him. we`re not even friends. its soo heart breaking and i try to talk to him but either he gives me dirty looks for ignors me or makes fun of my text messages. i keep telling myself hes not worth it but it hurts soo god damn much! the only person that has stuck by myside my hole life almost is my best friend Nes. she understands me and i love that. and she knows how much mike might to me. and it just sucks i trying to flirt with other guys but they are starting to get annoying, i think i need a vacation. really or like go to the spa!! i got no sleep lastnight because i couldn`t stop thinking about him. i`m just slowly getting over him. and i really need to!! for ym health i have lost 15 pounds because of the break up. i need help fast!!

First, try apologizing to your mom..it will defintely help you feel better. Second, that guy truely isn`t worth it and immature if he can`t talk to you anymore and gives you the cold sholder. Don`t try to think that because you broke up with that guy, finding a guy right away will help because sometimes you need to take a break from relationships until you`re ready again. Take things slow, I know it`s going to hurt but you have your best friend who seems like a good friend. Meanwhile, hang out with your friends and do things that make you relaxed and have fun. Try suggesting to your mom to go to a spa one day or something like that. Hope this helps. ♥

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ok so.
there is this boy that ive known forever seriously since i was like 3. and we have been best friend ever since and then one day we started liking eachother and he even turned his old girlfriend down when she wanted him back for me but then i found out right after he used me... he went right back out with his old girlfriend and i mean she is a slut she even cheated on him but he doesnt care and at first me and my friend htought it was becuase she was a slut and she would do stuff with him but she hasnt. and i really like him. but then theres this other guy that i like to.. now dont get me wrong i am not a whore but idn.

The guy you hooked up with is a jerk. He obviously used you, maybe to get back at his ex. He isn`t worth it. I say you should let him go and move on to the other guy. Try being just friends with that guy if he means alot to you, and don`t do anything with him cause you`re going to get hurt even more. Hope things work out. ♥

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hi okay this is going to weird, but is there special stuff you use to uhmm shave down there, if so where do you buy it. and what age do girls do it. and do a lot of girls do it?
ehh thanks for your help. a lot !

You should use shaving cream or conditioner. I`m not really sure what ages girls are doing it but I know that alot of girls do it now. ♥

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ive been confused for awhile now. im still in love with my ex. i cant help it, he is everything i look for in a guy. well i like this other guy alot too. i was found out he is goin to ask me out and idk what to do. i know he would treat me great but i still love my ex

You can tell him you`re not ready for a relationship yet and you want to be just friends first and get to know eachother. Don`t rush yourself, if he likes you he`ll wait. ♥

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mmk, so last year i was seeing a shrink but then i became uncomfortable with her because i knew her outside of the office and it was just coincidental like my parents didn't seyt it up that way thats just how things worked out. I became untrusting so i stopped going. I want to go see a new shrink but im not sure how to tell my mom and dad again. like, last time i was haveing a big problem and now i just want to go for like that extra person to talk to you know?... how shouldi go about askingg?

Tell them you don`t feel comfortable seeing your shrink and would like to get a new one. They should understand. ♥

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do guys like it better when your completely shaved down there? thankss.

It really depends on the guy. Some like it, some don`t. ♥

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hey wat is discharge? because recently when i go to the bathroom i have been getting this white stuff in my underwear that is kind of hard. im not sure if it has hardened or what. is that discharge? i am 13/f if that helps. thanks in advance.

Yes it is. You get discharge because your body cleans itself everyday. Just buy pantiliners and change them every 2-3 hours. ♥

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i am 13/f and i was wondering if i am supposed to shave my pubic hair? When are supposed to or should?

thanks

It`s your decision (most girls do tho). But you could always trim it first and if your comfortable enough you can shave it. Hope this helps. ♥

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my nose really hurts! like the outside part around your nostril.. its killing me. its barely a little pink, but it feels swolen and is painful to the touch or just if i move my face. and its only on the left side of my nose. i havent been sick or anything, so it cant be raw. what can i do?

Could be either the starting of a white head or black head. I had one last week right around that area and it was so painful. Just let it go naturally and don`t try to pop it or play with it yet. Hope this helps. ♥

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Okay.. so over the summer me and one kid i have known since i was in first grade went out. and then when we broke up we kinda were mad at each other and stuff but then we became like best friends again.(& he got another girlfriend)I could tell him like anything and seriously he was just like my best friend. Then all of a sudden, online, we were just talking and randomly he just told me i was like stuck up and thought i was all cool and ms. popular and stuff. I want to be his friend again, but I don't want to change myself to make one person happy when i have a bunch of people that like me the way i am. (and by the way, i DO NOT act like that!)

So like.. I dont really know what to do because i miss him but he's being stupid. lol
help?

Like you said don`t change for one person to make them happy. Just give it time. Wait until he apologizes or talks to you first. If he doesn`t then you know he`s not worth it. Hope things work out. ♥

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i am thirteen, and there was this boy that likes me. I like him too, but my friends all hate him. Should I not get with him and be with my friends or get with him and have my friends look at me in disappointment?

We`ll they can`t tell you want to do. Honestly they need to get over it. So do what your heart tells you. Good luck. ♥

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Well theres this one girl in one of my classess i like her and she some how found out that i like her and i don't know if she likes me back or if i can get her to like me.
Please Help. I am 13 and i'm a male.

Try talking to her more even it`s just saying hi and flirt with her. Just don`t over do it by showing off and embarrasing her. :p Good luck. ♥

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This one guy I know from work, walked past me the other day & rubbed my arm? Does this mean he likes me?

It really depends, he could have done it by accident but if he`s been showing signs of flirting maybe he does. ♥

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Am I the only one alive who thinks it's terrible that kids (13-16) are having sex? I'm only 18, but when I was 13, I was riding my bike and doing karate, not giving blowjobs on the school bus. But thats the norm now, and if you haven't had sex by the time you're 17, you must be ugly or way religeous. What on earth!? Am I the only one disgusted by this trend?

I agree with kids being so young having sex and doing sexual things. But just because your 17 and older and still a virgin doesn`t mean your religious or ugly. People have other reasons why they choose to not have sex yet. ♥

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Hey can any one tell me what an IM is?

Instant Message. ♥

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Okay so i like this boy.
I guess i like him to much becuause i did stuff with him [if you know what i mean].
i found out he didnt like me
and that he kinda used me.
and that he liked another girl
he asked her out and they are going out but then i found out that he wanted to dump her for like no reason
but then i thought about it
and i think he just wanted to break up with her to do stuff with me
and not have a girlfriend to worry about.
do you think that could be the case?
but im not going to do stuff since i know he used me, but its to late to do anything now but im just wondering

thanks!

Yeah, and plenty of guys do it. The only thing you can really do to prevent things like these is make sure the guy actually has feelings and make him wait to do things. There are plenty of other guys out there that won`t just want you for that and actually have feelings for you. ♥

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Last summer, this boy that was my BEST FRIEND. Came to my house in the middle of the night, to do it with me. In the beginning when we were on the phone, I played along, I thought he was kidding, I even asked my friends.. i was like.. hes kidding right? & there like oh yeah. So i went with it. Then he told me he'd be at my house later. He doesn't live really close so it was about a 3 mile walk. When he came, of course I said no. Ever since, he got mad at me & hasn't spoken to me since. I miss him, he was my best friend. Was I wrong? I mean at the time, I felt so, so smart & all. That I said no. Now, I feel like I messed up something, I messed up the friendship & its all my fault.

Am I wrong?
How can I make it better?
or realize, i wasn't wrong? .. if i'm not.

Sounds like he might have only wanted sex from you. Maybe he thought you were being serious and was embarrased he walked all the way to your house and didn`t get anything. I think you did the right thing. Just give him time. And after a while just try to have a conversation with him and maybe talk about what happend. Just be careful he doesn`t try to do it again. ♥

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