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Me and my crush
Okay...here's the thing. My crush and I have been friends since I believe first grade. I just recently saw my true feelings for him at the beginning of last year ((seventh grade)). My crush and I are both EXTREMLY shy. We talked and stuff, joked around...and we became sorta closer...I think. I built up the courage at the end of the year to go to the seventh grade prom with me, he agreed to take me and I was SOOOO excited. We had fun at prom and all, but he just never called me. I haven't seen him since prom which was last month. All my friends say "Oh my gosh he totally likes you" and stuff...and I know him being shy may have something to do with it but why won't he call me? Or talk to me? OH! I forgot! At our friends house we watched a movie afterwards. At the beginning he didnt sit near me. I went and sat beside him...UNCOMFORTABLE...after a little while he moved. I felt really sad. I thought I had said something or did something wrong. I havent heard fromhim. thats the main thing that worries me. What if things change next year? I really need your help.
13, female
PS. Sorry about the long letter! <3
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hay...its long but hope it helps you!
i think this has a lot to do with your friend being shy and he probably hasnt called you cos he doesnt know what to say to you and doesnt want to make a fool of himself.
Maybe he isnt sure where your relationship is heading and if he likes you he doesnt want to embarrass himself our is afraid it will wreck your friendship. you need to let him know where you two stand cos if he is shy you might have to make the first move. at your friends house he might have just freaked out a little being shy and all.
some guys need to be clued in at times like this and he probably isnt sure if he should call our if he should wait for you to call and not knowing what to say to you cos he is shy would be one of the reasons he hasnt called yet.
It might be a good idea to call him if he doesnt call you soon... dont forget guys have no idea how girls think so he is probably as confused as you...
wait a week if he doesnt call you call him and sort this out. dont lose the friendship that you two have already or things will start to change... act on this now.
xoxo sally
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