Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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Age: 21
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Oh I am 13 and Female.
Okay, so, I really like my best friend, *Nat*, he is smart, funny, handsome, athletic, and great to be around. He keeps his temper most of the time, and is very kind to me. He likes girls in general. My mother and friends say he likes me, but I'm not sure. I really like him, and he waits for me after class, but isn't that simply what best friends do? I mean, I've never really had a best friend before, and it just happens my first best friend, is a guy who I have grown to like. I just went through a break up though. About 2 weeks ago. This is Nat's best friend, and we had complications. So I ended it. I would like to ask Nat out in late April or May, but I don't know if it's such a good idea. I think I'll wait until summer, and then ask if he likes me the way I like him, but I'm not sure what to do. I would really appreciate advice on if you think he likes me or not. Thank you very much. (link)
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Ok honey..
First of all.. don't plan when you are going to ask someone out!! You will 99% of the time lose your chance.
Second, If you like him then talk to him about it. If he wants to be friends just respect that. If he wants to be your boyfriend then so be it.
You need to be confident and mature about the situation. You'll only learn from experiences.
Good luck :)
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which diet pill is most effective?? Which ones actually have fat burners? I heard Redline is good, but I'm not sure if all it is is caffine.
Dexitrim Max is only caffine, as well.
BEFORE YOU ANSWER please no lectures on the dangers of diet pills, I'm just researching which ones work the best. (link)
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Honey... I work for 6 doctors... trust me.. none of them work..
It's a money scamming scheme that these company's have bought out just like nasal spray's for guys with erection troubles.
Your wasting your time!!
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where can i find info on ann coulter. info about what her strengths and weakness are. who she appeals to? her experience, issues and stances. i have tried wiki (doesnt help) i have tried googling and yahoo but no info on what i need? (link)
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Library??
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I really want to get my backhand spring for cheerleading. The only problem is my town is really rual and theres not any cheerleading/gymnastic gyms that are even remotely near where i live. I have my backbend and i can support my weight in a hand stand. I've never actually tried to do one because im afraid of getting hurt. Do you have any tips on getting my backhand spring solo AND safely????
thx a lot!!!
Erin
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Hey there..
I don't know the first thing about cheerleading exept it looks good lol
If your wanting to do your "tricks" safely then obviously you need to have trust in yourself and beleive that you can do it!!
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my boyfriend wrote me this quote “Dedication involves making the space to let young ideas take hold; every tree was once a seed and every company was once an idea.” i dont exactly know what it means? any ideas? (link)
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Basically it means that once upon a time something started from nothing...
A Seed grows into a tree..
A Company was once an idea that was formed into a company.
So basically if you dedicate yourself that much to an idea it will eventually grow into a form of something!!!
Hope I cleared it up for you :)
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A QUESTION EVERYONE CAN ANSWER!!
Im quite bored and was just thinking about playing my guitar again for another hour or so.
while playing i thought.. what makes a good song and what maks a bad song for other people besides myself...
so to put simply: Whats your most hated song ever and and whats your most loved song ever, if theres a reason to why you like or hate that particular one so much then i'd like to know :D thanks :D (link)
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Haha..
Well my most hated song is "That's not my name" by the TingTings... Simply because a girl repeatedly sings that's not my name over and over again in a stupid voice and has made a lot of money out of it... hell I could do that!!!!
My most favourtie song is "Dear Mr Presedent" by Pink. Due to the fact that is is VERY true and someone needed to say it!! May as well of been my favourite singer :)
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I'm the team captain for Relay for Life- Walk/Run to cure cancer. I need really good ideas for a team name! Or just some input on what you think of some of the names I already thought of.
We wanted something that has to do with Disney, but Hakuna Matata is already taken! Ugh! So pretty much only have "Mrs. Nesbit" as our only Disney idea for now. We need something clever! It can be from a Disney song, or a memorable quote/character!
Some other random ones we have are: "A Private Affair," and "Stand By Me."
Things to keep in mind: We're goofy, all in college, great friends, and it's a co-ed team.
Thanks in advance!! (link)
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Hey there...
Due to the relevance of the quote "Stand by Me" has to cancer patients I would most definitely go with that!!
Other wise use something like.. Buzz LightYear and Beyond..!!
Good luck.. Hope you raise lots of money!!
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I was having a heart to heart talk with my mom last night and she mentioned that maybe I should go to a psychiatrist. At first I thought she was joking, and then I realized that she was serious. I was (well still am) really hurt and shocked. I don't think I have a problem at all, and my mom really isn't one to go to psychiatrists which is why I'm so hurt because my mom thinks I'm so messed up that I need professional help.
I'm very upset, I don't think I have any problems, and I think that there are a couple people in this family that need help way more than I do. I just feel attacked and sort ostracized by my own mother right now.
I just need a pep talk or just any feedback would be nice. Thank you.
17/F (But I'll be 18 in less than two weeks, so I doubt my mom will be able to make an appointment before then because I am NOT going, and at 18 I can legally make my own choices.) (link)
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Hi there,
I am sure that your mum didn't mean for that suggestion to come off as hurtful.
Perhaps she can see something in your attitude that she's reading too much into and that's why she suggested for you to see a psychiatrist.
Tell her that you can't understand why she mentioned it to you. Ask her why she thinks you need to get professional help.
Just talk to her and tell her that you didn't appreciate her telling you that she thinks you need help especially if you are over 100% sure that you don't feel you need to talk to someone.
Hope I Helped :)
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I just masturbated again. I feel so horibble! I just want to die. I feel like God will never forgiive me. Some one just kill me. I feel like a whore. Some one help me please. Oh my dear God please help me. I feel like such a horibble person. HELP ME!!!!! What can I do. I feel horrible. Will someone please tell me how to stop this? (link)
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You do not need to feel bad with experimenting with your body. You'll find that 99% of boys and girls experiment with themselves, even adults. It is perfectly normal and healthy.
Put it this way.. at least your not having sex!!!
You sound like your beliefs are important to you, but curiosity gets the best of people sometimes and it's ok!
Your not harming anyone or yourself. Your not a bad person and no one thinks of you as a bad person.
Worrying about it isn't going to make you feel any better, so just continue if it feels good.
Hope I helped. Just remember, your a good person :)
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Hey!
So valentines day is coming up and my boyfriends been hardpressed about wanting a scrapbook. Im thinking about going out and getting scrapbook materials, but where should i go to get them? Also, what kind of pages should i put in there? Hes big into snowboarding and wakeboarding, likes fireworks a lot...but we havent really taken many pictures. I was thinking to put some of his baby pictures in there, but is that weird? Can somebody give me soem ideas about what pages I should put in there? Thanks for all your help! (link)
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Hey there...
Why don't you put things in there.. along with photos.. that means something to just the two of you and only the two of you will understand.
Like have you gone to the movies and kept the movie tickets??
or like your and his favourite chocolate wrapper??
Your fav flower and his favourite clothing brand tag...!!
Decorate it with your fav colour and his fav colour.
There are so many things that you could put in there. In my scrap book I printed our the song lyrics that means the most to my boyfriend and I and stuck them in there and decorated it with photos.
What about his favourite drink? keep the label or the bottle lid.
Just small things that you know about each other that really mean something. I bet he'll melt. Just go to the cheap shops and get coloured paper and make your own shapes to stick in the scrapbook.
You could even finish off the back page with your most favourtie picture and a poem from you to him. (If you can't write one, get one off the internet)
Hope I helped :)
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i want to go farther than jsut making out with my boyfriend and give him a blowjob, but i dont know how to bring it up...and i dont know like where to spit out his cum....help? (link)
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Ok, well sort of bring it up in coversation to see if he would be comfortable with the idea of going further. If he is then leave it for a while and just do it spontaneously. (He'll think that's hot)
Be prepared with tisses or something close by to spit it out. If you don't feel comfortable giving him a blow job and the cum going into your mouth you could always start off by using a condom.
Condoms will protect you against any sexually transmitted diseases if he has any too :)
Good luch hope I helped.
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so, i had sex for the first time about a week ago. it was really weird and sudden. and it was with someone who ive been friends for almost two years. he means a lot to me, and im sure i mean a lot to him. but its not like we go out, or even really planned on it. i mean, i always wanted to date him and we talked about it, but you'd think we'd be going out by now. we have that thing for eachother, i dont wanna call it friends with benefits, because its friends who hookup, with feelings. awkward, i know. but i kinda feel really stupid now and bad i let him take it. he's been wanting to since we started talking. and i dont know if i just gave in or i wanted to. i mean i wanted to, but now im so stressed. i feel like he's always used me just for ass... what do i do?! (link)
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Hey there...
You've already given it to him once, obviously because you have feelings for this guy. You wouldn't have done so if you didnt...
Now, he's going to want to come back for more.. perhaps this time you shouldn't give in. Talk to him and tell him that you'd really like something to come out of this and you don't want to be used.
Tell him you'd like to get closer so you are able to feel like that towards him. Sex is something that I consider should be done with someone you love and trust... or at least trust!
If you find that he is just using you then you know what his true colours are... best person to talk to hun would be him.
Good luck, Hope I helped :)
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Ok well my friend's sweet 16 is coming up and it's an indoor pool party. And I'm not sure what to wear because I can't wear bathing suit bottoms or shorts because you can see my self-harm scars. so maybe someone can help me figure out what to wear. And please don't give me answers like "you shouldn't self-harm, it's unhealthy and bad" I know it's unhealthy and what not but you don't know me and what I've been through. all I'm asking for is advice what to wear not my depression/self harming issues. so if you could help that would be great.
thanks !
-Michelle Monster (link)
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Hey there.. What about a sarong, they are so hot right now!!!
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thanks for your confidence roxy..... the only concern is will my girl love to lick my body inspite of my hairy features....and is it normal to have hairs on bums as well?
as per my knowledge girls are hairy down there, i want to know would it be good if i perform there as i am concerned if hairs might get struck in my mouth...plz advice. (link)
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Having hair all over your body is perfectly normal... wanting to know if your girl will lick your body will be entirely up to her. Unfortunetly I can't answer that question, She might be head over heals for a hairy guy.
If not then perhaps talk to her or someone else about options of how to get rid of your hair if you wish.
Every one has hairs on their bum... some are just a lot more hairy and their hairs are a lot thicker and darker then others.
Although girls are hairy "down stairs" you'll find most shave or wax it off. If she doesn't the, part you will be performing on does not have hair... just around it. If you don't like it then talk to her. See if she will wax or shave it if she doesn't already.
Good luck... hope I helped :)
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Well i went to my friends birthday party, it was her big FIFTEEN...Her ex started being really friendly with me and her at the same time except he kept on touching me around her and sometimes not around her...he once dated her and she kept getting close to him..he wanted to keep touching me..she thinks he likes me and she says she won't care if i date him..is that true?\
She still acts like she likes him..also, idk if he is trying to make her jealous or something because he did a lot right in front of her...PLEASE HELP!?? (link)
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Ok.. first of all, I think you may be playing with fire because it kinda sounds like you like the attention from this guy.
Your friend is your friend!!!! No matter how many times she'll say I don't care if you date my ex boyfriend.. She still cares!! She could just be saying she doesn't care so you can be happy.
I know you would absolutely hate it if your friend started dating your ex boyfriend... I know for sure that I would!
Put it this way... your friend and this guy had feelings for each other once before. They kissed, they cuddled, who knows they may have taken things a bit further then that. They cared for each other and they could have even loved each other..!!
If you were to date him and share this with him, your friend wont want to know the juicy details of your weekend with him. It would make the situation to awkward and uncomfortable.
I think if you do have feelings for this guy, you need to either get over them real fast or have a serious BIG long talk with your friend.
Hope I helped. Good Luck :)
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Hi, i am a 26 yr old guy seeking advice from you all.
I am quite hairy on my bums and my abdoment part and also all over body. do girls like it, is it a turn on or turn off, am quite concerned about this. (link)
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Some girls go head over heals for a hairy guy... and some girls don't. It's a personal choice and it's up to each individual.
If you are self concious about it you could tidy (trim) the hair you have. Even perhaps get it waxed.
But... the amount of hair you have on your body shouldn't be the reason as to why a girl doesn't like you. They should like you for who you are.
Besides.. some girls are really hairy too... we just don't let guys see it ;P
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i have this bump on like the inner labia of my vagina and it just showed up like a day or two ago. i dont know if it could be herpes or a sebaceous cysts, or nothing at all. it looks like a zit and has like a white head. i do shave so maybe its from that. it doesnt itch or feel irritated. i am a virgin and ive only been fingered by one person about a week ago. but he hands were clean and he didn touch himself beforehand. any idea? (link)
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It might just be a pimple or something relating to your shaving but... If the problem seems to worsen I'd get it checked out by your GP.
Just monitor it, if it becomes bigger, sore, red, itchy, smelly anything like that take action immediately.
Hope I helped :)
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Well lets see there this boy that i liked last year and well i still like him. But lets go to the past for a minute well i liked this boy and one of my friends she has a class with him and she ask me if she can talk to him for me. And i said yea. So she be talking to him for me and trying to get me hooked up with him and stuff. So then this is were it comes to the present well i just found out from another of one of my friends that the boy i like wanna her to hook them up together and i ask who was it and she wouldnt tell me. So then thats when i found out that the person who wanna hook up with him was the friend that tried to hook me up with him last year. And so both of my friends were going behind my back with this. And they thought i didnt know about it but i actually do know all about it and they are trying to keeo it a secret. And in my case i think it is wrong because they both knew i like him and be trying to get with him for as long as i can remeber.And to make it less compucated (these are not real names) but the friend that tried hooking me up with him is kate and now she likes him and asking another one of my friends to hook them up together which name is melissa. And melissa also knows i like him. So tell me what you think. IS this wrong for them to do this to me or is it just me. (link)
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Hey there,
It is most definitely wrong of them to do this behind your back. It just goes to show how inconsiderate they are of your feelings.
Instead of getting your friends to talk to this boy, perhaps you should show just a little bit more confidence and talk to him yourself.
I know the thought of that might make your bones shiver... BUT, guys like confidence in girls. Show that you are interested in this boy and show your friends that you don't need them to get a boy to talk to you.
If this boy decides to like you instead of your friend then you totally win.. if on the other hand he decides to like your friend then at least you'll have the experience of talking to a guy you like and the expectations for next time.
Good luck... hope I helped :)
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I'm 16 and i like this guy i alot. He knows i like him and what im trying to do is talk to him but its so hard. Because i guess im afraid to talk to himm, like what if he dont want to talk to me and stuff. But my friends said that he is a big flirt so he probaly will but. But my point is how can i talk to him. And we usaully dont talk to eachother that much besides sayin hi to eachother. And i have one class with him but i cant talk to him there because he sits way in the back and i sit in the front and also he be flirting with other girls. I just wanna know how can i talk to him and what would be the best way to talk to him. MYspace?? And i also tried to get my friends to talk to him for me but i dont know i was close of talking to him but i think i kind of blew it. (link)
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Hi there,
I say suck it up and talk to him...!! :-)
We only live once and if you hold back you might loose your chance completely. Guys like confidence in girls.
Take a chance.. don't over think about what your going to say otherwise it'll sound rehersed. Just take it easy, stay calm and talk to him. Even if it is brief.
You be the flirt ;-) he might appreciate the competition.
Goodluck :)
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Right now I have a P.O box but I would like to move it to outside my home now(via getting it delivered by the mailman(or woman). How could I do this? Thanks for help. (link)
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Ask the Post Office :)
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