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Q: im very lost,i lost my self!what are some ways to become original? some how i just dont feel like i am me...
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I suggest going to a church retreat, a good intense one too, not a lame 6 year old one, because I went and now I'm discovering who I really am and what type of person I want to be...Well that's what helped me so hopefully it'll help you too and good luck
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Q: So I have a weight loss problem. I just can't do it. I talked to a doctor and a dietician and they are sending me to a specialist who is going to show me some pills for options. Chances are theyll come from GNC or something.
Before I go, do you have any idea on what pills I should take? Any success stories with any particular brand name of pills etc?
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I'd do what the doctor reccomends because what might work great for you might not work at all and cause me problems. So the doctor will know what pills will and won't work with you body so I'd just do what he/she says.
Good Luck!
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Q: I've been a tomboy pretty much my whole life. But I'm really starting to become more girlie. I do my hair, make up, I enjoy shopping now, and I even got a boyfriend. But I need some tips.
- What does j`adore me? [ lol ]
- What styles are in? [ Hair, clothes, etc ]
- How do I flirt?
- Tips on make up?
- Places to buy clothes?
Thanks so much x3
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try dictionary.com for J'adore
and for the other questions go to
seventeen.com or other teen magaizine sites.
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: I'll make this as quick as i can. I have liked this guy for a while, but he has a girlfriend (who is a total bitch and VERY full of herself). SO in science class he sits across from me, and he started staring at me. I know that he had liked me last year. But now im not sure because of his girfriend in all. So he was like stsaring at me with his hand pressed up against his chin like he was admiring me or somtheing. Then he smiled and reached out to grab my hand, but then the bell rang and i kind of ran out. So what do you think he thinks of me? Would it be terrible if i tried to flirt back? Will he breakup with his incredibly annoying Gf? Thanks!
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Well, he could of just been staring at the back wall or something and not known what he was doing. lol No, I don't think it would be bad to flirt back if he flited first go aheah and if he didn't still go ahead flirting never killed anyone and if the g.f come over and asks why you were flirtitng with him just say i'm naturally a flirty person lol. I don't know if they will break up cause I don't know how they act togerther and feel about each other but if they do i dobt they will during the holidays they will probably wait after...
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: I have this really weird lump on the outside of my vagina. Like near my leg. I just noticed it like a few minutes ago and I have no clue how I got it or what it means. I have never engaged in sexual activity. I'm 14/f. Do you know what it is?
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it could just be a bug bit or a zit lol
but try not to bother with it or pick at it and if it starts to annoy your or bother you talk to your mom or sister then see what they say then go to a doctor.
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: i am 15 years old and i have never had a boyfriend or kissed any guys. all my friends have and they have gone all the way with guys and i havent even kissed one. is this not normal? i am actually pretty and guys like me but thats as far as it gets. i hear guys like me and then i dont know what to do. so is this normal??
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Yes that is very normal, and everyone is diffrent and how far they goo with a guy. And hopefully all you first times will be wil a guy you really like, cause mostlikly your friends are lying or their first times weren't really special, but that just my opinion.
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: hey everyone - i got my braces on today with NO SPACERS cuz it was the end of the year and our insurance was about to run out. my mouth is throbbing like no other .. what are some things i can do to feel better? =[
thanx everyone + happy holidays! xoOx
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Well, I've never had braces and I dobt this is the answer your looking for but ask your friends or tommrow call your orthodintist..spelling??....and ask him/her.
But maybe ice? I don't know cause once again i've never had em..
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: 15/f
i have never had a boyfriend. Is that like pathetic?? I want everyone to be honest like if you think thats stupid then say it i wanna know your honest opinion i wont get mad at anyone...unless you go like wayy overboard.
5 for anything.
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sorta, but I've only had one and I just had him cause I wanted someone. Well...
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: I'm dating a good Christian boy.. it's been more than 2 months now. He's great in every way, however, all our convos are really "mushy" and "romantic" I guess I am pretty 'innocent' however, I sorta want to spice up our relationship a bit. We never talk 'kinky' or any of the sort. It might be because he's religious.. although that seems like a bit of an excuse. I'm just getting a bit bored, is all.
Is this a stupid request? How can I bring this up to him? Do most people talk kinky with their boyfriend/girlfriends? I'm a little ignorant to all this. Thanks everyone, though.
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Hmmmm... that kinda hard but try hanging out with him more and like make kinky jokes and see how he reacts or just talk to him one on one and see where he's coming from. I don't know about most people but I don't I personally think that'll come like wayy later in your relation ship or for strippers lol but if you don't feel anything for him anymore because he won't get kinky or anything break up cause you shouldn't stay together if there's nothing between you two
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: ok im going to make this quesiton in short form cause if i didnt it would go on forever. as i get older i realize friends should be just a lil more for joking around or for sharin inside jokes or saving seats on the bus 4... should a friend be someone that you have a shoulder to cry on when ur depressed or u just broke up.. and theyll help you sincerely? cause when i try this with my so called "best friends, sarah and alyssa" they like are you ok jackie and im like no.. and they are like making awkward faces and like ok. i just want to know if ill ever get a special friend! im still young
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Well, in my opinon a best friend is a person that you can tell good, bad, horrible, best things too shave your head, become really fat and ulgy and they will still love you not matter what and they will help you through the bad but when you need some fun they'll be ther too.
And yes you will find that specail friend, but if you looking for them stop just let them come to your and be yourself too.
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: on my aim if i am away for a long time, it makes me come back when i dont hit come back or anything.. anyone have any idea why this is and how i can stop it???
thanks.
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Well, check you setting and sometimes my internet connection dies so it dissconnets then it automaticaly signs me back on with no away message that could it too.
But, it those don't help you do go away for a long time in your profile you cause write your away message or say, sorry guys my away is down but i am still not here bye. Something like that.
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: it seems like everyone at my school is having a relationship fest- exsept me. is there something wrong with me? what can i do to make guys like me? im 14f if that helps..
ps. theres this kid i kinda like.. well i think about him sometimes and hes kinda quite, and im.. not but im good friends with most of his friends, and his brother, what can i do to make him like me?
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no there is nothing wrong with you and I can almost bet one of the reasons there's soo many coupls is because of the holidays. Also, (I know this will sound cheesy but it's true) be yourself. And there's nothing you can do to make him like you,well money but that another issue. So just be yourself and you will soon someday have a boyfriend.
Good Luck* Hope I Helped* Happy Holidays*
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Q: I was just out for a walk to the nearest grocery store to pick up some stocking stuffers. I ran into my ex bf. He was walking towards me. I smiled at him and he looked right at me and didnt smile or even say hi. He kind of looked uncomftable.
My feelings were a little hurt because even though we broke up 5 years ago I still consider him to have been a big part of my life, he was my first bf and we spent a year together. I lost my virginity to him. I was the one that ended the relationship and at the time he was choked, but that was so long ago. I figured he would have moved on like I have.
Do you think his reaction meant he still has feelings for me? And why do you think he acted the way he did?
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Well, personally I wouldn't let it get to you because sometimes I see my friends and they wave to me and I don't, either cause I don't feel like it i don't know if they will, and vis vera.
But for your questions I don't know if he has feelings because I don't know him and how he acts or you so that's kind of hard to answer. But, for the second one he may of had a bad day or not feeling good or once again just didn't feel like smiling.
But, if this situation is/keeps bother you just talk to him or a friend they can probably help you more than use who don't really know you two and how you atc, etc.
Well I really hope I helped and your situtaion gets better...
HAPPY HOLIDAYS
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Q: Im sick and i have been for the last 3 days...I dont knw wat i have and i would really like to knw so maybe i can treat it and get better b4 christmas eve/christmas day. here are my symptoms: sore throat, stuffy nose, headache, coughing, stiff neck, getting the chills when i dont take medicine like tylenol for awhile,and not being able to sleep. my mom wont take me to the doctor, the thing that i would love to be without is the sore throat all the other stuff i can deal with. wat should i do?
thnx i rate 5 to anyone who tries!
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take as many hot showers as you can, what i have a sore thoht i turn the shower up really hot and take a wash cloth and put it over my face and brethe in the steem that helps for awhile, drink water and orange juice. Another thing that helps me is eating jolly rancers or a hard candy to suck on cause having the candy helps my mouth produce saliva which also helps too try not to talk either, also a hot/warm wash cloth on you head helps too for a headace.
When you go to bed sleep kinda upright so that you nose can kinda drain lol so that it won't stuff you up
for the stiff neck try to toll your head to strech your neck muscles, but slowly so you don't pull a muscle. Have someone or yourself massage your neck, also the hot showers on you neck should help too.
Well hope i helped and i hope you get better!
MERRY CHRISTMAS!
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Q: Hello, Last night me and 3 of my friends went out and did some stuff (nothing sexual). And well one of these friends I've liked for a little while now. And the whole time she was looking for boys. Her boyfriend left her for another girl about 2 or 3 weeks ago. And I guess I feel like giving up. I don't know if I should or not. Oh well, I just want some feedback. Please. I'll give you 5's if I have time. (I usually do)
Thanks,
Nab.
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Well, I like someone and I'm looking for other people too so give her hits that you like her maybe tell one of her firends and to have her drop hints to her. Just flirt with her. Good Luck hope i helped to!
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Q: i wanna look at porn but i dont want it to show up on hte url like porn for you or anything lol i use to go to xanga then look at the videos but i cant find anymore please help m/15
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well even if you clear you internet history the sites you've gone to still save under you "cookies" so go to start and find something that says search and search for cookies under files and folder then just delete it so hopefully all you "porn" will be gone...thats just nasty btw lol
Hope I helped
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Q: Well my name is Michael and my girlfriend refuses to call me that. She only calls me Mike. She also hates it when others call me Michael and corrects them with "Umm it's Mike not Michael." Even my mother. But she says it with more respect talking to my mom. Does this seem werid or overly possesive to anyone? Or should I just go with it?
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personally it sounds kinda rude you should be called what you want not what she wants talk to her, and if she doesn't understand that you like Micheal better..if you do...then i'd say dump her if she doesn't like you for you screw her! lol Hope i Helpd!
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Q: Im 15 female and ive never had a boyfriend before. Im not going to say im ugly becuase people will just say "youre beautiful inside" blah blah. But my question: Will a guy still want to go out with me if i dont want to do anything past makeing out? Well at least him doing to me..or until i feel more comfortable with my body.
So am i considered prude?
Will I ever get a boyfriend if i feel this way?
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Well, some guys might not want to go out with you cause you won't "put out" lol but if he really doesn't like or love you then he will wait for you to feel comfortable. But don't let him rush you into doing anything you dn't want and if you two are really right for each other he'll wait and your be happily ever after! lol hope i helped
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Q: okay well, i guess this is stupid. But im afraid of lsbian/gay/bi sexual people. Or i hate associating with them, i know theres nothing wrong with that because my uncles gay. But i guess what im asking is, how can i get over this? I think its stupid to be afraid of those people, but still im afraid(or whatever word youd like to use). So once again, how can i get over this?
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Well hopefully that's just a phase your going throught but try putting your self in their shoes everyone judging then and looking at them and treating them weird cause of their sexuality and you never know maybe your best friend is gay or bi but would you really lose that great friends ship cause of her sexualty?? Well i hope it works out for ya!!
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Q: I want to ask my crush to winter formal creatively. (girls ask guys for this dance)
I have different ideas. Please rate one through ten each idea on how cheesy it is [1 being not at all cheesy, 10 being wow that's cheesy!] And also give me feedback about each idea.
#1: The Guitar Pic Idea. I type "Will you go to winter formal with me?" in small font and print it out and cut it out and glue it onto one side of a guitar pic and put clear nail polish over it so it doesn't look tacky. Then I'd give it to him. (He likes to play guitar.)
#2: Fortune Teller Idea. This is probably most flirtatous. I playfully tell him I've learned palm reading. Ask for his hand and as I move my finger over different lines on his palms, I jokingly make up different predictions like "You will be a famous rockstar." Then I say "Let's see what's in your near future." Then as I look at his palm, I say "I see you going to winter formal with me." And then sincerly look at him and ask, "Would you like to go to winter formal with me?"
#3: Icing On The Cookie Idea. I bake cookies and on one write in icing "Would you like to go to winter formal with me?" (One problem: I've never baked cookies in my life before)
If you have any other ideas they are appreciated. Thanks in advance!
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just come out and ask him or wait for him to ask you i personally don't really like how some girls do "chessey" things to ask out thier crush the guy should do the cute/ cheesey things lol but that's just me hope i helped
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Heyy!! I've been kinda bored latly and plus I love to help people and give then advice. And I've been told I'm good at that so I decided to make and advice column. So if ya need help with anything ask away and I will do my best to help you!
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Website: Gender: Female Location: St.Louis Age: 14 Member Since: July 31, 2005 Answers: 293 Last Update: January 23, 2008 Visitors: 14175
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