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Hi my name is shaby
as the question suggests im a totally confused ,insecure guy , a victim of inferiority complex ,introvertism ,shyness,underdeveloped social skills ........
I donot have many friends and i wanna be loved by people ...
i act like a pushover which I shoudnt be......
i also am a coward and i cant ask ppl for favours or refuse people for anything they want even if its for their own good ....
plus i try avoid uncomfortable social events bcoz obviously of which i wont be aware or known ...... nor i will know about other people ......
my mind goes conmpletely blank when someone asks me anything ....
plzzz help me .... im so depresesd i cry to myself ....... i find it dificult to open up ... im so lonely i feel like killing myself
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yeah... I feel simmaler... I'm always made fun of & all this other stuff, & I haven't found a way out of it eather, the only thing I know to say is that you could see a shrick or something and just please, don't kill yourself, I know its hard not to think about, but just try, & if you do go & seek help, then its for the best, & don't be embaressed, theres alot of people out there who need help with depression, even I'm that way, trust me, its not that bad, & if you don't want any one to know, you don't have to, its not a bad thing to need help or even admit that you need help
hope I helped, I really tried
-Cameron
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ok im 15/f and i really like this guy but it seems like he never notices me! we talk in my math class sometimes but never outside of class! how do i get him 2 notice him cause i always dress nice and stuff but i dont know what else to do!! pleaz help! (link)
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hmmm... sounds a bit like me, only shes my friend, but yeah, she dosen't notice me to muhc, but anyway, my adivse would be to talk to him yourself, & then after that he mihgt talk to you back to, just bring up something, and be really nice
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my girlfriends bday is coming up and im clueless on what to get her i already got her a bracelet a necklace and i dont know what to get now we have been going out 1 year and 2 months (link)
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hmmm, get her something nice, or take her out to a really nice dinner or maby even buy her, her fav. flowers
-Cameron
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I like Holly Smith as a friend. But how do I tell her about her weight problem? (link)
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well, I know not every one is always really attracitve, & look at me, I'm not so atractive, but any one can be if they try, if you want to tell her about her weaight problem, just be upfront about it & be nice, be her friend & say "I'll help you go on a diet & maby some other things to make you look better, I just want to help you & be your friend" and thats all you really can do, just be nice and be her friend, and maby ya'll could go on diets togeather or something (not saysing your heavy or anything, I don't really know who this is) togeather & help eachother out to making eachother look better, and its something nice you can do for eachother, but like I said, be her friend & help her out & maby she could help you, shes really smart and maby she could tutor you, just be really sweet, shes a really nice person, so I'm shure she'd understand, and so ya'll could help eachother
-Cameron
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my boyfriend just broke up with me and he gave me this necklace while i was going out with him and it meant a lot to me. i want to give it back to him but not to his face, i want to put it in his locker with a note. i don't know what to say in the note. ive thought of everything and nothing feels right to say its got to be short and meaningful. something that says "i'm over you", "its your loss" and stuff like that...but i dont want to say something MEAN b/c i dont want him hating me...i want it to say basically "i've moved on", and "you missed out." something like that Please Help Me. I really want to leave a big MEANINGFUL impression on him....HELP.
(the phrases i put in quotes...i dont want to use those exactly....)
xoxo Arielle (link)
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awww... thats so sweet, I gave my girlfriend a neckless & I got one that matched, but then we broke up & she broke her's(I think it was on purpose)& I kept mine as a memorie of her & it reminds me so much of her, hr name was Mary, & every time I hear that song "Mary" byt Sarah McLachlan it reminds me of her, not just cos of the name, cos of how Mary was, & every time I look at that neckless I hear that sweet song playing through my head...
I would keep the neckless as a reminder, I never wear mine, its valubul to me, & I would keep it if I was you, just to have something that you can just look ay to remember him & all the good memories, even if ya'll don't get along, I'd keep it
-Cameron
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hey cameron,,,,,, ur like uber cooool
k so yeah im like uber fat its not even funny....hmmm yeah how do i get like lil jana? SHES A MUSCRAT SHES SO SMALLLL haha yeah well help me cuz im fat and want to change that she bang she bang
IESHA IESHA haha YES WELL I MOST CERTAIONLY HAVE A FAT PROBLEM ON MY HANDS MMMABBEEYY i cant get a boob job and take my fat and add it to my booobs haha so yes o snap im fat haha does that rhyme??? hmmm i think so (link)
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ok... Alexa, ur not FAT! your tiney, but if you wanna be tiney like Jana... go on an extreemly strickt diet, the only drink you can have is water, you eat alot of salads, maby only eat a maximum of three times a day & NO JUNK FOOD OR SWEETS at ALL!!! I know its very thight & strict, but you'll loose alot of weaight, ooh! & exersise alot, like do situps befor bed & get up & run or jog in the mornings or durring the day, at least a mile... thats what I'm about to start next week, this week is all about cookie dough, coffee, ice cream, & any thing else!!! but I've only got 1 differnce than that 1 up there, I can't make it without my coffee, so the only 2 drinks I can have r water & coffee, & u should go to Lifetime every so often, so, thats the diet I'm about to go on, but I don't wanna loose a whole lot of weaight so, I wont be on it as long
GOOD LUCK!!!!
-Cameron
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So this one boy tells me that he loves me. And I don't love him. But he really seems to mean it. How do I respond to that statement if I don't love him back and I don't wanna lie? (link)
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hmmm... puzzling... well, if he seems nice & all... you could at least try it or if you don't even wanna do that, the best thing is to tell him the truth, I mean, I would like the truth then her being with me cos of pitty, so I'd tell the truth, but if you can't do that then you can just try things out & see how they go, who knows, he might be a really nice guy
-Cameron
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hey, you seem good at giving advice for relationships, i was wondering...i have this boyfriend right now and we're both in 8th grade and highschool's just around the corner but theres a problem, we're going to diff. schools and we dont wanna end it but i already have boys after me like crazy. i dont wanna break up with him bcz he means the world to me but..i'm afriad we're both gonna find someone new! what should i do? I'm so confused. (link)
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yeah... I've got issues with the samething, this girl I really like & I are going to differnt high schools & it sucks, but I mean, if you think you can make it work, try it, & if it dosen't then you'll find someone else! high school is alot bigger than middle school! & you sound like a very attractive girl, so I'm shure you'll find another guy, ok? ;)
-Cameron
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