The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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Last Update: May 23, 2006
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ok, im stuck. i used to like this kid j (going by initials) but then i saw he was soooo full of himself and i was like FORGET YOU!! so i stopped liking him and started liking this guy s. he is soooo fine! and he is my same religion, which makes it click. he is 15 and i am 14. however....
lol, of course my friend a likes him. yea, and d. so a asked me do u think s is cute? im like 'hes ok' and she goes naw hes HOTT.
so... should i stopp liking him? i hae this nack for stopping liking these guys bcos my friends like them. but i realllllllllyyyyyy like this guy, and i dont want to give himup, especially when a said that she is still kinda hott for j. so what now, does the 'i saw him first' rule work, o do i have to be giving? once again? i really like this guy, and im always talking to him. i invited him over to the movies and gave him my number, and he called me. amd he would have came if a didnt change the plans!!! i asked for his email and he gave me that too, idk what to think. pleaz help me out!!
**_Nicole_** (link)
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Tell your friend that you like S. also. See what she says and DON'T quit liking him just because she does. They aren't "talking" or dating so there is nothing she can do. It is just like the crush she has. Keep hanging out with him and in one of your e-mails tell him you like him but explain the deal of your friend liking him also. He should understand and ask him if he likes you back. -Kayla
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I have a crush on my best friend thats a guy! He doesn't know but I don't know how to tell him and I know he doesn't like me like that...But how should I tell him I like him? I RATE HIGH AND GIVE GOOD COMMENTS! (link)
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Just hang out with him alone. When the time is right you will know and just tell him. Say, look I know we are best friends, but I have feelings for you and I'm sorry if this makes our relationship weird because I don't want this to change anything. If you don't have feelings for me then ok, but I just wanted you to know that I have feelings for you. If you can't ask him in person then talk to him about it online or write him a note. -Kayla
Ps. I said this to another chick that asked practically the same thing, hope this helps!
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Okay my friend always is setting me up with people well last night she did that to my best guy friend but the thing is i do want to go out with him but i kept saying i didn't want to! But how can i tell him this? I feel kinda strange telling him I like him cuz I mean hez my best friend! so what should i do? (link)
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Just hang out with him alone. When the time is right you will know and just tell him. Say, look I know we are best friends, but I have feelings for you and I'm sorry if this makes our relationship weird because I don't want this to change anything. If you don't have feelings for me then ok, but I just wanted you to know that I have feelings for you. If you can't ask him in person then talk to him about it online or write him a note. -Kayla
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My best friend is dating this guy that my entire group of friends can't stand. This guy has NO personality. Plus, he's mean to people. Do we say something to her or let her figure it out? (they've been dating for almost a YEAR!) (link)
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Well, do not whatever you do break them up. Obviously she sees something in him that yall don't. If she wasn't happy and didn't like him then she wouldn't be with him. Don't be mean to her about it just try to be there for her no matter what, even if you can't stand him, because if you don't then you truly aren't her best friend or just flat out her friend. That happened to me last year with my best friend and she figured it out on her own. No matter what you say to her you can't change her mind. She will have to make her own mistakes to learn from them. -Kayla
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There is this boy who's a good friend of mine. I am not sure if I "like" him but he's really cool and we have alot in common. The other day, one of his friends came up to me and told me that the boy I kinda like likes me. I don't know whether to believe him or not. He seems kind of trustworthy and the guy really seems to be dropping hints he likes me but would a relationship ruin our friendship? (link)
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If your asking if it would end of yall liked eachother, then no. If your asking if yalls relationship would end if yall dated, then that's totally different. It all depends on how your relationship ends if yall break up. I'm friends with all my ex boyfriends. At least the one's I see anyways. It most likely won't as long as yall both keep being eachother and if you are worried about it then make a promise with him that if yall do date and break up then you still want to remain friends with him, even if it means not being as close. -Kayla
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16/f how do you know if you are a lesbion or bisexual? (link)
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You look at other girls and are like wow they are hot! I want to do them. Just like regular people look at the opposite sex. I hope this helps I'm not either of those so I'm just guessing on this one. -Kayla
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Hey look this year has been so hard bettween tryin to be most popualr and all taht and tryin to beat tha skools biggest hotties and all i have totayl gotten lost u see last year i was Queen bee! this year im not and i wouod do tha world to be that again and i dont kno whut to do to win it back
So whut should i do plz help me!
Clueless (link)
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Well, let's see if you're in middle school, try and be friends with everyone and let everyone see that you can be friends with anyone and everyone. That makes everyone see that you aren't some stuck up chick that only cares about themselves. Although, if you are in highschool. No one is the most popular. Things are very different and no one cares about any of that. -Kayla
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why is it that every time you are realy in love with someone they go and break your heart? (link)
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It's because they really weren't meant for you. If they were meant for you then they wouldn't make you cry. -Kayla
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i recently started talking to my exboyfriend again, and my old feelings for him are kind of coming back. he seems a lot different than he was when we went out, but we had a reaally bad break up, and i don't think i want to get into again. hes not really in my group of friends, so it would be easy not to talk to him, but he still means a lot to me, and i don't want to lose him completely. what should i do? (link)
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Just keep on talking to him and if you don't want to hang out with him then don't, it's your decision. Just get to know the new him and see if you like that side of him. -Kayla
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Thank-you everyone who helped me on deciding about becoming a CSI. I guess I will just stick to watching the show. If my two options left are an interior designer or a teacher, which one gets paid better?? (link)
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Most definitely an interior designer. They get paid a lot more compared to a teacher. -Kayla
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hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???
thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles (link)
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I think you really do like this kid, so I do think that you should make a move on him. Just ask him to hang out sometime like at the movies or a party or your house or something and flirt with him a bunch and after that night see if you really do like him. I'm pretty sure you do though. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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I have dating issues to start off and am very picky about who I go out with. My most recent boyfriend and I broke up about 9 months ago. It was difficult to deal with. Now he's engaged, this is a trend for my ex's. All of them are either engaged or married by now. I'm 22, but I tend to date guys at least 5 years older than me. SO...one of the reasons why I broke up with him before was that I fell in love with my best friend. I've told my best friend and he's said he likes me too, however, we are incredibly close and risking our friendship is a horrible thing. I've moved on more or less and have dated quite a few guys since. None interest me as much as my best friend, but that's life. Now I'm dating two guys, both are nice and intelligent and have good stable jobs, one is a stock broker, the other an engineer. However, the engineer, who is my age, is probably one of the most boring guys I've ever met. His idea of a "wild" night was going to a party at a friends house and then some woman danced on the table. That was the craziest night of his life. That same night, I had been partying and dancing on tables at one bar (It was Halloween, so there were parties everywhere) and then I drove to another city and continued the partying there, where I ended up meeting up with the other guy, the stock broker and we ended up doing some pretty bad things on the hood of his car in a parking lot that just so happened to have security cameras. The next day I spoke to the engineer boy about his wild night and I couldn't help but be annoyed with him. I know he's a great guy and he said he's crazy about me and knows I'm a bit wild, but hopes it'll rub off on him a bit. THe other guy, obviously is wild like me, but that's not necessarily a good thing. He's assured me he's trustworthy and isn't dating anyone else, and I have told him about the other guy. So do I go for the safe, yet boring guy or the wild one??? Ideally I'd rather lose the two of them and get with my best friend, but that isn't happening. :) Sorry this is so long. I babble a lot. I think maybe I'm just totally insane. (link)
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Wow, that is a lot, but I'll still give you my opinion. I think you should go for the party guy. You will always have time to go for boring guys, but your still young and full of life. Definitely go for the party guy that's like you. You will most likely have a lot more fun with him! -Kayla
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hey...i asked u a question a long time ago, but u probably dont remember, but anyways i went out with this guy, then we broke up and we became friends and all that stuff. then i found out that my best friend liked him, and my other friend had sex with him...and i hated that sooooo much.. but then we all got over him (atleast thats wut we all said) but i was still liking him, i just didnt say nething, then i found out today that they still like him. And when i was on the computer my best friend was talking to him and he wanted her to call him... then i asked if she was gonna call him and she said yes...i kno this sounds stupid and all...but my best friend said she wont go out with him unless i say she can and that im really over him, and my ex bf said that he still wanted to go out with me a couple of days ago...and i dont kno wut i should do... cuz i found out that she liked him when we were going out and she put up with it, but i dont think i can if she goes out with him...cuz i think me and my two best friends thought he was the kind of guy we were looking for our whole lives and that hes like perfect...but im trying sooooo hard to be a good best friend and let her go out with him. do u think shes a good friend if she went out with him? (link)
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This is exactly what just happened to me!! Well, my best friend also told me she wouldn't date this guy that i still had feelings for, I guess. For now, I think that you should let them do what makes them happy and if he does still like you then he won't date her or anything. He will most likely stay friends with the two of you. Just let them know that you are hurt by this and you don't know if you could be there for either of them if you date because it does hurt you and if she is your true best friend she will ditch him to be your friend again. I know I got in a huge fight with my best friend and the guy and me and the guy aren't friends anymore because she told him that it wasn't the right time for him and she'd rather have her best friend then fight over a guy and he doesn't like me now and she has realized because after a while I didn't care anymore and she realized he wasn't the guy for her and they are over. Just let them give it a chance and most likely they won't be good for eachother and you can try to get him again. Just let your friend know that if she can try to date him then so can you, it's only fair. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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I have some hair on my upper lip and its unusual for a girl to have it. I get teased from it sometimes. I want to remove it but I heard if u shave it or wax it, it'll grow back being prickly like a guys beard. Have any advice?
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Well, if you do wax it then it wont grow back for a few weeks and then when it does either pluck it like eyebrows or wax it again. I think that's all the advice I can give. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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i relly really think my man is cheatn' on me bcuz
he talks ta otha gurls on tha fone so this is wat happened ...... 1 day i called him and he said hold on that time he had me on hold for whole half an hour just to talk ta some gurl kassy or something but then he says he doesn't giv out his # to gurls but i kno he is lyin'bcuz he got a bunch of gurls names on his cell phone. i really dont care if he is talkn' ta gurls but he ratha talk ta them more than he shuld talk ta me.
wat shuld i do i rate very high.
ps.wheneva i give a feed back im goin' ta say thanxxxx (link)
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Wow! It seems to me like your second best over all those other girls! It's ok to have friends that are girls, but to make you wait that long and have his whole phone like that. I'm thinking either he's cheating on you or he's going to break up with you soon. If it happens a lot where he puts you on hold to talk to another chick then I think that you should definitely break up with him! -Kayla
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okay, i met this guy at a party.. and we like held hands and stuff and i think i like him but i'm not sure. we dont go to the same school but i know a lot of people at the school he goes to and everyone says he always talks about me (in a good way) and i dont know what i should do.. i talk to him online sometimes.. and once on hte phone.. im confused? (link)
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I think you should just hang out with him a few more times and see if you really do like him. It seems like he likes you so now it's up to you where yalls relationship ends up. -Kayla
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hi. ok im really skinny im 5'6 98 pounds and everyyyonnee thinks im anorexic. some of my friends even think so... i mean ppl who see me eat still call me anorexic and ask if i am etc. do u think there doing it cuz there worried or just to b mean?? thanx (link)
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I'm pretty sure people would only say that if they were worried, unless they didn't like you and then I'm thinking they would say that to be mean. But sweetie, I'm 5ft. and I'm 95 lbs and I'm very skinny. Really I think it's un healthy. I don't know if you don't gain any weight when you eat (like me) then it's ok, but if you don't eat that much then you should maybe eat more. -Kayla
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okay..im a wee bit embarrased to ask about this...butt...i have never had a period before,and today when i went to wipe, there was a LOT of blood on the TP. so then i put on a pad, thinking i knew what was going on. then about an hour later, i went potty and there was no blood in the pad. then, i wiped again, and blood on the tp. so then i decided to put in a tampon, and about 1.5 hours later, i took it out, and there was brown stuff and blood all over it, then i put in a pad again. and i waited, and there still was no blood.
is anything wrong with me..
btw..13/f (link)
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There's nothing wrong with you sweetie. That's normal. Plus, it's your first time and it isn't bad when it starts. Good luck with that. Periods suck! -Kayla
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ok i been with my boyfriend for a while n we have alot of ups and downs...i really love him...and i no i do...but he is confusing me with this whole "i love u thing" i really wanna say ti to him soooo bad! and he sed it to me first....but it was n my voicemail...he left a mssg for me and he was like i love u..bye and like when we talk on the fone he wont say it....only on mssgs! and in person he dont say it either....its really confusing me! what can i do? do i say it first? helllpp wat does this mean (link)
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I think what you just need to say it to him. Maybe he only says it on messages because he knows that way you won't have a chance to not say I love you back. I think he's just afraid you won't say it back to him if he does say it to you. Just say it to him next time yall are on the phone and about to get off. -Kayla
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ok well i started liking a guy and he found out and he likes me too but i told him now that i just wanna be friends wut should i do tommrow? i think hes really pissed! please help! ill rate :( (link)
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Did you ever tell him why you just wanted to be friends? Maybe that would help. Just act like his friend tomorrow when you see him and hopefully everything will be alright. -Kayla
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