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hey guys.im here to help you out with any problems you might have. i have been through a lot of tough times but i am happy to say that i am back on stable ground. ask me questions about anything you want, i will do my best to anwser them and help you out. post me or e-mail me to ask me to ask a question. bye bye.
E-mail: shutupnkissme101
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, MO
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 21, 2007
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Last Update: November 5, 2007
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ok, so i got my braces off this summer, would this somehow make me more capable of getting a better boyfriend? can anyone tell me how getting them off changes there experiences with people and such?

(15/f) (link)
getting braces taken off definetly makes you more comfident. you feel like you can smile and nobody is staring at your braces. now they are just seeing your straight teeth! and every guy loves a girl that has a good smile. dont be afraid to go up to new people and start a comversation, with your new smile.


which of these is best/easiest to use?


http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P122765&categoryId=B70

http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P190037&categoryId=B70

http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P114407&categoryId=B70

http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P178006&categoryId=B70

thank you! (link)
i would go with the 3rd or 4th one. the Stila Kajal works really well. it stays on for a long time and the colors are really bright. also the Sephora liner is waterproof so that is good to go swimming and in the heat.


k i put a tampon in (first time) and when i stand up i don't feel anythin but when i sit feel it so is that normal and what if it's not far in enough and you don't notice will you get a desease or something (link)
the only deasease you can get from a tampon is Toxic Shock Syndrome. it only happens when you leave a tampon in for way to long. it is normal to feel a little uncomfortable the first couple of times you wear one. make sure you read the instructions inside the box and it will show the correct way to insert it.



Last night on Comedy Central there was a comedy act and I think Snoop Dog was doing a comedy act and he was making fun of Flava Flav the whole time.. Can someone send the link on youtube of the video? (link)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4oLSttNQZM


heres a video of the roast.


Any other sudokus like this one:

http://www.puzzlemix.com/pdfjpeg/big-Samurai%2013-grid.jpg

(13 grids) (link)

http://www.websudoku.com/

http://www.sudoku.com/

http://www.sudoweb.com/

http://www.daily-sudoku-puzzle.com/


check out these websites. they might help you out.


hi, i was just wondering if anyone knows of any articles about the migration of indians from africa to the UK? ive tried googling it, but no results. thanks:) (link)


http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/world/3523208.stm


try this website. it says a little about your subject.


is it true that you cant lose weight in your arms?? if not, does anyone know any specific excercises i can do at home to tone my arms and my legs? if you want direct me to a site. im really desperate and anything helps. thnx in advance =]. (link)
do puch ups. start with 10 push ups, then do 9, 8, 7 etc. now i know this sounds crazy, but when you get to 1, GO BACK UP! its very hard the first couple times, but take it slow and after 2, maybe 3 weeks, your arms will be less flabby and more muscle. also, you can try getting a punching bag and just work with it for about 30 minutes a day.


I have school in exactly 16 days. I want a workout.. I've been slacking in exercising because I run outside (not a lot, but like 2-3 times a week) and its been really rainy and sucky lately, so I didn't wanna go out. If I can't run tomorrow, what are other fun workouts I can do for my arms, thighs, stomach, and butt? also, if this is possible, how can I exercise my calves? and other than that, like what foods should I be eating, how much candy/fatty foods should I eat regularly, and how many times a day, when in a day.. how much water should I drink (Usually I drink about 2-4 glasses a day, unless I'm doing a sport) and etc. by the way I'm a 13 year old girl... and THANKS for helping! =] (link)
you sound like your doing pretty good. jump ropeing will tone your calves quickly. jump for 2 minutes take a break then another 2 minutes, everyday. thighs can be toned by laying on your back with your hands under your butt, raise your legs 6 inches off the ground for as long as you can. also regular sit ups and push ups will help your arms and abs a lot. for your butt, get in a position like when a guy asks someone to marry him, with one knee up. but keep your other knee slightly off the ground also. now jump and switch legs so the your in the same position on the opposite side. i am a kick boxer and these are some of the workouts we do daily. any questions just ask me.


how do you open up your pores? do i shower with hot water and wait a while?

i need to get rid of my blackheads (on my nose) but no facewash helps. i think its something im doing wrong. or else.. whatever im using on face, do i wait a while then wash it off? wait for it to absorb into my face?

now im resorting to picking at them.. (link)
please dont pick at them. this will you give you scars. takeing a hot shower will help loosen pores and clean away all the dead skin. try using Clean and Clear, Deep Cleaning Astringent. it is the only facewash that helps me. you can get it at walgreens/walmart for like 4 or 5 bucks. wipe it on your face with a cotton ball every night before bed and you should see results within a week, maybe two.


If I had a scar 5 months ago, didn't use any special medication but now i use a scar cream, will it still even heal at all? (link)
it will take a lot longer for it to heal. but it will eventually. try using Mederma. it's a cream to help scars fade. if you dont start to see results immediatly thats okay, just keeps using it for a couple months.


14/f
when ever i argue with some one or get too upset r anything like that my stomach starts hurting REALLY really badly... It feels horrible i feel like im going to get sick or something... Is there something wrong with me??
thanks in advance (link)
you might just be getting to stressed out. its usually just a mental thing but there is a small chance there is something more serious. if this keeps happening after a few weeks i would tell your mom or dad to take you to a docter.


how exactly does a trade-in work? talking vehicles. (link)
the dealership will tell you how much they will buy your car from you for. you pick out the car you want and you only have to pay the difference between the old and new car. unless the new car is less expensive than what they take your car for. then they will pay you the difference.


Ok, for the last couple of days i have not been able to sleep for at least an hour+! Which is so weird because i normally go to sleep pretty quickly. like 15 min. Duirng school i got to sleep in like a min. because i have to wake up at 5:30am and do so much and stay up late w/homework but since i still have a week or summer i don't want to waste it trying to sleep! then sleeping in late! could it be because im worried about something? probably school! :P If anyone has any suggestions to help me fall asleep quick that would be soo helpful! I always follow routinue and stuff too. Thanx! And i always rate! :D ♥♥♥♥♥ (link)
i used to have tons of sleeping problems. whenever i got stresses out, even for the littlest reason, i would lie awake for hours. you are most likley just stressed out about starting school. try counting to 100 in your head very, very, very slowly. also if you just lay with your eyes open for about 10 minutes it will make you sleepy. another trick is try reading for awhile laying in bed. if you get a headache or anything, put a warm washcloth over your eyes.


I heard that the police can take your computer, and like find out stuff like confersations even though you deleted it from your history and form your recycling bin.

Is that true? And how do they do it? (link)
police can take your computer and trace anything that has been on it as long as it is still in the recycle bin. but they cannot take your computer or any other posession unless they have reason to believe there is evidence of a crime on it.


My man hood bends to the left when fully erect. It takes the shape of a banana.
I am 24 and never had intercourse before.
I would like to know what kind of disease could that be.
And would it affect me should I engage in intercourse??

You answered the previously, but you state that there is nothing wrong with it being straight. WhaT i am saying is : It never becomes straight instead it takes the shape of a babana as I have stated.
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sorry i meant to say that there is nothing wrong with it being bent slightly. it is very normal.


is it true that masturbation can cause baldness over time?? no opinions, only facts please. just need to know, thnx. (link)
no masturbation can in no way, shape or form cause baldness. i dont know why people make up rumors like this but it certantly isnt true.


ACK!!!! i just saw a HUGE bug crawling across my kitchen floor as soon as i turned the light on and it's making me literlly throw up, the size of the big-sized paper clips, >.< i can't stand it...i can't even sleep now, cause all the thought of peace is just shattered...
should i call the exterminators?!?! please help (link)
if havent seen a lot of them you could try a bug bomb. they have them at hard wear stores, or places like walmart. you have to get your pets out of the house and just place it in the kitchen floor. it will spread a bug poison through the house, but after a an hour or so it wont be harmful to pets or people.


do you have to handwash when you wash cotton bras? or any type of bras? because i heard that if it's washed with the washing machine, it will ruin the shape and form of the cup and it will get damaged... (link)
most bra's will be okay the first couple times through the wash but after awhile they wioll start to deform. so what i do is put them in the waching machine but let them hang to dry.


I know this may sound really weird but I can't have sex because it hurts too much! I've tried with two guys over the past yr && a half and it hurts way to much! What do i do?! (link)
sex always hurts the first time. my first time i told the guy to stop because it hurt to much. but if you can take the pain for a few minutes it really does get better. but if it just hurts to much right now, your body might just not be ready for sex yet.


I am getting older, but i still want to have a birthday party.
I dont wan't it to be something childish and i wouldn't try to make it childish either.
So what i planned to do was have a few friends sleepover and we'd go in the pool, have pizza, watch a movie, and make smores and stuff but i dont want my friends to be bored. If there is any ideas you have.. or anything you have done at one of your parties please let me know. Because all i have is a pool i dont have a trampoline.. thigns to do on a RAINY day would also be nice =]


Thanks for ANY advice given.. even if its bad! (link)
depends how old you are but here are some ideas. play MASH on each other. also, before you watch a movie get everyone to help make cookies or brownies. that will take up time and everyone will get messy and have a lot of fun. start a game of truth-or-dare. play monopoly.




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