is there any way to make your boobs look bigger like when im wearing a cami? like pushup bras, but those dont really help me that much.. any good advice?
Well I got small boobs to. But trust me having bog boobs isnt all it looks to be. You always get felt on and some like that. And bfs are always around but lots of them are because of your boobs. No dissrespesct to the big boobed people and I mean you should be happy with the size you have. If your still not happy get inplants when your older. I hopeI helped
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well it all started in 2nd grade when my friend and i thought it would be fun to try and have sex so now im not really sure if i am a lex, bi, or striaight. i always thought it would be more comfortable having sex with girls and if i ever needed to practice making out a girl would be better i really have no idea and im scared...if i am a lez or bi i dont want to tell my friends cuz they might feel uncomfortable...and i kinda wanna wait till im older to see if it all changes and if i doesnt im gonna tell my parents..i just need to some help! please! thanx!
Its all ok you could just be confused. and thers nothing wrong with that. I mean you could be by. Hey at least you get the best of both worlds. And if your not ready to tell your friends then dont bc you might not be shure. Here is a way to test your sexuality. Test with a girl and see how you feel. Then test with a guy (kissing) and see how u like it. If you like both then your probably bye if you like one or the other then you can be straight or lez. But dont be what people want u to be be yourself bc if your friends cant respect you then there not real friends. I hope I helped
Bianca
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I'm 17/f. My boyfriend of 2 years and I are going to a concert this summer and I really want to lose my virginity to him soon, so I figured why not that night? After the concert, I was wondering how I could somehow initiate it or give him a sign that I want to have sex with him THEN? I dont want to kill the moment by discussing it beforehand because I know it'd make him AND me feel uncomfortable knowing. I want to let it happen on it's own without making it seem awkward. How do I initiate the moment?
Well its really hared to just tell someone. But if hes 17 im sure hes thinking about it daily. So I think all you have to sayy is Im ready tonight after the concert. Im sure he'll know what you mean! I hope I helped you and good luck! plz stay safe!!
Bianca
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i have a lot of moles..and i hate it. i have a lot on my face and arms! they are soo annoying, like not trying to sound conceited but i am kind of pretty..but the moles just ruin me! i hate them so much! is there anything i can do about them! makeup? surgery? anything!!!
I think what you can do is get surgery. You have to sign some papers but you also have to have parental permission and stuff
Bianca
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my dad loves cats. i hate cats. how do i get him to stop loving cats?
Well theres nothing you can really do about your dad loving cats. Im sure theres things that you like and he doesnt. But you should try to focous on things you both like. But if he goes and keeps buying them then you need to tell him its getting out of hand and talk to him
Bianca
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I was looking at my feedback and someone gave me a 5. I forgot what question I asnswered so I clicked on the link and it showed me my question and an answer. But the answer wasnt mine! It was from this other girl but not me!!! What could've happened?
The computer could of screwed up. Or someone got on your name here and answered your question.
Bianca
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I gave this girl perfectly good advice and I got a one!! Why are people so rediuclous??? Can people please be reasonalble for once??
Well it could be good advice to you but they might think its not for them. You cant hate people for liking their own things. Mabye others like your advice more than some
Bianca
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I have these big bee-stung lips...they are so poofy and ughhhh I hate them..is there any way to make my lips look thin like normal people??
Well to some people thats an advantage. You cant make your lips look smaller. You should be proud of what your lips look like. That usually eans that your probably a good kisser and trust me lots of people like that
Bianca
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I'm 17, and I am in my first serious relationship (with a guy that is) and things are starting to become sexual. I have no problem being sexual, because I am not timid at all, I've done stuff, just not with any guys. He has touched me and stuff, but I haven't done it to him, even though I want to. I guess I just dont know how to go about it, what to do durring, or what to do afterwards (like with the possible mess) Any advice?
Ok well if your ready for it then just do it. But dont be crazy about it. Like dont hold on it really tight because it hurts when you do and the try to cum. Just you know keep going and if they say there cuming dont stop you have to keep going but if you dont want sperm on your hand then tell him to grab it an finish it off. But have a rag right next to yall so he can clean up. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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My boyfriend and I are currently long distance and often find ways to masturbate together. Recently I had an issue where there was some bleeding unrelated to my period. I figured that since I was a virgin my cherry may have popped; it wasn't thick like I had really torn something, just sort of dark pink and watery. A month or so afterward it happened yet again. It didn't lead to an early period (in fact my period wasn't until a couple weeks afterward), so I'm pretty confused. Is this normal?
I have never heard of that. I think you might have to ask your mom about it because it doesnt seem normal. Not in a bad way. Ypou might of popped your cherry but It would inly bleed once. I hoep i helped
Bianca
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when you shave your cha cha lol is there any way that you can't get razor burn.. ((the bumps)) thanks
Yeah actually you can. It can be from the razor you use of it could be that your using the wrong soap or your not using enough water. Nothing to fret they go away in like a day or 2. Well i HOPE I hrelped
Bianca
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hey i just have a question... my boyfriend watches pron and he tells me about it does that me taht is wants to be with other girls and isnt happy with what i am givin him or is it jsut a guy thing?
pLEASE HELP
Usually its just a guy thing. Guys like it and some girls do to. He probably feels comfterble talking to you about it. But if you feel a little insicure you should talk to him about it and ask why he talks about it or whatever your concerns are. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Hi im a 17/f. Im not that out going but my best friend is a very social person. She introduced me to her Older brother who is in collage. My best friend invited me to stay the night at her house. while i was there it turned out that her older brother was throwing a crazy frat party at there house whle there parents were away. Later that night after partying for awhile my friends older borther came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance. after a while he said he needed to talk to me in private. Wwe went up to his room and started talking for a while. he said how he really liked me and how he didnt care how i was 17 and he is 21. by that point i could tell he was drunk. i said "i'll be right bak" not meaning to return. i walked out of the room and went down stairs and started dancng again. about 15 minutes later he came down and said we needed to talk again. so i went along with it. when i walked in first he locked the door pushed me down on the bed and started rapeing me. now im 5 months pregnant and im supposed to be heading off to collage ona full scholorship. i really want to keep my child but it will be hard to go to school and keep a child. my parents dont want anything to do ith me so they wont help out. what should i do. keep my baby and skip out on Yale or give the baby up for adoption and go to Yale? im so confused please help!!!!!!!!
Well I am very sorry for whathappened. But its good that he is supporting it. One thing that should not be an option is to have an abortion. God obviously wants that baby here for a reason or this wouldnt of happened. Well I think the best decision is to give the baby up. It is very hard but it might be the only way. But Even better woul be is to try and talk to your parents until they listen. Try to explain the situation your in. Or go to his parents, if they are like him, they can help keep the baby untill you finish collage. And when your done a good future refrence would be to get married to him so you can both have full time care of the baby. Well I really hope I hleped you
Bianca
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well this might be long so sorry in advance.. well me and my bf have been together since feb. of 2004 and things seem to have been goin perfect until.. this summer.. see hes involved in so many things with basketball camps and helping out.. and im involved in cheerleading.. and then there are vacations and stuff like that so what im gettin to is there is a long gap of bein able to see each other. this is wierd bc we r used to seeing each other everyday [durin school] and doin things on the weekends. last summer wasnt the best for us either.. and i dont want this summer to end like that did.. so wut im tryin to say is there any advice anyone could give me on ways to see him more. what to do when i see him to make it u know "special" since there is that long gap between seein each other. i just dont want this relationship to be over bc the lack of seeing each other. I love him so much and i will do anything to be able to see him more... someone please help
[[ this weekend im busy all weekend and he is leavin for vacation for 12 days on the 19th ]]
Well heres one important thing. Its not always healthy to see eachother every day because it will get tiring. What I do suggest is you talk to eachother all the time. Hearing so much about you and you the same with him it will just make you wanna miss eachother more when you see him. So find a date that is perfect for you and him and yalls rents. And when you see eachother because you';ve been apart so long you will miss eachopther more! I hope I gave you the right advice!
Bianca
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Ok... this is gonna be long and im sry! im 15/f... and i like this guy... but this morning my best friend called me and told me that she had sex with the guy i liked (she liked him too)... i mean they had done stuff before but i just let it go because she's my best friend... but i mean idk what to do... they didnt use protection... and so im worried about my best friend but im also kinda pissed... i mean just giving him a handjob and stuff is one thing but having sex... i mean they're not even going out... its just too much to handle and its really starting to get to me... if u have any tips on helping her find out if she's pregnant... or how early you can take a pregnancy test i would appreciate it... i wanna help her all i can... and if you have any other advice about our friendship and stuff... well thanx!
Hi and sorry about this. But you'll just have to let it go. Your friend can get a pregnancy test as early as the next day. It will tell u if ur pregnant or not. You do need to talk to your friend though because TRUST ME You dont want this to build up. It will lead to fights and mabye breaking your friendship. So all you can do now is be supportive if your friend and find out everything you can so you can find more ways to help hr. headds up though, if she is pregnant then she need to tell her parents asap! they can help her the most. So I hope I helped you
Bianca
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my ex bf is having a party, he broke up with me and i want him to notice me, without making a big deal, there will be alot of people there..what do i do?
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Try to look diffrent. Dont go overboard but wear something new. And do your hair diffrent. Or if you really want him to notice you. Brig another guy. He will go crazy. It could be a friend but he doesnt know that. I hope I helped
BiaNCA
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when you go to get a physical.. sumtimes yoou have to pee in a cup right? well can they tell by ur urin if you have smoked weed.. cuz i thought that when you go they get a urin sample to see if you have done drugs?? or maybe im thinking of sumthing else.?? PLEASE I RATE HIGH
if you are not dumb about this i will rate you a 5..
Well the reason you get a urin sample is to chck the insides of your body. And yess that means they can tell if youve been doin drugs. It can tell if youve smoked a cigrette from 6 weeks ago imagin with weed? Well I hope I answered your question. If you rate me plz give feedback I wanna know what you think of my advice. Thanks and I hope I helped you
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Im going to the beach this month, and I have no confidence when it comes to wearing a bikini. I'm pretty skinny everywhere else except my waistline. (I have really huge love handles that are unproportional to the rest of me.) I've been trying to lose it before this summer, but not seen any progress. Im also uncomfortable wearing bikini bottoms for some reason, I know im weird. So i bought some girl swim shorts that go to my knees (like surf shorts.) Do you think that would look stupid for me to wear those and a small tee or tank top when im swimming?
Well if your skinny it shouldnt matter. Dont fell diconfident about yourself. Its ok to have little love handles. tRUST ME IF YOUR THAT SKINNY THEN THEY CANT BE THAT BAD BC THEN YOU WOULD BE CHUNKY TRUST ME. i THINK YOU SHOULD GO SHOPPING FOR A T PEICE WITH YOUR friends so you can get a 2 and 3 opinion. i hope I helped you
Bianca
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okay since the last person i gave head to.. i have been getting bumps in my mouth.. like one bump a day and it would go away.. and a few days later another bump would come but at another spot.. i am really scared! the bumps hurt also.. and please dont tell me to go to the doctors because i will someday but i just need help NOW ..okay thanks
Well I am sorry about your bumps. But youneed to tell you parents or an adult. If you go to the doctor now you can cure whatever you have. If you dont go soon it will get worse and might become uncurable!
I no you didnt want to hear the d word but its the only option.
Bianca
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Hi, im 15/f and ive never made out or been sexually active in any way whatsoever! Uhm the thing is that im scared to do anything that involved being sexually active because the hair down there(dont give me any hair removal method, il breakout in red bumps and i have no money to buy anything or get it waved) is really sparse and grows beyond my underwear, and my inner lips hang out noticebly longer than in outer lips. i think this might really freak a guy out because this is really ugly. Plus, im hardly a small A-cup. My 'breasts' are no bigger than a guys, seriosly, and even really small breast people are bigger than me, ive seen their boobs. i really want to get sexually active cuz everyone is always like ooh makeout with him but i dont know how. im not sure what to do and i feel really bad because i guess noone else i knows has this problem and i dont wanna tell neone, its pretty embarasing. wut should i do?!
ell ots of people have problems like that. Firt off you have to be confident about yourself. As for your hair use a machine blade that guys use when they get their hair cut. It doesnt leave any bumps. thats to cut he edges. tho not let it look so long then just get scissors anr trim them. You cant help your lips. And hey mabye a guy will like that. And as for your brest size. I have a 34 a cup and dont want a bigger size. You play more sports, people wont be looking ONLY at you boobs, and I fI date a guy is not for my body features bc I dont have mch. So dont be asamed in what you have its ok. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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