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Q: 17/f
i feel like i'm a horrible friend to my best friend. we have a long distance friendship since i live in new york and she lives in california. whenever we talk on the phone, i always end up saying negative things to her like, "oh i'm not really your best friend," or "you don't really miss me"...stuff like that..most of the time i don't mean it and i know it's not true, but i dont know why i keep saying stupid things like that. i feel like it's because i'm jealous of her other friend who lives in cali with her. i feel like they're much closer now and that her other friend is her best friend and not me. i also think it’s because sometimes she says things that hurt me also, but she doesn’t realize it or thinks im being too sensitive about it, so i feel like i have to get even by trying to hurt her also. i also feel like i always need reassurance that we'll always be friends from her because i feel like one day i might lose her. sometimes i tell her how i feel and why i act that way because she always asks "what's wrong with you?" when i do act that way. and i try to explain, but it seems like she doesn't really care or try to understand how i feel. i just feel so horrible that i always say those things, and i do apologize to her all the time and she always says it's okay and stuff. but i still feel so terrible about it and i can't seem to just stop myself from saying things like that. it didn’t used to be like this before. i don’t know why things just changed all of a sudden. i think it’s because of me though. is there anything else i can try to do?
please help, thanks so much in advance.
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I know how you feel sometimes. I have a freind away from collage and she have her own things doing on, own friends and other stuff. but we all do that. I mean we all do new things. and maybe you tak to her have converstion what doing on what she bene up to what are things she been doing. and you let her know how thigns doing with you and ask she seem any good movies you talk about movie you both like to see or book both like to read. maybe you can maybe ask her if you are old enough ask your mom maybe save your money next summer you can fly over and see her. maybe you let her know she being miss and that you will want fly over see her. and go beach for fun. or else keep your head up you make new freinds to and have your own life to. we all do and can't expect things that are not coming our way. she is your freind. I am sure she never do anything in the world to hurt you. and you don't want hurt her right? so you need to show you never hurt her as she wouldn't hurt you.
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Q: Where can I find a few websites with cute hats? I am in college so there is no dress code.
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www.target.com
www.webhats.com
http://www.forever21.com/category.asp?ca...
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Q: How do you stop pretending that you're happy all the time? Because I really just can't.
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why are you not happy? you keep on smiling no matter what. Just be nice to other and give repect you give repect back, maybe try finds thing make you happy. read funny jokes or watch something. and yet you can least sit down writ thing down that make you happy do thoes things. and things don't make you happy don't worry about it. we shouldn't worry. god hase great plans for you in the ahead. don't think about it jsut let things go with the flow. there nothing to worry about. we should ppretend be happy just be happy that your alive and your here for a reason..
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Q: does anybody know any songs about a breakup that you are relieved about? kinda like a "FINALLY! YOU ARE CRAZY" or an "IM BETTER OFF WITHOUT YOU" type song. preferably upbeat.
thanks.(:
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Avril, he wasn't,better off
Ashlee simpson
Kelly clarkson, since you been gone
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Q: Hey im 19 years old and i want to lose my belly fat and i know that running will help me lose my belly but im skinny from my legs so i dont wanna lose from my legs and i think that if i start runnin that my legs will get thinner and i dont want that, does anyone have any idea what i could do?
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dancing helps and try this I do this 10 time everyday.. stand with your leg spred and your arm stright down and go right and left down your side and curve your self little bit.. if you don't get it.. you can find like a dance work out video or dvd at a libaray or video place,
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Q: Stacy 15 Female,
When I get mad, I go on rampages and mess up my relationships with everybody, and I make sure things cant be fixed, I say things so hurtful and things I bottled up, everything Ive ever hated about tht person. Even if they forgive me, I always DO something to make them hate me. This has happened a couple times before I caught it. I dont even know what question Im asking, Im not even explaining this right. I dont think Im a depressed person but I am, right now just thinking about it. HELP!
Im starting high school with no one I had last year, the only people Ive ever opened up too.
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don't push people way here a saying
lose lot of freinds
lose 1 friends
lose your self
so if you push people way more you push your self way from your self.. try let people who like you like you be nice and enjoy it. if you don't like them let them like you. and learn to like them. like that they like you. maybe they don't want be best freind they probly find you nice or something.
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Q: its me again. i got a truth box, and someone told me they wrote in it. so i go to see what they wrote and NOTHING will load. its just an empty white page with an ad. no matter how many times i click it. what can i do :(
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your not the only one, my doing it to. it probly down or something like that right now.. and it hase done that in awhile now.
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Q: I get a lot of buises on my legs but I don't know why. Sometimes I think it's because I'm an active sleeper and sometimes I bump a lot to things around me. How can I get them go away quickly?
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You can't really make them go away.. I do get bruse easy to, sometimes you do something or left things maybe hit something easy but still give you a bruse. I do it all the time. you probly bruse easy. they will fade a way. i try that once looking up there nothing.
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Q: Hey i said i was 15 and looking for a job and you answered one of my questions. You said that you're family owns a restaurant. I live in South Florida so i was wondering if the restaurant was anywhere near by because i really need to find a job. Thank You =]
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O i see. well you know where shuttel go off right? well it accoss where Paul Smoke houe, in Tittisville i think It how it spell, if you live south maybe be to far from you. becouse it up more middel of fl norther..
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Q: hi, i'm 15 and obviously, i'm looking for something new to my hair. i know i wanna keep my lenght, and i want something with a lot of layers.
pictures would be nice : )
but let me know what you think i should do with it.
http://i36.tinypic.com/105p7km.jpg < my picture.
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check out hairstyle solon www.seventeen.com it hase where you uplaod your picture and hase few hairstyle they are short to.
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Q: ok me and my bf got into a little fight but were all better now. but now he wants to give me oral to make up for pissing me off...i want to but idk how ike wat do i do while hes...ya..eating me lol i need serious help and he wants to do it tommorrow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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don't do it you will regreat it. he doing it see if you love him and you do but not that way. that wrong way showing you love somone. please don't do it. you will regret it.
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Q: if u git it done at a professional tanning salon around how much does it cost and how long does it last? and does it get blotchy?
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hey let me tell you something, me and a friend of my went to the pool today adn seen 3 woman with very yucky tan they look sick, they will have skin cancer. i know u just getting tan but thing is it make you look older and yea blotchy.. you should tan naturly. with good sunblock, trust me you don't want do that then you runie your skin. take care of it. becouse you get old you will regret it. trust me i have a aunt who in sun all the time and tanning. and it runie her skin. and all over the place spots nad stuff like that
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Q: I just broke up with my boyfriend,
I wasn't feeling any chemistry.
Any good breakup songs that apply to that sort of situation?
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Mandy moor her old song and Kelly Clarkson. some on Avril, he wasn't or something like that
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Q: i want my haircut like this,
http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/kk167/alyssaweil/yo-2.png
http://i280.photobucket.com/albums/kk167/alyssaweil/yo1.jpg
what do you call that?
i want to find better pictures so i can show my hairdresser exactly what i want, but i don't know what to search for.
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Hey check out Hair style make over, You upload your pic with different Hair style, www.seventeen.com or you can google up like hairstyle makeover something like that. :)
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Q: So, my hair was really long, not super long but maybe, 4 inches or so past my shoulders. I loved it! But my mom made me get a hair cut and I said to just get like a trim. But she cut like it all the way up to my shoulders, and I told her I liked it but I really don't. I mean, what good would it do to tell her I didn't? Seriously. But anyways, is there any kind of vitamin or something that helps hair grow faster? Or anything I can do? Something I can wash it with? If anyone has any ideas please let me know(: School starts in 2 weeks, and I really want it to grow at least an inch. Curious, how long does hair grow a day? or a month? or something like that.
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hair grow back least 6 weeks. but hey maybe good thing. sometimes your long hair have long dead ends and sometime once a while need a good cut. you could ask ur mom u chould of donlated it. but thing is you want grow back, eat alot of penut butter and chicken and cheese. they have alot protaine and drink alot milk. anyways just be happy what you got don't worry about it much, you don't like it you can go hair place ask for new look they give you idea.. :)
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Q: ok so this year my school is starting a rotational schedule and so everyone has the same lunch period at the same time. and so i have one group of friends of ~ 6 people and then my other best friend who is not part of that clique -- she has her own circle of friends.
i want to sit with both groups but both sides are assuming i'll sit with them, and idk who to sit with! last year i sat with the group of 6 because my other bff didn't have lunch the same period as me.
honestly, i wanted to sit in a classroom and do homework during lunch after i ate with my other bff but i still need someone to sit with during actual lunch if i choose not to do homework one day.
sitting with the group of 6:
- PRO: i'd be in on the gossip (i wouldn't "fall" out of the circle)
- CON: i can't sit with my bff and i don't want to lose her as a friend
sitting with my bff:
- PRO: i get to see her cause i love her and she might do homework with me!
- CON: i might start falling out of the circle / the circle might get mad.
i know in the end it's upto me, and please don't say "one person vs. six" cause she has helped me more than those six people have combined.. i don't think i can sit with both cause my bff is friends with only one person in my circle.
(1) what do you think i should do?
(2) do you think i could possibly sit with both the girl and my group, encouraging that she talks to both me and the only other person that she's friends with in my circle?
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You know what I think, I think in this centery now it been like that since I was in school and since our moms were school, now I think that everyone sit together. maybe ask your friend sit with you sometimes meet your friends they don't have become pals, and if you feel need sit with your frined and talk do so. you don't have sit same place everyday. I didn't I know i was in school, i Had few freinds they all sit different places, in once awhile I haven't talk one friend i sit with them, my other friends didn't care. if they care who you sit with they not your true freinds and not very understanding. they not notice you not sitting there or where your at. not they care they know your there they prolby thought your just visting your other friends, i am sure your friends feel the same way. i am sure they have other freinds in lunch room they might invited or go sit. don't worry to much about it. so there shouldn't be a circle anymore..
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Q: when you curl your eyelashes do you curl before mascara, after, or both?
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After.. Here best you like to know more go to seventeen.com or cosmogrls.com they have alot tips stuff like that
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Q: what are some creative things i can do for entertainment when im around my house. alone. i feel like im always on the computer. i need some ideas . id like to be more productive this year.
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Dance around house and listen to music like nobody see you and hear you.. maybe have quiet time. sit in indina style, just relex. ever hard of yoga. it like relexion, or you can do new hobbie like crafts or do something new..
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Q: I really want a bf but im not so confident around guys how should i talk to guys and how should i get a guy to like me enough to ask me out please help.
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DOn't rush in to anything. be a guy freind frist. being friends first. let them get know you and ask like hang out with group of friends, sit at lunch with you. be nice and friendly, ask him what he like stuff like that. sometimes guys like it when girl ask them out. but frist maybe ask to go movies or help with eacher with home work or something like that. you can't really just make a guy like you. just be your self and show you like him and want to be friends
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Q: I recently decided to start a notebook to help me through my days, especially at school when I get frustrated and feel like I have nowhere else to turn. Right now I have a five-subject notebook that I plan on working on tonight to get started for tomorrow. I want to divide my notebook accordingly to focus on different spiritual areas. I was thinking to have one section for verses, one for prayer and maybe one for reflection.
Does anyone have any suggestions about sections or just keeping up a prayer journal in general?
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you can do one like online, look up like www.easyjournal.com, I use to do it all the time in school. I come home after doing homework, I just type out lot things. or you get jounral keep by your bed, you want pray for something you can writ it down and let god take care of it.
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bio
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I am a Postive Person, I enjoy helping other way I can, sometimes I know hows it feels or I been there and done that.. I try my best help as I can I pretty much know more about Family and Friends on the hopic and maybe few others.
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Info
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Website: Gender: Female Age: 25 AIM: Yahoo: MSN: whitebutterfly06@hotmail.com Member Since: August 17, 2008 Answers: 151 Last Update: May 2, 2012 Visitors: 13775
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