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My boyfriend treats me like gold and i have a HUGE attitude problem and i want to change. But i have no idea how to start. Dont state the obvious people like just do it because i tried and it doesnt happen. he is very annoying but i love him to death and he doesnt deserve what i do. I yell/hit/and give him an attitude. I dont really hit him just m,essing around like im not an abusive girlfriend. but I can get out of hand of messing around.
PLEASE HELP! (link)
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I’m exactly the way you are. I’ve been working on it for the last 6 years.
The thing is that is just the way you are. Change is possible. But it wont go away. Maybe you should just change the way you communicate it to him. Like instead of saying something like “you are iterating the hell out me” Say something like “Do you mind if I have some time alone, I’m kind of irritable”. But to be honest, and this is only from my own experience, brake up with him and find someone who also has a strong personality like you have. It worked for me. They don’t overshadow you, you just kind of know, he wont take any crap from you. Good luck
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Can too much attention freak a girl out and make her back off? Even though you're really close? I've heard people say this before, but I'm not too sure, and now I'm affraid that I've been bothering my girlfriend with too much attention. (link)
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In some ways girls is not that much different to men. Women like to chase something sometimes. That’s what makes the relationship interesting. And if you give her too much love and attention she just might get the idea in her head that it’s ok to treat you which ever way she wants to because she’ll get away with it (worse case scenario) . But yes, she will get uncomfortable if you give her to much attention.
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where can i get a logo for my clothing line designed. preferably free? (link)
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Hi I'm a graphic designer, I can make you one. E-mail me at artwork@brandinsa.co.za
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Alright, Im going to preface this by saying, Im not your average asshole guy who thinks the world loves him, so temper your responses as if youre talking to someone who is reasonable and who approaches things with a relatively open mind.
So, Im in this relationship. One in a long line of similar ones, I have a tendancy to get into the serious kind, and my girlfriends tend to stick around for the better side of a year. My current and I are just about at the 18 month mark.
We have hit this point where I am comfy. I like talking to her, and having her around, and doing the cute little couple things,but I also like my space, and try to communicate that to her in a non hostile or not "get off my back" toned way. I try to just let her know gently when I need to just chill out and not be sitting on the couch with her in my lap.
But she, on the other hand, just cant seem to get enough. She wants me to hold her from the second I get home until the second I leave for work the next day, and generally suffocates me.
Now, Im pointing out what she does, but this behaviour has led to EVERY SINGLE BREAK UP Ive had in the last 8 years. 6 ltrs and a few month - 2 month beginnings. Girls hit this point where they want you around them 24/7, and excuse me if I like my partners to be _part_ of my life and not the entire focus of it.
So as I said, Im not an uncaring person. I cuddle after sex, I like laying together and watching a movie, I give her a massage nearly every night, but I dont want to be wrapped around ANYONE every second that Im not at work. I hate my job, and at times I enjoy going to get a respite from her. Its fucking ridiculous!
So, what the hell should I do? I mean, Im not going to say theres something wrong with me. Hell, I would say that Im more affectionate on a regular basis than the average guy I know, but I like a few hours a day to sit at the computer and play games, or to take a hot shower _alone_ or maybe, just maybe, fall asleep in a position thats comfortable to me, not that makes her feel like my teddy bear.
I cant figure it out. Are all girls like this? Or do I just have some wierd attraction to girls who do this and havent figured it out? I dont know. But its the reason I keep having to end relationships, and I like this girl, I dont want to break up with her because shes suffocating me.
Angry women responding saying Im a pig, or that I dont deserve her, or anything else of an un-thought out and abrasive nature will get a one and an angry riposte. (link)
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Hi, I get what you are saying, you should try to get her involved with things that will take up some of her time (like volunteering at the animal shelter, dancing, or anything you know she likes to do) , in that way you can have “me time” without braking her hart. Does she have friends? If she has, you can maybe talk to them in private and explain the situation in the nicest way possible and ask them to help you out (like they should take her out, or invite her over…) Hope it helped.
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Ok, when I take a shower, my hair would be nice and thin. But then after a while, when my hair gets dry, it gets poofy and thick.
I want to know, is there any ways I can keep my hair the way it is when I come out of the shower, but dry.
Any tips? Amy steps? Any conditionor or hair products that are not that expensive, and really works?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's for anything useful. (link)
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Get some leave in coditionar and silicone. Does wonders!
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