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My name is Christine. I live in a popular town in The Caribbean island of Jamaica. I grew up in China, Texas (not a very popular town though) and then moved to Crystal Beach, Texas. We finally moved to Jamaica, and as i got older, i had to deal with the experiences of friends, teachers, school, family, mental illness, drugs, and others. I know a lot about sex, though not enough to get completely by, because i want to remain fresh until i am married. NO offence to others, because as an advice giver, i have no right to judge. I am catholic, (which is a denomination pf Christianity). I am part French, Indian, Spanish, and British. My mother was adopted, so i dont know the other side of me as much. I took my father's side more, and i am as you can say cajun which is mostly french. I look like i am American, though i can look like other races if i spoke the language. I really do hope you like my advice, i am very sweet, and experienced in certain fields, and I try to help my absolute best with anything you give me. If there is no happy answer or postive one, i will try to calm it down for you as much as i can. I am sorry if i fail to give good advice, but i try my best, Thank you in consulting my opinion, if you ask for my advice.
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Location: texas
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Age: 13
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Member Since: May 20, 2006
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Last Update: October 25, 2011
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would you consider "to hell with it" to be vulgar? as in cursing? (link)
people say it is bad in school.. but people use it a lot.. so i ghuess in society it would br known as 'vulgar'


Last night I was at a party and I smoked skunk 1 (its supposed to be the best weed ever) well it was my first time smoking (that type of weed) and it had a BIG effect on me but NOT in a good way!

I literally thought I was going deaf (I heard a ringing in my ear and it got louder and louder) and then we went outside and I couldn't see anything, like I was losing my eyesight. My friends and I were so scared (but then 2 seconds later they forgot about it) but it lasted for 4 hours!! So does anybody know why this would happen to me?

Has this happened to anybody else and should I not smoke this kind of weed anymore?

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it was probably laced with cocaine or something.. not telling yuo to stop cause it is illegal.. but it is healthy.. just has a bad affect on some ppl..so how about... stop getting weed from that person.


I am 14/F and last night I found something that I think is a sore "down there". Should I be worried? (link)
sorry to say ... not to be too personal... but you must have done 'something' to be sore.. or is just puberty


im going to the movies with my boyfriend next weekend.. and i want to make a good impression because we dont see eachother in person that much. i'm 13, 5`2 blue eyes and long light brown hair. i`m about 105 pounds. i need some REALLY cute outfits for the movies. i know you're just going to say that it's just the movies and it doesn't matter what i look like, but i really want to look nice cause thats just how i roll. i like hollister, a&f american eagle etc. i need full outfits with the colors that will look good on me. if you give me atleast 3 really good whole outfits, automatic 5. thanks. (link)
ok well... email me at prissychrissy101@hotmail.com.. i will give you pics of styles as attachments on emails... email me so i will know that you are interested in seeing some of my designs.


How exacally do you send a guy "signals" that you like him and such? (link)
oh my gosh! look at him... smile .. blush when he sees you.. do what you think is right.


okay well i weigh around 117 pounds and im about, 5'4. I am turning 15 this year. I am convinced that im fat, i hate myself for it too, i watch what i eat 24/7 and even though people tell me im not, i still feel that i am. I am probley one of the most self concious people. so i guess im asking about what i should weigh (link)
ok ... go to google and type in 'calculate your weight' and if you are at a risk of being overweight or are then... but it depends how old you are.. i think your only only 2 or three pounds that you could lose.. then you will be at your healthy weight.. because i took the weight calculator.. and against my age.. and weight.. i only have to lose 8 pounds... to get to my healthy weight.. but i am only 5" and you are four inches taller than me.


Okay so like I have been with my boyfriend almost 5 months now. I love him so much and He loves me too. We get along great when its just me and him but like we argue alot at school, because he gets jealous easy. What should I do to stop us from arguing so much? (link)
its only five months.. but it is a good record since you're in school..he may not be the one if you argue a lot then.. if you have done this ever since you started dating him.. then there is a bad prob with your relationship... if this started not long ago.. like if this didn't happen before.. ask him what is wrong.


How do I go about getting a job? I'm 15. What kind of jobs can I get? And for the interview, what questions do they ask? [I'm VERY shy and I want to be prepared to answer] (link)
at my school we started this fake company but we still raised money.. but anyway my business teacher said they would ask these questions... why are you applying for this job? What are you qualities? what experience have you had? why did tyou choose this company to work at? they would ask you 'what IF' questions.. since your 15.. you should start at a department store... ice cream shop... towel girl at beach... dont get into the fast food business they sometimes treat you badly and other workers could be lazy and leave you like my mom experienced when she was a teen.. her co-workers at mcdonalds left her ALL the time..


i was just curious to know..when you get your tonsils removed does your voice change?? (link)
well i got my tonsils out but my voice didnt change.. well it does straight after the operation but when yuor throat is heeled... then it goes back to normal.


Ok just so you know the other day i went and got a brizalin wax and they gave me this cooling cream to put on well later that night me and my Boyfriend ended up having sex. that night just so you know we had alot of sex. and well the next day we went to the beach and now he's still wearing the same pants in the water and then went to the pool and swam and then went back to my house and chilled well my question is the next morining he texted me to tell me he had some red rash down stairs and that i would want to get checked. well i'm going to the docters today so i am but could it have been him wearing the same pants and having them dry on this maybe irratate his skin or the cooling cream b/c i checked my self and i don't have anything wrong down there. so.... just want to know what ya'll thought. Thanks (link)
well having sex.. and wearing the same pants.. n stuff n stuff and the sand.(you know whats sand does to ppl downstairs at the beach) if nothing is wrong to you, it is probably just him like you said.


15/F. I am physically a healthy girl but I am cowardish girl. When ever I come across a situation when I have been badly critisized or get anger of any body, suddenly I release few drops of urine, some times more drops which I can easily feel in my panty and I feel my body is shaking with fear. Altough I am a healthy girl and no habit of urine passing during sleeping etc.Please advice. (link)
go to the doctor... i hope its that simple...


OK, I don't know if anyone knows anything about dream meanings, but, I really need help with this one. It's disturbing to me. I had a nightmare that my 2 year old daughter was getting mauled & eaten by a tiger and the worst is nobody was doing anything about it. Any ideas? (link)
maybe you ate something bad before you fell asleep.. or sometimes dreams or nightmares have nothing to do with the problem that is emotionally going inside you.. build up good karma... don't eat anything right before you go to sleep and clear you mind before you go to sleep.


i need to buy a new outfit ready for this coming saturday. i am going to a party/gathering and i am going shopping for the outfit tomorrow so i need replys As soon as poss.

PARTY: not a suit and tie event but not a old jeans and t-shirt type either.

MY FIGURE: 5ft8, long legs, largeish thighs, wide hips/love handles, broad shoulders, C cup boobs. im not fat.. but im not completely thin ive got a bit of fat on my stomach and hips.

if you search colleen mcloughlin on google --> images.. u will see a picture of her in a bikini, thats very similar to my figure but ive got a slightly shorter top half of body.

So my question is.. What kind of clothes should i go for to suit my figure and make me look slimmer?

I want to avoid silky and clingy material to avoid my hips and stomache buldging over so any suggestions? shoes/jeans/trousers/tops/accessories etcetera.

I RATE HIGH! thanks for any help what so ever! Anything with a bit of help is great but the mroe detailed the better! THANKS xxx (link)
this is so cool um... okay.. email me.. and.. and i will draw some designs of clothes that are affordable and available... i know different styles of clothes i will send u a pic of the clothes if you are interested...only if u email me so that you are intereted.. i have always dreamed of doing this... contact me at prissychrissy101@hotmail.com


I have to do a play review for my drama class. I live in Toronto, Ontairo, Canada. I don't have a whole lot of money and the review is due at the beginning of June. Any sugesstions? Thanks in advance. I will rate high. (link)
Have a raffle, sponsors... or anything that can raise ,money...if u arent's able to do this.. try getting a job.. or run errons around the house for some extra money.. just TRY.


16/f
okay so they guy i like likes me back, i know this. but heres the story, he came over to my house a lot last week, like 3 times and it was cool. we talk on the phone everynight for like and hour at min. but w/e and he told me that he loved me and i could tell he meant it b/c he hasnt said it to me yet and weve been hanging out for a while. its sincere. but in school he always acknowledged me he some sort of way and now he can walk right past me as if i don't exsist and this is really upsetting and for while it was like we were dating because, well phone calls everyday, every 45 minutes hanging out during and after school alot of other things inbetween adn i need to know how he feels adn why he is sening mixed signals/ what should i do.i need to do it in person but there is no time this week and i cant wait that long and to make it even worse today i heard he was going back out with his ex g/f. but i dont know if hthats true or not (link)
ok.. well.. this is a toughy.. oh i know.. just ask him.. "wanna hang out?" and i know he sends mixed signals.. love is confusing.. nature is taking its course.. if you were really meant to be together...it will happen.


ok i want to lose like 15 or 20 pounds in a short period of time.well if you tell me to eat healthy, thats really hard for me to just not eat carbs, junk food, and candie.the thing is i accidently forget about me wanting to lose weight orits just too hard to stop eating that junk.i need help on how to make myself stop! plz help me thx (link)
WOW! i am trying to lose weight too! neat! ok .. i eat salad i lost about fivep ounds in only 12 days and i didnt even excercise.. so think how much can i lose when i excercise? so how about you excercise ..eat right and we can lose it together and i can give you advice through your journey to lose that excess weight... contact me at prissychrissy101@hotmail.com


kay so my guy best friend..u know the usual story. i fell for him. he's the sweetest boy ever.
so yeah i told him i liked him over the phoen and he told me he liked me as a friend so im like alright so now theres this big dance coming up and everyone has dates and its kinda a big deal so im wondering if i should ask him or would that be like, too pushy or something? i'd tell him that we could go as friends..but i'd think of it as more so what should i do? should i ask him or not? thanks (link)
also.. just take a chance.. seriously.. if he doesn't want you... its good that your friends... don't get mad if you get your heart broken... taking risks and chances is what life is about.


I know I'm anorexic and leaning towards being bulimic too. But that's not my problem(yes I know it's a problem but not the one I'm concerned with right now), but my problem is that I need to tell someone but I don't know how. I'm too afraid of what their reaction will be to tell someone. I asked my friend if she's read my online journal where I talked about it as kind of a hint for her to look at it but I don't think she got it. So should I just ask her to read my journal so that she knows and I don't have to come out and say it? (as you can prob tell...I have confrontation problems) Thanks! I rate high!! (link)
say to your friend, "please read this, i can't tell you this upfront.. read it tonight," or something like that... and if you are anorexic.. don't you think people would notice you bones and you keep losing weight? if they didn't... then they don't notice much i guess.




OK. So. My mom got her period when she was 16. My oldest sister got it the summer before 6th grade, and my other sister got hers around 9th grade. I'm a 32A bra size. In 7th grade ;; Any guesses to when I'll get mine? I rate. (link)
guessing by he range of their age.. you'll probably get yours this year or... next year.. its hard to tell.. if your skinny.. you need to have a certain amount of body fat to start it.. thats a fact..but ..DO NOT be in a hurry! i have started it... do u know i am so young so i cant use a tampon so do u know how many clothes i have ruined? you get pains.. get excess water weight an gain about three ounces of weight every time you get your period... so you gain water weight that goes away.. and then you gain weight that you have to WORK off and the pain is unbearable.. and you get tired.. and have no energy... DO NOT BE IN A HURRY WHEN YOU R SO YOUNG .. please take my advice.


Is there anything that can make my breasts grow faster? I'm still flat-chested when all my friends aren't. Please... (link)
Not to be too personal.. i have to say i have large breats i am a 'c' !! be thankful i know girls who have them dont want them and girls who dont have them DO want them so... there are NO creams or any techniques... to make them grow faster.. you could gain a LITTLE weight and see how that does... cause i know girls have to have a certain amount of body fat to start their period... so if ur really skinny.. just try gaining one or two pounds.. see how that does it for you.. but there is no other way..




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