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E-mail: shutupnkissme101
Gender: Female
Location: St. Louis, MO
Occupation: student
Member Since: August 21, 2007
Answers: 169
Last Update: November 5, 2007
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so my friend and i were at our schools weight room and working out, then someone put on a cd and the music was really good. I love that cd!!! I can't get the songs out of my head and not think about the cd for 1 minute. So I need advice... how do i get those songs from the cd? I was thinking of taking the cd and borrowing it for 1 day and take it to my house and make a copy. but i'm not sure if thats right... so then I thought maybe I could ask someone who works at the weight room if they could let me borrow it, or at least make a list of the song names.
but I'm not sure..... all of this seems pretty weird just for a couple of songs. but I can't stop thinking about the really cool songs!!
HELP!!!!!! (link)
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download itunes onto your computer.its easy and it wont give your computer viruses or anything.then borrow the CD and just stick in the disk drive. it will transfer onto itunes and you can play the music any time you want, without the actual CD.
http://www.apple.com/itunes/
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My mom, aunt, 2 cousins (9 & 5), and I want to go to Orlando, Florida. We usually drive, which is about a 26 hour drive (including pit stops). We are driving from Missouri. The approximate amount of miles that it would take to get there would probably be around 1400 miles. I know this might be a little confusing, but if we would be taking our 2004 Honda Odyssey, how much money would we be spending on gas? Would flying be cheaper? I looked at Expedia listings and the price for roundtrip tickets from KCI to the main Orlando Airport, and that is approximately $1,400. We would also not have to spend money for a hotel, and we would get food on the plane.
I also do NOT want to be stuck in a car for the entire day (literally!) with my 2 cousins (9 & 5, fight about useless crap), so on the flight I would be able to maybe watch movies, listen to my iPod, stuff like that.
What would be cheaper? Flying or driving? (link)
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well first off, i live in St. louis and its only about an 18 hour drive to Orlando. also its only about 1000 miles from here. but either way driving would be a lot cheaper than flying. if you do drive just try to enjoy the time with your family. that is what vacations are about. i know it sucks being stuck in a car that long but you can always bring your Ipod or CD player or a portable DVD player if you have one. that way you all can watch a movie together.
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How long are you supposed to wait after a break up to start dating someone else? (link)
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until you feel that the relationship is completely over and you no longer have ANY feelings for that person. if you get involved to quickly you might still end up liking your old bf/gf and that just causes problems.
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I don't have super long hair, slightly past my shoulders. But I don't just want to wear it down, it a pony, or in a bun every day. I want to have some cool original hair dos that take maybe less than 15 minutes to do. I just can't think of any on my own. Anyone have some cool ideas on what I could do? Thanks!!! (link)
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you could get some hair gel and after you take a shower rub it through your hair and then scrunch it up in your hands. it will make your hair cute and wavy. also you could wear it in a messy bun. just tie it up once and then mess it al up and tie it up again in a bun. also you could curl it, and since you dont have very long hair it shouldnt take to long.
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I have brownish hair, but blonde highlights (color treated). But they are beginning to fade away and I use platinum blonde shampoo and platinum blonde conditioner, even though the blonde in my hair is not platinum (but lighter than golden blonde) but I don't think it's really working. Do you guys know of any product(s) that would bring out the blonde in your hair?
- Thank You (link)
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try using Sun In. you spray it on your hair and blow dry it. the heat brings lightens your a shade or two. Use it as many times as you like until you get the shade you want. also you can put a small bit of lemon juice in your hair and it will do the same thing.
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I am making a dress for an upcoming event that I have and I was wondering if anyone knew where to buy bodices/boning for strapless gowns seperatly from buying a whole dress. (link)
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try some of these websites. they might be able to help you. otherwise look for craft store like Micheals or Hobby Lobby.
http://www.taunton.com/threads/
http://www3.shopping.com/xDN?SEO=crafts-dress_boning&KW=boning
http://search.ebay.com/search/search.dll?sofocus=bs&sbrftog=1&catref=C6&from=R10&satitle=sewing+boning&sacat=14339%26catref%3DC6&sargn=-1%26saslc%3D2&sadis=200&fpos=ZIP%2FPostal&sabfmts=1&saobfmts=insif&ftrt=1&ftrv=1&saprclo=&saprchi=&fsop=1&fsoo=1
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so theres this boy and weve hung out like 4 times but we talk on the phone everynight...hes getting mad that we dont hang out alot and thats because he lives 45 minutes away. he said that if we dont hang out soon then its going to be over blah blah blah so we planned to go to the beach sunday and he got really happy and now my parents arent letting me go =[[[[ what do i tell him? because i know hes going to get mad at me so i dont know how to tell him. please help!! (link)
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just tell him that your mom said no. or if you think he will get mad then tell him your moms making you go out eat with her on sunday, or you have to go visit your grandma. talk to your mom and make plans to go out somewhere else with him. maybe she doesnt want you guys to go to the beach alone. maybe try or movie or arcade.
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What are some places to shop at besides
- department stores
- forever 21
- hollister, ae, aero, abercrombie, etc
- deb
I know thats not really specific, but I'm trying to find some unique places to shop (16/f by the way) for a different wardrobe
PS please don't say check out your local mall, I already have...Thank You! (link)
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try Pac Sun, or Delias. they have a bit different style than hollister or american eagle. Pac sun especially, its my favorite store to shop at.
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I'm Natalie and i am 14. All my life i have been extremely boy crazy even since kindergarten. I have had boyfriends and gotten the butterflies. Sometimes even when i had a hard day and i was depressed i would day dream about me and like the perfect guy being engaged... lame i know but it made me feel better. But lately i dunno when i see a girl i sorta get turned on, and that scares me. I am a full supporter of gay rights, and have many gay friends but i just cant imagine and i don't really want to be one... at all. I do have anxiety and alot of the time i just freak my self out and obsess over something... am i doing that? when i do freak myself out i compare girls to guys and it changes but when i say girls i freak out and im scared.Im also a big believer you dont choose to be gay, and since ive always been boy crazy... but what do you think? Am i a lesbian, bi,or just a crazy straight girl? please help! (link)
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at 14 you really dont have any idea what you want. if you've liked boys forever then you might just be exploring and learning new things. it isnt weird for a straight girl to look at other girls. most teenage girls secretly look at other girls, not in a sexual way but just thinking of what they would look like if they had this... or had that...
its hard to explain but dont worry.your completly normal.
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2 days ago my boyfriend fingered me. I woke up today and had some light red bloody discarge. Also a burning sensation when I pee. It's not my period because I had it about a week ago. Could it be from a rip maybe that's causing me to bleed? Should I be worried? Or pregnant? (link)
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if it was your first time being fingered and you havent had sex before then he might have torn your hymen (popped your cherry).its just a thin layer of skin all girls have. some girls tears by sex or fingereing or even running a lot or other vigorous activity.i wouldnt worry about it unless it keeps bleeding a lot or for more than a day or two.
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I got my nails done about 5 weeks ago so they are looking uglyyy right now. my natural nail takes up half of the tip.
my questions are:
-should i trim them? then let the rest grow out?
-can i still get fill ins after they are already this grown out and get them shorter and have my nail the same length at the acrylic?
-should i just get them taken off?
thanks in advanced. (link)
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if you just leave them how they are you can go back and they will be able to fill them in and file the tips off. your regular nail will be as long as the fake part on top. if they are to far grown out then they might decide to just take them off and redo them. but doing it yourself isnt good. plus if you take them off yourself your nails will be very bumpy and rough.
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i had to go to the bathroom and i held it it for like an hour then i fiannaly went now my stomich really hurts. not like gas pains like wieird cramp only in one area. my lower left side. it really hurts.
what happneed/ what do i do? (link)
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your fine. when you hold in your pee for to long it stretches out your bladder. now that all that liquid is gone its cramping up because its shrinking back to its normal state.
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I've been going out with my girlfriend for 4 months and i'm wondering when i can finger her (link)
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talk to her. ask her if she thinks she is ready to move on with your relationship. if she says no then you have to respect her and wait until she is ready.
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Ok, so i really wanna make it safe for me to go on the internet. Especially with IP addresses and stuff. So i was wondering, do you have any recomendations about how to make it safe for me on the internet? like any free thing to hide my ip address and whatnot. (link)
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most websites keep all your important imformation private. but if your still worried you can put anti-spyware on your computer. it makes sure that nobody can put viruses onto your computer that will let people see you private information.
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for eight months. I was a freshman and he was a senior. My parents loved him until about a month ago, after he graduated. Now they are saying "he is an adult and you are still just a kid." How do I explain to my parents he is still the same person he was when he was still in high school? (link)
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i TOTALLY know how you feel. i was in the same situation. my boyfriend is 4 years older than me so when he graduated my parents werent all that happy about it. the only thing that ever convinced them he was still the great guy he always had been was me not getting in trouble. whenever i was around my friends i got home late and was always in trouble. but when my mom saw that my boyfriend always made sure i was home on time and i stayed out of trouble with him she pretty much gave up on the whole thing.
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CAn Microdermabrasion remove freckles from my face (Not all, just a few prominent ones that I have...)
thanks! (link)
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no. nothing is going to remove freckles at all. the best you can do is get a good cover-up like Mary Kay Full-Coverage Concealer. you only have to use a tiny tiny amount and it will cover up any freckles or blemishes you have. also freckles fade in the winter when you arent out in the sun as much.
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are guys turned off by braces?
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most guys really dont care if a girl has braces or not. it might feel like all he is looking at is your teeth but in reality guys probably dont even notice you have them.
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I used to be best friends with this guy, he's 16/m, I'm 16/f. Anyway, we got romantic one night (not sex) and nothing's been the same since. It's been 8 months, and I was hoping the friendship would gradually get better. It's gotten worse, I barely know him anymore, he lies, I give 100% effort in this friendship, and he gievs maybe 4%. I told him when we were BEST friends that I would never give up on him, and that I didn't ditch people. I'd love to keep my promise, but quite frankly people I feel like completely blowing him off & never speaking to him again. I think it's because I've had it & feel like I have nothing left to give.
Question is, do you think blowing him off/cutting all contact with him is a good idea? If not, why? If yes, how should I go about that? (we have this thing where he calls once a week & i call once a week to check in) Thing is, I still want to do the friendly "hi" in the hallway when I see him at school, I just don't want to talk to him outside of school. ANY ADVICE? please. hellllp. (link)
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you dont have to cut off all contact with him. but if he isnt putting any effort at all into being a good friend for you then maybe he needs a little time away from you to see that he still cares about you (as a friend).dont call him every week like you usually do. maybe skip a week and see if he says anything to you about it. if he does then maybe he isnt really trying to blow you off. maybe he is really busy or has been stressed out latley. if he doesnt mention the skipped phone call then dont call him for awhile. you can still talk at school but dont try to make any plans with him outside of school if he doesnt shape up.
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Are there any other ways of getting music for your iPOD besides buying it from iTUNES and stuff? Is there a website I can get music from? Anything? PleaSE? (link)
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if you download your CD's onto your i-tunes you can then put them on your i-pod. its free and easy to do. just stick the CD's in the disk drive and if you already have i-tunes set up it should automatically open up.
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I'm going to the movies with some of my friends who I haven't seen since September on Friday. One of my friends is this guy who I liked all last summer, but he's kind of shy. I really want something to happen, but I don't think that I could just dive right in to kiss him, you know? What are some ways that I could hint at him to kiss me, not just flirting? And how can I get his attention during the movie (superbad) so that I even have a chance of anything happening?
oh and, last time I saw him (last september), we really hit it off. so i know that he probably would be attracted to me again, i just don't know how to make it happen.
thanks!!
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make sure you look him in the eyes whenever you guys are talking. ask him if you could sit next to him during the movie beforehand. if its a horror movie lean over toward him when it gets scary. talk to him, ask him what he thinks is going to happen etc. just regular stuff.
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