my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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when a girl says i just need time to get over him cuzz it wouldnt be fairr,i just need time to think'what does that acutally mean and how long do i have to wait to get my answer? i asked her out today. (link)
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it means she likes you and him and can't date you because of her feelings for the other guy, which is completely understandable. and.. i hate to tell you this, but time varries and if she really liked him, then it might be longer than you're willing to wait. she'll have a lot more respect for you if you stick around, wait it out, and most important, don't keep asking her/ pressuring her to give you an answer.
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i am going to a party the 23rd and on myspace 4 girls that i thought were really nice and everything are plotting something to ruin my reputation, i don't no what to do but they think i'm a boystealer i mean i'm really not i just hang out with guys all the time because my sisters always did because they used to say how much easier it is to be friends with guys then girls and i like it too. But should i go to the party i mean its the first time ill get to see all my friends all summer and i usually just don't cheat myself of having fun. But please helP!!! i really don't want a bad reputation going into the high school!!!!! (link)
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go and have fun. don't talk to the girls and don't be looking over your shoulder the entire time. if they do something, everyone there will see them as the bad people and they will probably end up with the bad rep. there's nothing wrong with hanging out with guys, i do the same. don't let stupid girls get in the way of your summer fun.
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okay so i went to a carnival a couple nights ago and sorta at the end i got a call from some girl i didnt know. she told me to stop talking shit and all this stuff. i have to admit, i did talk shit alongggg time ago but i dont get how this had to happen randomly the night i went to the carnival. so then when i hung up the phone i told my friend that i got a weird phone call. she called and they started bitching at eachother back and forth. finally she said "let's fight" i got really scared because i am not the biggest and strongest person ever. luckily, i have really great friends and i am thankful for that. my friend that has had experiances with fights stayed just for me and my other friend booked and ran to her boyfriends house. we stayed there for awhile. then i called my friend that had experiances with fights and asked her what happened. they got into it but not really that physical. so then she ran to my friends boyfriends house and got me and my friend and told us "you have to run now, there looking for you. there in a car. you have to hurry!" so then we went to my friends house. we stayed in her room and talked about all what happened. then my dad came to pick me up and we decided to tell him the whole story. he told me i couldnt hangout with my one friend who got into the fight. i was so depressed. i can't believe i used to talk shit so much. i really regret it. how do i stop all this drama? i need help. please read this. !!!! (link)
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honestly, you have to just own up to this shit you said. after that, things are going to get worse then slowly get better. the people you said stuff about just need to realize it was along time ago and that you [hopefully] didn't mean it, it was just kinda in the moment. as for your dad not letting you talk to your friend, you should tell him how much she helped you that night and tell him that you're trying to figure all this out.
hope things die down, good luck
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what is the difference between french kiss and like a makeout? (link)
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they're the same thing.
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Tomorrow is the last day of school and I really want this boy i really really like to be my bf.
He said he liked me but now he is flirting around with another girl. Like a lot.
I may or may not see him in high school next year... but yeah
Suggestions on what i could do?? THANKS (link)
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take a chance. tell him you like him. if you're not going to see him next year, what do you have to lose? if you want him, let him kwnowww!
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hi ur hotttt (link)
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haha, thanks.
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hi friends, well i am very much confused about certain things and that is....though i like girls and do enjoy their company, yet at the same time i also happen to get attracted to boys and men i.e. of my gender. i believe i am a bisexual! but sometimes i do feel like i am a lady and i do fanatsize me being that. this really does embarass me. i don't know what to do. I am CONFUSED!??. kINDLY advice. (link)
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you have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. it sounds like you are bisexual and that can be really confusing, but you shouldn't be embarrassed at all. good luck with figuring things out.
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hi, i was wondering if anybody knew any products that help with really oily skin? also with acne.
mine isn't too bad, but i'd like it to clear up :]
any suggestions are very much appreciated :] (link)
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this stuff called OXY works really well. i think they have it in a face wash and bar soap. good luck (:
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19/f, guy's 21/m.
Okay, so we dated for awhile last year, and then we broke up, but we stayed "together"...complicated. Anyway, so for like a year, this guy has been frustrating me, upsetting me, making me cry more often than smile (and I'm not a crier), and recently I feel like he and I have reconnected. We've both gone through some life changes recently, me moreso than him (a near death experience will do that to ya), and all of a sudden I feel like the guy I'm hanging out with and having fun with and flirting with is a completely different person than the guy who made me cry on and off for like a year straight.
Is it me that's changed and seeing his softer side, or do you think it's him that's changed?
There's like, visible chemistry between us again - it died down for awhile, but now everyone is asking me (I don't know about him) when we're getting back together.
I don't believe in second chances. I feel like we're still on our first. We had a slight hiatus where I was kind of dating someone else, but my heart wasn't in it. This guy that I'm talking about never fell out of love with me, I don't think. He used to have this really distinctive look right before he'd say "I love you", and I've been seeing it in his eyes a lot lately - he just hasn't said those three words...
He's been doing all this stuff for me that he's said he doesn't do, like paying for girls (granted, I'm broke and he's not a complete a$$hole), and chasing girls...I've tried to kind of "escape" him a couple of times, and he's never let me go.
I'm looking for opinions on this, I left it very open ended. Lemme know what you think. (link)
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i think maybe having a near death experience might have changed the way you looked at things, maybe it was not taking as much for granted or realizing you don't have all the time in the world. either way, he may have notice this change in you and that could have been what he needed to change his outlook as well. also, almost losing you could have been an eye opener for him, realizing you are the one he loves and he can't keep making you upset. talk to him about it and if things work out, maybe an exception for second chances?
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ok. so. theres this boy. and he went out with this girl for a while. and then she broke up with him and went out with another boy. So the boy went through hell because of this. and then the other boy broke up with this girl. and the boy still loves this girl after she broke up with him. and theyve been having a good summer so far. and theyve been flirting and such. and getting really close again. but this girl doesnt want to date this boy over the summer. and this boy is upset about this. and he is thinking the opposite. and he keeps getting worried about other guys getting in the way. and he doesnt know whether he can trust this girl and go out with her again , only to get his heart broken again. but he knows shes not like that. and he needs help. (link)
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well, this boy should just keep flirting and such with her. he has to respect her wants to not date during the summer. there will be other boys, but this boy can't get too jealous. if she seems to like him, he shouldn't worry about the other boys. chances are, he's the one she's after. just be patient and see where things go (;
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I'm 16/f, and had a best friend that was 16/m. We were very good friends, hung out everyday almost, or called almost everyday. Either way, we were always talking/or together. Anyway, awhile ago, in January, something happened that ruined our friendship. Now we get in little fights over ANYTHING, and we try to fix it all but it keeps building up. We've been trying since January to regain our old friendship. Is this a lost cause? I really believed our friendship could get back to being very close, but I'm starting to feel like we're both slowly giving less effort. Is there anyway our friendship could ever be like it was, if we keep trying? Thank you. (link)
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as hard as it is, you really just have to talk to him about whatever happened, make sure both of you understand it's something in the past and try your hardest to let it go. explain that you don't want an amazing friendship to die because of something that's in the past and can't be changed.
good luck
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okay.
how do you makeout?! (link)
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it's not really anything you can explain. you just have to "go with it" you'll do fine, it's just something that comes naturally.
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