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Stuck Virgin
I know this may sound really weird but I can't have sex because it hurts too much! I've tried with two guys over the past yr && a half and it hurts way to much! What do i do?!
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take it easy darl your still developing don't force yourself you'll soon get used to it which means it'll feel good it'll take time sweety
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Actually, the first time doesn't hurt for everyone. I was so worried. You need to stretch yourself out and have him take it slow. If you can get about 2-3 fingers in, then you should be okay. Keep stretching yourself out. The less you have sex or masturbate.. the more tight you seem to get. So maybe you should try masturbating with a vibrator or something.
Make sure you are wet enough and have enough lube. Make him take it really slow. If you can last about 10 minutes and do it again a few more times.. you should be stretched out enough to handle it and actually enjoy it. It takes time so talk with the guy and let him know how you feel. So you two can work something out.
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sex always hurts the first time. my first time i told the guy to stop because it hurt to much. but if you can take the pain for a few minutes it really does get better. but if it just hurts to much right now, your body might just not be ready for sex yet.
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the first time is always going to hurt a little bit. thats just the way it is. there will be bleeding as well. i dont think there is anything you can do to make it hurt less, but you could try using lubricant. besides that you just have to wait until you are ready to deal with the pain. it may hurt a few times after, but eventually it will stop.
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