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I'm mature for my age.
i love helping people out.
when i grow up i want to go into the medical field, preferably a dietitian/nutritionist or veterinary medicine. so bring on the diet/food questions! i try to get on here as much as i can. & i H@Te Wh3N Pe0pLe TyP3 LyK3 d1s. or don't use proper grammar and spell simple stuff wrong. but i don't always either, so I'll forgive you & still answer your Q =]
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Okay, I have a few questions regarding something I will be making. I'm going to be making a no sew tutu, it explains how here:

http://current.com/items/86384461_how_to_make_a_no_sew_tutu

http://www.cutoutandkeep.net/projects/how_to_make_a_tutu

I have a few questions about this.

1. I'm a chubby girl. Not obese, and borderline overweight but I'm quite chubby. So obviously I'm going to have to use extra material than most people. The girl in the second one said she used 6 yards of material, but there's a small gap. So I was thinking of 9 yards (8 metres) of material to make mine (Remember you cut it up to make it poofy) Do you think I should do this? It's obviously hard to estimate not seeing a picture of me, so I understand if this question is too hard to answer.

2. Today I went to the material shop. The woman reccomended I use nylon instead of tulle, because nylon is more tutuish, and cheaper and tulle is more for 'evening wear' should I use Nylon or stick with Tulle? I haven't seen a Nylon result, but I really like how the tulle result turns out.

Um, that's all I can think of at the moment :) Thanks in advance. (link)
if you really think you need 9 use 9.
and i think you should use nylon. or atleast the first time you make it unless you mess up or don't have enough/too much.
good luck =]
Jess



I was invited to my sister’s house warming party and she was trying to hook me up with this guy she knows. He was cute and nice but nothing clicked between us. I told my best friend about it and she got jealous of him! She told me that if I get a boy friend we won’t be close anymore. I explain to her that I wasn’t interested to this guy and I told her “nothing happen we just talked. I don’t think I am ready for a relationship at the moment.” When I told her that she was all quite she didn’t reply to what I said. I then change the subject about a movie I saw and we talk about that the whole day. Why was she quite? And why she wanted to change the subject? She’s the one who bought it up!
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is she lesbian? she might like you.
just putting that out there. don't get offended if she's not...thats the only reason i could think of. besides the reason she told you. that she doesn't want to loose you as a friend.


ok so i kick but a track but county is tomorrow and i need a better time in the 800m rite now it 2:51 but i need better ne advie (link)
i run track too! and i run the 800! sweet =]
and that was pretty much my time too!
i always started out sprinting soooooo fast the first 300 meters and then i'd be winded the rest of the race. so its best to start out fast but not really really super fast. you want to get a good start and then pace yourself. when i run i always have a goal in mind. and usually it was just to get in front of the person in front of me. and i always give it 120% the last 100 meters. that is one of the most important parts.

good luck & hope this helps! =]
Jess


what happened in the first season??
like what happened between georgina and Jenny that Jenny can't tell anyone about now?? (link)
i watch gossip girl so i feel really bad that i don't remember =] haha.

so heres a website with TV show recaps for each episode!

http://www.televisionwithoutpity.com/show/gossip-girl/recaps.php

hope it helps =]
Jess


ok so i dont know if this is something that happens to all girls, but whenever i take a shower and latheyr up my hair and rinse it out, i always end up having a lot of hair that came out.

i know that we lose hair everyday, but just in the 15-20 min im in the shower, i always end up having a huge chunk that comes out.

i thought that maybe it was split ends, but i just got my hair cut and it still comes out.

its never done this much in my life. and it started like last year, so im worried

is this something to worry about?
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that happens to me too. and i'v asked several hair dressers and they say its normal. you loose like 100 strands of hair a day. and most of it comes out in the shower because you are messing with your hair a lot because you are washing it. don't be worried =] and it is definitely not split ends, that won't make your hair fall out. i would recommend using a strengthening shampoo or shampoo for fine hair and then conditioning your hair very well and while you are rinsing out your conditioner run a comb through your hair and it will be easier to brush your hair when you get out of the shower and less hair will fall out.

hope this helps =]
Jess


so i didn't talk to my bf,
but i did talk to him more,
and like, i only wanna dump him more now.
he rides my bus
so see him a hella lot,
but like,
idk .
he's not the same,
and i talked to my ex.
he's gonna wait for me to give him permission to ask me out.
when im not going out with my current...
but yeah
so it's confusing
and i could be cheating on my bf now
but i care about him,
idk why
it's just bc i do.

what should i do about my ex.
i still care about him,
he says ily all the time,
and everything
but i love my bf.
and i don't want that to change.

i want my bf to know how i feel
how do i tell him,
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well, if you want your boyfriend to know how you feel tell him. and if you aren't comfortable enough to tell your boyfriend how you really feel, face to face, then you guys aren't really in a stable relationship.


i use nair (the one that doesnt need a razer)
& i put it down there but sum of the hairs dont come off & it leaves red bumps
is there any hair removal cream 4 down there

Dont say
-shave the way the hair grows (i dont use razers) (link)
they make nair for your bikini area =]


I know these two boys are they are cousin. But the thing is the cousin that likes me i don't like him. I like the other cousin. I don't want to hurt the other cousin feeling by telling him I like his cousin..... What should i do? (link)
tell the cousin that you don't like that you don't like him like that and you only like him as a friend. nicely.
and the one you do like, flirt with him and stuff. you don't have to TELL the other one that you like his cousin. but don't act shady around him and try to hide it either.


Hi.

14/m

I've been going out with this girl. Its been almost a week. We've each gone out before but it was like 4th grade with other people and it wasnt "real". Now we're 14, its the real deal lol.
So weve talked alot and hung out alot (not sure whether to consider them dates or not) and I'm wondering, should I kiss her on the cheek in the near future? I HAVE HUGGED HER BEFORE.

Any advice on cheek kissing/making out is very appreciated.

Thank you. (link)
go for it.
follow your heart
and do whatever you are comfortable with.


About how much is one?
One that is fast? (link)
http://www.mazdausa.com/MusaWeb/displayHomepage.action?bhcp=1

that will tell you =]


in your opinion, how much time should the average person spend in front of their computer which is NOT work / school - related? and how many hours is considered unhealthy (like more than x hours)? (link)
two hours max. though i know many people extend that amount of time. as long as you are getting enough exercise.


I wear compression shorts when i work out and all that good stuff. Usually i wear nike or under armour, but anyway I was wondering if you're supposed to wear underwear underneath? someone told me you're not supposed to...

i kinda hope it doesn't make my cough cough to get sticky... not to mention people seeing the shape.... (link)
it doesn't matter. whichever is more comfortable. you are just working out.


Hey, I'am a advicenator does anyone know were there
is a site were there is realy nice backgrounds. No
offence to the creaters of the site but I don't like
your backgrounds to well.I just can't find a background that I like that much. So, any sites i can find , and use for free? Thanks for any anwsers
:) (link)
you could go to
photobucket.com
or
tinypic.com
and search anything.
if you want stripes or hearts or whatever or you could just search backgrounds.
=]


hey,

does anyone know where I can buy

-grey
-black
- & colored denim shorts ?

thanks ! (link)
i know for sure they have black shorts at forever 21.
and denim shorts you can find anywhere. i'v gotten mine at kohls, they have alot. also they have a bunch at american eagle.
and you might also be able to find grey shorts at forever 21 too.

hope i helped =]



I'm 18/f and really really interested into a certain guy that I want to get to know. The only way I have of contacting him though is through myspace. His profile is private though and he won't add you unless he knows you personally. We used to have a few mutual friends but have never actually met each other. He gets lots of female attention so I really need to stick out. So my question is, what should I say in an email to him? (link)
i think you should say what you just posted here.
that you guys had a few mutual friends and that he seems like a cool person and you'de like to get to know him.


Special K brand foods are said to be healthy, but is it even good for a diet. I'm not one to starve myself to be thin, that's just sad.. but some things I know is just for advertising sales. I was told that this advertising was not factual. So, I wanted to know if special snacks, cereals, etc are really good for nutrition, fiber and are they really that healty? And what foods are healthy but good that I can enjoy while on a diet? (link)
special K is healthy compared to some sugary cereal but it has 10 g of sugar and corn syrup and artificial ingredients. if you are looking to loose weight follow the new food pyramid here
http://www.mypyramid.gov/pyramid/index.html with exercise AT LEAST 3 times a week. you CAN NOT loose wieght without exercise.
hope that helps and contact me if you have any other questions =]
Jess


Im 14 nearly 15. I live in England, London.

Well, basicly I really want to become a cheerleader. I want to know that before i try out, is there anything I could do at home to make me more flexible or anything like that. Anything that could help me increase my chance of being on a squad.

Thanks, Vikki x (link)
stretch everyday. that will help with your flexibility. and you just have to be really loud and smile. then tumbling is a plus so its real good if you can do back handsprings and stuff like that. but i dont think that is required to be on the team. you could probably take a tumbling clinic over the summer. that would help =]


I heard this song when I was watching 20 skinniest celebrities on VH1 but I don't know what it is! It sort of sounded like something that might be sung by fountains of wayne or good charlotte (or something in that era-like 4 years ago) and it sort of went like "woah, woah, woah, woah, hey!" it was the beginning of the song and they didn't say any real lyrics yet, so I'm not able to really look them up. I tried googling the part I knew, and it's not deeper love, summer jam, or whao by paramore. thanks! (link)
try this website =]
www.songtapper.com

hope that helps!


on msn, whats a pending request??? because i have 16 and i have noooo idea what they are?!

Thanks:) (link)
it means you sent a request to a person and its waiting for the person to accept it.


Ok everything started off great with my boyfriend.Then he got super annoying and thinks that I am perfect in every way which sounds great. He is the most annoying person ever though. He always acts obnoxious. and then he accidentally called me his ex girlfrineds name. Then I heard he liked another girl then denied it. he left flowers on my doorstep. now i definatly feel bad dumping him. what do i do? By the way im 14 and im a girl. (link)
just follow your heart.
if you really like him talk to him about getting back together.
but don't go out with him out of pity it will just make things worse in the long run.




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