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At lunch today, I started talking to my friend ( a guy) about his "girlfriend" (nothing bad or anything), like in front of her. She's at the table. I forget what I said, but it was just about them too. And then half our table went to get lunch but his *girlfriend* and I didnt, so we were there alone. Then she told me she broke up with him last night, so I was like "oops" in my head. And when they all got back, my 2 friends (the ex gf and bf) were like so unhappy. He had his head down..and in the next class he looked like he was going to cry. He's a good friend of mine and I felt so bad that I brought it up..because I didn't know about it. I don't know exactly what I am asking for..it's just that he was so upset. so..i dunno?? :'(

It's not you fault hun, you didn't know that they were broke up... your just feeling false guilt... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Well you know in school how there are groups (preps, loners, etc) well im a new kid at this school and im in a group, but none of them are labeled, but i have known the people in the group before i went to this school. Now there ignoring me, and leaving me out of a lot of stuff and trying to get me pissed off, I'm also friends with some other people, and i told them how nice they are, and they said that their a bunch of sluts, and i shouldnt join their group. But my friends are leaving me out. Should i join a different group ( the slut group, even though i know their not sluts, my friends are just jealous.) Or just be left out, but still in my group that i am already in. If you have questions or if you're confused please leave me a not in my inbox or just ask for advice. I NEED AN ANSWER BEFORE ITS TOO LATE.

Go join the "slut group" because you already have friends there and make more friends! If those other people are ignoring you, then they aren't your friends at all! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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well see, my friend Ricky like just broke up w/ his gf. And he was really into her. I mean REALLY. he loved her more than anyhting in the world. And now she broke ^ w/ him for another guy and hes soo fuckin depressed now. he started to cut himself again ((which he hasnt done once since they went out)). And hes attempting suicide. Im so scared idk what to do. And im mad cuz mad becouse i cant do anything. so if u guys have any ideas please tell me. im desperate. i dont want him to die.....

Sit him down and talk to him about it! His life isn't worthing losing for a stupid ex... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Ok. My cat Zoey will not stop pooping on the floor! She has a litter box and all she does is poop on the floor right next to it. She's not a baby, shes almost 4 yrs. old and she's always used the litter box fine, just recently she has started doing this, her litter box is clean because i clean it at least once every two days and i dont know what to do with her anymore, she has done this at least 10 times. I know that like putting their nose in it and saying no works on dogs but does it work od cats? Please if anyone knows anything i can do then tell me! Thanks in advance!

Take Zoey to the vet, it may have worms or something worse! I hoped i helped... :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Aright well last Friday, before Halloween me and my friends had an idea of gettin ppl to dress in black and I made flyers and handed them out. And sum how one of the teachers found out about it cuz sumone said my name infront of the teacher and said that I made the flyers (wich I did) anyway she told the assistant principal that I did it and he came up to me and told me to give him the rest of the flyers. So I did and he starts given me all of this bullshit on how it's gang related when he has organized for us to wear red shirts, and there is sumthin else to. Aright there is this one gurl that she came into school and she was wearing a short short skirt that when ever she bends over her ass literally is showin, and the assistant principal saw her but he didn't say anything at all and she came in with a short black skirt and long knee hight boots lookin like a hooker and the assistant principal didn't say anything. So the part that really pisses me off is that we wore black lipstick and he said that it was not aloud when last year we wore black lipstick and he didn't say anything. So it pisses me off that we can't wear black lipstick and sum hoe can some in and look like a prostetute and come in with her ass showin. And they say that guys can't wear anypink wich is wrong, I mean guys should be able to wear anything they want. Please help cuz all of this is just wrong and they kno it!!

Yeah, that's what it was like at my old school... Write a letter to the school board or make a petition... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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ok my mom and my sister tryed too hurt my brother bye browing up his car and i broke my sister noes and my mother wind sheild and i have no one too talk too about it no one understands help me and tell me what to do? im so lost i can't live with out my brother i dont have a father he killed him self. .

First of all, go see a counselor!Then, go to the Child Protective agency or whatever it's called and tell them what your mother and sister tried to do to hurt your brother! Go get a pregnancy test from somewhere... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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ok, well, i was babysitting the other night for these people and they were each going off to do their own thing. well, the mom left first, and the dad was supposedly leaving pretty quickly after, but instead he hung around for awhile. i was like, ok, um..why am i here if youre gonna sit around? well, i soon found out. he wasnt going anywhere. he put his kids in thier bedroom while i was cleaning something up, and he came up behind me and started grabbing me. he told me that if i yelled, hed kill me. well, i punched him where the sun dont shine and he let me go, but im sure that if i hadnt got away, he would have attacked me. but now i dont know what to do. he didnt rape me or anything, so should i really tell someone about it? all he did was grab me. they cant put you in jail for that, can they? im just wondering what i need to do about him....im supposed to go babysit again next week, and i cant exactly tell her why i dont wanna do it..so...HELP PLEASE

Tell someone!!! And deffinetely don't go babysit at their house again! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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well its weird im 12 and my gf is 14 and she asks if i want to have sex wut should i say

Say no! You are only 12!!! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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so far me and my boyfriend have had the PERFECT relationship. we've been going out for 10.5 months and i dont know what to get him for our 1 year anniversary?? what should i get him? do i get him anything?? do i make him something?? if so what?? HELP!!

You can make him a photo album for all the special times yall have had, get him a watch, or you can get him tickets to his favorite team or band... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I want to get Windows XP and i was just wondering where i can get it? how much is the average cost? and is there anyone i can get it online?

You can buy the installer from like any computer store like Best Buy. You can't get it online anywhere... I don't know how much it costs though... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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i really like the alex but the promblem is that my friend lori likes or loves him too. my other friend cat told us that she talked to alex and he told her that he would end up dating lori. i really really like him, he so sweet.and i know well think he likes me to. but i know that my friend and him are going to be the "thing" by next week or so. so should i forget about him and move on plzzz help!!!

Yes move on, of he likes Lori let it be, but if he likes you, let him come to you... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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Okay, I don't know if your any good at this but I've known this guy Mick since I was 5 pretty much (I'm 18 now), we have a good friendship and everything then his bro. comes and asks me if I would possibly go out with Mick, I told him yeah, so about a week later Mick and I were hanging out in my truck listening to music, and he asked me out and verything started going good till we went to a competition for band and he met this other chick from Dyer County named A.C. and she wouldn't leave us alone and about 3-4 days later we broke up but we're still friends and hangout out and everything, but the thing that bothers me is that one minute he'll act like he still likes me more than a friend (He still does, he told me himself) then he'll act like he hates me when his bro. Justin will stick us on the same shift to work for the ballgames, Justin's meaning to stick us together like that because he doesn't like the Dyer County chick either and she lives 2 hour away, he doesn't have a car or liscense and can only talk on the phone for about 15 min. at a time and I know so much about him and I'm one of the people that can get him to talk when he gets pissed. she's all into pot and she doesn't care how she looks and she's not good for him. Should I try and get back with him by looking all cute and irresistable around him because it drove him mad one night when I was joking around with some guys that are just friends that I would never do anything with. or what? please help me.
oh, I'm 18 and a white girl, and Mick's a 18 guy.
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Yeah, go for him hun! Also, talk to him about the Dyer chick and say why she is not right with him and all... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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okay well theres this boy.. hes 15 i think and im 13/f
hes the kinda guy who does drugs, drinks, does stuff with girls, everything like that..
hes really nice to me and he talks to me a lot. he says he likes me but idk if he really does cuz he might just be fooling around. he touches me in the halls n stuff but him and his gf of 6 or 7 months just broke up a few days ago because he made out with someone else and lied to his gf about it. well some of my friends are sayin i should ask him out but idk what he will say. what do u think? thanks! :) (sorry so long)

Ooh, don't ask him out! He is a grugie and a playa! Hun, there are plent more out guys out there for you that will love you... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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my akita is 6 wks old & has been feeling ill and has had diarhea for about 24 hrs

Take her/him to the vet... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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My dad is moveing to San Antonio, Texas tomorrow. We live in Pennsylvania now, but my dad got a job, and hes moven there now, and leaving me and my mom behind until we sell our house, (they think its the best thing to do) My dad is like my best friend, and alotta people know that he is. My friends invited me to hang out with them like since its Halloween abuncha my friends hang out and we just mess around. I really wanna hang out with them tonight because Halloween only comes once a year. But I wanna spend time with my dad too just because he's leaving tomorrow, and I won't be able to see him again until December 22nd. What do you think I should do? Any help will get 5s!

Wait, are your parents divorced??? If they are, then hang out with your dad during the day and your friends at night so you will be able to do boths things you wanna do! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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okay.. im 15 and i have never had a b/f. when i am around all my friends that have/had one i feel jealous. what can i do to make that stop. i cant find anyone whom i like because my school is so small (180 kids...3:1 ratio of girls to guys)

You can party more and have more fun being single and that can get rid of the jealousy... i hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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my friend becca is so weird wht can i do to make her not so weird? its starting to get on my nerves!

Okay, that's her personality and you can't change that, but if you really can't stand her any longer, then maybe you shouldn't be friends with her anymore... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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i am 13. but i look like im 15. i want to get my belly botton peirced, and my mom will let me. but i still think im too young to get it dun. im almost dun growing...so im not sure about getting it done or not and if it will hurt. please help.. i rate

If you want to then go for it, but if you don't feel safe or ready then don't... I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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I have a friend that I've known since like 3rd grade. I'm a sophomore now and lately she's been driving me crazzy. She's my bestfriend and I don't have another bestfriend, i have other friends but I dunno she's always been my bestfriend. So, yeah.. she's been reallly annoying me. Suggestions?

Yeah, that's natural... Try spending less time with eachother for a while and then get back together and everything will be back to normal! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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so this one guy ((who is sumwhat popular)) asked me if i wanted to give him head and i said no.. and the next day he spread sooo many rumers about me its crazy. ((he doesnt go to my school)) so alot people at 3 different Jr highs believe the rumers he is spreading ((like ive had buttsex and im not a virgin)) and what hurts is people believe it. over the past few months ive been crying myself to sleep, depressed, suicidal, and have lost about 10 friends. ive been known to take chances and be very outgoing so when i tell people it is rumers they wont believe me! people ive never herd of hate me. is there ANYTHING i can do to stop them!?!

Sorry hun, but you can't do anything to stop it... All guys are immature around your age! Stop crying yourself to sleep for once... Cheer up! Go out more with the friends you have because obviously they are your true friends if they believe you and not the rumors! I hoped i helped!! :)

xO Chelsea Ox

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