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I've been trying to maintain my weight for awhile now. I lost about 40 pounds last year and really want to stay at the same weight. Anyway, I guess I've become increasing paranoid over gaining weight and I've began to throw up my food...but only at night!
See, I keep thinking that if I go to sleep with a COMPLETELY empty stomach that it's better for me in the end. I mean, my body doesn't have to work on digesting things or breaking down foods and I can get a decent sleep. In the morning I have a nice big breakfast and go on about my day like any normal person.
The problem is that I can't NOT throw up my food at night now. I HAVE to go to the bathroom and make myself throw up before I lay down to sleep. I will lay in bed, almost panicked, and then jump up and go do it just so I can fall asleep peacefully. I just don't feel good laying down with something in my stomach.
Am I bulimic? Should I get help? Is this harmful or dangerous? (link)
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i think you should get help. you body does need something in it at night or youre going to wake up early with hunger pains. let me tell you: i once went to bed, only having a baked potatoe for dinner. i woke up at 7am and went to straighten my hair. i never passed out or fainted before and i was so close to collapsing. so unless you can convince yourself you dont need to do this to sleep, i strongly suggest getting help.
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I haven’t talked to this girl in 6 weeks and I want to say that I miss her.
The complication is that we dated for over 10 months and it's been almost 5 months since she left and I still care deeply about her.
There is a long story story behind all of this but it isn't entirely relevant. Basically we both had some personal problems and she decided to break things off. I didn’t take the break-up especially well either and did some things to push her away. (Small things like insisting that we talk about it right away)
As another note, saying to just move on is not helpful. I hear that enough from my family and friends. While it may be the easy thing to do from an outside perspective, I just cannot say goodbye to this girl completely. I believe very strongly that the two of us can work together, and quite frankly I still love her so there is nowhere to move on to for the time being. I can't search for something I have already found.
I was going to text or call her on the 4th of July but then I thought I should ask here first. Well, it's a few days after the 4th of July so I'm a little late in asking for advice, but everything is still relevant.
I don't want to upset her by any means and patience is always an option. If she is happy and I'm upset that is an acceptable circumstance at least for the time being. I really just want to let her know that I'm thinking about her and that my heart still longs for her without coming off as pushy.
She has asked for space, and even though it was a while ago I'd like to respect that so, just outright saying I miss you may not be the best option...
Any help is appreciated, Thanks. (link)
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if i were you, i'd flat out tell her. be honest. i think its cute when people are like that, maybe she's like that too.
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I just moved into my new apartment and I'm really nervous to be alone! It's a stupid fear, I'm sure, but I'm having a hard time falling asleep now. Are there any ways to cope with nervousness? Can anybody say something to make me feel safer alone in my new apartment? I know I live in a good neighborhood but... :\ IDK! (link)
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there's no reason to be afraid. lock all the doors and windows, close the blinds. i'm 100% positive that you'll be fine. you'll adjust in no time at all. :)
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Alright, so I was looking through magazines last night and I found this really cute sweater dress. It was gray, and thick, so clearly for winter. I'm pretty sure it was an old issue of Vouge, but i don't know. I know it's xoxo. BUt i looked on the site and since its out of season they don't have it.
Its gray with a thick scoop neck its really cute, wher can i get either this one or a similar one? (link)
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try e-bay and amazon.
some designers have things like that..
BCBG.com
free people
french connection
Juicy couture.com
also try macys, forever 21, and delias.
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okay so ive been busting my ass working out today. i ran straight without stopping for 2 hours then i lost four lbs. I WAS SO HAPPY WITH MYSELF. i started thinking how much weight i could loose. then i drank water and chilled and my house. i went to go weigh myself and now im 3 more lbs!?????????!!! WAT THE F! this is so depressing that its bringing me to tears. i need to loose 30 lbs asap for modeling and i dont see how i can if the little that i eat and the water i drink make me gain 3 POUNDS. HELP SOMEONE PLEASE =( (link)
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its water weight! when i come down in the morning and right away weight my self im 3.5 - 4 pounds heavier then the day before. when you pee youre getting rid of the water and therefore weigh less depending how much water you had in your system.
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People have been telling me about that Second Life Game, so I decided to make an account. The first time, it asked for mobile to send text for code to autherize, so five hours later, I still got nothing, yahooed if anyone else had that issue and someone said my phone service might not recieve the text.
So I tried PayPal, that didn't work out either.
I tried a couple times again just to make sure, and then I just decided I'm going to ask my friend for their phone number and do it that way. But now Second Life says that I've made too many accounts and now I can't make anymore.
So what am I supposed to do now?!
I can never try to make an account at Second Life ever again?! (link)
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you probably could. wait a while. use a different computer, cell number, and email address.
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which ones help curb your appetite the best?
or just work well in general?
dont lecture me about losing weight by excercising. of course im going to do that too. (link)
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weight loss pills are BAD news. i dont suggest you use them. if you want to curb your appetite drink water and eat something high in fiber. it'll keept you feeling fuller for longer.
if you really want to try weight loss products try slimfast or go to a drug store and ask for the most popular ones.
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Okay basically - I have always wanted to go to america.
Everything about it seems so amazing, and so much bigger.
I'm 16, and I am starting a job soon. I am such a determined person, and I want to save as much as I can to stay in america for a few months.
I do some family friends that live in Orlando..
is Orlando pretty good? Can someone give me some idea of what it's like there? What towns are nearby?
I either just want to go there for a few months and soak up the atmosphere, or maybe go there to study for Uni.Now I know a lot of americans, want to come over and study over here, in england and go to oxford - but I dont know. America seems like such an amazing place (but then again, media isnt always truthful) and I'd really to be in the performing arts industry - westend/broadway or street dance - I am very versatile.
But anyway, I just have this hunger for america,
so can anyone tell me anything about orlando? I'll probarbly go when I'm 17/18/ or 19 yrs
I'm 16 now, and really want to go
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i suggest new york actually. if you want to do broadway take classes some where in Manhattan. if you're committed, they have a giant theater where they do broadway shows. (i saw phantom of the opera and it was wonderful!) i think its a travelling group, if youre up for that.
Orlando is good for the tourist attractions and i guess the shopping is good. I was in naples and it has a nice beach. the down side is the bugs, snakes, and the humid hot temperatures.
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well im 15/f and i'm 5'9 and i guess you could say im big boned. i'm not fat, just got a little "pooch". and it's SO annoying.
i was wondering what should i eat?
and what should i do for exercises?
how many times a day should i exercis and how long?
how many days a week?
how long would you think it would take to loose 15 lbs before september?
anything else you recommend would be GREAT!
PLEASE HELP! =) (link)
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everyone tries to get rid of that, but there is honestly no way to pin point a certain area on the body to *shape* try crunches, maybe if you start to get a little bit if difinition in your abs your little pooch might seem less noticeable.
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The people with the microphones that interview celebrities on the red carpet, what profession is that?
What would you have to major in in college? I'm still trying to decide on a major and that looks like so much fun. (link)
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At my college it's under Media & Communications. from there it's under Journalism and it gives you 6 courses to chose from, any of them you can take.
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hey does anyone know the age you have to be to work at autozone. im 16 but im pretty good with automotive knowledge but i dont know the age you have to be to work there. (link)
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i looked it up and several sites say 16 (to work inside the store, i think). its possible to actually do work on cars you might have to be 18/21. call up and ask. :)
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So to start I told my guy friend who I liked that I liked him, long story, it was awkward, but we're still friends, and we've barely, barely talked about the whole thing. And though we are friend we don't talk as much as I wish because I never know what to say and he's not a big conversation starter. But this past Friday I actually worked up the nerve to bbm (blackberry message for those of you who don't know) him for no reason just to talk, which is a big step up for me because I always feel like I need to have a reason to talk to guys I like because I'm paranoid and don't always know what to say I don't want to feel like I'm bothering them. The good thing is the conversation was way better than I expected, it wasn't the awkward convcersation I thought it would be and I could be wrong but it seemed like he was flirting a little. But anyway right now he's on a 2 week trip at a college and I'm planning on texting him again tomorrow after camp to ask how his trip is. But the problem is, I want to talk to him more and more, and get to the point where we talk daily or close to daily. And the conversation we had Friday wasn't too short, but it wasn't too long either, so I hope to have longer conversations. But me being paranoid isn't an easy thing to avoid. I don't want to feel like I'm bothering him or something but still want to start talking to him more and more, whether it's as friends or more than that. It's very possible that we may have classes together next year based on the schedules we chose but for all I know we can have none, and if that's to happen, I want to be able to talk to him a lot still. How often should I talk to him at first? What are some things I can say to ensure that I can keep the conversation going? How can I tell if he's getting annoyed by me (which he probably won't based on what his friends have said but I'm paranoid enough to think I'm an annoyance haha)? I just want to get to a point where we're talking more and more and I know I can't do it by sitting here hoping for it. I know I need to be more confident, but I just need some assurance about things. (link)
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hi! well im just like you. no matter who i'm texting i feel like im annoying them and all kinds of stuff, so generally i text my friends maybe 3 times a week. maybe you could start by texting your guy friend maybe every other day and talk about things that you know interest him, but dont be random about it. if he's annoyed with you he might take a really long time to reply and when he does reply its just a 'yeah', 'ok', 'whatever' kind of thing. Since i dont know your friend that might not be the case and he might not ever be annoyed with you. just ask him if you feel you need to. Honestly, dont be so paranoid. if he's really a good friend he wont care if you bother him a little bit and if he does he'll get over it. hope i helped a little? :)x
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what's up with everyone dieing?
first it was michael jackson, now it's billy mays?! and they both died at the age of 50.
DOUBLE-YOU-TEE-EFF?! >:(
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maybe there's something in the water...or its just their health. :(
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I have been watching Jon and Kate Gosselin (From Jon & Kate plus 8 on TLC) for awhile now and was surprised when people told me they were actually getting a divorce soon. I heard that Jon Gosselin actually hired a divorce lawyer for the whole ordeal, but I have no way of knowing if that is actually a fact.
My question here is kind of simple, I suppose. Who is divorcing who and why? I heard something about Kate Gosselin cheating on Jon but then I heard about Jon Gosselin having a long-term affair. I'm confused and would really like to know what's going on with the Jon & Kate plus 8 stars. (link)
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they have been constantly fighting and didnt want their kids to keep seeing that. i think they divorced each other. the cheating was rumored and jon denied it.
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What is the shopping like in Japan? If I went out in the town with like $1,000.00 (American) could I have a nice night with my friend. Like going to a nice restaurant, doing some shopping, maybe getting some desert and stuff? You know not like light necklace shopping, I mean like some pants and shoes and accessories and stuff like that for both of us and still have enough to go to a restaurant and a club and get our nails done? Thanks (link)
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well im using a converter and one Japanese yen is equal to one penny. One american dollar is about 95 yen. im fairly sure, if you dont completely over-do it, you and some friends can have a nice time in japan. :)
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its hard for me to stay in shape....i eat healthy and take walks and work out about three times a week but nothing ever happens. could you give me some advice about how to stay in shape and be healthy? and why isn't my technique working? (link)
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well you may need to do high impact exercising to see more results. how long have you been doing this? you may need to give it a little more time. you may have a naturally heavier build also. :)x
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Hi!! 13 1/2f
I just CAN'T find one!! My ex boy friend..is very confusing. See.. I still had feelings for him so I told him that I still liked him,( at that time he liked this other girl Reagon) he told me that he liked me to. I asked him..if he REALLY liked me and he told me he was dating Reagon, and he likes me as a friend.So..I asked him the other day what was up with him, and he said " yo whats up with you?? YOU GONE CRAZY. He's the one who's crazy..he takes me to the movies..so I thought he liked me..than he takes her. Whats up with that?? So, now I'm just trying to find the right guy..and im on summer break..and I'm not doing anything really.. my parents are always working.. the thing I mostly do is go to the park with my friend..and when I do guys check me out..lol..like it happens all the time, but I don't have the courage to go up and meet those guys.. I'm a shy . Ug..my friend says "Why are you acting like it's a BAD thing that you are single? The right guy will find you when the time is right." I think she's right but..it still makes me feel like there's something wrong with me if I don't have a boyfriend..I just feel left out. :/
Thanks for listening!!
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youre 13. im 15 and never held a boys hand. chill out, you have plenty of time to find someone, you wont be alone forever.
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I am going on five days late for my period, Ive been under a great amount of stress from dealing with fincial issues, not to mention his car breaking down and is unable to be repaired that caused me to have to move out of my fiances house and back in with my parents which of whom i just started to begin a relationship with after about a year of not speaking with them. I've been missing my fiance, and i have no car of my own to go and see him he is the only person who has ever expressed care/love towards me. Now we had sex just about every other day of this month because we were trying to get pregnant so i was not using my birth control my mother thought i was on and now with all of this stress he is unsure if he even wants a child which i feel is just him acting out because of all the stress going on, i dont even have enough money to buy a pregnancy test. All of these things are sending me into an emotional spiral, so my question to you is do you think stress is preventing me from having my monthly visit? I know you don't have all the answer but it would be nice just to get some feedback. Thank you in advance. (link)
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its could honestly be either one. i think you sort of have given yourself the answer. :) could you go to a free walk in clinic and get a test? then you'd know for sure. dont stress out so much. its not good for your heart. try and relax a little if you can.
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My best friend just called and told me that Michael Jackson is actually dead! I totally cannot believe this! Michael Jackson was fairly young, right? This has to be some kind of joke, prank, or VERY late April Fool's gag, right?
Is Michael Jackson really dead? When did he die then? Was Michael Jackson murdered? I need the scoop, please! (link)
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yes, he's dead. he went into cardiac arrest before paramedics arrived at his home. he died this afternoon, 3-ish i believe.
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For Christmas I got a new Vivitar 5100. I was really happy and ready to take pictures. When I was done I installing the CD i couln't find where to get the pictures and videos. The manual says something about a Removable Disk. What I'm asking is where do I find the pictures and what is a removable disk and where do I find it? (link)
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a removable disk would be a flash drive, USB storage device.
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