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Ok, I have a blue and yellow HOLLISTER shirt. What color eye shawdow should I wear with it? It's been bugging me to death!
5's-Thanks! (link)
if i were you, i would wear blue. or like a cream color but i would probable go w/ the BLUE!


Lately I have been having thoughts of suicide. Like I used to have it once a month or once every two months, but now it's almost everyday. I even think about how I would do it, how it would feel, what I would say in my suicide note(I have even written one out), I think how my funeral would be and all, I like thinking about it. It gives me a thrill. I know this sounds sick and weird, but it's how I feel. Then there is another part of me that wants to live, that's trying so hard to fight back, but this other side of me is taking over so fast and Im afraid it will lead me somewhere I dont really want to do. I am seeing a therapist now, have told her everything, but Im just so scared it could be any day now. Just tonight my boyfriend was over and while he lay sleeping on the couch I got up and went into the kitchen and grabbed a bottle of pills, I think I would have done it but then I thought about him and reached into the drawer and cut myself to relieve myself from the anxiety and tension. After I cut I didn't want to commit suicide anymore and I felt better. Could someone try to explain what they thin kI might have? I am so depressed and so scared. (link)
i have the same problem. but i just think of all the people that love me like my boyfriend and all and then i say that it just wouldnt be worth it to have him go through all that. i keep pictures of all my friends and him on me at all times just incase i do try to seriously. i can just take them out and be like well... he really loves me and i dont want to leave him. I think that maybe depression has a lot to do with it. I have depression and it is in those stages of depression that i feel like that. I think about that kind of stuff all the time and i have even thought about my funeral too. believe me... i have cut myslef also. so if you need to talk... you can leave me a message. smichele427


O.K. I hate cleaning but thats how i get money.So how do i get to like cleaning? (link)
when i am pissed at the whole world... which is often, i clean. it gives me time to think about what i need to do. i hate it too, but when i need to think about a situation, it is a good time to do just that. when im mad at my parents, which is all the time, i scrub the bathtub. I scrub as hard as i can and it helps release my anger. but mainly, if you just think about something important every time, then you will get around to liking it. Thats how i did it. Also, it helps if you take a ipod or a cd player and listen to your favorite song.


I have pretty long hair...when I hold my arms to my side, my hair comes to about an inch above my elbow. I'd like to get it layered, but I'm not sure...I have a round face, so I'd look bad with short layers, but a medium cut might be nice...but then again, I don't really want to part with my hair. It's not thin, but not abnormaly thick, either. Any ideas of new styles? It's gotta look good, too...because I'd like to ask this guy out, and new hair will make me confindent ;)

Thanks for reading; please answer with any ideas. (link)
Yea. my hair was like that. i have been wanting layers for a long time. One of my friends got it done and it looks really good. since i couldnt get layers, i cut it all off. it isnt to my shoulders, its just barely past my ears. it looks really different. Just dont cut all your hair off like i did. a medium cut would look great!


I'm gonna try out for Cheerleading which is really out of character for me. Its like an image change thing but what kinds of things do i work on? (link)
you should work on your flexibility! i know my school doesnt accept you unless you can do a back hand spring. you should be really flexable and be full of energy!


OK I need help fast!! I've been going out with this guy all summer and he just IMed me and he's thinking of suicide!!! He's thought of suicide before but he's thinking of it again. My friend is going to talk to her teacher and try and see what's wrong. You see he has a beautiful girlfriend( me), wonderful friends and is putting a band together. I'm sooo scared for him. Wat can I do to comfort him? (link)
Just be there for him. let him know that someone does love him. i know i have thought of suicide a couple of times but my friends have always ben there for me and showed me love and it made me not want to commit suicide.


I am about 5'5 and weigh about 110 lbs. I plan to eat special k for breakfast everyday and drink plenty of water throughout the day and ocassionaly a diet coke and red bull. If I do this for 3 weeks how much weight do you think I could lose if I also lift weights and do crunches plus run 10-15 minutes a day? (link)
you could probably lose a little weight. The best way to lose weight is to keep track of your carbs in a book for one week. then try to go for like maybe 300 carbs lower. the next week. trust me. in 5'4 and i weigh 90 lbs. im 14.


I know for a fact that when it comes to math, I'm pretty slow. Today was the first day of school, and I have a math assignment but I'm very confused. It's a fraction paper. One side was really easy for me but this side I'm just not getting.

-1 1/4 + -2 1/2 =
I keep getting -2 1/4, but there's a list of answers (in a different order) at the side of the paper, and my friend told me the answer was 3 3/4.

Can someone help me with this problem? I don't seem to understand what I'm doing wrong.

My work is
-1 1/4 + -2 1/2 = -3/4 + -3/2 = -3/4 + -6/4 = -9/4 = -2 1/4 (link)
im really good at math... which is wierd bc im blonde but ne wayz... i like to use decimals.
-1 1/4 = -1.25
-2 1/2 = -2.5

if you add you get -3.75 which is -3 3/4

if i leave it in fraction form, i get the same answer you did. but by coverting it to decimals i got -3 3/4.


Today was the first day of school (wa hoo) and in my tech class there is this really cute guy and i was wondering how to get his attention without really being to obvios like in his face kinda thing thanks =D I rate high =p (link)
you can be like "do you know how to do this? i dont get it." even if you do. it works for me!


I need serious help fast. I have a job, and I didn't tell my bf(for what reason I don't know), but anyways when he would call me I would be at work I would just tell him I was in town, so now he thinks I am cheating. He thinks I am cheating because we haven't had sex in like forever and he thinks that I am getting it from someone else. Y'all I love him and he knows that he just thinks this, he like he trust me but not like he used to because I am never home and always in the other location. Help ASAP how can I get him to believe me? (link)
sit down with him and talk to him. Ask him why he thinks your cheating. Tell him what you are up to. Tell him your life has ben a little busier latley. He'll understand!


While picking out clothes to wear to school tomorrow, I noticed my sweaters in the back of my closet, and began to wonder if it was okay to wear them yet. The temperature has been averaging about 75 degrees here, but it's VERY cold in school...So, since it's after Labor Day, is it okay to wear sweaters yet?

thank yah much! (link)
i wear sweaters 24/7 hun. i am always freezing. and hell i live in FL!so yea. its always ok to wear a sweater. i wear my pull over hoodie to skool all the time!


how do you change your password for advicenators? im a blonde :-p (link)
lol. so am i. click on profile settings to the left under "Welcome!"


does anyone know where i could put one of my poems online? ill rate 5's! (link)
writing.com


Last night I had just witnessed a death. it made me real sad. It was my grannie. she has played a HUGE role in my life. I stood there and watched her die. I All I do is cry now. What can i do to stop (link)
I just recently lost my grannie too. I just cried and tried to remember the happy moments that we had together. I just let it all out. My grannie wasnt the best to me, but i still loved her. There was a time when my aunt couldnt take care of her 5 yr old daughter and we were asked to take her in. My grannie wouldnt let us because she accused my parents of not feeding me bc i am 14 and weigh 90 lbs. But i saw the love my grannie had for my cousin. She just wanted her to be safe. If you remember the good times and not the bad, it may help. Like i have a drawer i keep all the cards i get. It may sound kinda wierd but i have birthday cards from her from a long time ago. and ones that are recent. I have a picture of her in the hall to my room. Its a happy picture of her and her husband. when he was still alive. But all i can say is just remember all the happy times. And its ok to cry. You can leave me info in my inbox if you want to talk.

Hugs~ Michele


i just got a male chihuahua and i need some good names (link)
my grandmas chihuahua is named Taco, mine is a winer dog named Rue b/c he jumps like a kangaroo. My friend named hers Peanut because he is the color of beanutbutter.
*if i havent provided you with ne names u like... go to babynames.com and you can type in a meaning and find a name. Like if you want his name to mean Watch then you type it in and you get Garret.


this sounds really stupid but on my lunch shift at school none of the few friends I have have that lunch shift and I don't kno anyone else. I am so shy and I can't make new friends should I just sit by myself or what? I will give you 5's! (link)
what i did is i sat by my self for a day then i asked a random group of ppl of the same sex if i could sit w/ them. They said yes. so i sat with them. Then i found someone else who was sitting all alone(same sex as me) and we sat together. well.. actually she came to me. Now we are like best friends. Just if you sit with someone who is the same sex as you and is the same grade, just ask them. They probably wont turn you down. If they do, then you didnt really need to sit there ne wayz. But i would sit by myself for a day so i could see where other ppl my age and sex would sit. then the next day, go talk to them.


There is a boy I have REALLY liked. He told me he liked this other girl the other day but then after that he asked me if I still liked him. Well, today he asked me if i was going to the parade or the dance on friday. Usually thats not like him to ask me where I'm going. But anyways I siad the parade and he said "sweet me too"..do you think he likes me or what? i dont know whats going on..help me please! Ill rate 5's for everything except dumbass answers! (link)
I think that maybe that he likes you but is unsure if you TRULY like him. I think he is just not being 1000% open with you because he is unsure. But yea, since he did ask you where you were going... i think he does like you!


Ok I just started 8th grade and I am in a high school math but I don't want to flunk it how are some tips that I can stay I top and I need advise fast because school is on tuseday. Thanks. (link)
First of all it helps if you have an organized folder or binder for math. you can get the little tab dividers. Mainly, just keep yourself organized. I am in HS, and the key thing to passing is you have to keep yourself organized. Keep all papers from other subjects out of your math folder. Put away all your papers IN the folder not just throw them in your bookbag. and take good notes. If i take good notes, then i can refer back to them. I found that helpful especially in Geometry and Algebra. But yea. thats mainly it.

*~ Michele*~


OKAY......so my friend (carley)likes this guy A LOT (chris) but he already had a girl friend (emily)..............but heres the thing.....hes only going out with her bc he knows that she will do stuff with him.....and shes only going out with him for the same reason even though she likes OTHER guys @ the same time.......(they have been together for only a week now)

when we went to the movies carley and chris were soooo flirting and he was always looking @ her and stuff......and it was SOOO obviouse that they had a thing for eachother....

but he STILL has a girlfriend....what should carley do?? should she tell chris? and possibly ruin her friendship with emily.....

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i think that she should tell him that while he has a girlfriend, to just take it back a level... that is until the 2 break up. you know, kinda put her (Carley) on hold. i dont think Emily should be told about this. i think it is just best to leave her out if you know what i mean. If she knew, it would just make everything worse. She would get mad and all.

~*Michele~*


hey i want to whiten my teeeth but i want to know what the best way is like crest white strips, simply white, oral b whitening strips, etc?? I RATE

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I used a serum instead of the strips. I think it was colgate. but w/e. go for the strips. they work so much better! If i didnt have braces then i would have used the strips. But when i get my braces off, i am going to use the strips. Just dont waste 30 $'s on the "Simply White Night" serum or anything else like that that comes in a little bottle and is liquid. i would use the CREST STRIPS. i use the crest toothpaste that has whitening in it and it works ok. better than colgate!




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