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Alright well first of all.. I'm 16/female.. if you needed that info to help me out or whatever
Well.. last night I was over at my friend caitlin's house and we got bored so we walked around the corner and met up with some friends(rachel,chrus,anthony,katie) and we were hangin out talkin and what not.. and then we decided to walk back to rachels house.. so we're walkin and talkin and I'm a smart ass.. and someone said somethin stupid so i made a remark about it.. ya know? but chris stares at me and laughs.. like nto staring bad way.. just staring.. but yeah.. then we're back at rachels and chris wanted to swim so he strips down to his boxers and jumps in.. hah it was cute.. but anywhos.. the whole time when we're all sittin out there talkin I would look over and catch chris lookin at me.. I mean it feels like there's somethin there.. but I don't know.. I mean.. he's an awesome kid.. I'd like for there to be somethin there but I don't know.. I mean he's a grade younger than me.. but he's not immature and sldflk I don't know.. I wanna get to know him better to see if there is something there and everything.. but he's not one of the people that I hang out with all the time.. so what do i do?
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start hanging out with him to see if there IS something there...and who cares if he doesnt hang out with ur group, i dont think that should matter!!! and the age shoudlnt either
*jesikuh
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I'm 14/f. Yesterday I found out that one of my closest guy friends likes me in a romantic sense. Let's call him "Jordan." He has liked me for possibly a year. We have been friends since we were 2 years old. I have just recently, a month ago, started liking him in a romantic sense. My problem is that I did like another guy let's call him "Dave" for a year and a half. I fell hard for him. I only saw him once over the summer. I have since stopped liking Dave as much as I used to. Possibly because I haven't seen him, and possibly because I have just gotten over him. I don't like Jordan as much as I used to like Dave. Jordan asked me out and I am afraid to say yes in the event that I see Dave and fall head over heels for him again. I like the friendship that me and Jordan share. I don't want any awkwardness between us. I get EXTREMELY nervous around guys that like me. What should I do? Should I go out with Jordan and hope for the best? Or should I say I want to stay friends? I feel that knowing that we like each other is enough and that it also leaves the possibility open to dating and a relationship. I should also mention that I have never had a real boyfriend before. Sorry this is so long, but I could really use some good advice. (link)
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maybe u should stay single and juss see what happens when school starts cuz like u said u dont want to mess up things with jordan cuz uve known him forever! juss see what happens this year! =D
*jesikuh
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what is exactly an ingrown hair and how can you get rid of it, i know this sounds gross but i have one by down there and it hurts really bad because it keeps hitting my jeans and stuff you cant believe the pain it causes! but anyways i just want to know what exactly it is and how you can get rid of it or prevent it from getting infected or to at least take away the pain. p.s. i rate good! (link)
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an ingrown hair is like when a hair grows back but it does sideways and in ur skin and turns into a big red thing that kinda looks like a big red zit. u have to take tweezers and dig into it to pull out the hair or else it wont get any better (i kno it sounds gross) and it'll kinda hurt. but its worth getting it out! i dunno how to prevent them cuz i only get them once and awhile from shaving...mainly DOWN THERE! hah
*jesikuh
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Hey I have to get braces in about a month and Im really scared cause I cant imagine having metal on my teeth lol. I just wanted to know from 1-10 how bad it hurts and how long about do people have them on? (link)
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it matters how long u have them on, i had them for 4 years but my teeth move slow..other people only have them for like 1 year! matters how fast ur teeth move..buttt it doesnt hurt that much unless they get tightened that kinda sucks but i think in the end their worth it =D
*jesikuh
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i'm on my sister's advice name, but im a guy and i have really hairy arm pits. is it weird to um...shampoo it? does anyone else do this? thnx (link)
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i dunno...maybe u should do conditioner too so it can be soft =D jp
*jesikuh
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Ok this guy i really liked danced with me in slow and fast songs at a dance we had. I then found pout that i really like him but it was summer the next day ans schol was out so i have been thinking about im all summer. but i don't know if he likes me or not plz help me. (link)
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well when school starts tell him ur interested so he knows and get to know him better andddd i dunno good luck with that! =D
*jesikuh
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does drinking lots of water actually help you lose weight? and if yes, how much should u drink? (link)
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i dunno if it does, it prolly does cuz it has no salt and salt makes u retain water...but i bet if u only drank water it'd help u lose weight a lot more than juice or pop or something like that! plus water's goooood im drinking some right now =D
*jesikuh
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what r some ways to get rid of cramps (link)
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therma-somethin heat patches work wonders...u juss stick them to ur panties! they feel gooooood! or advil or midol or something! =D
*jesikuh
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uh i liked this guy, (like recently) and he also liked me but we wernt goin out or anything, then one day he just tells me that he doesnt really like me any more, but i could tell he was sorry when he had to tell me cause he was really sweet about it and all, but i still like him, what should i do, ill rate high! (link)
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i dunno if he doesnt like u anymore thennn maybe u should forget about him? or u could keep liking him and he could come back around..i think u should forget about him and go for some one else =D make him see what hes missing
*jesikuh
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ok I think I'm fat but no1 else does..are they lying to make me feel better or am I just not fat? I'm 4'8 and I weigh 76 pounds (link)
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omg ur soo not fat..every girl thinks shes fat for some reason, its weird lol but no hun ur not fat!!!!!!!!!!! u sound tiny lol
*jesikuh
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ok i just broke up with my boyfriend and i mean we havent been goin out too long wow like 10 days whoo hoo! well ne ways i got really annoyed cause he kept teling me he loves me but i know he doesnt (cause we r only 14 and dont know what love is... he also told all his ex's that he loved them... one of my best friends is his ex) ne ways... i always told him that i loved him so he didnt feel bad when i realli dont love him... he also kept bringing up some other hypethetical girl and it made em feel uncomfortable... well so i dumped him and i still wanna be friends with him but he wont talk to me... i feel realli bad he kinda made me feel reallyy bad... what should i do to not feel so bad? (check out my advice column im x27pixidust27x ) (link)
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i dunno if hes gonna be immature and not talk to you juss cuz u broke up then maybe u should give it time, u guys should end up talking sooner or later (hopefullyy)
*jesikuh
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everytime i close my hand into a fist, something pops in every finger. it never hurts but im scared its something that'll lead to something ill need surgery with later...is this normal? (link)
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hmmmm i dunno it doesnt sound like anything big but maybe u should go to the dr juss to make sure u dont get like...artheritis or whatever in the future!! =D
*jesikuh
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Well... I've been really depressed lately about my brother. He got shot exactally a year ago from today... I'm really sick of being sad... Does anyone have any advice on how I could possibly cheer up??!
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hmm i dunno hunnie..try and think of him being in a better place and one day u might see him again =D hang out with friends, they might help you out and make u feel better =)
i hope you feel better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*jesikuh
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i just got a blender. what are some good recipes...you know like smoothies or something. thanx! (link)
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ooo! once me and my friends were board so we made AWESOME drinks out of like... ice and yogurt and fruit and juice...it was really good and tasted juss like orange julias or whatever lol but juss mix up flavors a little bit and use like... yogurt and ice cream and ice and fruit and juice and milkkk... yumm now i want one! have funn ;)
*jesikuh
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Ok well my sister is a cosmotologist and she does my hair and stuff. Well I want to dye the bottom layer of my hair dark and I'm not sure what color 2 get. I am naturally a strawberry blonde, and my mom would freak out if I got black hair. so PLEASE HELP ME! if u could include pictures that's b great. Thanx. i rate. (link)
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i actually really think u shouldnt do that whole bottom layer diff color thing cuz my friend did and her reg. hair color is blondeish andddd it was supposed to be dark brown underneath andddd turned out black and now it wont come out and she has to wait for it to grow out and she cant put up her hair cuz she looks like a skunk. haha buttt maybe u should go for highlights instead? bleach blonde highlights would look cute with strawberry blonde =D
*jesikuh
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My friends really likes this guy but i also kind of like him too. I am not sure what to do can ya'll plz help me. (link)
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well that sounds like NO GOOD! cuz we wouldnt want ya'll fightin over some dumb guy =D maybe u should go hottie huntin and juss find urself another guy so there wont be much drama (atleast with u in it) =D
*jesikuh
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okay well theres this guy who has asked me out about 10 times and he wont stop asking me, and i keep saying no with excuses, how kan i tell him NO but in a nice way 2 get him2 go away? lol thanks. (link)
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tell him ur not interested right now and you dont want a relationship! and if he doesnt listen, you tell him how it is! dont be afraid to juss tell him what u flat out think! =D
*jesikuh
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My first day of school is soon and I'm going to be a sophmore in HS. Some freshman boys, that I know are coming to my school, are very mean to me and start rumors. One of them is my ex boyfriend and he always says spreads mean things about me. I don't know what to do, because the things they say about me are embarrasing and horrible. I'm so scared that the whole school is going to be making fun of me when they come. How do I stay calm and make sure they don't start on me this year? (link)
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well obviously ur the elder, and little silly frosh boys WILL be put in their place (O:-D) tell everyone ahead of time that their fucking *sry* stupid and their juss stupid little froshys, spread rumors about them too! two wrongs do make a right i do say ;) andd juss ignore them...boys are stupid anyways =D a rumors a rumor, it wont kill ya
*jesikuh
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i have a question. what is oral sex? i hear about it but am confused on wut it is (link)
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ORAL SEX hmm what an interesting topic? ;D
its when a guy uses his mouth on a girls genitals
orrr when a girl uses her mouth on the guys' genitals
its nothin more nothin less ;)
*jesikuh
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theres this girl i went out with like a year ago and we had fun but it didnt last as long as i wouldve liked but i got over her and she hasnt gone out iwht ne one since but all these guys like and recently she kinda likes this guy and i actully am jealous i dont understand y i must still have feelings for her but i dont want to hurt our freindship what to do o what to do? (link)
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its totally normal to think about ur ex's and like get jealous cuz at one point you liked her! u can be jealous juss dont over~react about it...keep it to urself =D (im the same way about my ex's)
*jesikuh
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