Aight, I love this girl, we're both 13. Don't bother telling me that 13 year olds don't know love, and that it's only infatuation. I know what love is, and I know what infatuation is. And I don't give a damn about hot, sexy, etc. So anyway, I love her, I've told her that. She knows how madly in love with her I am. Problem is, she's not sure if she likes me back. Oh, sure, I've asked her places, like recently we went to the carnival as 'friends'. I mean, she's a great girl... hilarious, smart, amazing personality... what more could I ask for?
Anyway, the first school dance is coming up. I've never been to a dance. Yeah, last year my parents signed me up for a social dance program, but you don't ask people there, it's just to learn how to dance. And it's only like the cha-cha and everything you'll never use. So I really want to ask her there with no chance of rejection. Ever since I saw her as more than a friend I've been tormented by a sudden flurry of emotions. Love! Hate! Jealousy! Rejection! You name it! I don't want to face the bad ones again... for a while I was too depressed to make jokes---and I'm the class clown! So I don't want to be depressed again, what's a good way for me to ask her out? In short, I'm shy, I love her more than anything else, I don't give a damn about looks, she doesn't like me, I need to ask her to a dance somehow. Emphasis on shy. Thanks!
PS: Also there's this constant awkward silence... what are some good conversation starters? Thanks!
I love answering tough questions, so I read through the list and decided to choose yours. Love is a lot of mixed emotions, your right.But I'm not sure why the girl you love is causing all these things. I think maybe you should say I need to talk with you. Pull her aside don't say anything in front of people because it may embarass her. Say I really just like you more then a friend. She'll either say, I like you more then a friend too or say ok thanks for telling me. The thanks for telling me means she wants to be friends still. The I like you more is a good sign to ask her to the dance. When you talk to her again, just be like can't wait to see you at the dance, say stuff like that. Also don't worry about dancing, it comes naturally just talk to her alot at the dance but let her hang out with her friends. But if she says she just wants to be friends, I think you should go to the dance a lone and then at a slow song just ask her to dance it will be really cute don't worry just relax! Good Luck anyother questions just write me a message! ;)
Love,
Molly
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i just hate when the boys make fun of me.i just want them to treat me like a girl.i always feel like im one of the boys and i just hate it.nobody care for me i always left out.i feel realy lonely to the maximum.other girl friends all get attention from the boys but nobody understand that i need to be cared to.i want to be loved to.its there anything wrong with my character?maybe im boyish but the way i dress up is lady like.perhaps im too friendly and outspoken.what to do???
Well, I have friends that are like the same. Maybe you should try appoaching the guys differently. Maybe talk to them about what they look for in a girl. If some of the qualities involve things like being quiet or shy which I'm not sure if they will. Maybe change, but I wouldn't go changing myself right away, because it might not be worth getting some attention from guys. You might just want to start talking more to girls and try to become friends with them! ;) Good Luck
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Molly
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My dad smokes and im really worried about him. I really want him to stop, but i dont know what to say and i dont want him to get mad at me...what should i do? thanks in advance *i do rate8
Smoking is defiantly tough. I took a class on it, learning how to deal with family matters, its better to tell him how you feel. Now I don't no your relationship with your dad, but you must care about him! So I would say, Dad I am worried about you, I know about the risks of smokers and I will help you get throught quiting. Keep encouraging him too. If he allows you, if not then just give him space, some people have there own ways of doing things so defiantly speak up and say you care! ;) Good Luck!
Love,
Molly
Age 14
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I asked a question about this before. I was the one who was being indeed very selfish about my geeky friend who was embaressing me like hell!!! She was being very clingy and I was starting to feel embaressed about her because of her being geeky and annoying!
Well, she sat with me at lunch today. I followed someone's advice on trying to get some space because I realized I needed it!! But, how can I get space without making her upset. She's completely oblivious to me being annoyed with her!! I don't want to go out of the blue saying "You're annoying be so give me some space" She'll ask why! And then i'll have to tell her the truth! She's so annoying at lunch. I sit with cool people and she's totally butting in to all our coversations going "What?" "Who did?" ITS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!!! I've been avoiding her and I know its not right! I need further inforimation!!
Geez do I know what your going through. Well its pretty much better to upfront tell her, take her away from the group and say "I'm sorry I really feel like I need us to just be apart from each other for a couple of days, I just feel really attached to and I need some space and time" if she gets upset, say " would rather of me have not said anything and embarssed you in front of people?" Trust me in the end its better to upfront tell them. Would you rather be clueless and have all the people around you be soo annyoed with you or be filled in and know that you need to make new friends? I know its harsh but trust me it's the better thing to do! :) Good Luck! Anyother questions just write to me on here or email me at mollysie@yahoo.com ;)
Love,
Molly
Age 14
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how do you scrunch you hair up, and how wavy/curly does it get?
Scrunching your hair works really well! I have a cousin who does it alot to hers. You take the your hair from the roots and grab the bottom and make kind of a ball shape and just squish your hair together and then pull it apart. It depends what kind of hair you have but usually it makes it kind of beach wavy, and medium size curls! ;) Good Luck!
Love,
Molly
Age 14
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ok i straighten my hair alotttt. anyone have any good conditioners or shampoos that help your hair from such damage
Oh my gosh have I got answers for you! :) I have naturally curly hair! It stinks! I straighten my hair every morning. But what I found is that a shampoo called Infusium works really well to like not have the frizz so much. Then they have leave in treatment get the spray bottle kind and just use it when you get out of the shower! I works really well I have recomended it to all my friends! ;) Good Luck!
Love,
Molly
Age 14
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im going on a field trip
and i really like this guy thats going to be there
i really really really REALLY wanna ask him out on the bus or something on the way
but im like one ofthose "shy people in the school"
how can i just ask him but like
yeah you people know over come shyness
The same thing has happend to me. If he's next to you on the bus start a conversation. If you feel confortable enough try asking him. But if you feel a little shy use this Field Trip to get to know him better. Then maybe on the ride home you should ask him. That way you feel more confortable! ;)
Love,
Molly
Age 14
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