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I really love giving advice and I really like helping people :] I always like giving people new options and showing them new views of life :]
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I just started at a new school a few weeks ago. I know people there now, but I still find myself sitting alone at lunch and free time. I'm really shy. How do I reach out and make friends without being too forward?
Just be like "Hi Im new, can I sit with you?" or strike up a convo with a random person saying "hey whatsup?" I made friends with tons of new kids and thats what they had said to me! But whatever you do... be yourself! the new kids that arent dont end up so good!
Hope it helped! :]]
Hi, I'm 14/f,
My hair is terrible it's about medium length goes quite a bit down my shoulders, my hair is black and it has absolutely no shape to it, I don't have straightners or curlers and aren't allowed it, I try to blowdry it but my hair's just a mess. How can I get it really nice and straight or get some vibrant curls in it without buying any products (shampoo, conditioners, or straightners etc.) Thanks to all of you! xxx
You could use herbal escenses pin straight, and if your not allowed buying one at the mall and sneaking it is always a possibility, you could braid it then let down your braids once dry for a pretty wave, or you could iron your hair with an iron (lol, it works!)
Hope I helped!
here andDear Advicenators,
I'm 13(im a girl 2) and I live with my mom,dad,and stubborn 7yr old sister. Recently my father who is a mechanic applied for a better job at Honda and while making his application he made my mom an application to as a joke...but today Honda called wanting my mom. All my life i've had a stay at home mom who had certian handy-jobs there but never really permanent jobs...and honda wants her to go to schooling for 6-8weeks! then they want her to work 2weeks 1st shift 2weeks 2nd shift and vice versa...that means id have to get myself and my little sister both ready for school and then make dinner for my dad and my picky eater sister all alone...and my mom is guilt tripping me into it by saying we need the money and my dad said it will be a life changing expierence for all of us but wat is this change isnt good? and my mom doesnt even like factory work!...and i have mild anxiety like i get nervous and anxiouse anout changes and this HUGE change has crying out of no where...what can i do to get through this?
Tell your mom how you feel, you could also try and persuade her to take another job, a different one, with less hours. To do that, print out or collect some different job applications, and show them to her.
Hope I helped! :]]
Hi everyone! This is going to be my first year going to prom and I have the perfect dress and the perfect date, but now I have no idea how to get my hair done. I really want to do either and up do or a half up do or something, but I can't decide. So if any of you either have pictures or websites that I should check out please let me know! Thank you so much! Love Jae Jae
theres aton here!
http://formal-prom-hairstyles.netfirms.com/pic1.html
where can you buy diet pills besides the internet?
like a local wallgreens cvs or something?? maybe tom thumb kroger? i am clueless
i really want to get the diet pill venom or hydroxycut .. whichever is easier to get
thanks for the help :)
Diet pills are VERY bad for you, once you stop using the pill you gain the weight back and you also put very bad chemicals into your body with them. The only way to lose weight the healthy way is to work out and eat right. But yes, you can get them at walgreens.
i dont knowif this is the right section...buh i hate my body! my boobs are big and threrfore low...and i want to know how i can make them up...soo they dont feel or look like they are sagging :( thnx in adavnce bbes x
Pushup bras work great!
I might get this bed set.
http://store.delias.com/browse.do?categoryKey=roomwares.room.heart&splashTrack=room
I'd like to hear your opinions on it. And if I got it what color should I paint my room? On the picture it has green but I'd rather paint it a diffrent color. Any ideas?
Thanks
I would paint your room a green like the color on the bedspread and then the blue on your bedspread for an accent color :]
hope i helped!
What's a good store to find bedroom furniture that a teenage girl would want? Or a store that sells white canopy bed.
Thanks for the help!
ikea, pier1 , or seventeen magazine bedroom(online)choices :]]
hope i helped
what can i do to get a whiter skin.. im gettin dark
dont stay out in the sun too long, and wear sunscreen.
Hope I helped :]]
Oh and Just wondering, but why do you want to be whiter?
do you know how the white mark on the fingernail is caused by? i don't know how i got it or how it even happened to be on my finger nail, but as time pass, it goes up to the top of the nail,
I asked my mom, because I have them too and it is a calcium deposit in your nails caused by what you eat. Its absolutely healthy!
im 16/f and my friend is also the same. Well last year, she went on a diet, and lost weight, and she looked good. But we were close then, so I couldnt tell you how much she lost. Well this year, we're close, and she went on a diet. Before then, she gained about 5 lbs since summerish. Shes about 5'1 and she has a stomach, but she pulls it off. Well like I said, she went on a diet. She was like 140-145, like me, but I;m 5'5. Shes done to 135. The diet she went on was the 1000 cal. diet. In my class we were talking about diets and my teacher said thats a very bad diet. Like super bad. Well her goal was 135, and shes a pound under, and now she wants to be 130. Does it seem like she has an eating disorder? She says she doesnt care about the weight, but the look. But to me, it seems like shes caring more about the weight then look.
Now I;m 5'4-5'5 and 145lbs, and I'm happy with it, bc I look sooo much smaller then what I weigh. She looks great! but I'm starting to think that maybe she has an eating disorder?
My questions
Does going on a 1000 cal. diet mean that she has an eating disorder? & What do you guys think I/she should do? thanks!
If your still eating 1000 calories, its not an eating disorder, however just eating that little isnt good for you and you become weaker after not getting enough protein and nutrition.
Maybe you could convince her to eat about 2000 calories a day and working out 5 times a week, and you could go on a diet together!
Hope this helped! :]]
so i was just searching around the web and came across this lemonade diet and you just drink lemonade for at least 10 days and you lose weight.. i know they will probably gain the weight back.. but is there an actual diet that wont make you gain the weight back if you just eat a certain kind of food/drink?
Nope, if you just drink or eat a certain food, you will lose weight, but once you go back to how you gained weight in the first place, the pounds will come right back on.
Try a healthy diet, with a balanced food group choice.
Hope I helped! :]]
i have mac os 10.4 i got my mac right before leopard came out. IS there any way i can download free effects because it ried and it said it requires leopard
go to mac or apple.com and theres lots!
i was wondering if anyone knows if bath&body works still sell the really soft blankets in the stores.
Well at bath and body works they sell bathrobes and slippers and socks that are really soft, but I'm not sure that they sell blankets anymore. For really soft blankets Charollete Russe is a great store.
Visit there website (there also at some malls but not all).
Hope I helped! :]
a couple of my best friends found out that i was cutting myself and that i was depressed but then i got a therapist and am doing good. but not even like 3 days after they found out they stopped calling me to hangout and they were acting weird. so now they dont call me on weekends and its like were not even friends even more ! im sooo upset because right now i could really use some support and friendship while im going through this. this whole situation with my friends is making my other problems seem worse and its not helping at all! i know you guys are gonna say why would you want friends who do that and i know they arent being good friends but im kinda shy and its hard for me to make new friends. and even if i make new friends i cant go telling them all my problems becuase that would just be wierd you know? i have not confronted my friends about this. and i really dont think i can. im so emotionally unstable. it would just be a disaster and honestly i dont want to be friends with them. i guess i just want them to realize how much there hurting me. they have no idea :(
If your already cutting your wrists and then your friends dont understand that they need your support and leave you like that, then thats just making it worse. Try talking to them and telling them how you feel and how there hurting you and not helping after trusting them.
Hope I helped! :]
ok my boyfriend has A BBUNCH of stuff on valentines day weekend for me and him to do that he's keeping a surprise but idk what i could do because i have no money and i cant drive or take him anywhere what can i do?? please help!! :(
if you have a little money at all you can buy chocolates or balloons
heyyy. well i have a favorite singer, and on my walls i have 3 signed posters from him, and just some pictures off the internet of him and stuff. but i was thinking that it would be kinda cool if i made a border around my room like on paper of one of my favorite songs of his. eaither that or i pick 4 of my favorite songs and on each wall take one of the parts of the song and put it up. btw when i say border i mean like around the top of my wall close to my ceiling. yeah..lol. but which one would be cuter/better to do? and also, any ideas how to do it? like would i get pic punch out letters, or print it off the computer, or just write them myself? i think it would be cute to get punch out letters, but i just want other opinions. thanks so much!!
you could use wall paint and a small paintbrush and paint the lyrics on with an alphabet stencil
you can get those almost anywhere
joanne fabrics is were theres the most variety
I just started texting like 2 months ago and i love it! I really was wondering where i could get a cheap unlocked phone with texting keyboard that i could just pop my little SIM card from At&t into. I looked at the sidekicks and they are so dang expensive!!
please help me. I don't really care about all that internet crap and stuff i just want a picture phone, with full text keyboard, and it calls peeps.
thanks!
They have some on ebay, just search unlocked keyboard phones and they have aton!
im allergic to nair and i put some on my face to remove hair and now i have red patches. what do i do to alleviate this? (yeah i know, coverup with makeup short term)
Wash your face off and put ice on it. :]
hope i helped
okay so, i really REALLY like this boy and hes 16. he used to be on my bus but then he moved like a couple streets away. we talked on the bus but not that much but we talk on aim and myspace alll the time. he always tells me how hot or pretty i am and i do the same to him. but he does that to alot of girls so yeah he always asks me about my love life to so it makes me think that hes like interested in me yaa knoww well we always so were gonna hangout but we havent yet and he wants to be like "makeout buddies" but i have never kissed a boy before and its really imbarresing soo im not telling him that ! but i really really like him and i would with him. and i wanna be more flirty with him online and stuff so he will focus on me insted of all the other girls he talks to. so can people help me pleaseee ?
thanks, and oh sorry its so long but i felt like you needed to know that story haha.
If he just wants to be makeout buddies then , I dont think he likes you the way you like him. Sorry
Hope i helped :]