hi everyone....
hay im sally, im 19. i love to give advice so ask me anything and i will answer as best i can!
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i am currently studying family and children studies certificate III at wollongong tafe and i love it. i love kids and one day i hope to become an early childhood teacher and work with 0-3 year old children. i'v been writing poetry since i was 13 and i hope that one day i can publish them in a book! that is one of my dreams.
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so keep those questions comming...please comment back, i'd like to know if iv helped or not thanxxx i have a blog! feel free to check it out: http://justsallyy.tumblr.com/
xoxoxoxo :) xoxoxo xoxox
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whenever my boyfriend comes over, he and my mom will sit and talk forever. and for some reason this makes me sooooo mad! he's so irritating cuz its like he's trying to show off and impress her with all these stories about himself. and she listens to him and laughs like he's the funniest person she ever met. my mom says he's just trying to make a good impression because he likes me so much. and she says she only listens to him because his own parents pretty much ignore him (which is true) and she's just trying to be nice. but it still really bothers me, and i'm not sure why. i know i could join in their conversation, but instead i just get mad. why does this bother me so much? (link)
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hay...
it might be b'cos when your boyfriend comes over, he comes over to see you and not your mum and you probably expect to see him pay you a little bit of attention at least.
i think your mum is right b'cos your boyfriend oviously loves you and is just trying to make a good impression towards your parents. also if his parents ignore him all the time then it would be good for him to have another parent take the time to sit down and listen to him.
i think you just need to think of it from your boyfriend point of view... why not join the convo once and a while! if not talk to him about it he'll understand...
xoxo sally
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Im starting a new school next year.
Im 16/f. Im pretty shy :) Any advice on making new friends and being more confident? (link)
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hay
just be yourself and you'll rock... lol probably for the 1st week or 2 you will be shy and quiet but after you settle in you should be fine... just remember none of these people at this school know you so you get the chance to have a fresh start and be whoever you want to be...good luck!
xoxox
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Ok ive read things and it say that the 7th book is the last one. Is that really true I mean like wat are the odds that she'll make more? I know this sounds a bit selfish but I just can't believe that it's the last book.
Give your opinion.
Katiee (link)
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hay..
yeah cant believe it could be the last one but i heard harry is going to die in the last book... so if harry doesnt die in the 7th book then its not the last one... mann there could be like a couple more books before he dies so yeah... xoxo
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okay. if a girl say like 13-14 was walking around where a lot of people are, say a carnival or fair. they said hi and waved like losers [haha] and were just trying to get people to say hi..what would you do if they said hi to you? me and my friends were doing it and 2 people said hi, one group gave us a dirty look, 1 person said bye and another person just looked at us..(they were around guys that 14-15) hah just want you opinion. thanks (: (link)
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hay...
i'v done that be lol so i guess i'd say hi... and maybe just laugh.
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Ive been encountering the abbreviation MWA does anyone know what it stands for? (link)
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hay
if its something you use on a chat website or chat room then it mean 'kisses'
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im 13. i love scary movies its mainly what i watch. i saw the scariest movie of the year just now. im so fuckin paranoid im shaking so badly i cant even see straight i dont wana be alone i think ill die tonight by rape or torture HOPEING NOT!. what can i do!?! (link)
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hay
i love scary movies to! but you got to remember that its all fake... the best way to get over a scary movie is watch the making of the movie after it that way when you think of it, its less scary... then the next time you watch it its not that scary at all lol...
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I am throwing a suprise party for mah friendz Anna N' Nicole. The problem is that Nicole is best friendz with a grl named Krista and Anna hates Krista. Should i invite Krista or not? Help Please (link)
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hay
even though anna hates krista i think you should still invite krista cos nicole would want her there... after all there best friends so nicole might get dissapointed if krista isnt there.
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yeah so its summer and i haven't seen my very best freind for two weeks almost... and we're both home. last time i even talked to her was monday night and we were gonna go shopping but rides didnt work out and she hasn't called me since. i left her a message that was like heyy i miss you and she never said anything back. she hangs out with other people that aren't as good as friends with her but not me... and she sees them all the time. we're supposed to go on vacation with eachother soon too and i'm just like what is going on? also-- she drinks and i don't b/c i got caught so i can't do that w/ her anymore and she does it with new friends but like... that doesn't mean we can't hang out at all right? heeelp me =[ (link)
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hay
i think ypu should talk to her about this and let her know how you feel, if she is a true friend she will understand where your coming from. plan to ahng out with her she will realise how much she misses you and if not then when you two are on vacation, spanding that time together will remind her how much fun you are and how much she missed you. xoxox
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i feel like all my friends are drifting away and all i have left is the guy im sleeping with that is causing my friends to drift away and one best friend that lives about 2hours away. i need friends here and i need the friends i have to come back. im probably going to stop sleeping w/ my guy friend because people always find out about us and it causes drama. i need something to do especially with my closest friend that lives here that's going to bring us closer together. we used to be like sisters and now we're holding together by strings. don't tell me to get new friends. these people are all i have left, they're my life. (link)
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hay
have you heard the quote...
'boys come and go but friends are forever'
i think you need to spend more time with your friends, maybe the problem is that your spending more time with the guy your sleeping with and less time with your friends and the only reason sleeping with this guy causes drama is cos your friends think you dont have anough time for them anymore.
i know you think your friends dont care that your drifting apart from them but it goes both ways and
i think you need to show your friends you still care by hanging out with your friends and doing things you use to anjoy doing together.
talk to them about this and tell them you dont want to lose them cos they mean so much to you.
you should try and fix your relationship with your friends before its to late. think about the quote it means a lot i think it could asnswer your question. hope i helped xoxox sal
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do you think that we dont realize how much a person meant to you until they are gone?
we dont realize how much a person meant to you until they are gone like for example when your friend is moving while your avoiding them because you dont wanna get hurt but next thing you know you getting hurt anyways? i mean i think if you distance yourself from that person or spend time with them hurts the same...dont you think? sorry im not good at english so its all mixed up
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hay...
a lot of people dont realise how much a person means to them until there gone cos they take them for granted, you shouldnt take things for granted cos in a second it could be gone and then you realise how much it meant to you.
i think it would hurt more if your friend was moving and you avoided them b'cos then your giving up the opportunity to spend what time left you have with them and after they'v left you will regret not spending time with them and you will feel bad for avoiding them.
of corse it will hurt either way but you dont want to let your friend leave without saying goodbye... thats the thing you will regret the most.
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Okay...here's the thing. My crush and I have been friends since I believe first grade. I just recently saw my true feelings for him at the beginning of last year ((seventh grade)). My crush and I are both EXTREMLY shy. We talked and stuff, joked around...and we became sorta closer...I think. I built up the courage at the end of the year to go to the seventh grade prom with me, he agreed to take me and I was SOOOO excited. We had fun at prom and all, but he just never called me. I haven't seen him since prom which was last month. All my friends say "Oh my gosh he totally likes you" and stuff...and I know him being shy may have something to do with it but why won't he call me? Or talk to me? OH! I forgot! At our friends house we watched a movie afterwards. At the beginning he didnt sit near me. I went and sat beside him...UNCOMFORTABLE...after a little while he moved. I felt really sad. I thought I had said something or did something wrong. I havent heard fromhim. thats the main thing that worries me. What if things change next year? I really need your help.
13, female
PS. Sorry about the long letter! (link)
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hay...its long but hope it helps you!
i think this has a lot to do with your friend being shy and he probably hasnt called you cos he doesnt know what to say to you and doesnt want to make a fool of himself.
Maybe he isnt sure where your relationship is heading and if he likes you he doesnt want to embarrass himself our is afraid it will wreck your friendship. you need to let him know where you two stand cos if he is shy you might have to make the first move. at your friends house he might have just freaked out a little being shy and all.
some guys need to be clued in at times like this and he probably isnt sure if he should call our if he should wait for you to call and not knowing what to say to you cos he is shy would be one of the reasons he hasnt called yet.
It might be a good idea to call him if he doesnt call you soon... dont forget guys have no idea how girls think so he is probably as confused as you...
wait a week if he doesnt call you call him and sort this out. dont lose the friendship that you two have already or things will start to change... act on this now.
xoxo sally
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Ok so my brother is a year and a half older than me and well, all the girls like him.. and i think i like him. this is really weird and i don't want to tell him because he will just make fun of me and tell all his friends. I don't want to like him i just think he is SOOO hott. =/ (link)
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hay...
i think we all get attractted to different types of guys but this attraction doesnt have to be sexual, in this situation considering he is your brother it probably just that you both are so close and that your not really attracted to him, your just attracted to the type of guy he is and the sort of looks he has. its probably the sort of thing you'll look for in guys you date. Dont forget he is your brother so if you tell him you like him then he might not just laugh about it cos it could ruin your relationship with him and you two might never be as close again b'cos after all your family. i think maybe your just getting confused with your feelings and you just need to sort them out. hope i helped xoxox
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i promise, im not a lesbian. i have had many boyfriends and i dont like girls. just sometimes, i have these feelings that i want to kiss and makeout with my bestfriend. ( who is a girl too ) but shes not a lesbian either and i dont want to lose my bestfriend because she thinks im weird. im so confused. what do i do?
14/F. (link)
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hay...
it doesnt mean your a lesbian, this can happen to anyone... sometimes we have a really good relationship with someone and you might feel attracted to them, this doesnt mean that your attracted to them sexually. you oviously have a really strong bond with her and maybe you feel like thats the kind of bond you want to have with a "specail someone" after all you wouldnt want to go and just make out with anyone. its just probably cos your so comfortable when your around her. just talk to her about it... and explain it to her, she might be weird at first but she will understand. hope that helps you. xoxox
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Well my best friend of ALL time is Cody and Cody and I were really close scince we were 9 or 10 and I'm his best friend oif all time too.There's just one problem...he lives in Newfoundland and I live in Ontario(I used to live in Newfoundland).
One problem,we've both fallen for eachother,I only go to Newfoundland on opposite summers.He might be able to come here but maybe not.
What should I do ? long distance is really stressful and usually doesn't work out.What should I say to him ? (link)
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hay
i think you should talk to him about this. my sister is in a long distance relationship, and i can tell its hard but she really loves her bf (he goes away for work 3 months at a time). so before you talk to him you have to ask yourself if you truelly love him and if you do, are you willing to have a long distance relationship. talk to him and just be honest with how you feel and listen to what he has to say... you's will work it out. hope i helped.
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is it bad to think about someone all the time that you cant have and you know that. (link)
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hay
no... if you want someone you cant have it usually makes you want it more and thats why you cant get that someone out of your head... you just need to relax and do something that will take your mind off that person.
xoxox
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Ok,there's this guy I like and while I'm in school he's always on my mind.How can I get him off my mind while I'm trying to concentrate in class? (link)
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hay..
why dont you write about him in a journal or something and maybe that will help get him off your mind... hope it helps
xoxo sal
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okay i kinda liking this guy but i think he likes me too but suddnely i dont feel interested to him anymore its like the feelings are fading away since he likes me too why do i feel this way? (link)
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hay...
i think your confused with your feelings about this guy, you need to ask yourself if you truly like him or not. maybe since you know he likes you now, it isnt as hard to get his attention or for him to flirt with you and you might be getting bored with nothing happening between you two. also maybe you two are better off as friends... but if you see you two being together then go for it.
you need to ask yourself what you want.
hope i helped xoxo
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This is an amazing site, and so are the people on here and i thank everyone and anyone who reads this question.
Theres this boy, Mike. Everyone in my school hates him, I don't know why, or how, but hes gorgeous.
He wants to hook up with me, but in school, and you know, I like him and I'm up for it. But in school?? what would happen if we got caught, or out of class for so long that our teachers were looking for us?
And I sit with this boy at lunch, but he is really mean to my friend and calls her mexican, and he is also rude to me in front of his friends. Like his friend jon calls me anorexic, becuase i can't eat at like, 10:00 in the morning, im usually still sleeping then.
But, when i wear a skirt, he trys to feel up my skirt, or tight jeans he grabs my thigh or trys to stick his hands up my skirt or throws pretzles. i dont allow him becuase not to sound self centered im like a popular person in my school and all the guys are always looking at me but its kinda embarissing if hes like putting his hand up my skirt. but i see guys doing this all the time and the girls dont care, i dont get why i do...
But the question is, is he using me just for giving him a bj.. or does he really like me? i like him, but its embarissing to like him, i mean really. he is one of the most hated [but was really popular in 7th grade im now in 8th grade] boy now. but hes gorgeous and really nice to me.. (link)
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hay
i think he likes you but maybe is being mean to you infront of his friends b'cos he doesnt want them to know he likes you cos he is worried about how they will react to this... maybe you should just talk to him privatly and ask him why he is mean to you and your friend and if he really likes you. if you hook up at school then do it somewhere private so you dont get cort and at lunchtime so your not late for class.
hope i could help!
xoxox
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so ive liked this guy for a long time (i'll call him john) and my best guy friend (or ex best friend, idk) i will call bob. so me and bob used to be really close like we would tell each other everything. he liked me for a long time, a few years, and then told everyone he got over me. i never had feelings for him.
so i told bob that i really liked john. john and bob were good friends. but bob claimed that john was just "a funny guy" so he doesnt really like him, he just liked to laugh at him. john is also very shy but when you get to know him hes not.
anyway recently john asked me out and i said yes, ive been so happy i cant contain it. and a week or so ago bob said he was done being friends with our group of friends. he ignored all of us but now hes only ignoring me. im not really making an attempt to talk to him because he was getting on my nerves a lot before.
now if he hangs out with us he always gets drunk first then just sits off to the side listening to his ipod. its pissing me off. my good girl friend liz talked to him and told me that the reason he has been drinking is because he hates seeing me and john together.
i think its totally selfish and over dramatic. if he was such a good friend why cant he at least try to be happy for me? ive never been this happy before. why is it all about him being so upset? its not like if i wasnt with john i would be with bob. i will never like bob.
what am i supposed to do? i feel bad but at the same time i dont mind not having bob around and im really enjoying being with john. i dont think bob is being fair. what do i do?? (link)
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hay
it sounds like bob still likes you a lot and doesnt understand the fact that you dont like him and that you really like john... yes he is being a little bit selfish but i think he is just hurt b'cos you like john and not him. maybe you should take bob aside and talk to him privatly about this, you might like not having bob around but if you push him futhure away you two might not be good friends again and later on you might miss it so i think you should talk to him. thats the only thing you can really do and if he is a true friend then he will understand. hope that helped...
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My friend is going through a tough time for hie relationship. He was telling me how difficult the situation is the other day, and all the sudden, he said, "on the top of that, something else happened to me..........." but he doen't want to tell me what the "something" is, and asked me not to ask him either......
Now, all I can think about is what the "something" is!! What should I do? he asked me not to ask him, but why he told me "something" happened to him, but don't want me to ask?? (link)
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hay
he probably isnt ready to talk about this "something" that happened to him yet so just let him be. i think he will tell you when he is ready to talk about it, he probablly wants to tell you but doesnt know how.
xoxo sally
hay again wasnt sure where to right back to you...
so anyways i think the best thing you can do right now is to just try and show him that your there for him and he's not alone.. if it gets really bad and he still doesnt want to talk to you about this something then maybe he should see a counciller b'cos this something sounds really bad... even though he might not want to.
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