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My name is Cali, and I've been told I am a good advice-giver.

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wat does 187 mean
like on the song curtis 187
or your love is a 187
thanx

I do believe that 187 is police code for homicide.
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i lost my virginity, i.e had sex for the first time but i didn't bleed(not even a lil bit). is there something wrong with me? am i alone? im really freaking out here.thanks.

When I lost my virginity, I waited and waited for blood. I had always heard that every girl bled after her first time. Blood never came, and I am in good health. Everyone's body reacts differently to different things. Don't worry about this; you're not alone.
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Has anyone on here ever re-dated a guy and had a successful relationship? I want to know if a second try is always disasterous.

I have had a relationship in which we broke up and dated again actually three times. I don't even talk to him anymore. Your case may be different, but my conclusion is that if there are troubles often in the beginning, it's best to just find someone else.
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does anyone know if when you wash running sneakers, they fall apart or anything goes wrong with them?

I think washing sneakers will only have a good outcome. To the best of my knowledge, they should stay in tact.
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I bought this dwarf hamster that has been at my house for about a week now, and she bites EVERYONE. She never did this before. My older sister has known her since she was born in her biology class, and she never bit anyone. Why does she do this, and how can I stop it?

She also doesn't get along with this other hamster we bought two days ago. We put the two hamsters face-to-face to introduce them to each other, and when nothing happened, we put them in the same cage and the one that's been here for a week went nuts. It was like a hamster smack-down... What can I do to stop this, too?

I am guessing that the hamster is not yet used to its new environment. Give it some time to warm up to its new home.
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wah does it feel like to be fingered?...n when somebody does it is it meant to hurt? and does masturbation hurt? x

It is hard to explain what being fingered feels like, because every person would finger someone differently. None of this is meant to hurt. Masturbation shouldn't hurt because you're doing it yourself, and you control what it feels like. These things are meant to be pleasurable.
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OK i know this way off topic from sex but on like a scale of 1-10 10 being the highest can someone rate the amount of pain to get
Eye brow pierced
Lip pierce
Tounge
Nipple
Belly button
Clit
I cant figure out which would have the least anmount of pain cause i hate pain!!
And how tolerbale are you to pain cause im not good with pain Thanks alot

I have had my lip, bellybutton and nose pierced. Of the three, bellybutton probably hurt the least. Lip piercings aren't much pain either, but my nose ring bled. None of it was bad enough to cry over... You should be okay. However, I have heard that having a nipple pierced is the worst pain you can get from piercings.
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do you think it is okay for a freshmen and a senior to go out if theres only a 2 year age difference?

I think that sounds fine. I am 16 and my boyfriend is 19. As long as you noth respect eachother, age should not matter.
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why do girls shake thier legs while siting in chairs?

It is not just girls that do this. Many people do this, including boys. People have excess energy that they need to exert, but they can't because they're in class. If you observe people more closely, you will notice that different people do different things just to be able to move. Some tap their pencil, or pop their knuckles.
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f/sophomore. I know I shouldn't worry...But I'm beginning to. I think I did very well on my PSAT...like a 1500 or something lol. I'm in all honors classes and my reading/math state level test scores are high. Should I stress?

No, do not stress! Stress can cause a lot of bad things, like mood swings and even weight gain. I am sure you did fine. Honors classes are very good preparation for such a big exam.
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me & my b/f have been going out for a year and 2 monthes. we never really go out. & we dont like each others friends a lot. I want us to go out but we dont have a lot of money and we are too young to drive. & i want it to be just me and him, like us time. Does any one have any ideas, that are cheap? Or ways that we could get to know each other even more while doing something fun? If that makes any sense.
Any ways thanks in advance.

Don't listen to that person below me. Don't ever do drugs... Especially if you're just looking for a good time. You could invite him over to watch a couple of movies at your house.
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How badly does it hurt to wax your vagina????

I have never had this done, but the thought of the pain makes me cringe. I often have consdiered this, because of razor burn and the hassle of shaving. I guess if would probably hurt tremendously the first couple of times, but you get used to it.
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What does the song You and Me by Lifehouse mean? Because I have always liked it and it reminds me of my bgf whom I'm gonna start dating extremely soon and it's 'our' song now too. :] he said its about two people who are so in love with each other it's all they think about and stuff. and i got it as like they are the only two people in there world? or the other person is like that persons world/that girl is like all the boy needs and together no one else matters. i guess thats what i think but i really want to know what other people think of it too. here is a link to a video of it: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QCe2GwscXgo and the lyrics: http://www.smartlyrics.com/Song522226-LIFEHOUSE-You-And-Me-lyrics.aspx thanks so much and i will rate you all for giving me your opinions!!! ;]

That song is beautiful. I have always loved it. He is saying that he is in love with this girl, and love is new to him. He doesn't know what to say or do, but he's got nothing to lose. Even when they're in a room full of people, she is still the only person he can see.
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14/f

freshman highschool all of my second cusins have chests BESIDES ME. they are 14+ and older.
my 1st cusins aren't girls so yeah.
i've been a 32 a since like 4th grade and i never grew. what the heck is wrong with me? alot of boys make fun of me... and my cusins make fun of me too.. =/ low self esteem heree.

Everyone grows at different times. People have growth-spirts, and even though it stinks to be a late bloomer, there really is nothing you can do.
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what happened to xtina aguilera's dad? is he dead? WHY ? WHEN?

Your best bet is to Google that. This is not a tabloid site. It is for advice.
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I have lots of acne on my forehead, and my skin is also very unusually oily, so im going to the dermatologist this month. I dont leave the house without foundation and powder and stuff becuase my skin is so horrible. Lately my makeup has looked really like caked on and un-naturual. what are some good foundations and powders that look very clean and natural (not cake-y) and do a really good job covering up? thanks!

I use Maybennine Dream Matte Mouse. They have many different shades to match your skin-tone, and it is very lightweight.
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I wonder who farts more girls or boys. Is there any research? Whats your opinion?

Farting has nothing to do with the sex of the person. Different people have different body functions.
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Do you have to visit a Gynocoligist [sp?] when you get birth controll pills?

I have never taken birth control, but my friend does. She does not see a Gynocologist. She just goes to the Health Department. I am sure if you call your local Health Department, they can assist you with all your questions.
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Why is it that me being a teenage mother and going to school plus working atleast 40 hours a week make it so hard to keep a boyfriend?

I am 16 years old and currently pregnant. I fear that my boyfriend and I will have problems after the baby is born. School, work and a baby is a lot to handle, not to mention very time-consuming. The boyfriend problem is probably there because you don't have a lot of time to devote to a guy.
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17/m for a while now i've wanted to start meeting people online. not like relationships but just new interesting people to talk to. is there anyway to do that using AIM? if not, then how could i do something like that?

You can go to AIM chatrooms. Have you created a MySpace? That is a very good online community to meet people, and very easy to access. Best of all, it's free.
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