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hey...i asked u a question a long time ago, but u probably dont remember, but anyways i went out with this guy, then we broke up and we became friends and all that stuff. then i found out that my best friend liked him, and my other friend had sex with him...and i hated that sooooo much.. but then we all got over him (atleast thats wut we all said) but i was still liking him, i just didnt say nething, then i found out today that they still like him. And when i was on the computer my best friend was talking to him and he wanted her to call him... then i asked if she was gonna call him and she said yes...i kno this sounds stupid and all...but my best friend said she wont go out with him unless i say she can and that im really over him, and my ex bf said that he still wanted to go out with me a couple of days ago...and i dont kno wut i should do... cuz i found out that she liked him when we were going out and she put up with it, but i dont think i can if she goes out with him...cuz i think me and my two best friends thought he was the kind of guy we were looking for our whole lives and that hes like perfect...but im trying sooooo hard to be a good best friend and let her go out with him. do u think shes a good friend if she went out with him?
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This is exactly what just happened to me!! Well, my best friend also told me she wouldn't date this guy that i still had feelings for, I guess. For now, I think that you should let them do what makes them happy and if he does still like you then he won't date her or anything. He will most likely stay friends with the two of you. Just let them know that you are hurt by this and you don't know if you could be there for either of them if you date because it does hurt you and if she is your true best friend she will ditch him to be your friend again. I know I got in a huge fight with my best friend and the guy and me and the guy aren't friends anymore because she told him that it wasn't the right time for him and she'd rather have her best friend then fight over a guy and he doesn't like me now and she has realized because after a while I didn't care anymore and she realized he wasn't the guy for her and they are over. Just let them give it a chance and most likely they won't be good for eachother and you can try to get him again. Just let your friend know that if she can try to date him then so can you, it's only fair. Hope I helped! -Kayla
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