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I am 13 I wanna get my nose peirced and I'm gonna pay and all that but my mom don't care if I do or not and my dad said not till 16 and I REALLY want it done !!!!!!!!! What should I say to my dad to get him to say yes !!??!! (link)
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turn it around on him ask him whats the big deal with getting it done now whats 3yrs gonna do but honestly maybe 13 is a little to young you dont want to grow up to fast you know what i mean but goodluck
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Ok so they say the first time you have sex with a guy. you stay connected to him forever. Well i dnt kno if this is true. But im 18 now. and about 2 years ago I met this guy. and i fell for him big time. anyhow we were sort of dating but it was kinda behind the scenes since he was 2yrs older than me at the time. Anyhow we had sex or whatever and were 2gether off and on for abotu 2 years. i kno he loves me and i love him. but bout 6months ago he started hanging out with a different group of people. with girls who were bout 5 years older than me and 3 years older than him. He never went out with them or anything. but he never talked to me anymore. He told me he didt want anything between us . so for the last 6 months i avoided him. and than one night when i went to play poker at a friends house, he was there and started like rubbing my leg. and calling me baby and everything. i just told him to **** off. lol. But i just dont understand why he does it. Like im sick of getting played around by him. But i love him and i want to be with him soooo bad. But i cant put up with it all. but like Y does he do it?? i dont understand?.. please help. i love him soo much. (link)
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what an asshole he just wants to know that you still care for him and you do and like u said he plays mind games with you and you did good by telling him to fuck off i would lay down the rules tell him how you feel tell him first he says he only wants to be just friends but than he wants to rub you and shit hell know tell him to make up his mind he eigther wants you or he doesnt know its and or buts about it and your better than just his rebound bitch and about the whole thing about somebody who takes your virginty you dont get over them thats not neceassy true you probly wont ever forget them but you wont necassary be stuck on them either you know you would of moved on but there always be apart of your life i hoped i helped goodluck
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How do you makeout when you have never did it before (link)
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just go for it ur know what to do just follow her lead and her body lanuage if you move your mouth or tongue a certin way that makes her respond than you know that you've done good just go with the flow
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what does it mean when your with someone boyfriend/girlfriend wise and you feel completely safe like nothing can hurt you. you get major butterflys in your stomoch and feel all nervous around them. you think about them alot and when you kiss them it puts the biggest smile on your face. you want to see them all the time and it makes you sad when you cant. what does this mean? does this mean im in love? do i love them? i know i love this feeling but i dont know. is this what in love feels like? (link)
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awwww thats what it sounds like you should be glad you found somebody that you love not everybody can i hope i last im happy for you
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hi well my boyfriend and i have bin togteher for more then a year now and i would like to make this valentines day special because last year he was teriblly sick and it was not such a great valentines day, i am short on cash but i will manage anyone have any tips? (link)
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I know it sounds like the guy is suppossed to do this for the gurl but why cant it be vise versa get him a love card candy a i love you bear, necklace and roses and even plan an special night candlelight, bubble bath if you guys been that far already if not than cuddle. a nice dinner you know its the though that counts its saying i love you in more than just words i know it sounds lame but hey its worth a try you guys can even watch the stars and have him keep you warm lol hope i helped goodluck p.s u dont have to go out and spend a fortune to let him know that you care
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How old do u have to be to get ur belly button pierced & how bad does it hurt?
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i beleive without a parent consultent you have to be 18 but with your parents sig i beleive 16 hope i helped
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wat should i get my man 4 valentines day im stuck and i want it 2 b under 20$. (link)
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get him a card flowers and a bear and plan a special evening cook for him and maybe if he's lucking a nice bubble bath but its the little things that matter the little things that show him that you care i hope i helped
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OK me again?i like argue with people over the "N" word.especially african american men.They feel the word is alright and i feel it sn't because of it's history.I feel the word should be erased completely because it holds us back.I don't think there should be any double standard on the word becaus it's worng for a white man as well as a black man to use it.So I just want us to understand things on a higher level.So all i am asking is your opinion. Thanks! (link)
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i honestly dont know but i compeletly understand where your coming from its insulting and we all use it as in double standard just like the word cracker i guess weve been using it so offten its hard to tell when the right and wrong time to use it and if its even right to use it at all me being white i still use both words N and cracker but i'll def think twice hope i helped
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iv'e been going out with this guy since x-mas. we're going out for valentines day but i seriously have no clue what to get him........he has lots of aftershave already so i didn't want to get him that i really don't want to get him clothes either.... i'm soooo stuck on what to get him.. his style is kind of gay because he knows what he likes... is there anything mutual that any guy would like that i could get him....
please reply soon so i can get it thanks so much
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i know it sounds like the guy is suppossed to this for the gurl but why cant it be vise versa get him a love card candy a i love you bear necklace and roses and even plan an special night candle light bubble bath if you guys been that far already if not than cuddle dinner you know its the though that counts its saying i love you in more than just words i know it sounds lame but hey its worth a try you guys can even watch the stars and have him keep you warm lol hope i helped goodluck
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ive noticed a lot of people on myspace leave comments saying 'i'd tap that' can someone tell me what that means coz i feel so dumb not knowing!!
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well when people usually say tap that it means to usually fuck them you them i hope i helped
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my boobs are getting bigger and bigger ... and i want them to be smaller! ...is there any way to get them to lose a cupsize without surgery? (link)
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no there isnt but hey your body will porption right you boobs may be bigger than most people but thats not neccary a bad thing beleive me im a like a 40c so im not lacking in that area yea it puts pressure on you back sometimes but iam how god made me and hey your'll get a lot more attention from the opposite sex hope i helped
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Okay I am a christian and I want to go to a christian college, but my dad dosn't believe in God and he knows I want to go to the college and tonight he told me that I should forget about it. He said that if I go there I will get married and marry a someone from there and he isn't gonna like my dad because he isn't a christian or something like that. I know they aren't like that. He thinks all of this is dumb. He said that his daughter is going to grow up and become a pastor's wife. When I go to college he isn't gonna feel great like my daughter went to this college! My mom will but my dad won't. I was crying today since he said that today and I hate it! Please help me and I'm sorry it was so long. (link)
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your dad needs to get over it you can go to any college you want and your dad should support you because not everybody goes to college so explain to your dad that you love him and it hurts you for him to discourge you you dont have to go the same college he went to you have your own dreams to fufull not his you know i hope i helped remeber stay strong hes the wrong one here not you
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I am thirteen and just started giving advice here. Well now I have a question. I am addicted to cofee. I really like it and drink it with my Memaw. Is it bad for me to have it? (link)
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from what i here yes it stops your growth and well its caffinee and to much cafeinee is never good for you i have the same prob i love cap and coffie but sometimes i try to stay away from it you know like have water and stuff but it could also be good for you it has water and milk witch are both very good for you and hey i love this site to i hope i helped
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Well..my parents grounded me for a year, for sneaking out of my house at night and then telling my mum to pick me up from a friends house the next day.
i got grounded for a year apparently..and its been almost 2 weeks and im dying to get out of the house.
does anyone have any tips to get me ungrounded..?
please help me
thanks
ana (link)
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be the biggest ass kisser and the best kid ever show your parents that you learned your lesson and you know help around the house bring your grades up do this for about a week or two and im pretty sure your parents will recondsier because who wants to ground a perfect child i hope i helped goodluck remeber ass kiss like never before there always right its going to be touture but so is being grounded for a year
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is my "sperm tube" connected to my "blatter tube"....because sperm comes out the same hole as my pee does right? so are they connected? (link)
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yes in fact its something called the vas deffrence witch your learn more about when you take health usually in 7th grade actually ur guys set up is pretty simple compared to ours hope i helped
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my ex is really mean hes mad at me and not his friend dylan me and his friend dylan are going out and hes not mad at him and hes been telling stuff mean about me and his dad has been calling and telling me im ganan go to court if i talk to him (link)
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forget him hes being immature he needs to stop because you moved on so i would tell him to just let it go what you do and who you date is none of his bussness any more tell him to knock it off and back off lol hes mean so you be an asshole right back
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Ok this girl I know I've started to talk to her a lot, and i can tell she likes me and i like her too, even my friends think she likes me. But like I asked her to a dance like 3 months ago and she said no, but it was totally random kind of because I hadn't even talked to her in like a year or two. But now i talked to her for like 2 hours a day on aim/phone, i would at scool, but she doesnt go to my scool nemore. So like i donno wat i should do, like ask her out again, or i was thinking to jus go 2 a movie and do stuff wit her and hang then ask... if u hav ne ideas tell me, or jus othr advice on how to help me ask her out and get her to like me more. (link)
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yeah go for it whats the worst that can happen she can say no but what if she says yes than you both win i think that you should deff go for it take what you want dont let another opt. pass good luck
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Is it bad to have confidence and think you are pretty?
This is coming from someone who had low confidence for a large number of years. I would never call myself pretty.
but this is a new year and the past is left behind.
and I'm a lot happier now. It's scaring me I guess. I'm happy when I go out and I smile ...and feel pretty?
Is that bad?
I mean.. confidence in everything.. that you think you are good?
It feels.. really weird/wrong. (link)
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its great to have confidence you should have confidence and be happy with yourself its actually a turn on but some people take it to the next level and think that there better than every body else and become obnoxious but hey a little confidence never hurt anyone
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i'm not sure what to put this under...
anyway so i like this guy, george, and i told a couple of my close friends, and SOMEHOW my friend luke found out i like george (i didnt tell him) i asked all the people i told and all of them said they didnt tell luke. i even asked george (bcoz george knows i like him) and he said he didnt tell him and im just really confused, coz i keep on asking luke who told him but he said he wont tell me!! i even got my mates to ask him!! but he wont say!!
any1 know anything i could do???
i need to know who's telling people about me liking george!!! (link)
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well theres nothing you can do now because he already knows that you like him but dont tell a couple of your friends tell like 2 so than if somebody else knows than you only have to ask both of your friends who told and its obvious that one of your friends has a big mouth so be carefull of who you tell again i hope i helpd
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Umm yeah this is kind of embarrassing but yeah she want's to have sex but i don't know because i don't know what to expect, like will she bleed or will she get hurt or i don't know would you be able to tell me a little bit more please?? thank you
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if shes a virgin then it might hurt her but that really cant helped and she might bleed but not a whole lot and its totally normal and so dont worry about it the best thing about the first time is the experiance you know that what makes its so great one never know what to expect i hope i helped
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