about

Hi, I am Jennifer
I am Korean- Japanese and proud.
I am a clingy person, so I need people who don't mind cling people.
I try very hard not to be judgemental.
I suck at waking up.
I have a two second attention span.
I laugh at the most corniest jokes and make them myself.
I have a lot of Jennifer moments. You have been warned.
I love being tan, so please get that suntan lotion away from me. :)
I can make a party animal look like a party pooper. :p
So, yeah, I'm just your average kind of girl... with a more than needed bit of craving for chocolate maybe? Yup... ♥

advice

ok does it feel different having sex with condoms like can you still have an orgasm with a condom and does it still feel pleasureable when your having sexwith condoms

There's no difference. =)
It's just rubber...

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Do priests masterbate?? Is it against their religion??

No, they don't masterbate... or do they. o_O Well, if they do, it's still against their religion. They're supposed to have pure thoughts and pure bodies, and masterbating will be creating some very... nasty ideas, so yeah, that's definitely against their religion!!

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ok so christmas is in three days and i just found out the kid i have been crushing on for almost forever got me an expensive gift and i already know its true because he told me himself! i mean why would you lie about something that big knowing the person is going to be expecting it !?!? well i was thinking about getting him cologne but i really dont know which brand is good or what he likes i dont want to get him something he already has !! plus im a budget anything 50 down would be good

this question would most likely be for the boys but girls if you've ever gottn your boyfriend cologne pleasee feel free to answer this!

Abercrombie cologne smells sweet. Try that. =) I'm not sure about how much it costs, because I personally like natural smells of guys than with cologne, so I never bought one for my guy friends..

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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Alright this guy I've known since September, we dont have any classes together except an after-school elective. ive noticed he flirted with me a lot, but i didnt take it too seriously since a lot of guys do that, and he kinda has a flirty personality. well recently on a school field trip he was like seriously flirting with me and its relle obvious he like worships me, like 10 people approached me and said that, even this girl he asked out a few years ago, and she said he acted the same way around her. hes really sweet and all, and funny, but hes never, ever serious, and i sincerely have no physical attraction to him at all. i know hes gonna ask me out soon and i cant help but think that if he was good looking id give him a chance. hes not exactly the coolest kid, but he has a bunch of friends. i dont know what to do. id feel horrible if i rejected him, cuz hes my friend and all. what should i do?

Don't do anything serious about it until he asks you out. In the meantime, don't flirt back at him.
If he actually asks you out, say, "Sorry, but you're my best friend. I don't want to ruin our friendship." Be careful not to say 'just' a best friend, because best friends are better than boyfriends and you have to tell him that. Compliment him, "You're really sweet and cute, but I just don't think we'll work out that way." Make him feel better about himself as you reject him.
Help him hook up with another girl. Go, "I heard ____ likes you though," or, "Do you have a second option?"

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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I know this is going to sound random but w/e.
How do I go about asking my boyfriend if we can have sex without asking him straight up?
Any tips are appreciated.♥

Act seductive. Put your hand near that 'area'. Finger the zipper of his jeans or start massaging his chest or something. If he reacts by picking at the buttons of your top or giving you a pleasured look, you guys could start heating up and there you go! If he pulls away, he's most likely saying, "Let's not go there."

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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16/f. Eh, I feel like such a goody-two-shoes all the time. The other day, my friend asked me, "what's the craziest thing you've ever done?" and I couldn't answer! The only thing I could think of was, like, driving in my friend's car when she couldn't legally drive people yet. Gosh, what a rebel I am, right? Haha. Idk, I just feel like I never do anything daring or extreme and it seems like all of my friends have. The farthest I've ever gone with a boy is like, hold hands and most of my friends have gone way farther and have had like a lot more boyfriends than I've had. Ugh. I mean I'm alwaysss studying and taking school way too seriously and yes, I make the honor roll and get good grades, but seriosuly, I'm afriad I'm gonna wake up one day when I'm 30 and think to myself that I wasted all of my teenage years and never took a chance doing anything fun. My sister, for example, is always out all the time doing sometimes crazy things, but she always has fun and spends her time doing exciting things with her friends; I go out sometimes but I'm always home at like 9:00 and sometimes I'm just sitting home bored on a Friday or Saturday night with no plans and my sister is ALWAYS out at an awesome party( I honestly can't remember the last time she didn't have any plans; maybe like 4 years ago?). I love my friends and all, but the most exciting thing we do is go to the mall or out to eat. What I'm asking is; what can I do to have more fun and do something crazy so I can look back on my teenage years and know I had a good time? Sorry this is practically as long as an essay, lol.

Start by doing something small... this isn't really exciting, but try prank-calling a few people, blocking their caller IDs so they won't know who called. I'm not sure how to do this, but my friends do, and we prank call people in all of our parties. Call people and go, "You've won the lottery!" or, "Your daughter just came over my house and banged me against my will," or, "I love you. I've been watching you from afar and I cannot wait for our lips to meet. I'm your secret admirer" or make up your own!
Take a chance and risk things, but don't get too extreme as to having to go to jail. Throw eggs at the houses of people who've been retarded to you and toilet paper them! Go crazy!! You'll love the thrill of trying not to get caught! It's important to always bring your friends! =)

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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Ok, to make this really short, I'm becoming the third wheel in my frienship. My best friend recently started dating one of our other guy friends. We used to all hang out, us a other people too, but now its just me, her and her boyfriend and I feel as though I'm becoming the third wheel. What can I do about this?

You said she've become a girlfriends of ONE of your guy friends, right? Why not hang out with your guy friends?
If you really want to hang out with your female best friend, then tell her about this. Tell her you're really happy about the relationship she has with whoever, but tell her you're paying too much attention to him than you. You feel left out, so tell her. Remind your friend that you don't want to get in between her and _____, but you feel like you've been pushed out of her life.
Arrange 'girl-time' for you two. Discover new hair styles and have a sleepover or something!

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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I like this boy and I have a feeling he likes me. I'm planning on giving hints like smiling and such but I want to figure if he does like me. No one has been saying anything on him and we usually don't talk. Okay he dosn't like girls who flirt with him all day long and you can tell by the way his face looks. They all like him too. He had a girl sit by him but didn't seem to like it. He stares at me alot too so what do you think I should do?

One way to tell if a guy likes you, is just by plain smiling at him. If his eyes brighten and he smiles back in a friendly way, that usually means he likes you. He could blush too. =) But if he just gives you the normal, everyday, polite kind of smile, that just means he just thinks of you as every other classmate. If he frowns or something negative like that, he dislikes you for some reason.
His friends seem to notice you, pay attention to you, or be interested in you. This usually means your crush told them that he likes you or something.
He'll treat you a little different. He'll say "Hey," to everybody else in a normal way, but he'll say, "Hey," to you in a different way.
For more tips, go to:
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_3.htm

Hope all goes well
-Jenny C

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I was just dumped by this guy for another girl... and I got over it. I was fed up with having my heart broken. but while I was singing this love song that had girl part and a boy part, he comes and sings the boy part with me. I didn't know what to do... so I just stopped singing. But he does this every time I sing!! Plus he's still with the other girl..
What does this mean? I hate him, so I wouldn't like it to mean anything... What should I do??

Next time the guy tries that, act annoyed. Tell him to stop, or roll your eyes. Start singing songs that only have girl parts. Whenever the guy comes around, quickly talk to your friends about a made-up cute guy that you saw, to make him leave, mad or jealous.
Or maybe ask the guy about his girlfriend. =) To show you don't have any feelings for him anymore.

Hope I've helped
-Jenny Choi

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I started to babysit for money. But there's this evil little kid that is very young (only 6!!) but is verrry perverted. He watches rated R movies, fastforwarding to sex scenes, and he's always trying to touch my parts. I'm 15!! How gross is that?! I told his parents about it, but they wouldn't believe me. He acts like an angel in front of them I guess. I yell at him and everything, but nothing works!!

WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO?

Ew... this guy sounds like a total creep!
Invite friends over so they could be witness to this perverted little boy. I don't think putting on Sesame Street will work. He probably hates those shows.
Hide a camera somewhere. If he tries to feel you up, move in front of the camera, and show the tapes to his parents!
One of those ways has to work!


Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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theres a guy that i went out with and he broke up with me two days after we got together to be with another girl. then they broke up and i still like him and now he wants me back but i dont want to go against my morals and i know i shouldnt go with him but i kinda want to. what do i do??

I understand you want to go back to him. And it really is your choice. If you really want to, do so.
But you really shouldn't. You know why? The only reason he wants to go back out with you is because his other girl isn't his any more. This guy will probably dump you again for another girl, anyway. You probably deserve so much better. There are cuter, much nicer guys out there for you, I can gaurantee it.
This guy is totally not right for you. I say go for another guy.
Remember: "For every girl with a broken heart, there's a guy with a gluegun." =)

Hope that helps
-Jenny C

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well my bf is getting locked up for something he didnt do should i wait for him or find some one new?

Wait for him! It'll be totally unfaithful of you to go find another guy whe you're boyfriend is suffering a punishment for something he didn't do. Call him all the time. Be friendly and tell him you can't wait until he bails out.
It'll be so nice for you to be waiting with welcoming arms when he's finally through that torture. Be affectionate to him when he returns.

Hope it works out for you
-Jenny C

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Sorry this is gonna be long. Okay I like this guy and he's real nice and all. But all the girls flirt with him and stuff likes that. You can tell he dosn't like it when they are all surrounding him. He's the polite kind of guy so one girl asks if she could sit by him and then yeah he says yes. I think he might like me because I catch him staring at me even when he's talking to that girl. His friends start talking with him in a group and they start looking over at me. All the girls are all over him and I have more signs that he might like me though. Okay if I have my friend tell him how I feel them he would probably like me back thats what usually happens. Its not like he's desperate its just that he would give me a try. So what do you think I should do?

Flirt with him too, if you don't. Maybe he's just afraid to ask you out because you're not flirting with him or something. Be affectionate to him. Hang out with him more. Smile sweetly when he passes you in the hallways or something. Giggle at his jokes.
Try to be his 'friend'. And then you can tickle him and hug him without seeming like you're obssessed with him. If he's a basketball player or something, go to his every games and cheer him on. If his team wins, congratulate him. If his team loses, encourage him and tell him the other team were probably on steroids. Be ready with an ice cold drink for him at then end of the games.

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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I'm 14 and a girl, and okay so there is this guy. And I really like him. But I don't think he likes me. I'm in a few of his classes at school, and we talk a lot during and not during school. I have asked him if he likes any body, and he says he doesn't. Any advice is greatly appreciated.

One advice: flirt!
Smile sweetly at him whenever you see him. If he smiles back, good! Start waving hi and everything.
Talk to him. Start by saying, "Oh, isn't that teacher, ____ such a ___?" or "I'm so tired today... Have you had those days were you just can't sleep for some reason??"
Giggle at his jokes, and tell jokes yourself. Humor him.
Work your way up into being his friend. Give him hugs everyday and tickle him playfully. Sneak up behind him and cup your hands over his eyes, "Guess who?"
If he's a basketball player or something, you could come to his every games and cheer for him. If his team wins, congratulate him, if his team loses, encourage him and tell him that he rocked anyway. Maybe even buy him an ice cold drink for him.
If you live near him, walk home with him. If he ever gets a detention, wait for it to end at school and walk home. He'll appreciate that you;d actually wait for him when he's in detention. Be affectionate.

Hope I've helped!
-Jenny C

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So I've had a major crush on this guy since September. When we got put into groups selected by my teacher for an English project, I felt like this would be a good chance to become friends. Well, we sort of did. But I feel like I'm not doing anything really noticeable. I'll just say 'hi' and stuff. My friend tells me that I need to be more obvious when I flirt...but how do I do that without appearing...creepy? I don't want to scare him off.
Any advice?
15/f/10th

First: Smile! Smile sweetly, not a huge gigantic smile that shows off your molars, but just a friendly one.
Second: Giggle at his jokes. Make jokes yourself. Don't go overboard or you'll sound like a cheesy clown.
Third: Tell him there's something gross in his hair, and just play around with his hair for a second, and say, "Okay... it's gone."
If he's a football player or something, cheer him at his games. Congratulate when his team wins. Cheer him up when his team loses, and says that it was a pretty good game.

Hope I've helped!
-Jenny C

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my friend gave me a bracelt by mariah carey that cost about 12 bucks and it was okay but i didn't like it that much. she gave our other frined a chain that said best and then she has the friends but it cost 3 bucks i think. i was mad beause of it. i didn't care how much it cost, i liked the best frinds thing because we have been frinds longer and it was impoetant to me that she told me she apprciated it.i ddin't care about the cost.my best best freind hurt me by just ignoring me and like kind of abandoning me without no explanation because she gose to a new school. and i am uptight about me other best freind. maybe i am being to mean. it's x-mas.now she is mad andis complaining about me being mean and i wore the gift and evrything but i got fed up and gave it back.was a wrong in the situation?

I believe you overreacted in the situation, but I understand why you would be mad about it. Like, you've been best friends with her for such a long time, but she gives a best friend bracelet to another girl?! Ouch!
But look at it this way: she wasted 12 dollars on a gift that you didn't appreciate just because one that cost 3 dollars meant more to you. Your friend used more of her money for you, because she wanted so badly to get a present that you'd like. Apologize, and tell her you were grateful for her gift and that you'd like it back. Just explain how you felt about the best friend bracelet thing, and I'm sure you;d be fine.

-Jenny C

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does anyone know any deep love questions?
if you do can you please give me at least 3?
thank you or maybe can i have a websites has love questions other than lovingyou.com? thank you

ex.True love with a guarantee of a broken heart. but thats stupid if its true love why would there be a broken heart?


Here's some depressing ones:
Love is like tug-o-war: one jerk after another

I hate your smile... only because it takes the pain away, but only for a second... because it is then that I see that you are smiling at her..

So is this love? ...Or just another waste of my time?

What's going through his head?
I-Pod, money, cellphone, car, Myspace, friends, parties, hair
What's going through hers?
Him

Here's some cute ones:
Someone told me that a picture was worth a thousand words... but when I say a picture of you, I was speechless.

Falling in love with you is like being in quicksand.

You know that one couple in school that's always hugging and kissing in the halls? And then everyone is like, "Ew, P.D.A." Well, they just say that because they want love like that too.

If I had to chose between breathing, and loving you, I'd use my last breath to tell you I love you.

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, and then he wears it everyday

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ok im 17 and still a virgin and i like guys but im also aattracted to gurls like ive kissed them and done other stuff and never found it nasty and i would rather gurl on gurl porn than guy on gurl does this mean im bi or just going through a phase

It could be either.
I have a bi best friend. If you're bi, it's nothing to be ashamed about. It's who you are.
Anyways, it's most likely that you're bi. I've been through a phase like that before, but it only lasted a week. It depends how long your sexual emotions for girls lasts, really.

Hope I've helped!
-Jenny C

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I hang out with this guy a lot, like we go to each other's houses and we always cuddle and kiss and he makes me feel so happy when I'm with him. He also hugs me whenever he sees me in the hall at school.. and I really like him.

BUT he is a very flirtatious person and has lots of friends who are girls and flirts with them at school.

Do you think that he genuinely likes me or is he just using me and thinks of me as 'just another girl'?

Well, if he's very flirtatious... I won't lie: he's most likely thinking of you as another girl. But if he's always cuddling and kissing you, that means he has affections for you that he does not have for any other girl.
I suggest you keep on hanging out with him, but not just at each other's houses, but at movies, parks, and anywhere that could possibly be romantic. Be very affectionate to him, and bump your hand into his several times to see if he would hold it. It'll be SO cute!!

Tell me everything!
-Jenny C

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so about a year ago i gave this boy that liked me ALOT a chance we went out for a few months and we were young and in love .. everything was perfect until one day out of the blue he broke up with me .. i was heartbroken... so we didn't really talk all like that for a while i thought i was over himand then we started talking again and the feelings came back then i made a mistake and had sex with him even though i don't regret it .. he was a virgin .. and then he denied everything even to me .. when im the person he did it with ? makes no sense right? anyways.. then he was like i don't want anything to do with you blah blah blah .. ya know the stuff guys say .. but besides that i was at his house the other day and he kissed me .. and this isn't the first time he came on to me .. alot of people think he still likes me but he just won't say anything .. what should i do? i tryed talking to him .. but talking 2 that boy .. hah your better off getting a response from a brick wall.. hes very stubborn... & maybe since i turned him down soo many times before he's doing it as retaliation? ahh idk .


i'll apprchiate the help

Here's what to do:
DON'T flirt back if he flirts with you, or anything like that. If he hits on you, ignore it or act annoyed. If this guy is serious to get back into a relationship with you, he'll act serious. Plus, if you flirt back, it'll give him confidence that you like him and he'll keep pushing you away. He probably likes the feeling of a girl going for him.

Hope I've helped
-Jenny C

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