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I come from a small town in New York called Fulton. not many people in our high school maybe 300 something. But I still love it here. I am most like any other 17 year old girl but I am not all that girly, I grew up with all guys except my best friend who I meet when I was 6. I love to dance, I also love the UFC! I am the biggest dork ever and I just dont care beucase I love it! There are very few people in this world that I love with all my heart. I still act like a little kid most of the time. I can't stand people who are fake and who casue drama. I get along with just about everyone and I tell it like it is.

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i found this on a website:

NIGHTMARE: 2010? 3/4 of the United States Is Underwater, Awaiting Russian Nuclear Attack


is that true? i'm really scared about it LOL

No i dont think will be true that would only be in a couple of years and the world isnt gunna change that much in thoes few of years

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Me and my friend play this question game on AIM where you each have to ask a question and if you dont answer it then you have to tell one of your most embarassing moments. Well were running out of questions. Does anybody have any good ones? Preferrably about boys and stuff. THANKS SO MUCH. :). 13/f

I play that game too, its really hard to come up with random questions, There what have you never told anyone?, If you could know one thing anything about me what would it be?, If you could be have anythign in world what would it be and why? If you go to any time in history what and why?

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Ok, so I am visiting my ex in jail tommorrow, someone I still have feelings for. I haven't seen him in over a year and I am very nervous about seeing him. So nervous infact that I've almost talked myself out of going. I'm afraid I'm going to say something dumb. I mean, I've never visited anyone in jail before, so I don't know what to say, ya know? What are some ideas to start the conversation going smoothly? HELP ASAP!!

Well just ask him how is it going and see what he says and tell him whats been up with you. and just keep it casual unless he bring up that he likes you still, you shouldnt say anything beucase you wouldnt want to really mess up the firendship.

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hey yeah my moms telling me to sleep morecause i havent been sleeping and im starting to get breakouts. true? or partially true??

Its true the more rest you get then healthy it is for your body and yes it does help acne alot.

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I can't rember the site.
but there are some.

they're xangas with quotes from lyrics.
anyone know any good sites?

What you can do is go to xanga and click on blogrings and type in quotes they will give you alot of xanga sites with quotes on it.

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i have this friend who no one likes, and i kinda like her, but she has her moments. Plus everyone thinks she a lesbian, and i kinda agree. I hate talking about her, but idk what to do about it. I dont like confronting her on the issue, but i also want to be sure of her sex. SHe does many things to me which i dont particularly want ehr too, but its weird to tell her STOP!! im not sure what im asking exactly, but i need advice!!!

If you are her friend then you will be upfront with her even if it hurts her feelings she will understand if you explain it to her even if its a little weird.

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ok so i need major help. about a month ago i had a pregnancy scare and i got 2 tests done that both came back negative. i had all the symptoms and i mean ALL [[my mom even questioned me about it]]. but i had only missed 1 period. so far now i have missed 2 and continue to have these symptoms and they keep getting worse. whats worse is my bf broke up with me a month ago after it came back negative [[he was my one and only so no other guys are involved]]. i am a verrry thin girl like, i'm 5'8 and 110lbs [[no i'm not anorexic, i eat a lot, it's just genetics]]. and i have really tight abs. . .well, not anymore and i'm starting to pooch a bit haha as funny as that sounds. are these symptoms just in my head? am i just gaining some weight? should i get another home test? i can't go to a doctor because i am only 17 and would die before telling my parents anything i've done. i need help [[please, no internet links cuz my dad might monitor what all i do]]

ok well first you should probly buy another test and see if a friend will give you a ride to a free clinic in the area. that is all i can tell you but im sure if you are you cant hide this from your parents for to much longer.

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im 13 and im about 98 to like 100 pounds, and im 5'2.. everyone is saying that im really skinny, almost too skinny, but i look great, and guys always compliment me on how great i look, and they all say im not too skinny or too fat. I need to know if im too skinny, because i like the way i look. its mostly muscle, becasue im on an intense track team, and i think its a problem. My whole family seems to be like it, but i hate being the girl who is just about average height, but compared to other girls, not so average weight? what should i do, is there anything i CAN do???

you are about the perfect weight for your height. and if you have alot of muscle then if usaly weighs more then fat does. and there is nothing wrong with being the average height. that why its average its just like most girls.

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I'm 18 and a male. I have an Aadvicenators account that I've been using for years, but sometimes I just need to reach out to my fellow advicenators for help.

Well, theres this girl that I like named Katrina. We've been friends for a long time, and lately we've been getting really flirtatious, and I've found that she likes me also. The only problem is that we live in two different counties. Even though shes only about a 45 minute drive away we've yet to stay in physical contact with each other over a long period of time. My question is, what should I do? I'd like to leave, 'cause I don't like to wait around for things that aren't going to happen, but her friends all tell me that if I leave she'll be devastated. Not that I wouldn't be hurt too, it's just that I'd like to spare myself some unneeded pain ya know? So, what should I do? Stay or go? I really need some help here...

I think you shouldnt stay, beucase if you two hardly see eachother there is no point in it. even if you want to be with her you two just live to far apart for it to work out, and you should explain to her that you do like her and you wish things were differnt and you could be with her but it just wouldnt work out there would way to much pain in the end.

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My friend just went in the hospitial for a month.
i wanna make her a cd and a card and some other stuff.
but idk what songs to put.

i already have some of her favorites like.

ocean avenue-yellowcard
baby, it's fact-hellogoodbye
tears don't fall-bullet for my valentine
october nights-yellowcard

can you name some GOOD alternative/emo/punk/rock songs?
please.
and some techno.

you can try some red jumsuit, gym class heros, the red hot chilie peppers, blink 182, Hinder, the goo goo dolls, breaking benjamin, three doors down, boys like girls, Snow patrol, The Postal Service, The fray, Sum 41. I hope that helps

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would you call the greatest in the world if you absolutely had too? Base it on quality of the music, showmanship, and their overall influence. Also say why you chose them:

-Led Zeppelin
-The Beatles
-AC/DC
-The Rolling Stones
-The Doors
-Metallica
-Pink Floyd
-Nirvana
-The Jimi Hendrix Experience

I would say AC/DC personly, I love there sound and everyone knows at least on song of theres. Or your just not human!

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Im a freshman in highscchool and my bf's a senior. We havent been goin out for long but i really like him. My parents were fine with him at first but now they think we'r having sex and stuff, so they dont trust me. And my mom wont let me see him anymore, so its difficult because we never get to hang out. And im not aloud to go in his car, and now they wont even let me stay after school for extra help because they think im with him. They are being waaayy too strict and my mom never listens to me when i ell her this. I hate how shes so protective and she doenst let me do like anything. Its annoying and i seriously want to move out, but i cant. Its stressing both me and my bf out, but he said hes not goin to let it get to him because he really likes me and wants our relationship to last. But its so agrravating how they wont let me do ANYTHING! how can i get them to give me more freedom? and what do i do about seeing my bf?

See if they will alow him to come over so they can get to know him and make sure they get to know the good part and dont do much in front of them be on you best and say you will do extra chors around the house or if you have a younger brother and sister offer to baby sit and see if he can come over and baby sit with you and sit your parents down and talk to them like you are an adult and have them understand that you are not intersted in sex even tho you might be tell them you are not and try earning there trust dont yell when you are talking to them.

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i dont know what to do. well for the past 4 years ive been smoking ciggarettes. alot of the time with my friends. none of my family knows. i'll be 18 soon in over a month so it probably wont be a big deal since ill be legal. but im sick of having to hide my smoking. its a horrible addiction, but lately ive been so stessed out they are all i have to help my stress. i dont want to tell my parents because i know they will punish me and be in complete shock. my moms boyfriend smokes all the time and ive been stealing his ciggarettes but im afraid he will find out and ill be in deep trouble. i dont know what exactly im asking for but in your opinion do you think i should worry about it for the next month or just eventually tell my parents after i turn 18. little things like going to the doctors and them asking me if i smoke i lie and say no. it does put my health at risk. i feel guilty for smoking..but i dont want to stop.

looking in the long term you should stop im sure your parents have a clue anyways, people who smoke end up smelling and there teeth turn a yellow color and in the long term there are all types of problems but if you are stressed out try chewing gum or something like that, i know this isnt what you wanted to hear but its better if you quit now then in say ten years and you have lung cancer.

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I need to learn how to improv, but I am confused on where to start. I listen to a lot of solos but I still don't understand which notes to pick and which ones not to use--how do I figure that stuff out?

i foudn this site that hopefully will help you try it out. http://www.learnimprov.com/

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Hi,what condom would be better for a 14-15 year old. lubercated or non lubercated?
what would be the advantages and disavantages of each?

lubercated deffently beucase if not it will not go in as easy or can effct the girl badly.

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Does anyone know any deep love questions? like for example:Do you believe in love at first sight? like that questions if u do know a lot please share or share a website that has that.sorry if my grammars are wrong im an exchanged student from japan

There are many questions that you can ask, do you believe in love at first sight? is one, does love ever go away completly?, is there such a thing as true love?, Is love just another word that is used to offten?, do people really understand what love is about?, Can two people be in love and not lie at all?, How do you know if you are really in love?, Can you give yourself completely to another?

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whats the story behind the bathwater song? like basically.. what is it about, and what do the lyrics mean? i tried to like interpret what it meant but i dont know.

You and your museum of lovers
The precious collection you've housed in your covers
My simpleness threatened by my own admission
- these lines are talking about how the guy has had sex with many other women. and how she is scared because she is falling for him and doesnt know wearther or not he is faithfull.

And the bags are much to heavey
In my insecure condition
My pregnant mind is fat full with envy again
- Goes to say that there are alot of problems, and how she is insecure and scared, then she is jeloius of all the other women he has had or has.

But I still love to wash in your old bathwather
love to think that you couldn't love another
I can't help it...your my kind of man
- she still loves him no matter what, and loves everything about him, and is so nieve to think that he is a one women kind of guy beucase he is so perfect for her.

Wanted and adored by attractive women
Bountiful selecton at your discretion
I know I'm diving into my own destruction.
- There are many women who want the guy, he has such a big selection of other women that he can have anytime he wants, and she knows it and know that he can and probly will end up hurting her.

So why do we choose the boys that are naughty?
I don't fit in so why do you want me?
I know I can't tame you... but I just keep trying
- why do all girls like the naughty type of guy who will end up hurting them. And she goes on to say how she doesnt fit in society and doesnt understand why he likes her at all. She knows that he wont be faithful or be a good guy but yet she still loves him and trys to make him into a good person.

'Cause i love to wash in your old bathwather
Love to think that you couldn't love another
I'm on your list with all your other women
But I still love to wash in your old bathwater
You make me feel like you couln't love another
I can't help it...your my kind of man.
- She loves him even tho there are many other women or have been. he makes her feel that is so faithful even tho he may not be. but yet no matter what she still loves him.

Why do the good girls always want the bad boys?
- that is pretty self explanatory

So I pacify problems with kisses and cuddles
Diligently doubtful through all kinds of trouble
Then I find myself choking on all my contradictions
- she pretends that the problems arent as bad as they are or arent there at all. she doesnt notice the problems betweeen them she blinded by love in other words, then later she ends up hurting beucase of everything that he has done.

Cause I still love to wash in your old bathwather
Love to think that I couldn't love another
Share a toothbrush...your my kind of man
I still love to wash in your old bathwather
Make me feel like I couldn't love another
I can't help it...you're my kind of man.
- She loves him still and will no matter what, she caouldnt love anyone but him they share a toothbrush wich means a since of faithfulness and being commited in a realtionship.

No I can't help myself
I can't help myself
I still love to wash in your old bathwater.
- she cant help but love him and everything about him and even tho he causes her pain she still loves him.

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How do you get rid of blackheads? I have one on my chin and one right above, almost on my lip and they won't go away. What can I get (pref. from drugstores or Walmart/Target) that will make it go away?

Also, what works best for back acne?

Biore pore strips work great also wash your face with biore waming anti-blackhead cream cleanser. you can find them at your local drug stroe or walmart.

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why do some girls get cramps really bad while others barely get any? my cramps hurt realllyyy bad and my friend never gets them

Every girl is differnet. It all depends on your family. Most girls do get painful cramps.

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So I met this guy on an interactive internet game in September.

Well, I've been talking to him ever since, and we talk a lot.
Our friendship just recently blossomed into something beautiful.
I've never really felt this way about anyone before.
I love him and he loves me.
And fyi, I know he's safe. I've spoken to him on the phone, and I have his address.

But my real question is,
Is this worth it?
All this effort.
He lives in North Carolina
And I live in Texas.
He's 17 and I'm 14.

When we were first talking, I told him I was 16, and I just recently told him I was 14, and nothing really changed between us.

My real concern is that I will never meet him.
We live so far apart.
And I know that I love him.
Nothing can deny that.
But it hurts me, that he's so far away.

So do you think that I should keep this going?
I mean, I turn down guys for him, because he is the keeper of my heart.

It's just so hard to keep up with.
Sorry, I just kind of rambled.
Any type of opinions would be greatly appreciated.

Personly I dont think it will ever work out becaouse you may be faithful and he may be there cheating on you. I mean its not worth turning down other guys. You are only 14 you are suppose to be having funn in your life. and it wont work out in the end I mean its great that you talk and what not you two can still be friends and like each other. I know this is probly not what you want to hear but I really dont think its going to work out. Sorry! I have this one friend and she "dated" this one guy who lived in another state and it didnt work out beucase they were so far apart. I know not everone is the same but its to far away to have a real realtionship.

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