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Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
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This is an issue that everyone must decide for themselves.
I believe in waiting. But everyone has a time when they are ready. For some it comes earlier than others. Having sex before you are ready, though, whether married or not, is wrong and stupid.
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I just started my Sophmore year of highschool. From the begining of Freshman year 'til now, I've lost MANY friends for stupid reasons. Mainly because I got into a fight with one girl that I was best friends with and then she got all of her friends to hate me too. Which was about 15 people. How nice right?
Anyway, I have a reputation of being a bitch. Because.. Well, I CAN be. But I'm really not when you get to know me.
I really want to try to change my reputation on being a bitch, I want to show people that I AM a good person and attempt to make new friends. But I really need help on changing my reputation. Any ideas? (link)
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Try to show more of your other side. Don't pretend to be something you aren't, of course, but perhaps try meeting people with similar intrests?
Also, perhaps look for more easygoing, tolerant friends. Those who will take your bitch moments, and probably laugh it off. ^^
Lol. My advice comes a bit from experience. One of my good friends can be considered a bitch, but I love her anyway.
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have any of you or your moms had a mamagram, then had to go back to take more pictures? if so, what happened? thank you soo much!! (link)
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My mom gets them. No problem.
She'll probably be fine. ^^
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well my dog, molly, is a shitz tzu. and so well she pees and pooops in this certain room for aber 7 years +
and so for those 7 years, we cleaned it off the floor, maybe let it sit for a hour or 2 so i dont abrf (i barf over that smell)
today my hosue smells like shit.... dog piss. so i never have ANY friends over! its not fair!
and the hard wood floor is cracking... does anyone know how much it would be to get a new hard wood floor for about 100' 100' room? for a nice smooth wood?
&& if you dont, do you know any REALLY good clraning products? like i know 409, and that shit, but do you know a expensive one that acually goes on wood and works?
also, any GREAT strong air fresheners? becasue its so strong you can barf when yyou walk into the house!
so any suggestions? i tried frebreeze, it is to not sented and doesnt work thats how discusting it smells.. like any REALLY good air fresheners?
ill rate 5's for good answers! (link)
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Go to the local pet store and ask. They'll know what works best.
Try an orange oil cleaner for the wood. It has a nice smell and works nicely.
To train poockie, try buying puppy house training pads, and put them in an acceptable place for the dog to go. A litter box was a nice suggestion. The pads have a faint scent that seems to attract the dog to that spot.
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Me and two of my girlfriends were inseparable until one day one of them stopped speaking to another. She, who is Jewish, confided in me and said that because my other friends’ religion believes in Jesus Christ, she can no longer tolerate her. Finally, she got up the nerve and emailed my “Jesus” believer friend stating that she will no longer be friends with her. My “Jesus” friend was devastated; she couldn’t understand what is going on. I couldn’t either because my “Jewish” friend had stopped calling me also. She could go for days, sometimes weeks without calling me. I couldn’t believe that they just ended their friendship like that. Finally, I saw my “Jewish” friend at a birthday party, after not seeing her for 3 months and she was acting like nothing happened. I don’t know how to act around her when I will see her next. We both socialize with the same people, so it’s no doubt I will see her somewhere again soon! I don’t know if by hanging with my “Jewish” friend I am hurting my “Jesus” friends’ feelings. My “Jesus” friend has married into a “Jesus” family and now doesn’t hang with any of her old girlfriends besides me. What should I do?
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I think your jewish friend is overreacting. I am Christian, and have many jewish friends. Religions shouldn't end a friendship just like that.
Tell your Jewish friend that you want to know why she will not talk to you and your Christian friend anymore. Try to get the group back together. But avoid talking about religion, if it is a touch subject.
Hope I helped. Good luck!
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well my cat is scared of me everytime i come near him he'll hiss at me.i don't know what to do someone please help...
will give 5 stars... (link)
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Did you do anything to hurt or frighten him recently? He may be worried.
Try to bribe him with tidbits of food. Just let him eat them. After a while, try offering your hand to him. If he sniffs at it, or rubs on it, try petting him. If he backs away, leave him alone and try again later.
If this is unusual behavior, he may be hurt. watch him, to see if he acts oddly. If so, consider talking to a vet.
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can any give me techno songs and also songs that were like popular last year
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Yay Dragon!
Daft Punk is brilliant.
Ian Van Dahl and Darude could also help. ^^
And try looking up various DDR songs, lol.
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how can i talk my parents into getting me a horse. guys that work with my dad have horses is there anyway that they can help.
plezz help!
note:i have two guinie pigs and my mom knows that i can handle responsobility.please side with me(not my parents)
thankyou
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First: A horse is expensive. Figure out how it is going to be paid for, and discuss this with parents.
Two: Where will horsey stay? Will you be able to visit it daily? Look into boarding and barns. Your dad's coworkers could recommend some.
Three: What is the horse for? Is it just to ride around? Is it a show horse? What horse you get depends on this. Figure out, then look into horses in the area.
I recommend maybe trying to work at a barn for a while. Then you could learn more about horses, and possibly find one that is for sale.
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i pretty much like my body..except my legs. is there any exercises for your calves? i hate mine :[ -- im a girl.. help please (link)
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Lucky you. Calves are easy to fix. ^^
Cycling will help immensely. Go for short rides often, or long rides less often, your pick. I used to go for 20 mile rides with my dad every month or so.
Playing DDR (Dance Dance Revolution) will help tone your calves and thighs. Check out Stepmania, a free version for your compy.
Hope that helps! Good luck.
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how old do kittens have to be to get fixed?
if i dont get my kitten fixed will she go through heat or will anything happen besides she can get pregnant?
what are some signs of heat?
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I believe they must be 12 weeks.
They'll probably start being in heat around 6 months, if I recal. She'll be really annoying, meowing a lot and trying to get out. After a while, it will fade.
I do recommend getting kitty fixed though. There are enough kitties in the world already. Plus having kittens is hard on a cat.
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hey can you tell me what the gold stars mean (the ones you get at the side of you name) and how do you get them plz answer (link)
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A gold star means you have a paid account.
Here's the link:
http://advicenators.com/paidaccounts.php
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help me plzz i cant stop crying. my face just keeps getting worst and worst. PImples are everywhere. i mean it! I try everything. i have very ovily skin. can someone please tell me what i need to do. dont tell me to buy something from clean and clear that shit doenst work. does ayone know any pills that help?? if so tell me what its called. please i cant even go outside
i hid all summer long becuase i feel so ugly!! (link)
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Clean your face with a cotton ball and some rubbing alcohol to dry the oil, then use an oil-free moisturizer so you don't dry out your skin.
If that doesn't help, talk to a dermatologist. They can help you out.
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i'm starting highschool this year, and our highschool is so old and sucky that it doesnt have AC anywhere in the building so its SUPER hott inside, anyways.. i was wondering if anyone knew of a really really good deoderant that would stop the sweat. i know i should use one with antiperspirant. right now i am using ADIDAS ACTIVE ANTI-PERSPIRANT for women, in the gel form. i used to use DOVE INVISIBLE SOLID, but that didnt work too well. not only do i want a deoderant for school, but that will work when i play sports too. (i play soccer & run varsity track) 14/f thanks, i rate 5's (link)
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Try a 24 hour deodorant.
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do the st. ives products work for your face, like to get rid of pimples ? (link)
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If you use the medicated ones. ^^
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I'm thirteen and I want my navel pierced. My Grandparents [who were really strict with my Mom and her sister], are even okay with it. Both of my parents say that I'm too young. But my Dad doesn't live with me, so my Mom can still say yes. I asked her why she wouldn't let me get it done and she said 1] that she thinks if I got that done I would want my nipples done or something crazy like that. 2] she thinks I would walk around with belly shirts or something. I told her I'm not a whore like that and that I wouldn't do either of those. And my question to you is do you think I'm too young? And what do you think I should do to convince my Mom? (link)
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I think you are a bit too young, personally.
But as to convincing mom: Get a magnetic one. Use it, and show your mom you can handle it. Then she may change her mind.
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I think somebody already asked a question like this, but here I go anyway.
I am about to turn 15 years old in September, and I am in all honors classes this year in highschool. I also want to be in Drama. I was thinking maybe this year I could look for a job. Would that be too much on my plate for one year?
I am also wanting to take tennis lessons and workout after school.
I heard that honors classes hand out alot of homework, but I really want a job because my parents are never willing to pay for certain things, and I dont blame them.
Should I cut down on my after school to-dos? (link)
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My recommendation: Try tutoring!
It would help you study/do homework, and you could charge as well. That way, you'd have money, and not have to worry so much about time.
Be carefull! Don't overload yourself.
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Does anyone know any weird hair styles I can try? It's for a movie I'm doing with my brother. I'm bad with hair, so any websites or detailed answers would be so appreciated! Thanks! (link)
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For weird hairstyle ideas, look at anime and manga characters, lol. They have some crazy ones.
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So I got side swept bangs today. My hairdresser didnt really make the bangs thick enough, she hardly used any hair. I want to cut a little bit of my hair just so I can make it a little thicker. She used sort of a razor looking thing to cut the hair with, so maybe I could use a razor to cut my hair with? This is probably a bad idea but has anyone ever done it? (link)
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You probably could... But I wouldn't.
The razor is to create a rough, textured look. You coud try it, but I personally would just call the hairdresser and ask her to fix it.
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It's not that i need a boyfriend it's just i want one.
my ? is not gonna be how do i get a bf really fast. but how can i find someone who can be really special to me but as a friend first?
oh yea in my school
Thanks
15 yr old girl (link)
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Find guys with similar interests.
A little secret: nerdy/geeky/dorky boys can make some of the sweetest, kindest, most respectful and good boyfriends ever. So try going after a guy you wouldn't think about at first glance.
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Okay....I really want to like write a movie script but I have NO IDEA what to write about. Anyone hav any ideas?? Thanks! I'll rate a 5 to anyone who gives me 3 or more ideas!! (link)
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Lol.
Why don't you write about your life? Take inspiration from it, and make an idea.
What you write depends heavily on what kind of film you want to make. If you don't care, there are no limits! But first you need inspiration.
Or, for example, go look for an image. A picture, or a photo, and make up a story for it!
Or just start with people talking, and build from there.
An action flick would need a powerful enemy, and reason why hero/antihero would fight. For a twist, show things from the villain's perspective!
A romance flick would have the typical guy meets girl type storyline. Or you could add a little twist. I personally like them when they are comedic. Occasionally, different times and places make things interesting as well.
A horror/suspense flick should be based off of what scare you the most.
Combining elements is good too!
Or you could take an old story, and give it a new slant. Take a look at some Shakespeare, for example. Much Ado About Nothing is a personal favorite.
Good luck! And if you ever need ideas or editing, feel free to inbox me. ^^
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