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I've made my mistakes, I have my faults, I've done my sins. I've been heart broken and have broken hearts as well. There's a lot I've seen, a lot I've heard, and a lot I've been through. I don't know everything but I have my opinions and if you ask me for adivce I will always try to help.

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E-mail: vilelove@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 15
Member Since: August 19, 2005
Answers: 135
Last Update: February 5, 2007
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i want a new sn thats REALLY REALLY CUTE! but no like "lil, babii, chick, etc" or like heritage stuff for ex. "greekbabii, italianchick". i just want something sexii like "bee you tea ful" lol. so easy 5's unless you say stupid/mean things-then 1

thanks (link)
hi! here are some suggestions:

cutiepie

sweetie

hunnybunny

sugarcandy

qtpie

lollypops

cherryshortcake

pink_sky

poreclindoll

sorry if I'm not help. good luck!!


tonight my friend is having a party and im in charge of the music i need to make at least like 3cds i already made 2
can any one give me songs we can dance to?
i'll rate high
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hey... depepnds your tatse in music. Well I'll try to put different types of music on the list so you can choose.

fast

"Take Me Out" by
"Photobooth" by Death Cab For Cutie
"Somewhere Only We Know" by Keane
"Don't Speak" by No Doubt
"Hella Good" by No Doubt
"Quiet" by Bjork
"Worn Me Down" by Rachael Yamagata
"These Boots Are Made For Walking" (different artists have made their version of the song, even jessica Simpson who I don't really like, but it's up to you which verion you want to hear)
"Take A Bow" by Madonna
"Raw of Light" by Madonna
"What Do You Do For Money Honey" by AC/DC
"You're So Last Summer" by Taking Back Sunday
"so Long, Astoria," by the Ataris
"Radio #2" by The Ataris
"Everything's Alright" by Kelly Osbourne
"Shut Up" by kelly Osbourne
"We Are All On Drugs" by Weezer
"If Somebody Told Me" by the Killers



a girl i dont know that well, but is good friends with my good friends invited me 2 her b-day party, but i was gonna be on vacation, so i told her that and said i couldn't come. she called me a month later and invited me to another party, but i was really really mad at the moment. and i bitchily said "i'm busy" halfway through her sentance and she was like "oh... ok" and i said "bye" and hung up. i called back and apologized once i had cooled down a bit, and explained it was just my mood. but she's been telling her friends (mine too) that she thinks i hate her. any suggestions to make her realize i have nothing against her (and start getting invited to her parties again, because it sucks, cuz she has them all the time and i'm never invited anymore) (link)
Hi! ...Maybe if you asked her if she wanted to hang out during lunch. And if she accepts tell her "so, how was that party you had?" (the one she invited you but you didn't go to) "was it fun? I really wanted to go but I couldn't because I had to go on vacation that week" (or say whatever the reason you couldn't go was) Then she will tell you that she is having another party soon and she will ask you if you'd like to go, and you should answer "I'd love to!" and that will undo that crappy vibe she got from you. Another thing to do is whenever you see her say "hi" or offer her bubble gum or something. Also, if you have her phone number, try calling her every so often just to say "hi" and that will make you guys be friends and she will remember you whenever she has parties and invite you. Seriously, try it and IT WILL WORK! Well my best wishes!!


Okay, well, I want a cute new screen name. I'm a 15 year old girl. Right now it's allsmiles then some random numbers. My favorite number is 15. I like almost any music,so lyrics or something is good. And im not saying my name because I dont want that in it. Please help me!!




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pinkflowers
pinkroses
happyfaces
hunnybunny
sweetheart
cherry_pie
peace_love
sweetlikecandy
candy_15
sweetie15

If you'd like more suggestions feel free to send me a message.


What exactly does the word 'kinky' mean? (link)
it means sexual but it defines behavior since it's an adjective. if somebody is kinky they are very sexual or sensual.


ok well im going to a pool party tomorrow at like 1 pm and its 9 pm now. so im 5 feet tall and a wopping 93pounds- i gained some wait over the summer. and so i have some binkinis but my fat rolls over them but i also have a 2 peice that covers my fat. the people going to the party are all major popular so should i wear the bikini or the other 2peice

thanks so much in advance ill rate high for good answers and any advice is apreciated (link)
Bikini. it shows you are confident and confidence make people look attractive. There;s lots of popular-not-so-thin people that are still kind of thin and wear things that show their skin and their much thinner model-thin popular friends don't think of them as any less or as ugly for what they wear. Be laidback and have fun at the party.


Does anyone know how to get chapstick stains out because i accidently left my chapstick one of the pairs of pants and it got washed with it. PLEASE HELP! Thanks! I'll rate high if it's not stupid and is actually helpful.! (link)
Hi. You're going to have to wash your pants again. Depends what color they are but bleach may be helpful (now they have a special bleach for dark clothing so if your pants are dark you may want to try using that one). Good luck with that.


My brother's birthday is in a couple of days and I want to make this banner that spells out his name and with the letters of his name I want something to describe him.His name is Josh,18 years old,football player,popular,funny,(the girls seem to want him) So if anyone had any ideas Id appreciate it! (link)
achiever
athletic
winner
superman (


i've got a problem that's really really REALLY annoying me. well i have a brother, and i really really hate him because I'm jealouse of him. I know he can be nice, and if i wasn't jealous of him then i would like him and everything, but i don't especially because my dad is always favoring him and saying so much good stuf about him and stuff. and the reason why i hate my brother is because i'm jealous of him, and the reason why i hate my dad is because he favors the person i'm most jealous of. (which is my brother) is there any way i can stop being jealous of my brother? because i dont want to hate my brother and dad because i know they're really nice and everything, but i just hate them because im so jealous! please help! i rate high! (link)
Hi there. Well actually I think you are fustrated at your dad ("hate" is a strogn word and I really doubt you hate your dad or your brother) is because he gives so much more attention to yur brother and that is why you are fustarted at your brother. What you should do is feel good about yourself alone, and once your father sees how great you're doing he'll start openly appreciating you and even your brother will be proud of you. Just try to do better (not better than your brother but better than you're doing right now) at things. For instance, try to get better grades, do volunteer work, try studying more when for the SATs and basically prove that you're a really great person and if your dad is going to talk about how great his children are, he should talk about how great you are too. If you're a girl keep in mind that he might favor him because he's a boy and if you're a boy maybe he favor him because he is reminded of himself more by your brother than by you. The first thing you have to do is feel good about youtself, then it'll show and it'll atract other people's attention. It might be difficult when you feel jeolousy, just try to do things that relax you, like meditating. And don't feel too bad for being jeolous. Being jeolous isn't as bad as people make it sound... it's the actions you make because of your jeolousy that can be bad. As long as you keep your feelings controlled and try doing things to relax you and make you feel better about yourself then you'll be ok. Well my best wishes!


what is a genital ? (link)
sexual organs or the reproductive body parts of females and males.


If you are wearing foundation, can people tell if you are blushing? (link)
Depends how much your blush. I was wearing foundation when I had my first kiss and... I blushed... and he noticed. But usually people couldn't tell (then again I don't blush that often). It also depends on the color of the foundation. I think from experience that it's eassier to notice when you wear powder foundation and more difficult when you wear liquid foundation.


oK..My mom and dad just split up about 3 months ago and like they decided to just get a divorce after the year ((im pretty sure)) so they are dating other ppl..and like this guy that my mom is dating..we have all thought they should date forever..but anywho..and so they went on there first date tonight and like i REALLY like this guy cuz hes really nice to my my sis and my MOM and like I feel like I'm not being right to my dad b/c i like this guy so much but i REALLY love my dad and so and I being not fair or right to my dad..HIGH rates for help!!!

PLEASE HELP!! (link)
Hi. There's nothing wrong with liking this guy. The truth is that your mother and father's marriage didn't work out very well. Your mother deserves to be happy and so does your father. But right now it is your mother who is moving on. It's really great that she found such a nice guy. You're not being unfsair to your dad. JJust because you like this guy a lot doesn't mean you lvoe your dad any less. If your father knows aboutt his I'm sure he understands that because he's an adult and he cares about your happiness, well being, and safety. This man can get close to the family and you can care about him a lot but your father will always be your father... you'll just be one of the lucky ones that have a bigger family and more people that care about them and more people that they care about. I can honestly say that there's nothing wrong with that.


Hey everyone. Well over the summer I started wearing makeup everyday, but my mom said that once I go back to school she doesnt want me to be wearing makeup everyday. Does anyone have any ideas to make myself look prettier besides wearing makeup. And for the guys out there, if im 13/f and wore makeup everyday..what would be your opinions on that? Thanks! I'll rate! (link)
Hi. Well hair is a realy importsnt factor in the whole beauty thing. Do your hair differently every day. And wear cute outfits. Have variety. Also, try compromising about the make up thing with your mom. if she tells you she doesn't want you to wear make up everyday tell her "ok, I won't make up, blush, foundation, mascara, but is it ok if I still wear eyeliner?" (go for the eyeliner, NOT lip gloss). Well good luck.


I know a lot of people ask questions about how to do stuff, and I usually use those to help me with it. I'm getting tired of this, and can anybody just give me a website that has all the stuff I need to know? (link)
Hi. Well there are users that are REALLY GOOD with html and always get questions rom other usersso they devote their profiles or blogs to help out other users. Try going to this user's profile, here's the link http://www.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=812799 Tom (the MySace guy) refers him himself (he's mentioned in Tom's profile). Well i hope you find all the stuff you need to know there, that's where I learned to costumize my profile.


I dont want to sound like a jackass or anything, but why do most women (most being the ones that ive talked to on the subject taht are in HS or graduated around the 17-21 age range) not like birth control. Now it seems to me that birthcontrol isnt to bad at all, and that these women dont understand that seriousness of having a baby. Can someone pleas like to explain why someone would rather risk getting pregnant and having an unplanned baby or having an abortion, instead of takin a pill that would save you from alot of trouble.

Sorry about the length, but its a serious subject, 18-m (link)
Hi. Well maybe not all of them are against contreceptives... just birth control pills. Maybe because the pill protects you from pregnancy but NOT from STDs and they feel better using other stuff. OR maybe becuase it causes them side effects like headaches and stuff (some chicks are more sensitive to bith control than others). Or somejust don't like the diea that they have to take it EVERY SINGLE DAY. I doubt that all of thsoe chicks are anti protection... just the pill. I bet they prefer condoms or something else. If they really are anti contreceptives and dislike ALL type of bith control methods... than that's just weird.


Hi everyone. 16/f.

There's this guy who I know from an extracurriculur (that's a hard one to spell) drama class. We never get to talk in class much, but I had to give him my email as he had to email me a script he'd wrote 9and he didn't have enough copies) Well, he emailed me almost immediately and told me he couldn't get the script until he went to his dads place, and then he started asking me all these questions about myself. Well, we've been emailing back and forth quite a bit.. and now I'm not used where to go from here. He's a bit older than me.. 19 turning 20.. but I can't help but hope he's somewhat interested. What should I do now? Just keep going as it is or make a subtle move? And do you think he's just being friendly or there's something there?

Thanks everyone. (link)
Hi. ...I think it's a little bit of both. He's just being friendly but... he's also getting interested. Like, maybe he was KIND OF interested and then he decided to befriendly and got even MORE interested and now he is interested OR he started out being friendly but when he started talking to you he became interested (I mean... you did start emailing each other back and forward). I think you should make a move. I don't think you have anything to loose by it. He probably sees you as a new possibility. If you want to let a few time pass it's ok, but if he still hasn't made a move of you just don't let too many time pass because then he might just think of you as a friend. Right now he might be kind of interested and kind of just being friendly but if you make a move he will become intrigued and when you guys are together he will get to know you more and be even more interested. You could wait to see if he asks you out but... it's risky. He might end up seeing you as just a friend. I would tell you go for it, make a move.


There is this one guy I REALLY like and he likes me too. Part of me wants to just ask him out cause I KNOW i like him. But, Part of me wants him to ask me. We are BEST friends and right now I feel like I can tell him ANYTHING. So I'm kind of confused on if I want him to be more than we are? Or if I should just ask him out? Or how can I get him to ask me out? Or what do you guys think?

Thanx in advance (link)
Hi!! Well if you really like him then go for it and make the first move. Usually guys tend to like chicks who go for what they want and don't play silly games. Also, since you guys ARE friends and you can tell him anything it would be really cute if you did ask him out. Also try getting creative with it... maybe request his favorite song on a radio station he's really into and have the radio person ask him out for you... just a thought. OR write him a letter in which you tell him you like him and. Give it to him at the end of class and tell him to read it when he gets home and write in the letter "call me and tell me what you think or if you feel the same way". Whenhe calls you and tells you he likes you back ask him why he's never asked you out before and if then he'll tell you that because he was afraid of rejection or afraid of ruining your friendship and then you say something like "well, this is your chance" and technically he'll ask YOU out. Good luck!!


My cat has been trowing up alot lately and he has been licking his private area alot. hes a male cat
do you think he has crystals?
ill rate 5's (link)
Hi. I don't know what crystals are but... I don't know. Does your cat ever have problems urinating or pottying? if he does then it might be something really serious. Other than that it might just be that he ate grass recently, in which case you shouldn't be alarmed. However if he continues that odd behavior in odd patterns then I suggest taking him to the vet. I love kitty cats and I hope the best for you and your kitty cat!! let me know if he stops his odd behavior or if he gets better.


how do a save my window media player playlist? (link)
If you just mix songs that show in your "currently listening to" option just create a new playlist. Do this by going to "Media Library" and click where it says "playlist" on top of the screen and select "new playlist" and then title it as you wish. Then go back to your "currently listening to" option and right click on each song and select the option "add to playlist". Then they will appear on the playlist which is saved in your media player. I hope someone is of help to you. If you have any further questions feel free to send me a message directly. Well good luck with working that media player! I had trouble with it too for a pretty long time, l.o.l.


what are some good exercises to fight off tummy fat? (link)
Hi. Running takes off ALL FAT! lots of tummy fat too. Walking helps you on your tummy and your waist too. If you walk everyday for an hour and not eat fast food you will notice results pretty quick!! There's another excercise where you fold your arms a bit below shoulder's lenght and twist your waist to the left and then to the right, and that one is works pretty well also. Well good luck! (seriously, the walking worked for me REALLY fast, you just have to make it a regular thing, like 5 days a week, i personally did it after school, walking home). Good luck!




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