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I'm 13 female and need money how do i get money when i'm under 16 please help i need a job or something and not babysitting cuz i live in a very small town! (link)
I'd say go through your house and sell things you don't need. Not only will it make some money but you'll get rid of junk around the house too.


Alright, my Fathers birthday is comming up, and hes been saying that he wants an iPhone, well... he doesnt particuarly want the whole iPhone, what he wants is an iPod with a full size, touch screen, LIKE the iPhone. He doesnt want the internet connection or the phone, or any of that "new fangled stuff". Figures, thats my father speaking. well, what i want to know is if there is anything like that out on the market right now, I dont care if its not the brand name, what I do want to know is where you could get something like that, or if it even exists (yet).
Thank you all so much for any information you have. (link)
That's why it's so unique/big at the moment because there's nothing like it yet.

I'd suggest maybe buying him a video iPod. It's got a pretty big screen and it's nearly like you said just excluding the touch screen. The upside is it holds more songs and videos as well.


does anyone know how to not show your friends and not show the number of freinds you have on myspace?how to hide it. i know how to hide your friends but not the amount i have (link)
This is the code I have it works for me...



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Hope it works! If it doesn't then it might be your layout code that is blocking the hide the friends code or something.


What are some cardio exercises I can do at home to get a flat stomach? Thanks. (link)
Do a lot of bike riding. My friend showed me this site of this really fat guy who had lots of water to drink and did 40 minutes of bike riding a day and within a month his stomach was flat, and within 6 months he had a six pack or something like that.


im going to a new school next year, and ive asked alot of questions about that already. everyone is like, just be really outgoing and stuff like that. Well, i am an outgoing person and really crazy.. but im also EXTREMELY shy around people that i am not used too. I know that i can picture myself being outgoing, but then when i am in the situation, i have horrible nerves, like i turn red REALLY EASILY, or i shake, or i just say the wrong thing! its so horrible, but are there any tips to calm the nerves, or just not be so shy, and hesitent?! thank you so much. (link)
Just hang around your friends for a while, they'll help you build up your courage. Learn what everyone is like then start to build up your own courage. It seems really scary but everything will flow, and high school isn't as scary as it looks.


I brush my teeth everyday and try to hard to keep them white. I've used trays and whitening toothpaste. I wanted to know of something you have personally used that had good results. I don't want to spend a lot of money on something.

Thanks so much in advance!! (link)
Floss helped me, it got rid of plaque inbetween my teeth that could get onto my teeth and make them go brown.

Also use that bacteria killing mouthwash, that really helps too.

It may take an extra minute in your schedule but it really helps get rid of bacteria and plaque.


16/f

My bosses are jerks to all of their employees. This woman and her husband own the resturaunt and they don't treat us right. The woman has made all of the waitresses cry at one point or another because she gets in our faces and yells at us and accuses us of doing stuff wrong or not doing our job at all. We have confronted her about it and she just doesn't care. (she has even said so)
The man is also a jerk to us. He's always making fun of us if we forget something or make a simple mistake or if we have a question.
It really bothers all of us.
Now they are telling us that they don't want any employees under the age of 21 to work for them due to the alcohol serving issue with us being underage.
If they were to fire us just due to our age, is there anything we can do about it? Like is that some form of discrimination since they knew our ages and the laws when they hired us.

Thanks (link)
It depends where you live.

If you live in America well you know how the government is there, with the 'freedom!' so if you were to ALL lodge in a complaint to the right office they could get in trouble.

If you live in Australia I doubt you can do anything thanks to the stupid IR laws.

And if you live anywhere else, same as America. Get everyone that gets fired to lodge in a complaint to the right person.


Ok...I REALLY need an answer to this as fast as possible since i need to umm..use the advice right now.LOL...Ok..I am going out with someone and he is away right now on vacation so...we decided to have online sex.I've never had online sex before...How do i START the "conversation" with him?Because he told me to start. (link)
Well many people have it differently.
Some people just go *Takes off shoes* *Takes off socks* ect...and you know where that heads.

Some use many details.

I'd say use the details. Just describe the settings, the feelings and things around in your imaginary hotel room, or anything else as well as the sex.
It sounds lame, but it helps paint the picture better.


i'm going to the beach for a week and im really nervous because i'm due for my period that week. but it MIGHT not come because i got my period last summer and its still irregular. but i'm 13 and going into eighth grade and i dont use tampons and I don't really no anyone my age who does. but i really have no choice of wearing a tampon if i go down the shore, i'll be in the water most of the time. am i a little too young and not had my period long enough to use one? i tried to put a tampax compax tampon in one time, and it would go in! i pushed hard. and i started crying and sweating becuase i was really nervous and wasn't sure if I was putting it in the right spot. So, do you think I should use one and where to I put it in?!? Also, like I never fingered myself or anything so is it going to feel like pleasuring if I put it in, and will it hurt? I never put anything ever up there! (link)
Part of the trouble of putting it in last time would have been because you were nervous.

Take everyones advice below, with smaller tampons and stuff and relax while doing it, when you tense up it becomes more difficult and impossible. If you relax it will be easier to slide in.


my hair is light brown,and my eyebrows are black. so i was thinking, that if i dye my hair dark brown and my eyebrows dark brown, i'll match more. but my question is , is it bad to dye your eyebrows? even if i get it done at a salon and everything? my mom doesnt want me to but i dont see why i cant. do you think its a good idea? any useful tips, if you want to see a picture i'll try to find one. k thanks byee. (link)
I used to dye my hair and on every product I used it said not to use with eyebrows. So I would not reccomend to do it by yourself. If you really want them dyed go to a salon and see what they say or find a hair care hotline online or in a phone book or something or ask their advice.


ok so that song simple plan were sining when they went to do the video shoot in the movie what is it called and i think it goes "i neevr liked you" soemthing like that thnaks! (link)
Well I've never watched the movie, but I used to be in love with Simple Plan and I still know their lyrics off by heart so I'm pretty sure the song is "Vacation"


so basically, this sounds weird and all, but whats the order of sex? Like in most situations it starts by like making out on the bed. Do you have to go in order by the bases or what? i'm a little confused on what comes after the feeling up part.

haha ok thanks. (link)
Bases were invented for lame ass American movies to show teen sex life.

You just do whatever you feel like, it depends on each person.

Because as we know in lame teen movies everyone is the same, so everyone has the same sex prefrences.


Haha, I know it's not. Okay, I have had a throat irritation for a while now. It just recently started getting worse. I can't talk. But now, it's plugging up my ears. As a result of this, I am getting a thobbing sensation in my ears, and my throat.
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Please, help! I need somthing! (link)
I used to have this problem in grade three. I got my tonsils out, and it hasn't been a problem ever since.

You may not need your tonsils out but definitely consult your doctor because it sounds pretty bad.


my boyfriend wants me to give him a hickie .
how do i give him one?
do you just suck on his neck with your lips
or is it just like making out ?

helpppp (link)
You just suck around the area, someone once explained to me why it happens but I forgot. It's got something to do with the blood so it marks a mark I forgot :)

So yeah, just suck the neck for a few minutes.

Also, if you want to hide it I've been told a good cover up does the job.


when i plug my ipod into my computer, the itunes doesnt automatically pop up anymore. this other thing from "my documents" pops up.
and when i go to my itunes to update my ipod, it says that my ipod isnt connected to my computer so i cant update it!
help, how do i fix this? i want to be able to put new songs on my ipod again. (link)
I had this exact same problem, and I asked advicenators.

http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=489930

There is the link and the answers.

Basically all you have to do is download the new version of iTunes. Trust me it works and it's a lot better!


I cyber guys alot... but never had sex irl...
am I a slut? or is there a special word, like cyberslut? (link)
It depends on each person. I wouldn't call you a slut, but someone else might. But the only thing that matters is what YOU think so if you think you're not a slut then your not a slut.


Someone told me that a girl can only get pregnant for a certain number of days a month. Is this true? How long after your last period can you get pregnant? Can someone explain this to me? Thanks (link)
It's not true but after being forced to take sex ed a million times I've learnt that your most likely (fertile) to get pregnant around 11 days before your period.


so, school's almost out and i'm making a fun, summery playlist for my ipod to listen to in the car, with the girls, etc. i need some fun, never-get-old sort of songs, preferably about summer. some stuff i already have, just to get the jist of it, are: kenny chesney's "summertime", evan & jaron "from my head to my heart", ok go's "here it goes again" and uncle kracker & kenny chesney's "when the sun goes down".
anything fun, basically (: thanks! (link)
Well...Ska is a fun music genre.

It's like "happy rock" with brass instruments. Well third wave anyways. But you have to be careful, because it depends on which band. So basically stay away from Punk Ska.

I suggest you download stuff from Reel Big Fish, Mustard Plug or Less Than Jake.

Here are some song titles to download, the songs are fun but nothing to do with summer though :(

"Good Thing" by Reel Big Fish
"Mr. Smiley" by Mustard Plug
"Plastic Cup Politics" by Less Than Jake


im going to start doing an audio podcast but im not really sure what i need yet, im getting a cheap microphone of course. but i want to play music on the podcast do i need a switchboard? or whatever? and cant i just download a switchboard online? also, i listen to an audio podcast and she has audio comments, how do i get a number for people to call in? and is there anything else i need to know? i really really need help! (link)
Well I've never done an actual PODCAST like from iTunes or wherever but I used to do a thing called "DJing" online. It's basically the same thing (I think)

If not, some of this equipment may help.
With DJing you either needed SAM (Which requires a license but you can get a trial) or Winamp. I had winamp which you can download from www.winamp.com but you also need shoutcast www.shoutcast.com

Now this is where it may become tricky, and different. With DJing, I was DJing on a site so I needed to connect to that site. I got given the port and address. Now with podcasting I don't think you'd use them...so uh...that's as much information I can give. Sorry.

Also sometimes when people call in, you can either give out your real number (Not very safe in my opinion) or you can use a program called Skype. Skype is like a real phone, except it's on the internet and you call in people from their username. But you can buy skype out credit, or credit for people from real phones to call your skype. You can find all the info and download it here: www.skype.com

Sorry I couldn't be much help...


15/f. so, i would like to work at a mcdonalds. but, does being around so much grease [ i would not be working near grills. only cashier + the window drive thru] so, would it cause break outs? .. im not sure if it would. please tell me. (link)
The only way I think you would break out would be by grease particles in the air coming onto your face. But I doubt that would happen so go for the job, just wash your face reguarly and you should be fine.

You can also quit, if you do happen to break out.




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